nautybride:
. It depends. Some don't have the intention to marry o, just move on. Time wasters Waka pass my life.



Ladies proposing to the man is a recipe for future disaster with the increase in population of baby-men.
One day, they will vanish and say you begged me to marry you.

Opeyemiextra:
Every relationship is unique and works differently. I don't think a single rule will apply for everyone. My friend dated for about 8 years before they got married in 2018. Although I must admit it could strain the relationship.

overflow1:
My dear, I wont advise this to my Sister.

If you propose, will you sponsor the wedding?
He may even accept the ring and allow you to wear ur ring till u are tired.

Are you ready to pay for all bill in the family? Because if you start paying, you have started paying.

Can you withstand rejection if he say NO?

He may accept the ring and use it to propose to another girl. Remember you can't cure foolishness.

My dear dont force urself on a man. If he is not serious, he is not serious!

Who neva redi, Neva redi! Period!

toujurs:
things are hard, how many graduates earn above 100k, And you know the whole burden is always on the guy, house rent, feeding, health care, school fees and clothing. Including the wife. Financial capacity matters alot to avoid regrets

tradepunter:


Then you have no business tying someone daughter in a fruitless bondage...

Stay on your own and stop trying to sound silly

pansophist:
Actually women do propose to guys all the time, just that men do not get the message. When she cooks for you, do all her domestic chores joyfully, down for sex in fulfilment to your needs, faithful and committed to you (the ultimate one), then as far as she is concerned, she has proposed.

But if you're expecting a direct proposal, as in kneeling down, with a ring, and asking a man to marry her, women won't do that, and they shouldn't. Equality is not about taking a man's responsibility from him. Because proposing directly to a man is playing his part, which is wrong, because proposing is a promise of a duty.

To propose basically means "I'll play my part to be your husband, will you play yours?" So proposing to a man implies that she should have a house he is moving into, pay groom price, sponsor the wedding and protect and defend him. That's a man's duty, so no, women should not propose to a man. Men please, if a woman does things I've stipulated in the first paragraph, please propose to her.

Pataricatering:
you people really need to stop lying - how many men pay for everything in the home without any input from the woman ?

nijaomegacode:
Guys, pls respect ONLY the girl you disvirgin. If a non virgin propose to you, quickly reject her because she's a curse to her children: born and unborn!

pocohantas:
The way una carry women matter for head ehn.

The only thing remaining is to tie double wrapper and start attending August Meeting.

Tufiakwa!

lkillbrokehoes:
Na the same way most of you carry men matter for head here

Hyerin:
NL male users and their unsolicited takes. So you guys actually like fluid gender role dynamics, who would've thought? Eh, hope the man won't start complaining about feeling emasculated and will fulfill his duties by being a good serviceable, submissive husband

womenareapess:
those black baboons will find this irritating!

Those black baboons rather die in silent than to open their useless mouth to propose

Why date a baboon when you can date a foreigner and have rest of mind?

Those apes ain't worth it

BadRadio:
This is the Jet age, New discoveries are been made because people are deliberately choosing to think outside the box.

In my humble opinion I believe it is wrong to be in a relationship for too long, if you are ready for marriage as a lady and the person you are dating is too relaxed being in that relationship after 2 years without popping the question... you have two options

1. It's either you abandon that relationship and try it with someone else who's more purposeful

Or

2. Propose to him if you really like him and want u both to get married. It's not something to be shy about, life dosent give you what u want, life gives you what you demand. Go ahead and ask for it.

If he turns down your proposal without any cogent reason pls feel free to go.



My 2cents

MrNipplesLover:
Date for 2 years?

Even me wey I dey keep fvckmates only, I dey recycle them every year.

Una dey try with these una dating - dating stuffs.

Smiles.

Cousin9999:


It's sad and gross.

Rushur:
Is that even possible

Cousin9999:
Women shouldn't propose to men. Don't be ridiculous.

debbydams:
if he no get money nko

debbydams:
na woman u dey recycle abi,may God have mercy on u

Exodora:
Some people will just open their mouth waaaaaah and be talking nonsense .
You can't force people to be with you, if he is not ready and does not want you at the same time last last you will find out that you have just wasted your time and all with the wrong person .

Pataricatering:
you people like deceiving yourselves - how many men pay for ALL the bills in the family ?

Piptocoin:


and you ladies will go into a tirade when men reject ladies who don't meet their physical specs such as big breast, big bum, sexy, model-like beauty, and all that. it is all relative. if money is your spec and the guy does not possess it feel free to quit the relationship. and don't demonize men who would do the same when you fall short of their physical specs.

bluefilm:
Even the bravest of them bitches knows that this is a no go area.

Because...

Once a bitch proposes to a brother, she loses her entire value in the. Presence of the nigga.

Sadly though, if the bitch decides to wait for a brother to propose, she might wait for eternity.
In which case, she loses all her values too in the presence of the society at large.

So no matter what a bitch decides to do in a relationship, she will still lose her values.

Moral lesson: men are better than women.

Pataricatering:
you sound so idiotic !

Pataricatering:
you people really need to stop lying - how many men pay for everything in the home without any input from the woman ?

Piptocoin:


this is besides the point in the op. there is no gender role argument. the op did not say it is the woman's duty to propose. all he did was propose a way to to sustain the relationship if both parties are really into each other barring impediments to their probable marital union. in addition, you purposely overlooked his first option which is to abandon the relationship. it all comes down to choice at the centre of the op, not gender role.

Pataricatering:
lol, There is nothing you can do about women fvxking , my dear . Whether you cry and beg your fellow men morning, noon and night - women will still fvxk and get married to these men
I can imagine how painful it must be for you begging guys not to marry non - virgins yet women who are non- virgins are getting married left , right and centre � .. sorry , dear

debbydams:
that's not what I mean, mean what if he's not bouyant to fund the wedding?