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armstrongadeola:
Funniest thing is that till this moment ,she is still claiming she took #10,000,#5,000,#15,000 and that she got alert of #15,000 ,#15,000 while I actually got #5,000,#15,000 ,#15,000 from this same ATM close to our house .

I don't know why she is still lying to cover up but it is fine sa .Those of you saying it is childish to bring this issue here doesn't know how betrayed I am .I don't know why withdrawal of #10,000 and #5,000 will come with sms alert of #15,000 in a single message .

You don't know how I feel now for that excuse .I mean a cooked up excuse when she definitely know I am not an illiterate .

Why will a bank send add up #5,000 and #10,000 to send #15,000 debit alert while I got theail notification for 3 withdrawal .

Those who are saying I don't take care of her .For your information ,she have a shop where she sell things and last Sunday was my off .Even before I was paid in the night ,we went out to have a nice time in a close-by restaurant .

I even promised to give her #100,000 to buy stuff for her shop when I get my october salary .What more can I do as a loving husband ??

You don't even know I feel now .I called her some minutes to send me the remaining #2,000 in the account and imagine she was telling me she can't that she need to withdraw #1,000 to buy food for my son .Imagine !!

So ,she spent #7,000 per day for 5 days because today is just Saturday the sixth day

armstrongadeola:
Good evenning house ,

I just want to ask this simple question !

What will you do if for the first week you get your salary paid into your son account and your wife withdrew #35,000 but lied she withdrew #30,000 ?

This is what happened .She gets the SMS notification from our son account and she also keep the ATM card but all I do is to get the mail notification.

Tonight ,she was indirectly complaining she doesn't have money and I asked her how much she withdrew in the last five days and she said #30,000 but the mail notification I got showed she withdrew #5,000,#15,000 and #15,000 on Monday and Tuesday (this week ).

The amount that dropped in the account was #150,000 and she was the one that even started doing transfer for those we needed to settle last sunday when my salary dropped .

We paid our son school fee ,sent little amount to my sister and little amount to her mum and her elder sister and I borrowed #13,000 from the money for transportation.We paid debt of #20,000 .

I stay and work on the island while I go home three times a week (mainland)

In all these,she was able to withdrew #35,000 and I was surprised she was telling me this night to get the money someone was owing me so that I can return the #13,000 I got because all what we have as balance in the account is #2,000 .

I was like is she trying to tell me she have finished the #35,000 with her and jokingly I said how much did you even withdraw from the salary and she said #30,000 !

I asked her if she was sure and she said that's what she withdrew .I now sent the notification I got to her and she was shocked and refused to reply me since 8pm .

My question is why did she lie ? Definitely ,she know she took #35,000 (#5,000 &#15,000 on Monday&another #15,000 on tuesday )but I am still shocked why she lied and why she is insisting on getting the #13,000 she transferred to me from my own sweat !!

Seriously ,I have lost my trust in her .This is someone who I have never benefitted anything from her rather than the fact that we have a son together after our wedding .

I love her so much and we have been together since 2013 .I have never seen any trace of infidelity in her but she locks her phone with heavy security just because I lock mine and that have never cause an issue but I still don't know why she had to lie this night !

Is there something I don't understand ?

She have definitely been a good wife since we settled down( with prayer and moral support )and she always stand by me in term of better and worse and she is not wayward despite how pretty she is .

But why did she lie ?

armstrongadeola:
Good evenning house ,

But why did she lie ?

armstrongadeola:
Good evenning house ,

I just want to ask this simple question !

What will you do if for the first week you get your salary paid into your son account and your wife withdrew #35,000 but lied she withdrew #30,000 ?

This is what happened .She gets the SMS notification from our son account and she also keep the ATM card but all I do is to get the mail notification.

Tonight ,she was indirectly complaining she doesn't have money and I asked her how much she withdrew in the last five days and she said #30,000 but the mail notification I got showed she withdrew #5,000,#15,000 and #15,000 on Monday and Tuesday (this week ).

The amount that dropped in the account was #150,000 and she was the one that even started doing transfer for those we needed to settle last sunday when my salary dropped .

