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How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Stephen2324(m): 12:03pm On Oct 20, 2021
How did you find out your partner was cheating?

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Sonnobax15(m): 12:05pm On Oct 20, 2021
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When the baby that they used to call me was automatically changed to Oga obax undecided. ..Na then I realize say dem don relegate me undecided

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Nobody: 12:07pm On Oct 20, 2021
When I met him he didn't have his own apartment. He was just fresh out of school. So he was searching for a job.

I used to visit him them at his friends place ( married man). He later got a job in a hotel at Chevron drive but along the line we had a misunderstanding and gave it a break for months.

He called and to me he had gotten an apartment at lekki. that I should come see if I like the place..
I got there and was just playing around and checking his wardrobe when I saw ladies shower caps.
I was like, who owns this? And he said they normally give them at the hotel. Chai!!! This guy can lie for Africa. Like seriously, who gives guys shower caps? So, I told him, you've been camping a lady in this house and he said, "don't start". I just kept quiet because we only just got back together after months.

I later checked his wardrobe again when he stepped out and found more shower caps.

Now, don't call me dumb. I know what I'm saying. That guy was a serial cheat. In fact, that was why I later dumped him and faced my life and God.

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by TeeGentle(m): 12:11pm On Oct 20, 2021
The behaviour of your partner and those people he/she walk with

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by dragnet001: 1:05pm On Oct 20, 2021
Mercychen:
When I met him he didn't have his own apartment. He was just fresh out of school. So he was searching for a job.

I used to visit him them at his friends place ( married man). He later got a job in a hotel at Chevron drive but along the line we had a misunderstanding and gave it a break for months.

He called and to me he had gotten an apartment at lekki. that I should come see if I like the place..
I got there and was just playing around and checking his wardrobe when I saw ladies shower caps.
I was like, who owns this? And he said they normally give them at the hotel. Chai!!! This guy can lie for Africa. Like seriously, who gives guys shower caps? So, I told him, you've been camping a lady in this house and he said, "don't start". I just kept quiet because we only just got back together after months.

I later checked his wardrobe again when he stepped out and found more shower caps.

Now, don't call me dumb. I know what I'm saying. That guy was a serial cheat. In fact, that was why I later dumped him and faced my life and God.


You've probably never worked in a hotel. They do give shower caps, especially in the production department.

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Smartb0y: 1:08pm On Oct 20, 2021
Mercychen:
When I met him he didn't have his own apartment. He was just fresh out of school. So he was searching for a job.

I used to visit him them at his friends place ( married man). He later got a job in a hotel at Chevron drive but along the line we had a misunderstanding and gave it a break for months.

He called and to me he had gotten an apartment at lekki. that I should come see if I like the place..
I got there and was just playing around and checking his wardrobe when I saw ladies shower caps.
I was like, who owns this? And he said they normally give them at the hotel. Chai!!! This guy can lie for Africa. Like seriously, who gives guys shower caps? So, I told him, you've been camping a lady in this house and he said, "don't start". I just kept quiet because we only just got back together after months.
lol God cant marry you,might have to bump into more cheats before you find that meek guy

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by jericco1(m): 1:13pm On Oct 20, 2021
Mercychen:
When I met him he didn't have his own apartment. He was just fresh out of school. So he was searching for a job.

I used to visit him them at his friends place ( married man). He later got a job in a hotel at Chevron drive but along the line we had a misunderstanding and gave it a break for months.

He called and to me he had gotten an apartment at lekki. that I should come see if I like the place..
I got there and was just playing around and checking his wardrobe when I saw ladies shower caps.
I was like, who owns this? And he said they normally give them at the hotel. Chai!!! This guy can lie for Africa. Like seriously, who gives guys shower caps? So, I told him, you've been camping a lady in this house and he said, "don't start". I just kept quiet because we only just got back together after months.

I later checked his wardrobe again when he stepped out and found more shower caps.

Now, don't call me dumb. I know what I'm saying. That guy was a serial cheat. In fact, that was why I later dumped him and faced my life and God.



You dumped him really? undecided

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Candidlady: 1:29pm On Oct 20, 2021
dragnet001:

You've probably never worked in a hotel. They do give shower caps, especially in the production department.

shush! Its called "hairnet" mr! No come mumu us

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by princefrank76: 2:05pm On Oct 20, 2021
The woman i trusted so much back then. I accidentally bomb into her facebook and discovered she was cheating on me with multiple guys. I fainted 10 times. But then, it was a life lesson. I dumbed her and moved on and have bounced back. I now take every girl i meet as a potential cheat. I don't want anoda shocker. Chai T-girl u really do me things that year.

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Godada(m): 2:06pm On Oct 20, 2021




Well it never happened with me.


I don't snoop around.


I treat every girl like a potential cheat. I just hit it when it's my turn and bounce.


I have this adulation for big ass chicks. Sadly these are specs most guys would give an arm to have.


So I naturally come around screw that gash like it's the last time and probably it is.


