tonididdy:


I'm currently a 7 months dad to the most beautiful girl I have ever seen. Her name is Paris.

The first 3 months were the tough months because she was an alarm clock at a particular hour of the night mostly around 2/3am ... From that time till almost daybreak it's straight up vigilante work.

But after the 3 months, she starts sleeping like us and it was a case of who would wake up from bed firstly.

The first 6 months was exclusive breast feeding, I only bough clothes and pampers, NO feed.

It's not as hard as it seems. If you love your child, everything will be easy sacrifice.

Good luck.

TheManOfTheYear:
Some of you people can behave foolishly though, this is not the thread to start castigating and mocking him, you could have done that in the initial thread.

All you hypocrites, acting like you don't have sex. You're just lucky not to be in his situation, so if you can't encourage him or give him proper advice, then geddifok.

I don tire for all these nairaland dumbos, thinking everything is about mockery and cruise. If you're aren't contributing anything to his table (advice or money), then silence should be your offering.

It's a beautiful Wednesday morning, I no wan vex abeg

BSsniffer:
You're young, broke and probably jobless but you decide that having a girlfriend is your main priority in life and pre marital sex without proper protection is what you enjoy. Do stupid stuff and win stupid prizes. Now you'd birth an innocent life into a cycle of hardship he/she didn't ask for, all because of a few minutes of enjoyment.

Easylion3569:
Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/6821339/girlfriend-pregnant-please-me-im

And there was a voice, and he said to me; you're about to become a daddy.. And i said to him, i my really ready for this?

*What do i know about being a dad?
*Don't even know the duties of a dad,
*Don't even know the responsibilities of a dad,

I told him i've lost everything i had,
& he told me, what ever will be will be.
I told him, you are wrong, how true is that statement, when what would have been, has now seized to be.

Does one have to wake up every moning suffering?
i wish i could turn back the hands of time, it seems like someone is sitting down on me.

And now, i had to enter my room through the windows. Repeating one song over & over again.

i can't even eat nor drink water now, & i'm very hungry.
I've tried to read some funny stories on nairaland if it could put that litle smile on me, but it did not.

where can i start from here, how can i prepare for my mistakes, how can i avoid that wrong decison? It really got me down, and there is no one to take me back up.

*this is my song*
.
.
.
........!

Easylion3569:
nairaland we always be my happy family, joined this great family since 2011, even if i had to lost my old account, i refused to be a guest on nairaland..
thanks to the moderators of this forum, to lalastic.lala and to all whom i may not mention..

and now, i'll have to spend the rest of my life alone!

Notyourtype:
Just read this guy previous post and find out he is probably thinking of killing himself.. You dont have to do that, you got someone pregnant is not the end of the world for you.. Be strong bro

Luby913:
do stupid stuff and win stupid prizes nice quote
Bt something tells me that op is about to abandon that girl and the innocent child to runaway

Easylion3569:
nairaland we always be my happy family, joined this great family since 2011, even if i had to lost my old account, i refused to be a guest on nairaland..
thanks to the moderators of this forum, to lalastic.lala and to all whom i may not mention..

and now, i'll have to spend the rest of my life alone!

BSsniffer:
You're young, broke and probably jobless but you decide that having a girlfriend is your main priority in life and pre marital sex without proper protection is what you enjoy. Do stupid stuff and win stupid prizes. Now you'd birth an innocent life into a cycle of hardship he/she didn't ask for, all because of a few minutes of enjoyment.

Easylion3569:
Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/6821339/girlfriend-pregnant-please-me-im

And there was a voice, and he said to me; you're about to become a daddy.. And i said to him, i my really ready for this?

*What do i know about being a dad?
*Don't even know the duties of a dad,
*Don't even know the responsibilities of a dad,

I told him i've lost everything i had,
& he told me, what ever will be will be.
I told him, you are wrong, how true is that statement, when what would have been, has now seized to be.

Does one have to wake up every moning suffering?
i wish i could turn back the hands of time, it seems like someone is sitting down on me.

And now, i had to enter my room through the windows. Repeating one song over & over again.

i can't even eat nor drink water now, & i'm very hungry.
I've tried to read some funny stories on nairaland if it could put that litle smile on me, but it did not.

where can i start from here, how can i prepare for my mistakes, how can i avoid that wrong decison? It really got me down, and there is no one to take me back up.

