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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by greatiyk4u(m): 7:48pm On Oct 20, 2021
Ruke1989:
Just like me. I now consider ladies visionless, empty headed, greedy and senseless with my experiences. Exacting energy, time and resources on wrong partners who hurt you by flirting around as a payback can make you give up on relationship matter truly
It is still amendable
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Fathai(m): 8:02pm On Oct 20, 2021
Mercychen:
I've given up on men. I'm now married to Jesus. Waiting for the trumpet to sound.

I like my peace of mind.



Yes for real. He thought after seeing his posh apartment, I'll now be worshipping him.
I just called and told him i can't continue with the relationship. I want to serve God.
were you not serving God before. Chai, some ladies with their tiny brain.
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Nobody: 9:45pm On Oct 20, 2021
Mercychen:
I've given up on men. I'm now married to Jesus. Waiting for the trumpet to sound.

I like my peace of mind.



Yes for real. He thought after seeing his posh apartment, I'll now be worshipping him.
I just called and told him i can't continue with the relationship. I want to serve God.
Hanty! trumpet no go sound anytime soon oo. at least not in our life time ooooo.


na world without end ooooo
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by PrimadonnaO(f): 9:53pm On Oct 20, 2021
Mercychen:
I knew someone was going to come up with this line. Reason I said I'm not dumb cos I know it's possible some times to distribute such because I too have worked at federal palace Hotels, so I know. But my ex was a procurement manager!!!
I don't know if I'm making sense though. Plus other things he does that I won't want to mention here.
So you should have cited those other things, not the shower cap instance.
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Generalwoodz(m): 10:46pm On Oct 20, 2021
princefrank76:
The woman i trusted so much back then. I accidentally bomb into her facebook and discovered she was cheating on me with multiple guys. I fainted 10 times. But then, it was a life lesson. I dumbed her and moved on and have bounced back. I now take every girl i meet as a potential cheat. I don't want anoda shocker. Chai T-girl u really do me things that year.
who was counting it? You or your spirithuh
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by arthurwillia(m): 11:34pm On Oct 20, 2021
Na she by herself tell me
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by walesoflyf(m): 11:51pm On Oct 20, 2021
Mercychen:
Lol.. you won't understand.
Man no dey hungry me again tongue.

Seriously, I don't fancy men any longer. I see them as additional stress in my life. cool
Abeg if you want to stay single and celibate, stay that way... It won't affect the number of good men or women out there. From what you have said, it seems you have decided to continue, to live in denial, that your insecurity is what is driving your conclusions.

Whether you accept it or not, you're deeply insecure, forget Christianity or what not, madam, you still dwell in that abyss of "I will get hurt if I give any man a try".
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Nyenatetan(m): 3:26am On Oct 21, 2021
jericco1:
You dumped him really? undecided
This kind.
bros eehn, the babe fit regret wetin she do one day oo.

I know sure sey this Aunty they well exposed ooo,

like serious I'm convinced so much from her replies that she has a long way to go.

undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided

Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Michelle55: 7:21am On Oct 21, 2021
Generalwoodz:
who was counting it? You or your spirithuh
You gat no chills at all

Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by avrilwisedata: 8:14am On Oct 21, 2021
Mercychen:
Ok, I'll try.
Thanks a bunch.
If you like don't try, if you like, try. Whatever you do is your business. It won't change the fact that you might get married or you might not some day. If it is the former, then let your "give up attitude" take control u hear. Dey here dey wail about men because of one broken relationship as if you are perfect. Na only u Sabi God.
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by avrilwisedata: 8:16am On Oct 21, 2021
Morientez:
My ex always gives stupid excuses of not been chanced ,always forming busy with school stuff...she only do come to my shop for food n money...each time i tell her to come over to my place so we could spend the weekend together cus am always busy during weekdays ,because of the nature of my bizness...

The idiot go tell me say she dey cook Sunday rice ,say her pman no dey allow her comot on Sunday s apart from going to church..
..na so one day like dat i caught her in my street with one manchie walking romantically inside the guys compound..
I echoed her name she turned around and was shuttering with words..I ask her so you dey go out
finishe?7 ...you come dey lie say your pman no dey allow you go out weas you dey gum body with this nigga..

Nia she lie give me say she tell pman say she want go for all night revision for her course mate house cus her 1st semester exam..

I don comot hand for anything wey undergraduate..
Undergraduates only see business or working class men as a means to an end. Know this and know peace.
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Divoc19(f): 8:18am On Oct 21, 2021
Text messages from her to him.
After much ranting, I forgave him.
Wetin I wan do before
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by avrilwisedata: 8:18am On Oct 21, 2021
Fathai:
were you not serving God before. Chai, some ladies with their tiny brain.
hahahaha
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by avrilwisedata: 8:19am On Oct 21, 2021
PrimadonnaO:
So you should have cited those other things, not the shower cap instance.
She's probably allergic to shower caps. cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by avrilwisedata: 8:20am On Oct 21, 2021
Nyenatetan:
This kind.
bros eehn, the babe fit regret wetin she do one day oo.

I know sure sey this Aunty they well exposed ooo,

like serious I'm convinced so much from her replies that she has a long way to go.

undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided
Na myopic mentality dey worry her.
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Innobee99(m):
Mercychen:
When I met him he didn't have his own apartment. He was just fresh out of school. So he was searching for a job.

I used to visit him them at his friends place ( married man). He later got a job in a hotel at Chevron drive but along the line we had a misunderstanding and gave it a break for months.