I keep my sanity safe.


Give me an attitude, girl, you hit the road.

You sweat me..... it's on to the next one.


Pretty simple.

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Nobody: 2:32pm On Oct 20, 2021
Smartb0y:

lol God cant marry you,might have to bump into more cheats before you find that meek guy

I've given up on men. I'm now married to Jesus. Waiting for the trumpet to sound.

I like my peace of mind.

jericco1:


You dumped him really? undecided

Yes for real. He thought after seeing his posh apartment, I'll now be worshipping him.
I just called and told him i can't continue with the relationship. I want to serve God.

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Nobody: 2:38pm On Oct 20, 2021
dragnet001:

You've probably never worked in a hotel. They do give shower caps, especially in the production department.

I knew someone was going to come up with this line. Reason I said I'm not dumb cos I know it's possible some times to distribute such because I too have worked at federal palace Hotels, so I know. But my ex was a procurement manager!!!
I don't know if I'm making sense though. Plus other things he does that I won't want to mention here.

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by jericco1(m): 2:50pm On Oct 20, 2021
Mercychen:


I've given up on men. I'm now married to Jesus. Waiting for the trumpet to sound.

I like my peace of mind.



Yes for real. He thought after seeing his posh apartment, I'll now be worshipping him.
I just called and told him i can't continue with the relationship. I want to serve God.

Hmm just because of breakup you want to give up on men. Don't make a mistake that you'd regret sha.

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Nobody: 3:04pm On Oct 20, 2021
jericco1:


Hmm just because of breakup you want to give up on men. Don't make a mistake that you'd regret sha.

It's not really because of breakup. I mean... I initiated the break-up. So..

The thing is, I've come to realize that im more at peace when I'm not in a relationship than when I'm in one. At least, I can think straight and focus better on my job than having one guy disturbing me with calls, monitoring my movement and always wanting me around him.

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by jericco1(m): 3:19pm On Oct 20, 2021
Mercychen:


It's not really because of breakup. I mean... I initiated the break-up. So..

The thing is, I've come to realize that im more at peace when I'm not in a relationship than when I'm in one. At least, I can think straight and focus better on my job than having one guy disturbing me with calls, monitoring my movement and always wanting me around him.




Okay then..
Rest

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Smartb0y: 3:24pm On Oct 20, 2021
Mercychen:


I've given up on men. I'm now married to Jesus. Waiting for the trumpet to sound.

I like my peace of mind.



Yes for real. He thought after seeing his posh apartment, I'll now be worshipping him.
I just called and told him i can't continue with the relationship. I want to serve God.
how do you keep yourself in check with all those urges lol?

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by IfeMiLove: 3:37pm On Oct 20, 2021
Mercychen:
When I met him he didn't have his own apartment. He was just fresh out of school. So he was searching for a job.

I used to visit him them at his friends place ( married man). He later got a job in a hotel at Chevron drive but along the line we had a misunderstanding and gave it a break for months.

He called and to me he had gotten an apartment at lekki. that I should come see if I like the place..
I got there and was just playing around and checking his wardrobe when I saw ladies shower caps.
I was like, who owns this? And he said they normally give them at the hotel. Chai!!! This guy can lie for Africa. Like seriously, who gives guys shower caps? So, I told him, you've been camping a lady in this house and he said, "don't start". I just kept quiet because we only just got back together after months.

I later checked his wardrobe again when he stepped out and found more shower caps.

Now, don't call me dumb. I know what I'm saying. That guy was a serial cheat. In fact, that was why I later dumped him and faced my life and God.


More shower caps?? Does it mean everyone he cheats with forgets their caps or he just loves shower caps?

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by potent5(m): 3:51pm On Oct 20, 2021
IfeMiLove:
More shower caps?? Does it mean everyone he cheats with forgets their caps or he just loves shower caps?
I wonder. The girls no forget any other thing, na shower caps.

Women and paranoia. grin grin

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Nobody: 4:14pm On Oct 20, 2021
Smartb0y:
how do you keep yourself in check with all those urges lol?

What urges?
Do you think women just sit and start having urges? No now.

Urges can only come when you indulge in things that will trigger it like sexual materials or contents eg romantic movies and what have you, which one should avoid as a child of God. But when you do away with such things and ask the holy Spirit to help you, nothing like urges anything.

Got that?

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Gadafii: 4:24pm On Oct 20, 2021
most of the girls i have been with, they always the one cheating with me on their main guys.

the only girl i met without boyfriend, i told her if she cheat me on and i find out, i will break her neck cheesy cheesy

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Smartb0y: 4:31pm On Oct 20, 2021
Mercychen:


What urges?
Do you think women just sit and start having urges? No now.

Urges can only come when you indulge in things that will trigger it. Like sexual materials or contents eg romantic movies and what have you, which one should avoid as a child of God. But when you do away with such things and ask the holy Spirit to help you, nothing like urges anything.

