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Re: My Experience Dating A Lady From Zimbabwe by Pedyson: 10:28am On Oct 04, 2021
FreeStuffsNG:
We helped the Zimbaweans during their Independence struggle. Nigerians bond overseas, regardless of tribe or religion. And our prowess in music, sports and academics gives them the idea that we have both brawn and brain.
Please rep us well. If you don't love her, let her be abeg.

Good bless you Elder

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Re: My Experience Dating A Lady From Zimbabwe by Nobody: 10:33am On Oct 04, 2021
khia:


I'm not Ghanian, but Ghana has welcomed Black Diasporians back home which we truly appreciate.


Did you try coming to Nigeria and got turned down?

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Re: My Experience Dating A Lady From Zimbabwe by emmyN(m): 10:33am On Oct 04, 2021
Martinelli35:
I am going to make this as brief as possible. I have noticed a trend with the reputation Nigerians seem to have with other Africans. I am currently dating a girl from Zimbabwe and we both are resident in England. The day I asked her out, she was initially a bit skeptical and told me her father had told her to avoid ending up with a Nigerian, I asked her why and she told me she had no idea.

Eskiz me sir, how large is her forehead?

We started dating and I began to get an idea of the reputation we had, obviously she was scared I had a wife and some kids back in Nigeria, I had to convince her that this was not the case and that I genuinely liked her.

Another time she told her friend from Zambia that she was dating a Nigerian and was told to be careful while dealing with me as a Nigerian.
It’s not all bad though, obviously we also have a reputation of being smooth talkers, she told me that we Nigerians have a way with words and that can make us irresistible at times. Who else has experienced this?
Re: My Experience Dating A Lady From Zimbabwe by airsaylongcome: 10:36am On Oct 04, 2021
@LocalEmperor see how u are going soft on khia. If na fellow Naija like you you for don dey burn down houses with insults. You see Americana you turn am to lobbying.

Khia weldone on going ruthless

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Re: My Experience Dating A Lady From Zimbabwe by maximizer61(m): 10:37am On Oct 04, 2021
Martinelli35:
I am going to make this as brief as possible. I have noticed a trend with the reputation Nigerians seem to have with other Africans. I am currently dating a girl from Zimbabwe and we both are resident in England. The day I asked her out, she was initially a bit skeptical and told me her father had told her to avoid ending up with a Nigerian, I asked her why and she told me she had no idea.

We started dating and I began to get an idea of the reputation we had, obviously she was scared I had a wife and some kids back in Nigeria, I had to convince her that this was not the case and that I genuinely liked her.

Another time she told her friend from Zambia that she was dating a Nigerian and was told to be careful while dealing with me as a Nigerian.
It’s not all bad though, obviously we also have a reputation of being smooth talkers, she told me that we Nigerians have a way with words and that can make us irresistible at times. Who else has experienced this?
Re: My Experience Dating A Lady From Zimbabwe by VULCAN(m): 10:39am On Oct 04, 2021
Fallacy of generalisation.

One person's experience is no yardstick for sound minds to make a decision.

InTheCloudySky:
I remember my Ethiopian friend who once dated a Nigerian man and said she would never in her life date another Nigerian man again. Till now, she can't stand Nigerian men, though she's no longer single anyway. Your fellow Nigerian men are to blame for tainting y'alls' reputation.
Re: My Experience Dating A Lady From Zimbabwe by boomssey(f): 10:39am On Oct 04, 2021
thesicilian:
Are you sure you don't have a wife and kids back home

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Re: My Experience Dating A Lady From Zimbabwe by Starzo: 10:40am On Oct 04, 2021
Franzinni:
True I had a Tanzanian girl, the story long.
bro gist us

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Re: My Experience Dating A Lady From Zimbabwe by cydophobia(m): 10:40am On Oct 04, 2021
You are right bro. You still dey Munich?
I dey very close to Munich.

