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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Tapout(m): 10:20pm On Oct 21, 2021
Mercychen:
When I met him he didn't have his own apartment. He was just fresh out of school. So he was searching for a job.

I used to visit him them at his friends place ( married man). He later got a job in a hotel at Chevron drive but along the line we had a misunderstanding and gave it a break for months.

He called and to me he had gotten an apartment at lekki. that I should come see if I like the place..
I got there and was just playing around and checking his wardrobe when I saw ladies shower caps.
I was like, who owns this? And he said they normally give them at the hotel. Chai!!! This guy can lie for Africa. Like seriously, who gives guys shower caps? So, I told him, you've been camping a lady in this house and he said, "don't start". I just kept quiet because we only just got back together after months.

I later checked his wardrobe again when he stepped out and found more shower caps.

Now, don't call me dumb. I know what I'm saying. That guy was a serial cheat. In fact, that was why I later dumped him and faced my life and God.



But some guys have their bath with shower caps na, like speed Darlington does too grin
And they all have feminine designs, so he probably wasn't cheating. Just saying though.

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by folks4luv(f): 10:20pm On Oct 21, 2021
Lol. It's like saying you won't get hungry if you don't think about food. Not the same for all women, but it's natural to have urges that are not triggered by anything sexual. There are some days in the month that the body wants sex, ovulation day(s) and pre-menstruation are examples. Of course the urges will be dealt with. It is however a misconception that women don't have urges unless triggered.
Mercychen:


What urges?
Do you think women just sit and start having urges? No now.

Urges can only come when you indulge in things that will trigger it. Like sexual materials or contents eg romantic movies and what have you, which one should avoid as a child of God. But when you do away with such things and ask the holy Spirit to help you, nothing like urges anything.

Got that?

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by seyz91(m): 10:20pm On Oct 21, 2021
cheesy
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
When the baby that they used to call me was automatically changed to Oga obax undecided. ..Na then I realize say dem don relegate me undecided
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by seyz91(m): 10:22pm On Oct 21, 2021
True
dragnet001:

You've probably never worked in a hotel. They do give shower caps, especially in the production department.
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Munzy14(m): 10:23pm On Oct 21, 2021
Mercychen:
When I met him he didn't have his own apartment. He was just fresh out of school. So he was searching for a job.

I used to visit him them at his friends place ( married man). He later got a job in a hotel at Chevron drive but along the line we had a misunderstanding and gave it a break for months.

He called and to me he had gotten an apartment at lekki. that I should come see if I like the place..
I got there and was just playing around and checking his wardrobe when I saw ladies shower caps.
I was like, who owns this? And he said they normally give them at the hotel. Chai!!! This guy can lie for Africa. Like seriously, who gives guys shower caps? So, I told him, you've been camping a lady in this house and he said, "don't start". I just kept quiet because we only just got back together after months.

I later checked his wardrobe again when he stepped out and found more shower caps.

Now, don't call me dumb. I know what I'm saying. That guy was a serial cheat. In fact, that was why I later dumped him and faced my life and God.


grin grin

I thought you will say you found condoms, only to see shower cap..Not even a lady's territory guarding undies sef.

People who work in production units in some biz organization can get the cap like say na the usual 200naira nose masks.

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by seyz91(m): 10:23pm On Oct 21, 2021
I'm not advocating for him but if you left him cuz of the shower caps you saw in his wardrobe, not good enough

Thet actually give out the caps in Hotel for those that works in the kitchen area mostly
Mercychen:
When I met him he didn't have his own apartment. He was just fresh out of school. So he was searching for a job.

I used to visit him them at his friends place ( married man). He later got a job in a hotel at Chevron drive but along the line we had a misunderstanding and gave it a break for months.

He called and to me he had gotten an apartment at lekki. that I should come see if I like the place..
I got there and was just playing around and checking his wardrobe when I saw ladies shower caps.
I was like, who owns this? And he said they normally give them at the hotel. Chai!!! This guy can lie for Africa. Like seriously, who gives guys shower caps? So, I told him, you've been camping a lady in this house and he said, "don't start". I just kept quiet because we only just got back together after months.

I later checked his wardrobe again when he stepped out and found more shower caps.

Now, don't call me dumb. I know what I'm saying. That guy was a serial cheat. In fact, that was why I later dumped him and faced my life and God.