He called and to me he had gotten an apartment at lekki. that I should come see if I like the place..
I got there and was just playing around and checking his wardrobe when I saw ladies shower caps.
I was like, who owns this? And he said they normally give them at the hotel. Chai!!! This guy can lie for Africa. Like seriously, who gives guys shower caps? So, I told him, you've been camping a lady in this house and he said, "don't start". I just kept quiet because we only just got back together after months.

I later checked his wardrobe again when he stepped out and found more shower caps.

Now, don't call me dumb. I know what I'm saying. That guy was a serial cheat. In fact, that was why I later dumped him and faced my life and God.
U jump into conclusions too much
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 9:11am On Oct 21, 2021
When people say their partner cheated on them, I usually cannot relate. I have been with very upright men.
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Dliquidmetal(m): 9:23am On Oct 21, 2021
UyaiIncomparabl:
When people say their partner cheated on them, I usually cannot relate. I have been with very upright men.
perhaps you havent been observant enough how about that?
Some people have perfected their ways that it would be difficult to suspect them.
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 9:47am On Oct 21, 2021
Dliquidmetal:
perhaps you havent been observant enough how about that?
Some people have perfected their ways that it would be difficult to suspect them.
Naaah. Don't even try to infuse excuses. grin

Na me even did them dirty sef. I have very serious trust issues. So, for me to have called them upright, they passed a benchmark that I placed.

I don't make excuses for people, but I can for the men I have been with.
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Morientez: 10:07am On Oct 21, 2021
avrilwisedata:
Undergraduates only see business or working class men as a means to an end. Know this and know peace.
I saw her the other day she was looking haggard n pale ,her hair was unkept but i Careless i no send her again .....she hardly upload her whatsapp status this dayz cause nwa diro zi sharp like those times i dey provide virtually all her needs..
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by avrilwisedata: 10:15am On Oct 21, 2021
Morientez:
I saw her the other day she was looking haggard n pale ,her hair was unkept but i Careless i no send her again .....she hardly upload her whatsapp status this dayz cause nwa diro zi sharp like those times i dey provide virtually all her needs..
You don turn sponsor now. But u did all u did out of your own volition cos u care. Since the feelings weren't mutual, na to free her and find another. As simple as that.
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Rickmann: 11:04am On Oct 21, 2021
Mercychen:
When I met him he didn't have his own apartment. He was just fresh out of school. So he was searching for a job.

I used to visit him them at his friends place ( married man). He later got a job in a hotel at Chevron drive but along the line we had a misunderstanding and gave it a break for months.

He called and to me he had gotten an apartment at lekki. that I should come see if I like the place..
I got there and was just playing around and checking his wardrobe when I saw ladies shower caps.
I was like, who owns this? And he said they normally give them at the hotel. Chai!!! This guy can lie for Africa. Like seriously, who gives guys shower caps? So, I told him, you've been camping a lady in this house and he said, "don't start". I just kept quiet because we only just got back together after months.

I later checked his wardrobe again when he stepped out and found more shower caps.

Now, don't call me dumb. I know what I'm saying. That guy was a serial cheat. In fact, that was why I later dumped him and faced my life and God.
You ladies wont cease to amaze me..
Your sense of entitlement to everything can be so infuriating and it actually sucks.
From ur story, you clearly stated that you both had a misunderstanding and didn't talk for months..suddenly you pay him a visit (after months) and started putting up a scene over shower caps you found in his wardrobe?

Really?

What were you thinking all those months?
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Rickmann: 11:13am On Oct 21, 2021
jericco1:
You dumped him really? undecided
She dumped a guy who had already moved on and living his life.

Funny..
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Rickmann: 11:16am On Oct 21, 2021
jericco1:
You dumped him really? undecided
Sometimes we abuse the word 'dump'
grin
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Rickmann:
UyaiIncomparabl:
When people say their partner cheated on them, I usually cannot relate. I have been with very upright men.
You don't have to blow ur trumpet my love..
You see, cheating is an Art..most people have perfected their skills over time. So pls don't get too comfortable yet.
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 12:14pm On Oct 21, 2021
Rickmann:
You don't have to blow ur trumpet my love..
You see, cheating is an Art..most people have perfected their skills over time. That's why don't trust people too quickly.
I'm not blowing my trumpet. And no, I don't trust people easily. I have just been lucky.

I have always been the villain.
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Rickmann: 12:19pm On Oct 21, 2021
UyaiIncomparabl:
I'm not blowing my trumpet. And no, I don't trust people easily. I have just been lucky.

I have always been the villain.
If you say so dear..but like I clearly stated earlier,don't be shocked the day you'd find out.
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Generalwoodz(m): 12:25pm On Oct 21, 2021
Michelle55:
You gat no chills at all
just imagine grin
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Nobody: 12:57pm On Oct 21, 2021
avrilwisedata:
If you like don't try, if you like, try. Whatever you do is your business. It won't change the fact that you might get married or you might not some day. If it is the former, then let your "give up attitude" take control u hear. Dey here dey wail about men because of one broken relationship as if you are perfect. Na only u Sabi God.
Why are you so pained?

Please move far away with your bad energy. I can't deal.
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by avrilwisedata:
Mercychen:
Why are you so pained?

Please move far away with your bad energy. I can't deal.
How can I be pained over your own problem? cheesy cheesy cheesy

You're jumping into conclusions AGAIN

The truth is bitter... If u like, call it bad energy to make u feel better. See rhymes.. Jeesẹs grin
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