Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/6821339/girlfriend-pregnant-please-me-im

And there was a voice, and he said to me; you're about to become a daddy.. And i said to him, i my really ready for this?

*What do i know about being a dad?
*Don't even know the duties of a dad,
*Don't even know the responsibilities of a dad,

I told him i've lost everything i had,
& he told me, what ever will be will be.
I told him, you are wrong, how true is that statement, when what would have been, has now seized to be.

Does one have to wake up every moning suffering?
i wish i could turn back the hands of time, it seems like someone is sitting down on me.

And now, i had to enter my room through the windows. Repeating one song over & over again.

i can't even eat nor drink water now, & i'm very hungry.
I've tried to read some funny stories on nairaland if it could put that litle smile on me, but it did not.

where can i start from here, how can i prepare for my mistakes, how can i avoid that wrong decison? It really got me down, and there is no one to take me back up.

*this is my song*
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........!

nairaland we always be my happy family, joined this great family since 2011, even if i had to lost my old account, i refused to be a guest on nairaland..
thanks to the moderators of this forum, to lalastic.lala and to all whom i may not mention..

and now, i'll have to spend the rest of my life alone!

Just read this guy previous post and find out he is probably thinking of killing himself.. You dont have to do that, you got someone pregnant is not the end of the world for you.. Be strong bro

Easylion3569:
nairaland we always be my happy family, joined this great family since 2011, even if i had to lost my old account, i refused to be a guest on nairaland..
thanks to the moderators of this forum, to lalasticlala and to all whom i may not mention..

and now, i'll have to spend the rest of my life alone!

Dont try to do that thing in you mind now, u just have to accept your fate.. Is not had to be a father..

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Good

Ok

Easylion3569:
Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/6821339/girlfriend-pregnant-please-me-im

And there was a voice, and he said to me; you're about to become a daddy.. And i said to him, i my really ready for this?

*What do i know about being a dad?
*Don't even know the duties of a dad,
*Don't even know the responsibilities of a dad,

I told him i've lost everything i had,
& he told me, what ever will be will be.
I told him, you are wrong, how true is that statement, when what would have been, has now seized to be.

Does one have to wake up every moning suffering?
i wish i could turn back the hands of time, it seems like someone is sitting down on me.

And now, i had to enter my room through the windows. Repeating one song over & over again.

i can't even eat nor drink water now, & i'm very hungry.
I've tried to read some funny stories on nairaland if it could put that litle smile on me, but it did not.

where can i start from here, how can i prepare for my mistakes, how can i avoid that wrong decison? It really got me down, and there is no one to take me back up.

*this is my song*
.
.
.
........!

No be you be this? When the knacking turn belle why u come dey cry?
Pregnancy na your mate
If skin No Full Don't put body
Olorun AWA PELU E

Hmmm

Better

.. Sorry my dear I didn't comment on your previous thread because I felt you now have all the advice you need. But let me put it clear to you, I think it would really be of your best interest to let your parents know.. The worst that would happen is that the get disappointed and angry with you. But then you have done your part. Staying far away won't help matters because some day some how the truth will surface and by then it maybe too late for any amendments. Parenting is not an easy job it is a full time work, so you need all the support now. Who knows that Child might open doors of blessings for you, some rich person may decide to sponsor you and connect you to greater heights. So in all don't lose hope. Everything happens for a reason.

Easylion3569:
Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/6821339/girlfriend-pregnant-please-me-im

And there was a voice, and he said to me; you're about to become a daddy.. And i said to him, i my really ready for this?

*What do i know about being a dad?
*Don't even know the duties of a dad,
*Don't even know the responsibilities of a dad,

I told him i've lost everything i had,
& he told me, what ever will be will be.
I told him, you are wrong, how true is that statement, when what would have been, has now seized to be.

Does one have to wake up every moning suffering?
i wish i could turn back the hands of time, it seems like someone is sitting down on me.

And now, i had to enter my room through the windows. Repeating one song over & over again.

i can't even eat nor drink water now, & i'm very hungry.
I've tried to read some funny stories on nairaland if it could put that litle smile on me, but it did not.

where can i start from here, how can i prepare for my mistakes, how can i avoid that wrong decison? It really got me down, and there is no one to take me back up.

*this is my song*
.
.
.
........!