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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by MondayOsunbor(m): 10:25pm On Oct 21, 2021
Morientez:
My ex always gives stupid excuses of not been chanced ,always forming busy with school stuff...she only do come to my shop for food n money...each time i tell her to come over to my place so we could spend the weekend together cus am always busy during weekdays ,because of the nature of my bizness...

The idiot go tell me say she dey cook Sunday rice ,say her pman no dey allow her comot on Sunday s apart from going to church..
..na so one day like dat i caught her in my street with one manchie walking romantically inside the guys compound..
I echoed her name she turned around and was shuttering with words..I ask her so you dey go out
finishe?7 ...you come dey lie say your pman no dey allow you go out weas you dey gum body with this nigga..

Nia she lie give me say she tell pman say she want go for all night revision for her course mate house cus her 1st semester exam..

I don comot hand for anything wey undergraduate..
and enter your hand for graduate ! lol
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by phollybee(m): 10:25pm On Oct 21, 2021
I just need a working class lady right now.. Lets make money together... God-fearing and d one that will show true love
.... I'm living fine and good.. I dnt just want lady who is mainly receiver... . 0. 8. 0. 6. 2. 9. 6. 5. 7. 2. 3 on WhatsApp

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by vickydevoka(m): 10:25pm On Oct 21, 2021
Morientez:
My ex always gives stupid excuses of not been chanced ,always forming busy with school stuff...she only do come to my shop for food n money...each time i tell her to come over to my place so we could spend the weekend together cus am always busy during weekdays ,because of the nature of my bizness...

The idiot go tell me say she dey cook Sunday rice ,say her pman no dey allow her comot on Sunday s apart from going to church..
..na so one day like dat i caught her in my street with one manchie walking romantically inside the guys compound..
I echoed her name she turned around and was shuttering with words..I ask her so you dey go out
finishe?7 ...you come dey lie say your pman no dey allow you go out weas you dey gum body with this nigga..

Nia she lie give me say she tell pman say she want go for all night revision for her course mate house cus her 1st semester exam..

I don comot hand for anything wey undergraduate..

Especially poly student. Lol

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Munzy14(m): 10:26pm On Oct 21, 2021
IfeMiLove:
More shower caps?? Does it mean everyone he cheats with forgets their caps or he just loves shower caps?
Rocket science question...grin

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Salako01(m): 10:27pm On Oct 21, 2021
Candidlady:


shush! Its called "hairnet" mr! No come mumu us


Is that the subject miss English teacher grin
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by emmnprince(m): 10:28pm On Oct 21, 2021
UyaiIncomparabl:
When people say their partner cheated on them, I usually cannot relate. I have been with very upright men.

In a nutshell & from your perspective, upright ladies only meet upright men?

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Munzy14(m): 10:30pm On Oct 21, 2021
Morientez:
My ex always gives stupid excuses of not been chanced ,always forming busy with school stuff...she only do come to my shop for food n money...each time i tell her to come over to my place so we could spend the weekend together cus am always busy during weekdays ,because of the nature of my bizness...

The idiot go tell me say she dey cook Sunday rice ,say her pman no dey allow her comot on Sunday s apart from going to church..
..na so one day like dat i caught her in my street with one manchie walking romantically inside the guys compound..
I echoed her name she turned around and was shuttering with words..I ask her so you dey go out
finishe?7 ...you come dey lie say your pman no dey allow you go out weas you dey gum body with this nigga..

Nia she lie give me say she tell pman say she want go for all night revision for her course mate house cus her 1st semester exam..

I don comot hand for anything wey undergraduate..
grin grin

Better for you as you comot hand.

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by YoungLionken(m): 10:30pm On Oct 21, 2021
Old tales cool..

Not in the mood to share no story but, as a man, never be caught unaware cool cool cool

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by emmnprince(m): 10:30pm On Oct 21, 2021
Morientez:



I saw her the other day she was looking haggard n pale ,her hair was unkept but i Careless i no send her again .....she hardly upload her whatsapp status this dayz cause nwa diro zi sharp like those times i dey provide virtually all her needs..

No be crime if you continue to show her love by helping her condition freely with no string attached. Do it as if na your sister or friend you dey help.

