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Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by Kobojoe: 10:38am On Oct 25, 2021
Stockholm

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Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by Nobody: 10:38am On Oct 25, 2021
Women don't know what they want

Confused lot

Treat them like angels and worship them
They will call u simp
And shlt on you

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Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by ceejay80s(m): 10:38am On Oct 25, 2021
check on line for 'rebound relationships', same happened to me back then, and i thought i had her, before i could say jack....she don go back to her Ex ....go online and google rebound relationship, if a girl tells u that shes not with her Ex anymore but still thinks of him or receives his calls etc, just run for ur life before she finish u, she will definitely go back to her Ex, go online and search for signs of a rebound relationship and when u see those signs in ur so called lover....dont have second thought, just run for peace sake or u will fall to pieces in heart break, thank God i am happily married now in peace.

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Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by makavelli47(m): 10:38am On Oct 25, 2021
Her loss � your gain

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Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by Ekugbeh(m): 10:39am On Oct 25, 2021
Ehen nau.... She go remove others teeth nau
Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by GoldenJAT(m): 10:39am On Oct 25, 2021
Heyeg
Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by dododawa1: 10:39am On Oct 25, 2021
What God has join together,let no man put asunder

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Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by Grandmeister(m): 10:39am On Oct 25, 2021
depato88:
Majority of them are confused beings...if this story is true dont worry she will learn the hard way and will come back begging...Never you look back for your own good
The story is true and I don't even know the Op. She went back because the abusive ex has more money to flaunt. They will lower their standards and all that "God fearing caring man" bullshyt when a man with deeper pockets shows up. And then turn around and call men scum and Cheats.

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Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by KingGBsky(m): 10:39am On Oct 25, 2021
Iyaebe:
She has been hypnotized, that's all.

Far from it. Most women get used to it and get bored with a man who doesn’t hit them.

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Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by UselessBuharist: 10:39am On Oct 25, 2021
Why are you giving yourself headache over a person that is destined to die in the hands of a man

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Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by tunary(m): 10:40am On Oct 25, 2021
She may die in his hand
Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by Mom007(f): 10:40am On Oct 25, 2021
Gadafii:
Treat a girl like an egg, she will see you like u are weak, silly and not man enough.

Rough her up, she will stick to you like fun

Women are wired in a very weird way, their cruise madddd gaan

But op, hope say u collect your three points before she went back to her nemesis grin

This, of course is a fallacy of hasty generalization. Women may be a complicated species, but we generally don't enjoy getting "roughed up"!

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Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by abobote: 10:40am On Oct 25, 2021
Don't underrate the power of Dickson

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Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by Xscape1993(m): 10:40am On Oct 25, 2021
22o62021:
We bonded so well together, she is an NYSC member. She told me that she has a boyfriend but she has called off their relationship because the guy has beaten her twice. The first time , the guy did it in front of his mother to the extent that she lost a tooth. And spent days in the hospital

The second time the guy slapped her because she told him that he comes home late.
She said the guy is a serial cheat, she has caught him on different occasions.

They dated for 6 years. But the guy will not accept the break up. Their families knows each other.

I have her the love she deserved, pampered her so well. I told her that I know she will go back to the guy one day, she said nooo I can’t do that.

One week after I said that to her. The guy was calling and pleading. She stopped picking my calls. I stopped calling her.

I sent her a text to know what is going on. She said it’s not what I think.

I said fine. I deleted her numbers and move on.

This is to say that most girls are confused.
I think they prefer abusive men but on the internet They rebuke them.
Congratulations to her!
Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by SeriouslySense(m): 10:40am On Oct 25, 2021
Sai gobe cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by seyz91(m): 10:41am On Oct 25, 2021
cheesy once a dick and pussy always a dick and pussy especially when it's just an incubent partner

majority of naija girls are mumu

leave and forget her to go meet her waterloo

you shouldn't be too early to give her the 'girlfriend" title

the thread topic should just be, my new Pussy has left to meet her old dick wey remove her teeth grin
cheesy
22o62021:
We bonded so well together, she is an NYSC member. She told me that she has a boyfriend but she has called off their relationship because the guy has beaten her twice. The first time , the guy did it in front of his mother to the extent that she lost a tooth. And spent days in the hospital

The second time the guy slapped her because she told him that he comes home late.
She said the guy is a serial cheat, she has caught him on different occasions.

They dated for 6 years. But the guy will not accept the break up. Their families knows each other.

I have her the love she deserved, pampered her so well. I told her that I know she will go back to the guy one day, she said nooo I can’t do that.

One week after I said that to her. The guy was calling and pleading. She stopped picking my calls. I stopped calling her.

I sent her a text to know what is going on. She said it’s not what I think.

I said fine. I deleted her numbers and move on.

This is to say that most girls are confused.
I think they prefer abusive men but on the internet They rebuke them.

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Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by Ladylawyer(f): 10:41am On Oct 25, 2021
The guy's dick game must be applauded.

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Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by LordPsalm(m): 10:41am On Oct 25, 2021
He Only removed her tooth���
He may likely be giving her more money or multiple Orgasm.
Who knows�‍♂️�‍♂️�‍♂️
Fear that gender

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Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by nairabacks(f): 10:41am On Oct 25, 2021
She was never your girlfriend

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Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by Farfalla(f): 10:41am On Oct 25, 2021
If you come across a mentally unhealthy person, male or female, run.