Disclaimer12:
Bros na because she dey UK! Normal normal Zimbabwe dey happy to date naija guys! Who dey reason their side for street normally ? They have worst reputation than Nigerians! 80% of the prostitute in south Africa are from Zim, 75% of thieves and hijackers are from Zim! If u have time, try visit joburg, go to Hillbrow, Berea or Yeoville, go to joburg CBD and ask around then you'll have a rethink! Naso one wan dey form accent for me for Munich Germany, I carpet her and she humble! If no be say men dey like try new things, wetin dey Zim girl body? Abeg we get more pressing matter than to be worried about a country that don't even have their own currencies! Make she go boil beans jor
Re: My Experience Dating A Lady From Zimbabwe by hollamanng(m): 10:42am On Oct 04, 2021
Offpoint1:
All I'm searching for is a Chinese or Russ vvvvvggian woman...
you are off point
Re: My Experience Dating A Lady From Zimbabwe by hollamanng(m): 10:42am On Oct 04, 2021
Offpoint1:
All I'm searching for is a Chinese or Russian woman...
you are off point
Re: My Experience Dating A Lady From Zimbabwe by VULCAN(m): 10:43am On Oct 04, 2021
Somali girls are mostly beautiful and well behaved but their culture is very racist.
How many Somali girls in UK do you see with other African men?
It's almost a taboo

Danjikanbauchi:
bro forget it, I can swear to you that Nigeria ladies are the best in times of marriage. Most African ladies don't have good character and can't even cook good food. I speaking from experience. Kenyan, SA, Cameroon and Ghanaian. The worst are SA. Another country that you can find good ladies after Nigeria is Somalian. They are cool headed.

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Re: My Experience Dating A Lady From Zimbabwe by laiza(m): 10:44am On Oct 04, 2021
I understand very well where the lady or her father was coming from. I have been in Dubai for close to 2 years now and I have dated 2 Kenyans, a Zimbabwean and a Nigerian and I must say the best relationship till date is still with the Kenyan hats off. But one thing I can relate with is that as long as you're out of Nigeria there is a lady back home waiting for you. You may not know this but in her heart and probably within your family and her family's mind she is your wife. You may not even know her yet.

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Re: My Experience Dating A Lady From Zimbabwe by Corporate2020: 10:45am On Oct 04, 2021
thesicilian:
Are you sure you don't have a wife and kids back home

Don't ask such a question. Do not betray your fellow Nigga. Niggas cover up for each other. This particular Nigga is just looking for a non-Nigerian pussssy to fucck, don't ask questions whose answers are obvious.

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Re: My Experience Dating A Lady From Zimbabwe by bmdmix11: 10:46am On Oct 04, 2021
Sterope:
Do you still think Nigerian women are the problem?
yea n nah
Re: My Experience Dating A Lady From Zimbabwe by Localemperor: 10:47am On Oct 04, 2021
airsaylongcome:
@LocalEmperor see how u are going soft on khia. If na fellow Naija like you you for don dey burn down houses with insults. You see Americana you turn am to lobbying.

Khia weldone on going ruthless
you no dey hear say, them say we get bad reputation.... I say make I dey soft small...

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Re: My Experience Dating A Lady From Zimbabwe by Ade3131: 10:48am On Oct 04, 2021
@ Op,

I've dated 2 none Nigerian African girls. One a South African (now an ex) and the other a Tanzanian girl (the one I really want to marry). So far, They're both sweet in their respective ways but the only challenge I'm facing right now is how to get married to the Tanzanian girl and reside in her country with her because of her job which we both agreed she should keep.

Her country has a very strict law for immigrants and have Nigeria on her blacklist. Meaning people from here are required to come to Tanzania only through referral visa or what we call 'visa by invitation'. And marrying a Tanzanian woman doesn't amount to having a citizenship status like it is in other African countries, and this has been our greatest challenge right now but we both really want to end up together.

I will be glad to hear any advice you have for us please. Thank you.

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Re: My Experience Dating A Lady From Zimbabwe by arthurwillia(m): 10:52am On Oct 04, 2021
Offpoint1:
All I'm searching for is a Chinese or Russian woman...
where you wan see am?
Re: My Experience Dating A Lady From Zimbabwe by arthurwillia(m): 10:53am On Oct 04, 2021
Ade3131:
@ Op,

I've dated 2 none Nigerian African girls. One a South African (now an ex) and the other a Tanzanian girl (the one I really want to marry). So far, They're both sweet in their respective ways but the only challenge I'm facing right now is how to get married to the Tanzanian girl and reside in her country with her because of her job which we both agreed she should keep.