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Baruwaaaaa(m): 10:32pm On Oct 21, 2021
Urges is basically hormonal in nature,
woman tend to have more urge during ovulation no matter how holy you are. It is the effect of luteinizing hormone which was initiated by Oestrogen.
phenylalanine:

I disagree with you on this, urges will come even if you avoid things that triggers it, that is how the body (flesh) was designed, is just that the holy spirit helps us to overcome it, pls give relationship another chance, but this time be more careful and don't have too much high expectations... We aren't perfect...

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Longsleeve: 10:32pm On Oct 21, 2021
Mercychen:


I knew someone was going to come up with this line. Reason I said I'm not dumb cos I know it's possible some times to distribute such because I too have worked at federal palace Hotels, so I know. But my ex was a procurement manager!!!
I don't know if I'm making sense though. Plus other things he does that I won't want to mention here.
So he procures ladies? grin

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Burgerlomo: 10:32pm On Oct 21, 2021
This thread doesn't apply to somebody like me but.... grin

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by adisaaowala: 10:33pm On Oct 21, 2021
Mercychen:


[s]What urges?
Do you think women just sit and start having urges? No now.

Urges can only come when you indulge in things that will trigger it. Like sexual materials or contents eg romantic movies and what have you, which one should avoid as a child of God. But when you do away with such things and ask the holy Spirit to help you, nothing like urges anything.

Got that?[/s]

More lies again

But why you dey always lie? sad

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by juwoonn(m): 10:33pm On Oct 21, 2021
Wrong conclusions!
Thank God you left him alone...you’d have been a burden on him with your wrong accusations.
Why didn’t you ask yourself; why are ladies always leaving only their shower caps in his house?
This generation and smart mentality
Mercychen:
When I met him he didn't have his own apartment. He was just fresh out of school. So he was searching for a job.

I used to visit him them at his friends place ( married man). He later got a job in a hotel at Chevron drive but along the line we had a misunderstanding and gave it a break for months.

He called and to me he had gotten an apartment at lekki. that I should come see if I like the place..
I got there and was just playing around and checking his wardrobe when I saw ladies shower caps.
I was like, who owns this? And he said they normally give them at the hotel. Chai!!! This guy can lie for Africa. Like seriously, who gives guys shower caps? So, I told him, you've been camping a lady in this house and he said, "don't start". I just kept quiet because we only just got back together after months.

I later checked his wardrobe again when he stepped out and found more shower caps.

Now, don't call me dumb. I know what I'm saying. That guy was a serial cheat. In fact, that was why I later dumped him and faced my life and God.


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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Salako01(m): 10:34pm On Oct 21, 2021
Gadafii:
most of the girls i have been with, they always the one cheating with me on their main guys.

the only girl i met without boyfriend, i told her if she cheat me on and i find out, i will break her neck cheesy cheesy


Ghadafi grin
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by smk513: 10:34pm On Oct 21, 2021
ok we met at my friends wedding, nice looking girl with an eye of a loyal being, has good aura and charisma, and me knowing fully well that am a patient dog whose partner must be one that
alligns with my kind of person, i went for it and we were good after a 1month of toasting. Fastforward to our relationship, i was a good guy to her, loving, and most importantly caring. I spend money abeg, me sef know sey i never
spend that kind money on any girl since them born me.

At a point in time, she had asked me for her school fees of almost 130k, i declined cos i just replaced her AC worth over 180k, told her sorry to say but am not your dad and im dead broke at this moment, i dont have. Infact i decided to give her a 3weeks space
so I can face my work and hustle to double up. After the 3 weeks we got back, while giving her doggy, I figured there was a change in her anus, looked like something had penetrated there, obviously a diiicck, asked her what happened, she denied saying nothing that it probably is those times
that I use to finger her annuss while giving her doggy that has changed the look, I didnt blv but i knew she had cheated on me.

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by malvisguy212: 10:35pm On Oct 21, 2021
Mercychen:


What urges?
Do you think women just sit and start having urges? No now.

Urges can only come when you indulge in things that will trigger it. Like sexual materials or contents eg romantic movies and what have you, which one should avoid as a child of God. But when you do away with such things and ask the holy Spirit to help you, nothing like urges anything.

Got that?
God listen to the sincere heart, if you abide by what you type, God will bless your home, yes, i say home because he will give you a loving partner that will understand you. just believe

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Nobody: 10:35pm On Oct 21, 2021
emmnprince:


Is he the only one that you assumed cheated on you that made you to give up on me or after him, other men cheated on you before you finally called it a day while you await the trumpet to sound?

