FashionCookie:

God forbid.
The ma way no pure. He's even married in Dubai. For tge current have mind Now, she don see better husband.
Tufie!

airsaylongcome:


What does the bold text mean?

lilvicky68:

She can be his Nigerian wife na

advanceDNA:


loose babes
wayward girls
easy to straff babes
girls with high body counts and several abortions
olosho wey the form saint..
babes wey no see sex as anything...na who dey near dey enter the place...

Collysmith:
If i insisted for her to be pregnant before marriage I wouldn't be suffering right now. I don't even know what to do whether to marry another wife because adoption is not in my plan.

airsaylongcome:


Are these bad attributes? What are men with these attributes called?

Collysmith:
If i insisted for her to be pregnant before marriage I wouldn't be suffering right now. I don't even know what to do whether to marry another wife because adoption is not in my plan.

Evercurious:


Why such conclusion? I think you migbt be wrong.

Evercurious:


Lol... I once did this but requested for N10m and the guy disappeared

TheOnlyUyai:
Better dump him and never look back.

All these men wey never ready for marriage. Ask him to tell you if it's a baby he wants or you.

Nwachi22:


I opened this thread for my fellow ladies to learn from this experience.
Most ladies hop into bed with a guy in a bid to get married without due diligence. The guy is married to a lady that lives in Dubai. He kept that part away from me.

Nwachi22:
Why do guys always insist that a lady gets pregnant before marriage.

Two months ago, I met a guy through a friend of mine who was looking for a wife. The guy insisted that I must take in before he goes to see my parents.

The guys is doing very well in business (importation). I wasn’t comfortable with that idea so I told him to give me sometime to think about his proposal and revert to him, despite the pressure from my family to settle down.

Just found out last week that a lady is two months pregnant for him. You see how I would have messed up my life and career if I had hopped into bed with him two months ago.

Nwachi22:
Why do guys always insist that a lady gets pregnant before marriage.

Two months ago, I met a guy through a friend of mine who was looking for a wife. The guy insisted that I must take in before he goes to see my parents.

The guys is doing very well in business (importation). I wasn’t comfortable with that idea so I told him to give me sometime to think about his proposal and revert to him, despite the pressure from my family to settle down.

Just found out last week that a lady is two months pregnant for him. You see how I would have messed up my life and career if I had hopped into bed with him two months ago.

advanceDNA:


wayward men
loose men
useless men
community pen!s...


please dont form woke with me....im not one of those that agree with the idea of jumping from one sexual partner to another, whether you are a man or a woman..

airsaylongcome:


Naaaah, it's not about being woke. I was honestly trying to find out if there was a slang in Yoruba for these kinds of men. Maybe "se oko balabala"

Collysmith:
If i insisted for her to be pregnant before marriage I wouldn't be suffering right now. I don't even know what to do whether to marry another wife because adoption is not in my plan.

1Sharon:


There's a better way to determine if a woman is fertile for Christ sake. You can both go for medical check ups together.

advanceDNA:


You are even yoruba...And you are asking me what shedi balabala means??..respect your self oooo

Lastmankc:
Poor man preek no suppose stand

airsaylongcome:


I'm not. I understand bits and pieces and can infer meanings. balabala however is a slang I have no idea what it means

dominique:
"take in before I marry you" is the why we have a lot of single mothers around. Rather than our hypocritical no boys to be happy that our society will have one less single mother, they're mocking the op for passing over the opportunity to become the latest single mother in town. Is your confusion not confusing you people laidis , why are you so bummed that she refused to be a single mother whom you people love to bash like your existence depends on bashing them?

Saintmary:
I will drop my opinion regardless of the negative responses you've gotten.


You. Did. The. Right. Thing. Period.

I don't care about the morality, my concern is that you should have a child when YOU are ready. Not when a man pressures you into it.

Not to mention a stranger you met two months ago.

Let biological clock continue ticking until you have YOUR OWN money to care for your child.

A man's presence is only an added advantage.

Peace out.

Maobichek:


No lady who is in a relationship or married will be comfortable to be providing for herself, even if she does, with time she will be frustrated and the evidence will be clear for her boyfriend or husband to see, thank you.

advanceDNA:


Yes, other girls will gladly accept as its not a big deal... That's exactly what people have been telling the OP.....it even happens to people dating without planning or talking about it .....
but the best is not agree like you said in case he decides to go an marry someone else after getting you pregnant

Nwachi22:
Why do guys always insist that a lady gets pregnant before marriage.

Two months ago, I met a guy through a friend of mine who was looking for a wife. The guy insisted that I must take in before he goes to see my parents.

The guys is doing very well in business (importation). I wasn’t comfortable with that idea so I told him to give me sometime to think about his proposal and revert to him, despite the pressure from my family to settle down.

Just found out last week that a lady is two months pregnant for him. You see how I would have messed up my life and career if I had hopped into bed with him two months ago.

Evercurious:


I quite agree with you but I never expected them to get married so soon. They cld be dating while she supports him through his job search or whatever he tends to do for now... Atleast 2 good heads re better than one.

Calitoscassius:
Total rubbish! the guy is a real man, i woulda done the same, i remember one nigerian girl who claimed to be 3 weeks pregnant for me, i was really happy, i wanted the baby, she started asking me to rent flat for her, open business for her, buy her a car. No problemo! I said, i remember giving her a 30k just for pocket money. After few day asked her for proofs of the pregnancy she sent me some clinic's paper's. Then mentioned that i will do a DNA, after 2 days of me mentioning DNA she rang me crying that....... whait for it......


She had a miscariage.


So i don't blame the man. Dey dia de wait for Prince charming to come marry you without been pregnant.

Nwachi22:


I opened this thread for my fellow ladies to learn from this experience.
Most ladies hop into bed with a guy in a bid to get married without due diligence. The guy is married to a lady that lives in Dubai. He kept that part away from me.

jditimiya:
One tribe guys I know always do that, and later run to the village to marry one small yellow girl.

Newboss:


You see how you suddenly changed the story from being pregnant to being married? You think say we be mumu?

Abeg park well with your lies