To keep it short and simple!

I promise to get my girlfriend an iPhone 11 pro max because her phone was bad. Few weeks later I got myself an iPhone 11. She saw the phone and was like oh cool, then I told her I would buy her own any moment but I keep delaying it and teasing her just because I'm still thinking if this my girlfriend who had cheated on me truly worth this phone?!

This girl I'm talking about had cheated on me, I saw her WhatsApp chat telling a guy I love you, and all that. I confronted her and she said she was sorry, that a friend of her gave her number to the guy without telling her and she kept talking and met the guy once at the mall.
I told her I called the guy and he told me he knew the girl had a guy because of her body movement when she visits him. But my girl swear with her mother in the grave that he had never visited this guy at his house, that they only met once at the mall and after then he keeps sending her money while at school.

The truth is that I forgive her because she swear with her mother in the grave. That one really touched me that is why I believe her that she never visited the guy in his house which means they never had sex.

But I said to myself, this relationship will never lead to marriage for her to hangout with a guy while still dating me. I honestly lost the trust I had for this girl. Now I'm planning to breakup with her in a calm and coded way because I don't longer trust her. But because she currently has no phone, I said I will buy her the iPhone and then use distance issue to breakup gradually with her as I'm planning to go on a month trip soon.

But surprisingly, my girl was with me yesterday and I was teasing her that, since she has been using my iPhone 11 and even went home with it for a week, there was no need buying her the iPhone 11 pro max. And she replied:

No, it's the iPhone 11 pro max I want, but you keep delaying this, do you feel pained to buy the phone for me??

This her response didn't go down well with me, I keep wondering why she said if I feel pained to buy her the phone? I told her I'm not happy with such question, that it means if I buy her the phone she won't appreciate it because she would feel like I bought out of pain and she said no that she was sorry, I shouldn't take it that way.

She is 20yrs old.

Please advise me, I love her and care for her that is why I just decided I will get her the phone and break up with her, so it doesn't hurt her too much. But due to this I decided never to get her the phone again by giving her excuses until I travel.

age is just a number, na common sense matters which I think you lack, you need to pray for more maturity please. First take good care of your parents and siblings at home, if you don't have any, invest in your future since you can't think straight or if you don't have a good future, please buy her the phone and cleave to her, you will surely be alright, Pele.

To be very very realistic, I stopped reading when I saw 'cheated on me'. How on earth do you keep someone who cheats around you? Dude! Wise up.

For you to promise a girl who you are not legally married to an iPhone 11 pro max shows how childish you really are.


Who knows how many expensive gifts you have given to her just because you are getting FREE knacks.


I only pray you get matured enough to advise yourself before you sell your father's land to please a woman that is not your wife.

I wonder where guys like you creep out from, upon all the doses of redpill everywhere on this forum is it really worth it? What point are you trying to prove by buying her the Iphone?

You got yourself 11 (Phone of like 250- 300k oo) and planning to get your girlfriend a Community hole a phone of like 380-400k (Pikin wey just dey enter her hoeing phase oo)

one thing you should know is that, no matter what you do for these girls, they can NEVER be Satisfied. She wouldn't think twice to dump you once a Guy another maga like you who'll buy her 13Pro max surfaces. But If you still want to go ahead and buy her the phone, make sure you buy it IN YOUR NAME so when you regain your senses back (Coz i'm sure your brain is already clouded with the sweetness of her pussy) then you can go collect your phone anytime is the whining even worth it? Can't you just man up and tell her NO?

Truly i say unto you my Nairaland Brothers;

A fool and his money will always part ways!

Pjoko:
To keep it short and simple!

I promise to get my girlfriend an iPhone 11 pro max because her phone was bad. Few weeks later I got myself an iPhone 11. She saw the phone and was like oh cool, then I told her I would buy her own any moment but I keep delaying it and teasing her just because I'm still thinking if this my girlfriend who had cheated on me truly worth this phone?!

This girl I'm talking about had cheated on me, I saw her WhatsApp chat telling a guy I love you, and all that. I confronted her and she said she was sorry, that a friend of her gave her number to the guy without telling her and she kept talking and met the guy once at the mall.
I told her I called the guy and he told me he knew the girl had a guy because of her body movement when she visits him. But my girl swear with her mother in the grave that he had never visited this guy at his house, that they only met once at the mall and after then he keeps sending her money while at school.

The truth is that I forgive her because she swear with her mother in the grave. That one really touched me that is why I believe her that she never visited the guy in his house which means they never had sex.

But I said to myself, this relationship will never lead to marriage for her to hangout with a guy while still dating me. I honestly lost the trust I had for this girl. Now I'm planning to breakup with her in a calm and coded way because I don't longer trust her. But because she currently has no phone, I said I will buy her the iPhone and then use distance issue to breakup gradually with her as I'm planning to go on a month trip soon.

But surprisingly, my girl was with me yesterday and I was teasing her that, since she has been using my iPhone 11 and even went home with it for a week, there was no need buying her the iPhone 11 pro max. And she replied:

No, it's the iPhone 11 pro max I want, but you keep delaying this, do you feel pained to buy the phone for me??