We paid our son school fee ,sent little amount to my sister and little amount to her mum and her elder sister and I borrowed #13,000 from the money for transportation.We paid debt of #20,000 .

I stay and work on the island while I go home three times a week (mainland)

In all these,she was able to withdrew #35,000 and I was surprised she was telling me this night to get the money someone was owing me so that I can return the #13,000 I got because all what we have as balance in the account is #2,000 .

I was like is she trying to tell me she have finished the #35,000 with her and jokingly I said how much did you even withdraw from the salary and she said #30,000 !

I asked her if she was sure and she said that's what she withdrew .I now sent the notification I got to her and she was shocked and refused to reply me since 8pm .

My question is why did she lie ? Definitely ,she know she took #35,000 (#5,000 &#15,000 on Monday&another #15,000 on tuesday )but I am still shocked why she lied and why she is insisting on getting the #13,000 she transferred to me from my own sweat !!

Seriously ,I have lost my trust in her .This is someone who I have never benefitted anything from her rather than the fact that we have a son together after our wedding .

I love her so much and we have been together since 2013 .I have never seen any trace of infidelity in her but she locks her phone with heavy security just because I lock mine and that have never cause an issue but I still don't know why she had to lie this night !

Is there something I don't understand ?

She have definitely been a good wife since we settled down( with prayer and moral support )and she always stand by me in term of better and worse and she is not wayward despite how pretty she is .

But why did she lie ?

smasher1:
Don't ever mention that you have never benefited anything from a woman, except the child. I was once married and divorced. I can't say, I have never benefited anything from the previous relationship. That's a big lie, please.

armstrongadeola:
Good evenning house ,

I just want to ask this simple question !

What will you do if for the first week you get your salary paid into your son account and your wife withdrew #35,000 but lied she withdrew #30,000 ?

This is what happened .She gets the SMS notification from our son account and she also keep the ATM card but all I do is to get the mail notification.

Tonight ,she was indirectly complaining she doesn't have money and I asked her how much she withdrew in the last five days and she said #30,000 but the mail notification I got showed she withdrew #5,000,#15,000 and #15,000 on Monday and Tuesday (this week ).

The amount that dropped in the account was #150,000 and she was the one that even started doing transfer for those we needed to settle last sunday when my salary dropped .

We paid our son school fee ,sent little amount to my sister and little amount to her mum and her elder sister and I borrowed #13,000 from the money for transportation.We paid debt of #20,000 .

I stay and work on the island while I go home three times a week (mainland)

In all these,she was able to withdrew #35,000 and I was surprised she was telling me this night to get the money someone was owing me so that I can return the #13,000 I got because all what we have as balance in the account is #2,000 .

I was like is she trying to tell me she have finished the #35,000 with her and jokingly I said how much did you even withdraw from the salary and she said #30,000 !

I asked her if she was sure and she said that's what she withdrew .I now sent the notification I got to her and she was shocked and refused to reply me since 8pm .

My question is why did she lie ? Definitely ,she know she took #35,000 (#5,000 &#15,000 on Monday&another #15,000 on tuesday )but I am still shocked why she lied and why she is insisting on getting the #13,000 she transferred to me from my own sweat !!

Seriously ,I have lost my trust in her .This is someone who I have never benefitted anything from her rather than the fact that we have a son together after our wedding .

I love her so much and we have been together since 2013 .I have never seen any trace of infidelity in her but she locks her phone with heavy security just because I lock mine and that have never cause an issue but I still don't know why she had to lie this night !

Is there something I don't understand ?

She have definitely been a good wife since we settled down( with prayer and moral support )and she always stand by me in term of better and worse and she is not wayward despite how pretty she is .

But why did she lie ?

armstrongadeola:
Good evenning house ,

I just want to ask this simple question !

What will you do if for the first week you get your salary paid into your son account and your wife withdrew #35,000 but lied she withdrew #30,000 ?

This is what happened .She gets the SMS notification from our son account and she also keep the ATM card but all I do is to get the mail notification.