Her country has a very strict law for immigrants and have Nigeria on her blacklist. Meaning people from here are required to come to Tanzania only through referral visa or what we call 'visa by invitation'. And marrying a Tanzanian woman doesn't amount to having a citizenship status like it is in other African countries, and this has been our greatest challenge right now but we both really want to end up together.

I will be glad to hear any advice you have for us please. Thank you.

Where you Dey meet them? Online abi
Re: My Experience Dating A Lady From Zimbabwe by Kirkman: 10:53am On Oct 04, 2021
Ade3131:
@ Op,

I've dated 2 none Nigerian African girls. One a South African (now an ex) and the other a Tanzanian girl (the one I really want to marry). So far, They're both sweet in their respective ways but the only challenge I'm facing right now is how to get married to the Tanzanian girl and reside in her country with her because of her job which we both agreed she should keep.

Her country has a very strict law for immigrants and have Nigeria on her blacklist. Meaning people from here are required to come to Tanzania only through referral visa or what we call 'visa by invitation'. And marrying a Tanzanian woman doesn't amount to having a citizenship status like it is in other African countries, and this has been our greatest challenge right now but we both really want to end up together.

I will be glad to hear any advice you have for us please. Thank you.

The question now is baba; in your heart of hearts what do you really want to do?
Re: My Experience Dating A Lady From Zimbabwe by RodgersAkpafu: 10:54am On Oct 04, 2021
Carchoice:
I met a Tanzania lady that told me if we start dating and happens to go out together and I see a lady I like to smash, She could talk to the lady on my behalf.

I was like are you normal?

She told me story of her last relationship of 4 years. Her man took her to a club and She caught her man staring at another lady’s asx, She walked to the lady and chyked her for her man. She said that night She was Sleeping in one of the rooms in her boyfriends house while her boyfriend was having fun with the new lady in another room.

I asked her why She allowed such in a relationship, She said Tanzania women believes men are polygamous in nature and are free to have something new outside the relationship.
Interesting
Re: My Experience Dating A Lady From Zimbabwe by Kirkman: 10:55am On Oct 04, 2021
Franzinni:
True I had a Tanzanian girl, the story long.
grin summarize it for us abeg, comprehension and summary
Re: My Experience Dating A Lady From Zimbabwe by highoctane: 10:56am On Oct 04, 2021
Martinelli35:
I am going to make this as brief as possible. I have noticed a trend with the reputation Nigerians seem to have with other Africans. I am currently dating a girl from Zimbabwe and we both are resident in England. The day I asked her out, she was initially a bit skeptical and told me her father had told her to avoid ending up with a Nigerian, I asked her why and she told me she had no idea.

We started dating and I began to get an idea of the reputation we had, obviously she was scared I had a wife and some kids back in Nigeria, I had to convince her that this was not the case and that I genuinely liked her.

Another time she told her friend from Zambia that she was dating a Nigerian and was told to be careful while dealing with me as a Nigerian.
It’s not all bad though, obviously we also have a reputation of being smooth talkers, she told me that we Nigerians have a way with words and that can make us irresistible at times. Who else has experienced this?
So Nairalanders will award you the best achiever of the year, okwayanu?
Re: My Experience Dating A Lady From Zimbabwe by Samuelriano1(m): 10:57am On Oct 04, 2021
[color=#770077][/color] angry
slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar

The father to that Zimbabwean girl friend of yours is not a real niggar
Grab my gadmnnn weed and a bottle to read comments

It seems there are alot of real niggarrrs on this thread

Whether the world like it or not. We are the real niggarz of Africa.....most baby girls from other Africa countries know this....
They always want to to stick with our men.....because they know we are strong, though, real and hard....

And when a baby girl know you are are though and real...they stick to your asss like glue
That is how one Zimbabwean abi Zambia girl stick to my uncle's ass in texas......they are married now
angry
slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar

The father to that Zimbabwean girl friend of yours is not a real niggar
Grab my gadmnnn weed and a bottle to read comments

It seems there are alot of real niggarrrs on this thread

Whether the world like it or not. We are the real niggarz of Africa.....most baby girls from other Africa countries know this....
They always want to to stick with our men.....because they know we are strong, though, real and hard....