You chicken liver boy. When you were busy humping away on the girl, you never thought cos you were too engrossed and konjified to think straight. Now you're about losing your mind because of one silly choice you made because of 5mins enjoyment. Better not do any silly or stupid thing, if it's suicide or trying to run away from your responsibility thats on your mind, I'd tell you to drop such from your mindset.


Better brace up, accept that you Fćűkěd up and accept the responsibilities of taking car of the lady you put in family way, and that unborn child.

Also, at this point, I'd suggest you take up some jobs to start saving up for the huge expenses coming your way.

By the way, is the lady's family and your family aware of the situation and what's on your mind regarding the future of the lady, yours and the baby?

Think twice before you take any decision that you'd live to regret...

I come in peace!

Nigga!

U are not ready but u are re idi

Allowing the little man down there to decide your future

Hmmm op no body holy pass, but don't do anything stupid to yourself, in this life, problem no dey ever Finnish, u should just know that, even me that is advising you had made terrible mistakes and choices in the past, I have taken wrong turns and made wrong moves but at the end of it all, it is making me the better man I am becoming each passing day, believe me, I have been in more critical situation than this one, story for another day, but take one step at a time, clear your head of silly thought, take a deep breath, eat and have a cool shower, go out and hustle and prepare for the best and it will turn out in testimony, God can only help u when you are already making a move.

My 10 cent

Lol
Guy humans are hypocrites, the earlier you realize the better for you..
99.9% of the people advising u against abortion here have done it in one way or another ..
Una think say giving a girl postinor is holy?
See let me be blunt ..if you are not mentally and financially ready to take care of that kid do the needful, no come bring person into this world to suffer ..
Those of you that will quote me have done and will do worse..

*What do i know about being a dad?
*Don't even know the duties of a dad,
*Don't even know the responsibilities of a dad,

You didn't know all this but you knew how to enter the place. Some people learn the hard way.

Dude, stay strong. This will soon pass, just try your best to be there for your child and it's mom.

Listen to someone who is in your shoe, don't do anything foolish, one step at a time and you will be alright.

Bro, Let me tell you something, they're many things I'd love to type here, but for my personal reasons, I can't type them here as this place is an open place. I'll love to talk to you on phone or have a private chat with you on any social platform

A lot of people have been in your shoes, don't even try to take your own life for something you know you would have prevented if you used a condom, Though your previous post about this, a lot of Nairalanders mocked and made fun of you, it takes the grace of GOD to understand your situation, a lot of people just don't know how to talk to people they barely know, because they've been doing theirs without getting a girl pregnant that's why they're mocking you as if they're perfect!!

You shouldn't mind them, if you've chosen not to abort the baby, you should just try and save some money, don't let this make you drop out of school or do something stupid, it's not worth it, it will only make life worst for you, embrace what's coming, You've chosen to be a father now, you have to take that responsibility as if your life depends on it, The little kid you're about to bring to this world knew nothing about what you did, if he/she had know you won't be able to take that fatherly responsibility, he/she would have tried to stop it, but the poor kid has no idea of what you did, Cheer up! It's nothing to fear, just save some money to buy pampers and all of that, Nigeria sef can't help you, everything is costly now, you have to be a man you have Choosen to be by this fatherhood step you took.

Even this Cristiano Ronaldo, Yes! The Footballer, His mom wanted to abort him but the doctor that was supposed to do the abortion told her not to do it anymore, now is Ronaldo not a blessing to her ??


I really want to talk to you, I want to help you financially etc, if that can give you small hope. Most kids you see today are from mistakes like this too, if you trace the father or mother through the kid you'll see they're happy and living their lives..

Please don't take your life, Pleeeeeease!

Instead of you to go and look for bricklayer work,u are here try to sound poetic and enlightened...what badadash

Easylion3569:
nairaland we always be my happy family, joined this great family since 2011, even if i had to lost my old account, i refused to be a guest on nairaland..
thanks to the moderators of this forum, to lalastic.lala and to all whom i may not mention..

and now, i'll have to spend the rest of my life alone!

You don’t type like someone that is thinking clearly. I read your other thread about having difficulty breathing during sex. I don’t know if you fixed that problem but there are many issues you can get without adequate oxygen to your brain.