Tonight ,she was indirectly complaining she doesn't have money and I asked her how much she withdrew in the last five days and she said #30,000 but the mail notification I got showed she withdrew #5,000,#15,000 and #15,000 on Monday and Tuesday (this week ).

The amount that dropped in the account was #150,000 and she was the one that even started doing transfer for those we needed to settle last sunday when my salary dropped .

We paid our son school fee ,sent little amount to my sister and little amount to her mum and her elder sister and I borrowed #13,000 from the money for transportation.We paid debt of #20,000 .

I stay and work on the island while I go home three times a week (mainland)

In all these,she was able to withdrew #35,000 and I was surprised she was telling me this night to get the money someone was owing me so that I can return the #13,000 I got because all what we have as balance in the account is #2,000 .

I was like is she trying to tell me she have finished the #35,000 with her and jokingly I said how much did you even withdraw from the salary and she said #30,000 !

I asked her if she was sure and she said that's what she withdrew .I now sent the notification I got to her and she was shocked and refused to reply me since 8pm .

My question is why did she lie ? Definitely ,she know she took #35,000 (#5,000 &#15,000 on Monday&another #15,000 on tuesday )but I am still shocked why she lied and why she is insisting on getting the #13,000 she transferred to me from my own sweat !!

Seriously ,I have lost my trust in her .This is someone who I have never benefitted anything from her rather than the fact that we have a son together after our wedding .

I love her so much and we have been together since 2013 .I have never seen any trace of infidelity in her but she locks her phone with heavy security just because I lock mine and that have never cause an issue but I still don't know why she had to lie this night !

Is there something I don't understand ?

She have definitely been a good wife since we settled down( with prayer and moral support )and she always stand by me in term of better and worse and she is not wayward despite how pretty she is .
all women are not to be fully trusted...I know what is annoying you the most which is lying and also trying to force you to return the thirteen thousand you borrowed... take the ATM from her and don't fully trust her,try to search her phone too
But why did she lie ?

Justbehave:
Maybe she forgot the actual amount she collected.

MrMacinterchi1:
Lol �;F

obi4eze:
Oga this is not the right place to bring family issues. You should be a man and solve your family issues instead of washing your dirty linen in public.
If you truly love your wife as you claim you should be able to ask her why she lied and sort out the issue with her instead of coming to expose her here.

We are not your wife and neither is she us.

armstrongadeola:
She didn't forget .she just lied but we will be fine tomorrow morning .We don't let our dispute go beyond a day but I still don't know why she said that .

I will not even ask her again .Bygone is bygone .That's the kind of man I am.i will just let it slide

armstrongadeola:
She didn't forget .she just lied but we will be fine tomorrow morning .We don't let our dispute go beyond a day but I still don't know why she said that .

I will not even ask her again .Bygone is bygone .That's the kind of man I am.i will just let it slide

armstrongadeola:
Good evenning house ,

I just want to ask this simple question !

What will you do if for the first week you get your salary paid into your son account and your wife withdrew #35,000 but lied she withdrew #30,000 ?

This is what happened .She gets the SMS notification from our son account and she also keep the ATM card but all I do is to get the mail notification.

Tonight ,she was indirectly complaining she doesn't have money and I asked her how much she withdrew in the last five days and she said #30,000 but the mail notification I got showed she withdrew #5,000,#15,000 and #15,000 on Monday and Tuesday (this week ).

The amount that dropped in the account was #150,000 and she was the one that even started doing transfer for those we needed to settle last sunday when my salary dropped .

We paid our son school fee ,sent little amount to my sister and little amount to her mum and her elder sister and I borrowed #13,000 from the money for transportation.We paid debt of #20,000 .

I stay and work on the island while I go home three times a week (mainland)

In all these,she was able to withdrew #35,000 and I was surprised she was telling me this night to get the money someone was owing me so that I can return the #13,000 I got because all what we have as balance in the account is #2,000 .

I was like is she trying to tell me she have finished the #35,000 with her and jokingly I said how much did you even withdraw from the salary and she said #30,000 !