And when a baby girl know you are are though and real...they stick to your asss like glue
That is how one Zimbabwean abi Zambia girl stick to my uncle's ass in texas......they are married now


bro where do you get your weed from.
Re: My Experience Dating A Lady From Zimbabwe by mayo47(m): 11:04am On Oct 04, 2021
Gibberish talk

Afriqan:
I was talking to this Kenyan babe from Instagram and she really liked the idea of dating a Nigerian. Nigerians are like superstars in Kenya and she had nothing negative to say about us...

That said, I don't think any African country is in any position to criticize us cos we are making the continent proud for the most part and we are very warm... If her (father's) wahala is too much, please go for Naija babe,we understand each other better.
Re: My Experience Dating A Lady From Zimbabwe by zedegit: 11:06am On Oct 04, 2021
freakydaddy:
Trust me, other African girls are mad over naija guys...dated an Ivorian and she was the smoothest and most gentle babe I ever did

Yet you never married her.
Re: My Experience Dating A Lady From Zimbabwe by camri: 11:09am On Oct 04, 2021
freakydaddy:
Trust me, other African girls are mad over naija guys...dated an Ivorian and she was the smoothest and most gentle babe I ever did
did you sample her
Re: My Experience Dating A Lady From Zimbabwe by Sterope(f): 11:10am On Oct 04, 2021
1. That is untrue. There are lots of broken down interracial marriages. Don't stay in Nigeria to make a sweeping generalisation. There are lots of mixed race children with missing black fathers undecided

Decryptor:


Very big problem!

Check most Nigerian male celebs who married white women/foreigners. We never heard that they divorced.

But Nigerian female celebs nko... wahala upon wahala!

Uche Jumbo married a foreigner... she's divorced now

Kate Henshaw married a foreigner... she's divorced!

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Re: My Experience Dating A Lady From Zimbabwe by khia: 11:10am On Oct 04, 2021
Localemperor:
Well considering our status in Africa ( the most populous black nation in the world, the biggest economy in Africa, and one of the wealthiest in Africa), who wouldn't be proud??


There's not much to be proud of considering your state of affairs starting with your crooked government, poverty and infrastructure, not to mention your electrical issues.. If Nigeria was something to be proud of her citizens wouldn't be running to every country in the world hoping for a better life.

In some cases being the most populous only mean more people living in poverty. undecided

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Re: My Experience Dating A Lady From Zimbabwe by jy2kbeyond(m): 11:12am On Oct 04, 2021
Carchoice:
I met a Tanzania lady that told me if we start dating and happens to go out together and I see a lady I like to smash, She could talk to the lady on my behalf.

I was like are you normal?

She told me story of her last relationship of 4 years. Her man took her to a club and She caught her man staring at another lady’s asx, She walked to the lady and chyked her for her man. She said that night She was Sleeping in one of the rooms in her boyfriends house while her boyfriend was having fun with the new lady in another room.

I asked her why She allowed such in a relationship, She said Tanzania women believes men are polygamous in nature and are free to have something new outside the relationship.


Mr Linus, Weldone sir

grin grin grin grin
Re: My Experience Dating A Lady From Zimbabwe by zigzagluv: 11:13am On Oct 04, 2021
how can they cook Nigeria food , they can learn but cant be prefect but most of this country girls are low maintenance girls
Danjikanbauchi:
bro forget it, I can swear to you that Nigeria ladies are the best in times of marriage. Most African ladies don't have good character and can't even cook good food. I speaking from experience. Kenyan, SA, Cameroon and Ghanaian. The worst are SA. Another country that you can find good ladies after Nigeria is Somalian. They are cool headed.

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Re: My Experience Dating A Lady From Zimbabwe by zigzagluv: 11:15am On Oct 04, 2021
Tanzania are really good , thir $$ is always big and dont mind cheating husband as long as your respect them and take care of the house
24SEVEN:


How can I get Tanzania visa. grin

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