Got that?
hmm ok

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by greatiyk4u(m): 4:54pm On Oct 20, 2021
Mercychen:


I've given up on men. I'm now married to Jesus. Waiting for the trumpet to sound.

I like my peace of mind.



Yes for real. He thought after seeing his posh apartment, I'll now be worshipping him.
I just called and told him i can't continue with the relationship. I want to serve God.


You need a good and mature adviser to guide you on how to combine your marriage with God and relationship with potential suitors who you can build a home with


As a procurement leader, he can get those things as samples from the vendors supplying the hotel

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Nobody: 4:57pm On Oct 20, 2021
greatiyk4u:



You need a good and mature adviser to guide you on how to combine your marriage with God and relationship with potential suitors who you can build a home with

Lol.. you won't understand.
Man no dey hungry me again tongue.

Seriously, I don't fancy men any longer. I see them as additional stress in my life. cool

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by greatiyk4u(m): 5:00pm On Oct 20, 2021
Mercychen:


Lol.. you won't understand.
Man no dey hungry me again tongue.

Seriously, I don't fancy men any longer. I see them as additional stress in my life. cool

Change the mindset immediately and be a pro-family Christian ready to obey the clarion call of procreation
There is joy in sweet companionship

Waiting to hear a different story from you,.....perfect men are hard to come by these days but there are many husband materials out there

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Nobody: 5:04pm On Oct 20, 2021
greatiyk4u:


Change the mindset immediately and be a pro-family Christian ready to obey the clarion call of procreation
There is join in sweet companionship

Waiting to hear a different story from you,.....perfect men are hard to come by these days buy there are many husband materials out there

Ok, I'll try.
Thanks a bunch.

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Morientez: 5:07pm On Oct 20, 2021
My ex always gives stupid excuses of not been chanced ,always forming busy with school stuff...she only do come to my shop for food n money...each time i tell her to come over to my place so we could spend the weekend together cus am always busy during weekdays ,because of the nature of my bizness...

The idiot go tell me say she dey cook Sunday rice ,say her pman no dey allow her comot on Sunday s apart from going to church..
..na so one day like dat i caught her in my street with one manchie walking romantically inside the guys compound..
I echoed her name she turned around and was shuttering with words..I ask her so you dey go out
finishe?7 ...you come dey lie say your pman no dey allow you go out weas you dey gum body with this nigga..

Nia she lie give me say she tell pman say she want go for all night revision for her course mate house cus her 1st semester exam..

I don comot hand for anything wey undergraduate..

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by proxitaly: 5:56pm On Oct 20, 2021
First sign: I suddenly became very popular in her street. As in, I was thinking they're hailing me as the guy dating that beautiful banny, didn't know they're hailing me as the one dating "our wife"
Second sign: I came to visit her one day and she refused to let me in. She's staying with her elder sister then. Her elder sister of course had gone to her shop. I had to turn back at the door

Third sign: I mistakenly picked up her phone one day to transfer game, it was during those Nokia Asha days. She dived for the phone from across the room. Mendy of Chelsea could not have made such a dive cheesy

Last straw: She left for school and one day after talking to her on the phone, my elder sister asked "who was that?"
I said Vicky
She hissed and said " That girl that use to leave school and come to stay with Chiboy and think we're not seeing her"
I just had to cut my L and move on

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Nobody: 6:17pm On Oct 20, 2021
Mercychen:


What urges?
Do you think women just sit and start having urges? No now.

Urges can only come when you indulge in things that will trigger it. Like sexual materials or contents eg romantic movies and what have you, which one should avoid as a child of God. But when you do away with such things and ask the holy Spirit to help you, nothing like urges anything.

Got that?
hold up, are you sure you're okay.....what happens to women during ovulation?

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Nobody: 6:29pm On Oct 20, 2021
LuciferO:
hold up, are you sure you're okay.....what happens to women during ovulation?

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Oghenerobo2002(m): 6:59pm On Oct 20, 2021
I used to date this babe in school. We were on holidays when a guy called me to tell me that he has gotten his babe back and I should keep my distance. He said he understand the things that went on between us, but they were nothing but payments for the assistance I rendered to her at school

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Ruke1989: 7:32pm On Oct 20, 2021
Mercychen:


I knew someone was going to come up with this line. Reason I said I'm not dumb cos I know it's possible some times to distribute such because I too have worked at federal palace Hotels, so I know. But my ex was a procurement manager!!!
I don't know if I'm making sense though. Plus other things he does that I won't want to mention here.

Well, I like your scientific mind. Want to connect with you if you don't mind.

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Ruke1989: 7:42pm On Oct 20, 2021
greatiyk4u:


Change the mindset immediately and be a pro-family Christian ready to obey the clarion call of procreation
There is join in sweet companionship

Waiting to hear a different story from you,.....perfect men are hard to come by these days buy there are many husband materials out there

Just like me. I now consider ladies visionless, empty headed, greedy and senseless with my experiences. Exacting energy, time and resources on wrong partners who hurt you by flirting around as a payback can make you give up on relationship matter truly

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