Try to meditate, and really focus on breathing while meditating, it will clear your mind.

You have a baby not HIV AIDS

Easylion3569:
Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/6821339/girlfriend-pregnant-please-me-im

And there was a voice, and he said to me; you're about to become a daddy.. And i said to him, i my really ready for this?

*What do i know about being a dad?
*Don't even know the duties of a dad,
*Don't even know the responsibilities of a dad,

I told him i've lost everything i had,
& he told me, what ever will be will be.
I told him, you are wrong, how true is that statement, when what would have been, has now seized to be.

Does one have to wake up every moning suffering?
i wish i could turn back the hands of time, it seems like someone is sitting down on me.

And now, i had to enter my room through the windows. Repeating one song over & over again.

i can't even eat nor drink water now, & i'm very hungry.
I've tried to read some funny stories on nairaland if it could put that litle smile on me, but it did not.

where can i start from here, how can i prepare for my mistakes, how can i avoid that wrong decison? It really got me down, and there is no one to take me back up.

*this is my song*
.
.
.
........!

I'm currently a 7 months dad to the most beautiful girl I have ever seen. Her name is Paris.

The first 3 months were the tough months because she was an alarm clock at a particular hour of the night mostly around 2/3am ... From that time till almost daybreak it's straight up vigilante work.

But after the 3 months, she starts sleeping like us and it was a case of who would wake up from bed firstly.

The first 6 months was exclusive breast feeding, I only bough clothes and pampers, NO feed.

It's not as hard as it seems. If you love your child, everything will be easy sacrifice.



Good luck.

omo make i tell you my stroy

about 6 weeks ago, my babe visited me, we were together for a full week

i know we are definitely goin to sin, so i got protection and put them in my fridge, but i didnt get to use past one, for obvious reason

first night we sinned, but i was able to pull out, before the volcanic eruption

at some point, i wasnt able to pull out and everything went inside, we were both worried about that

she advised i got post pill immediately, she used it

even tho i wasnt okay with pills as they would have negative effect later(it eventually delayed her period )


long story short, we sinned more and the volcano erupted inside the cave couple of more times, we had to resort to the same post pills

few weeks later, she started compalining about some pregnancy symptoms, omo my liver cut ones

i didnt show it to her tho, i took it upon me to reassure her shes good, that it was just her mind playing tricks on her, she had doubts if the pills work, cos at some point, she took it later than normal.

she went to a clinic to complain with the symptoms , the first question they asked her was if there was any possibility she was pregnant(that is, if she made love without protection )

she started loosing sleeps, complaining of her stomach getting bigger, she couldn't poop for days and all other symptoms, so i directed her to get pregnancy test strip, the result came back negative, but she was still not at rest, saying "what if the baby is hiding?"

every day she complains of one symptom or the other, she was visibly shaken, even tho she has graduated and waiting to serve, we couldnt afford pregnancy now, i gave her all the emotional support and she needed, while my head was on overd rive on what to do if she eventually takes in, somehow i wasnt scared if she gets pregnant cos i will gladly settle down with her, thats if her parents no shoot me shaa

so while trying to douse the tension , we started discussing baby names, lmao..it wasnt funny but that was funny, she came up with different names, while i did same.

while all of these was going on, we were waiting for her period to come, i think i mentoned that in a thread some days back

we concluded we would run a proper pregnancy test if her period is a week delayed. last week she had it all time worse, saying she was sure she was pregnant, she was all moody and disturbed, but me i no fear, i made up my mind i will take responsibility for my action, when i was diving nigga raw, i enjoyed it, so this is the fruit of my action, so we move

but she was worried her parents will be disappointed in her. her period was supposed to start las week monday, but she no see.

on friday she told me she hasnt still seen the period, i told her we will go for test by monday, asked her to come around by saturday

brethren, her period came on saturday morning, the joy was beyond me, she was super happy and joyous.

that was a close shave and we immediately concluded no show till further notice, that was a very challenging period of my life so no more sex for now

You're young, broke and probably jobless but you decide that having a girlfriend is your main priority in life and pre marital sex without proper protection is what you enjoy. Do stupid stuff and win stupid prizes. Now you'd birth an innocent life into a cycle of hardship he/she didn't ask for, all because of a few minutes of enjoyment.