Don't bother trying to fix them.

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Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by Grandmeister(m): 10:42am On Oct 25, 2021
Ladylawyer:
The guy's dick game must be applauded.
It is not his dick game. You know it and I know it...

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Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by Ladylawyer(f): 10:42am On Oct 25, 2021
Grandmeister:

The story is true and I don't even know the Op. She went back because the abusive ex has more money to flaunt. They will lower their standards and all that "God fearing caring man" bullshyt when a man with deeper pockets shows up. And then turn around and call men scum and Cheats.
This is not money, this is the effect of a curved dick.

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Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by Newyorkitis(m): 10:42am On Oct 25, 2021
The family of the girl is to blame.
Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by goodheart02(m): 10:42am On Oct 25, 2021
MajesticKris:
True.. i have a friend who said she cant date a guy, who cant correct her whenever she does, something wrong with Correct Beating....

She actually loves guy's who Do that to Her...

Still in shock RN lipsrsealed

It's another dimension of Stockholm Syndrome. But I think this one is Stockholm Syndrome Pro Max

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Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by Edge1(m): 10:42am On Oct 25, 2021
I can't agree less. Scroll down this front page, one of them is about to get married to a man who has been beating her.


Women though

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Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by suffering: 10:43am On Oct 25, 2021
Good. Find a new girlfriend. Oh wait, this is one of those bot accounts Seun is testing out. How Nairaland has fallen.

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Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by arantess: 10:43am On Oct 25, 2021
22o62021:
We bonded so well together, she is an NYSC member. She told me that she has a boyfriend but she has called off their relationship because the guy has beaten her twice. The first time , the guy did it in front of his mother to the extent that she lost a tooth. And spent days in the hospital

The second time the guy slapped her because she told him that he comes home late.
She said the guy is a serial cheat, she has caught him on different occasions.

They dated for 6 years. But the guy will not accept the break up. Their families knows each other.

I have her the love she deserved, pampered her so well. I told her that I know she will go back to the guy one day, she said nooo I can’t do that.

One week after I said that to her. The guy was calling and pleading. She stopped picking my calls. I stopped calling her.

I sent her a text to know what is going on. She said it’s not what I think.

I said fine. I deleted her numbers and move on.

This is to say that most girls are confused.
I think they prefer abusive men but on the internet They rebuke them.
tomorrow when she fix wedding date, she will come and ask nairaland wether to carry on or not

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Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by Pussywar(f): 10:43am On Oct 25, 2021
22o62021:
We bonded so well together, she is an NYSC member. She told me that she has a boyfriend but she has called off their relationship because the guy has beaten her twice. The first time , the guy did it in front of his mother to the extent that she lost a tooth. And spent days in the hospital

The second time the guy slapped her because she told him that he comes home late.
She said the guy is a serial cheat, she has caught him on different occasions.

They dated for 6 years. But the guy will not accept the break up. Their families knows each other.

I have her the love she deserved, pampered her so well. I told her that I know she will go back to the guy one day, she said nooo I can’t do that.

One week after I said that to her. The guy was calling and pleading. She stopped picking my calls. I stopped calling her.

I sent her a text to know what is going on. She said it’s not what I think.

I said fine. I deleted her numbers and move on.

This is to say that most girls are confused.
I think they prefer abusive men but on the internet They rebuke them.

To say that people prefer abusive people is a reach, but I’ll take it you’re speaking from a place of hurt.

There’s something called manipulation. When you’ve been with manipulative people, you’d eventually be convincing yourself that you deserve whatever they did to you. She might also think that she can change him, which is very silly. 6 years is along time. A bond has probably been formed and it’s not easy to break it. Tbh it’s up to her to decide what she wants to do with him, and it’s up to you to decide if you still want to be there for her or not.

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Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by Ladylawyer(f): 10:44am On Oct 25, 2021
Grandmeister:

It is not his dick game. You know it and I know it...
Lol...well you may be correct
Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by einsteine(m): 10:44am On Oct 25, 2021
There are certain women who prefer to date people who beat them. They will never admit it, infact they would disagree with you but when you analyze their lives, you will see that the men they have been with have had that strain of hot temper that makes the man beat them and then Phuck them thereafter.

When you as a normal human being try to date them, you will register in the back of their mind as a weakling.

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Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by JoseRaji(m): 10:44am On Oct 25, 2021
22o62021:
We bonded so well together, she is an NYSC member. She told me that she has a boyfriend but she has called off their relationship because the guy has beaten her twice. The first time , the guy did it in front of his mother to the extent that she lost a tooth. And spent days in the hospital

The second time the guy slapped her because she told him that he comes home late.
She said the guy is a serial cheat, she has caught him on different occasions.

They dated for 6 years. But the guy will not accept the break up. Their families knows each other.

I have her the love she deserved, pampered her so well. I told her that I know she will go back to the guy one day, she said nooo I can’t do that.

One week after I said that to her. The guy was calling and pleading. She stopped picking my calls. I stopped calling her.

I sent her a text to know what is going on. She said it’s not what I think.

I said fine. I deleted her numbers and move on.

This is to say that most girls are confused.
I think they prefer abusive men but on the internet They rebuke them.

You spend your whole time narrating your bitter experience with one person, then conclude your write up with "most girls".
If you like, continue going after broken girls... This story will replay itself.

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