I asked her if she was sure and she said that's what she withdrew .I now sent the notification I got to her and she was shocked and refused to reply me since 8pm .

My question is why did she lie ? Definitely ,she know she took #35,000 (#5,000 &#15,000 on Monday&another #15,000 on tuesday )but I am still shocked why she lied and why she is insisting on getting the #13,000 she transferred to me from my own sweat !!

Seriously ,I have lost my trust in her .This is someone who I have never benefitted anything from her rather than the fact that we have a son together after our wedding .

I love her so much and we have been together since 2013 .I have never seen any trace of infidelity in her but she locks her phone with heavy security just because I lock mine and that have never cause an issue but I still don't know why she had to lie this night !

Is there something I don't understand ?

She have definitely been a good wife since we settled down( with prayer and moral support )and she always stand by me in term of better and worse and she is not wayward despite how pretty she is .

But why did she lie ?

Justbehave:
Lol. Wetin you wan mey I talk nah?

armstrongadeola:
Funniest thing is that till this moment ,she is still claiming she took #10,000,#5,000,#15,000 and that she got alert of #15,000 ,#15,000 while I actually got #5,000,#15,000 ,#15,000 from this same ATM close to our house .

I don't know why she is still lying to cover up but it is fine sa .Those of you saying it is childish to bring this issue here doesn't know how betrayed I am .I don't know why withdrawal of #10,000 and #5,000 will come with sms alert of #15,000 in a single message .

You don't know how I feel now for that excuse .I mean a cooked up excuse when she definitely know I am not an illiterate .

Why will a bank send add up #5,000 and #10,000 to send #15,000 debit alert while I got theail notification for 3 withdrawal .

Those who are saying I don't take care of her .For your information ,she have a shop where she sell things and last Sunday was my off .Even before I was paid in the night ,we went out to have a nice time in a close-by restaurant .

I even promised to give her #100,000 to buy stuff for her shop when I get my october salary .What more can I do as a loving husband ??

You don't even know I feel now .I called her some minutes to send me the remaining #2,000 in the account and imagine she was telling me she can't that she need to withdraw #1,000 to buy food for my son .Imagine !!

So ,she spent #7,000 per day for 5 days because today is just Saturday the sixth day

larryjonze:
Bro calm ur nerves, however you chose to see it, trust me its no big deal, naa your wife spend your money naa because of family we dey hustle, many times my kid bro will take my money behind n blast it ... no matter how angry i get i just let it go cos he is family, around last year i used my babe account to collect some money she took from it even b4 my consent ... things like these are bound to happen when family/wife have joint access, if you know it will be such a big deal then revert to sole access, now that she knows you keep tap on alerts she won't try it again
You have being married since 2013 nd the worst you get from ur wife is just a lie over 5k, sweet jesus lolzzz ! oga you just want us to tell you how luck you are just thank God say you no marry main woman.

mac04:
Boss, I beg you in God's name let it slide, while not trying to make an excuse for her she might have forgotten the actual amount she withdrew since the withdrawals were made on different days, you can just tell her to careful and pay more attention to how she manages her finances, this is just a test for your family, try to pass it

Kobojunkie:
You ought to be having this discussion with your wife and not with strangers online since we are not mind readers and I doubt you would be willing to let us go interrogate your wife on your behalf.

Way too many of you are immature. How can can grown individual come online to ask complete strangers these sort of questions for Pete's sake. Did you ask strangers this sort of questions each time your mum or dad or even boss lied to you?

efficiencie:
You need to have a chat with her. If you are confident she is not wayward and she is generally a good wife, schedule a chat with her. Let her know you are not averse to sacrificing and providing for the family and that she has to stop lying and always come clean if she is to continually earn your trust. Tell her to arrive at a verbal covenant with you that both you will never lie to each other and that both of you will use your resources towards the betterment of your family (both nuclear and extended). [b]Create a family business in your name and have your wife manage the business. You too, oga, be open to your wife. [/b]Don't do what you don't want her to do. Lead by example. May the LORD GOD of marriages keep your marriage as sweet as fresh wine!