This her response didn't go down well with me, I keep wondering why she said if I feel pained to buy her the phone? I told her I'm not happy with such question, that it means if I buy her the phone she won't appreciate it because she would feel like I bought out of pain and she said no that she was sorry, I shouldn't take it that way.

She is 20yrs old.

Please advise me, I love her and care for her that is why I just decided I will get her the phone and break up with her, so it doesn't hurt her too much. But due to this I decided never to get her the phone again by giving her excuses until I travel.

Let me SIMPly tell you that you are not celebtally equipped, I hereby summon you to the court of Nairaland Redpillers and Stingy Men Association of Nigeria

Oga if you have enough cash, i will arvice you just get her a less expensive phone then the ipone since you have promise her

What still keep that girl around you is that phone she's waiting for, keep your money and discard her, she doesn't worth it

20 years old girl Hmmmm

PlayMaker14:
For you to promise a girl who you are not legally married to an iPhone 11 pro max shows how childish you really are.


Who knows how many expensive gifts you have given to her just because you are getting FREE knacks.


I only pray you get matured enough to advise yourself before you sell your father's land to please a woman that is not your wife.

Sounds like a spoilt kid or Yahoo guy.

Qatar2022:
What still keep that girl around you is that phone she's waiting for, keep your money and discard her, she doesn't worth it

Too much sense in a few words.

20yrs old girl that is still exploring life,u expect her not to cheat? Jokes on you.

Btw,are your sisters using the said iPhone 11pro max?

Guyz like the op doesn't render a financial help to his siblings.I don't think he has ever bought a button phone for his younger siblings.But here is he contemplating about buying an iPhone 11 for his hoeing girlfriend.When he loses his job the runz girl will dump his ass and move to another Maga.

This girl I'm talking about had cheated on me

This one get Doctorate degree in Muguness

My own be say! Make this NONSENSE POST no reach front-page!!!
OP! HOW OLD ARE YOU?
How this post carry reach front-page?

Make una dey try date with sense/maturity,

A girl at her hoeing state u wan carry for head ,

Ok, kwantinu.!

Use that money wey u wan take buy phone for that hoe, find a real nigger to invest it in, trust me, it'll yield many returns in Future than to invest in a hoe that'll drop ur ass without a blink the moment she sees a higher bidder..


If u say u no go hear, na heavy clouds of premium Tears awaits u soonest..

Egbon, give me 2k


See how he won't ask for my account number


Now, her pussay smell no tire u?

Students & those in their early 20s are pain in the ass.

I won't subject u to any redpill today... Just ask for my aza and give me 2k

U go see how I go dey appreciative

Small pikin na dey worry you op

What are you still contemplating on... For christsake the b!tch cheated on you (and I'm sure she's doing it repeatedly, that one was the one you caught her with) and you still wanna spend over 300k on her for this Buhari regime.


Abeg if you no Sabi wetin you want do with money, make I send you my Aza....
(I just hope this story is true and not just a way to trend because I don't believe a guy can be this stupid)

Please someone call TheGidRedpiller.... Let him Know that his attention is needed here.

She cheat abi she no cheat Oga? Which one be she swore on her mama grave

Fake story

Nairaland and fake story dey like tiwa savage and red finger nails

May everyone acting and thinking like the Op die prematurely in the name of Allah!

Trust is lost in that relationship already. You are just not bold enough to bring up the breakup conversation. Don't be surprised if she does while you're away. Check my recent post for more info.

I told her I called the guy and he told me he knew the girl had a guy because of her body movement when she visits him.

The bolded has been helping the guys since the days immemorial. Types of body movement include red for stop, green for go ahead, and yellow for proceed with caution. Na yellow she served the guy .

Alaye, which phone is your mother or father using

You won buy iPhone for a girl you're in relationship with that you don't know if you'll tie the knot with, get sense abeg

You’ve been manipulated... there’s no real love in Nigeria, if a girl sees you to be financially stable then the manipulation begins... what’s next after you buy her the phone? You’re hooked and there’s nothing you can do unless you leave this girl and run away... she doesn’t really love you , you’re hooked.. she’s like your drug that’s why you came here to type this long notes... I keep saying this, run away from girls that manipulate you even at the slightest.. that’s a red flag.. if she truly loves you she’ll wait till you feel comfortable enough to buy her the phone ... but looks like you already lacked love growing up so you can’t tell that you’re being emotionally abused and manipulated... anyways 90% of Nigerian guys are being manipulated

Some girls are ungrateful. After helping this girl with some money. The next week I passed without noticing her, she called me and said so I am now feeling big because of the 15k I just assisted her with to pay her school fees. I felt despondent.

I pity men wasting away their hard-earned money on young girls they know they will never get married to.

Never spend your money on a girl you know you have no future with!!

But guy u be big boy o

Bought IPhone 11 for yourself and intending buying iPhone 11 pro max for your wh0re GF.

You try o

Ok