My giving up on men was not because anyone cheated on me. It was a natural occurrence. I just suddenly started loosing interest. Maybe because of what has become of marriages today where people just dash in and dash out at will without any regards for the once sacred union.

seyz91:
I'm not advocating for him but if you left him cuz of the shower caps you saw in his wardrobe, not good enough
Thet actually give out the caps in Hotel for those that works in the kitchen area mostly
have other reasons that I do not wish to mention here. He's a big cheat.

folks4luv:
Lol. It's like saying you won't get hungry if you don't think about food. Not the same for all women, but it's natural to have urges that are not triggered by anything sexual. There are some days in the month that the body wants sex, ovulation day(s) and pre-menstruation are examples. Of course the urges will be dealt with. It is however a misconception that women don't have urges unless triggered.

Mmm... You're right about that time of the month but it's not something that will drive you crazy to the point you want to do it at all cost. Unless like you said, our body systems are different.

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by seguno2: 10:36pm On Oct 21, 2021
dragnet001:

You've probably never worked in a hotel. They do give shower caps, especially in the production department.

Reproduction department grin

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Salako01(m): 10:37pm On Oct 21, 2021
Morientez:
My ex always gives stupid excuses of not been chanced ,always forming busy with school stuff...she only do come to my shop for food n money...each time i tell her to come over to my place so we could spend the weekend together cus am always busy during weekdays ,because of the nature of my bizness...

The idiot go tell me say she dey cook Sunday rice ,say her pman no dey allow her comot on Sunday s apart from going to church..
..na so one day like dat i caught her in my street with one manchie walking romantically inside the guys compound..
I echoed her name she turned around and was shuttering with words..I ask her so you dey go out
finishe?7 ...you come dey lie say your pman no dey allow you go out weas you dey gum body with this nigga..

Nia she lie give me say she tell pman say she want go for all night revision for her course mate house cus her 1st semester exam..

I don comot hand for anything wey undergraduate..


grin grin
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Iamvetlander(m): 10:37pm On Oct 21, 2021
smk513:
ok we met at my friends wedding, nice looking girl with an eye of a loyal being, has good aura and charisma, and me knowing fully well that am a patient dog whose partner must be one that
alligns with my kind of person, i went for it and we were good after a 1month of toasting. Fastforward to our relationship, i was a good guy to her, loving, and most importantly caring. I spend money abeg, me sef know sey i never
spend that kind money on any girl since them born me.

At a point in time, she had asked me for her school fees of almost 130k, i declined cos i just replaced her AC worth over 180k, told her sorry to say but am not your dad and im dead broke at this moment, i dont have. Infact i decided to give her a 3weeks space
so I can face my work and hustle to double up. After the 3 weeks we got back, while giving her doggy, I figured there was a change in her anus, looked like something had penetrated there, obviously a diiicck, asked her what happened, she denied saying nothing that it probably is those times
that I use to finger her annuss while giving her doggy that has changed the look, I didnt blv but i knew she had cheated on me.



Omo nah wa for the two of una oo

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Nobody: 10:38pm On Oct 21, 2021
malvisguy212:
God listen to the sincere heart, if you abide by what you type, God will bless your home, yes, i say home because he will give you a loving partner that will understand you. just believe

Amen.
God bless you, bro.

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by emmnprince(m): 10:40pm On Oct 21, 2021
Wannabenz:

You don't have to give up on men now, can I see your pic maybe we can continue or I finish you kpatakpata. You be Igbo?

You want to finish her kpatakpata.

You go like MK3 that year!

Noob Saibot about to finish Mileena grin

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Salako01(m): 10:42pm On Oct 21, 2021
Ruke1989:


Well, I like your scientific mind. Want to connect with you if you don't mind.


Lol, person say she no wan relationship, you still wan go connect. Oshey USB charger grin grin. Connector. So, you wish to add to that stress she has been running from grin grin grin

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Icon79(m): 10:42pm On Oct 21, 2021
When I visited her apartment and realized that someone has been using the guest bathroom. I smelled the used sponge and it’s got male odor all over. Since she was still quite new in that city, I asked her if any guests has ever been to her apartment, she denied it but I’ve got everything I needed.

The only thing I can say is: Woe-men.


O pari

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