*this is my song*
.
.
.
........!

dominique:
If self-centered was a person it would be this silly op. Not once has he spoken about what the pregnant girl, it's all about me me me. You're not the one who will go through the discomfort of pregnancy, it is not you who will face the shame or stigma of being pregnant out of wedlock but you're here weeping and crying for sympathy like a pesky wimp. If you decide to be a deadbeat dad and abandon your girlfriend to look after the child alone, nobody will arrest you. Don't worry, the child will grow up one day and look for you. Just go the deadbeat route and stop disturbing us.

Who knows if this whole pregnancy brouhaha to solicit for funds (some people are already considering sending him money). You can never know with this shady Nigerians

Gadafii:
omo make i tell you my stroy

about 6 weeks ago, my babe visited me, we were together for a full week

i know we are definitely goin to sin, so i got protection and put them in my fridge, but i didnt get to use past one, for obvious reason

first night we sinned, but i was able to pull out, before the volcanic eruption

at some point, i wasnt able to pull out and everything went inside, we were both worried about that

she advised i got post pill immediately, she used it

even tho i wasnt okay with pills as they would have negative effect later(it eventually delayed her period )


long story short, we sinned more and the volcano erupted inside the cave couple of more times, we had to resort to the same post pills

few weeks later, she started compalining about some pregnancy symptoms, omo my liver cut ones

i didnt show it to her tho, i took it upon me to reassure her shes good, that it was just her mind playing tricks on her, she had doubts if the pills work, cos at some point, she took it later than normal.

she went to a clinic to complain with the symptoms , the first question they asked her was if there was any possibility she was pregnant(that is, if she made love without protection )

she started loosing sleeps, complaining of her stomach getting bigger, she couldn't poop for days and all other symptoms, so i directed her to get pregnancy test strip, the result came back negative, but she was still not at rest, saying "what if the baby is hiding?"

every day she complains of one symptom or the other, she was visibly shaken, even tho she has graduated and waiting to serve, we couldnt afford pregnancy now, i gave her all the emotional support and she needed, while my head was on overd rive on what to do if she eventually takes in, somehow i wasnt scared if she gets pregnant cos i will gladly settle down with her, thats if her parents no shoot me shaa

so while trying to douse the tension , we started discussing baby names, lmao..it wasnt funny but that was funny, she came up with different names, while i did same.

while all of these was going on, we were waiting for her period to come, i think i mentoned that in a thread some days back

we concluded we would run a proper pregnancy test if her period is a week delayed. last week she had it all time worse, saying she was sure she was pregnant, she was all moody and disturbed, but me i no fear, i made up my mind i will take responsibility for my action, when i was diving nigga raw, i enjoyed it, so this is the fruit of my action, so we move

but she was worried her parents will be disappointed in her. her period was supposed to start las week monday, but she no see.

on friday she told me she hasnt still seen the period, i told her we will go for test by monday, asked her to come around by saturday

brethren, her period came on saturday morning, the joy was beyond me, she was super happy and joyous.

that was a close shave and we immediately concluded no show till further notice, that was a very challenging period of my life so no more sex for now

Cokahot:
U would end up frustrated,u might become an armed robber. U see i always tell u fools to drink less coke and take bitters more. I blow my gal for one good year and I only came abt couple of times. Trust me ,I came outside. But fools like u have just ended your life and added more burden to your life. Hahahahahaahaa
Hahahahahahahahahaha. U will die a miserable death. Time to provide for that baby till r.i.p. school fees,feeding,clothing,shelter,hahahahahahahahaha

sweerychick:
.. Sorry my dear I didn't comment on your previous thread because I felt you now have all the advice you need. But let me put it clear to you, I think it would really be of your best interest to let your parents know.. The worst that would happen is that the get disappointed and angry with you. But then you have done your part. Staying far away won't help matters because some day some how the truth will surface and by then it maybe too late for any amendments. Parenting is not an easy job it is a full time work, so you need all the support now. Who knows that Child might open doors of blessings for you, some rich person may decide to sponsor you and connect you to greater heights. So in all don't lose hope. Everything happens for a reason.