wunmi590:



My brother, you are one of the few intelligent man in this thread....


My wife pay bills at home, but she does it on her own will without being forced to do so

justscorchone:
Useless talk, in this modern age and time forget pride, no household have it that good and if your woman can assist financially then that's a plus, I'm not married so I can't tell for sure but based on my parent marriage, I can categorically tell you that if you want to live long without high blood pressure or depression then make sure your wife have something doing, a business or work. Plan your family well and don't just start one without clearing this out.imagine the men you dey use as example,how many % of Nigerian men have 500k in their account to begin with..Omo na small pikin dey worry you sha las las, or maybe you just marry and e dey totori you.modern woman when truly love you sef no go wan just be housewife, you married a lazy bum for house and you are capping plenty.

sparko1:
My one and only question is, do you as a man really need to marry, all this crap is for a married man.

Just ridiculous, chasing after something that is completely to your disadvantage, Do you really have to get married

wunmi590:



I'm not the cause of your present predicament, if you are not capable of being the head of your family by taking charge of your responsibilities, stay single


Stop crying

wunmi590:


My sister, you man will surely come, don't stress it, the man that would love you and adore you will come...

The man that won't force you to split bills will surely locate you

clericuzzio:


So should we now judge marriages based on your view..If I fit see you one one one I go break ya teeth commot

Justbehave:
Fool. The only men that can say stuffs like this are people whose wife feeds like you because they are always scared of saying the truth so their wife's don't get angry.You bought car for her but can't fuel and service it and she does it. When men come out you with your hungry looking head will also come out. Lol.

wunmi590:


Point of correction, I'm not a woman, I'm a man with a mall who takes responsibility seriously.....

wunmi590:


Stop crying, go and double your hussle and start being the man you call yourself....

Stop forcing your wife to share responsibility

clericuzzio:


I can sense the OP was born in this millennium and he's been brainwashed with social media talks . When he's married I would wait for his real life experience

Justbehave:
Hungry fool. See as him dey look like say na 80 yrs old man. Lol

elyte89:
Intentionally sharing bills means u re telling ur God to share d blessings meant for d man alone..like d op rightly said,let it b a willing act from d wife

Besides if u as a man don't bring DT sharing formula of bills to ur woman ,d woman @ d long run trust u wholeheartedly with her money and support u willingly wout been forced because u av already earn her trust,and such a wife can go any extra length to assist his husband financially, morally most especially during d down times of d husband. This is what I av noticed in married woman whom dere husband takes d responsibility 100%

Nb...I am married

Justbehave:
Shut up fool. Simps and their stupid way of reasoning. Just like Tegas husband. Most of you simps who are fed by your wife's will always say something so you don't loose your meal ticket. Some people dey suffer sha.

elyte89:
Intentionally sharing bills means u re telling ur God to share d blessings meant for d man alone,sharing bills doesn't improve d husband financial status, in fact in such a situation, d wife is always richer..go and check d stat ..like d op rightly said,let it b a willing act from d wife

Besides if u as a man don't bring DT sharing formula of bills to ur wife,d wife @ d long run will trust u wholeheartedly with her money and support u willingly wout been forced because u av already earn her trust,and such a wife can go any extra length to assist u as her husband financially, morally most especially during d down periods. This is what I av noticed in married woman whom dere husband takes d responsibility 100%

Nb...I am married

Slavishbenin:

The guy is sick mentally, since he believes the wife shouldn't contribute why is he enjoying the wives Contribution. He should have carried the cross alone

wunmi590:



I'm not the cause of your present predicament, if you are not capable of being the head of your family by taking charge of your responsibilities, stay single


Stop crying

wunmi590:
I'm writing based on the thread that grace the front page either this week or last, see below for the thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/6833377/type-relationship-desire

In my own opinion, I feel it is the full responsibilities of every man, to foot every bills in your home, you claim to be the head and as the head you should always be responsible and not shy away from your responsibilities..

It is only broke men that fight their wives to share mans responsibilities, if you are not capable to take up your sole responsibility, please remain single..

You can't see Dangote or Femi Otedola splitting bills at home with their wife..

Your woman can only support you at her own will without being told to do so....

Know this and have peace of mind

Slavishbenin:

The guy is sick mentally, since he believes the wife shouldn't contribute why is he enjoying the wives Contribution. He should have carried the cross alone

Justbehave:
I can bet that with this poor writing skills of yours,you can't even feed yourself talk more of a family.

cho25bc:


Jay Z is not broke and he's a very responsible family man. In American culture, most couples split the bills. It's normal for them over there. So to him, it's not about being broke (not even in his dictionary) but about gender-equality and companionship.

wunmi590:


I'm sure you lack simple english understanding, if you lack simple comprehension, go back to school...

The heading simply says "husband should stop forcing thier wife's to pay bills", not women who willingly want to help out

Slavishbenin:

You're not even capable yourself. First your wife earns more than you and obviously feed you this little fat fooll,. Second, you're practicing against what u preach, u feel good she spends her money when u should be the one doing the spending. You're just a poor man dependent on his wife who earns better income

elyte89:


Lol . I can only laugh @ ur ignorance.. Anyway ,na u sabi

wunmi590:


My brother, I'm not saying wife should support the family, but some men keep forcing their wives to split bills shifting responsibilities....

Gosh, if you are not ready to marry, then stay single....


My wife earn more than me, she earn from 3 different steam of income, she support the family, but I didn't force her to do it ..

The car I bought for her, she has never called me for repair before, yes it is my fucking responsibilities to fix the car I gave her, but she does the fixing herself without even letting me meddle into it

BigBashiru:


Don't mind these Nigerians. We are in the 21st century.... there's even feminist drives these days for women to get good jobs etc.

I'm no one's slave. A woman gast bring something.

wunmi590:
I'm writing based on the thread that grace the front page either this week or last, see below for the thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/6833377/type-relationship-desire

In my own opinion, I feel it is the full responsibilities of every man, to foot every bills in your home, you claim to be the head and as the head you should always be responsible and not shy away from your responsibilities..

It is only broke men that fight their wives to share mans responsibilities, if you are not capable to take up your sole responsibility, please remain single..

You can't see Dangote or Femi Otedola splitting bills at home with their wife..

Your woman can only support you at her own will without being told to do so....

Know this and have peace of mind

paulavon:
Marriage involves shared responsibilities.
Both parties must contribute to the union to make it work.

An average man feels proud and happy to see his wife takes up some little bills and responsibilities here and there without being told.

Citing examples of billionaires like Dangote and Otedola in this discuss doesn't really hold water.Every man must not have the kind of money they do in other to have a decent and responsible home.
A man paying 100% of the bills doesn't translate to a happy home.

The sad reality is that, any woman who wants to have this entitled and feministic mentality of subjecting the man to foot 100% of the bills in the home will quickly wears the man off and ends up a widow.