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Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by almarthins(m): 6:28pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Mummiesgirls4: U had beta tell him now because all liar shall go to the lake of fire. The truth will not kill you |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by Mummiesgirls4(f): 6:29pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
godofuck231: Sorry I am not interested because I don't want my identity to be reveal I am not ready to loose him |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by creepsyme(f): 6:29pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Mummiesgirls4:You are a disaster going somewhere to happen. 4 Likes |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by makavellidon: 6:30pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Mummiesgirls4:see gobe woman with wahala dre 5 and six |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by Mummiesgirls4(f): 6:31pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
exynos: That's why I think it's better if I don't tell him because I am not ready to loose him or break is heart but the guilt is so much for me |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by Double0h7(f): 6:31pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
You're only doing yourself because now you might be a single mother with 5 children from 4 different men. You really don't love or respect yourself so how could you possibly love and respect another. |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by Mummiesgirls4(f): 6:32pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Double0h7: 3 diff fathers not 4 my hubby to be is my last stop |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by sexy74(m): 6:33pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Mummiesgirls4:You are already starting your marriage on lies what do you think will follow. You can't eat your cake and have it, that's greed. |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by donMIG(m): 6:34pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Somebody pls tell me if my maths is wack or sumtin? 3 children already n u r pregnant... How the children take reach 5 na I FEAR WHO NO FEAR WOMEN 1 Like |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by Double0h7(f): 6:34pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Mummiesgirls4: What about all these children? Where are they and who is taking care of them? So, they will have to grow up without a mother because all you think about is your needs? Are you mentally sick? 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by godofuck231: 6:34pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Mummiesgirls4:No problem paddle your canoe Jeje, no wonder |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by biggie73(m): 6:34pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Sorry, if I were your guy, you would be single again. |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by Dominion2000: 6:35pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Mummiesgirls4: There is nothing that is secret today that will not be revealed tomorrow no matter how long it takes. The time the truth will be revealed, you will worth nothing in the eye of men. Tell him now and face the consequences of being truthful. If you go into this marriage without tell him, and later discover the truth, he will hate you like mopping rag. Good luck |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by Nobody: 6:36pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Mtcheew. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by jaxxy(m): 6:37pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Mummiesgirls4: It will be more honorable and forgiving to call him and tell him u need to tell him the truth of certain things. Apologize and let him know u don’t want to get into the marriage with a lie. Its more respectable than for him finding out after the wedding and all the hype. |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by brainhgeek(m): 6:37pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
The pain has not started. Sifia pain is loading. I feel this is a made up tale |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by Joydan95: 6:39pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Mummiesgirls4:A marriage built on lies will collapse one day like that 21 storey building in Ikoyi. May their souls rest in peace |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by Mummiesgirls4(f): 6:40pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Double0h7: 2 are with their father and 1 is with my mum sister daughter they will grow up without a mother because their father wanted it that way if he was serious and responsible we would still be together taking care of our kids . It take two to make a baby and I can't suffer alone with all 4 kids and die of high blood pressure they are in good in hand with their father he has to take care of his responsibilities. The other one is also in good hand with my relative. I am not mentally sick if I was sick I would be in the street picking rubbish |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by grandstar(m): 6:41pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Mummiesgirls4 I feel so sorry for you. He should know but the biggest challenge is not really just discovering the truth but the total unpreparedness on his part of "taking care" of 3 children Taking care takes many scenarios. Even if you choose to leave the 3 kids with your parents, your motherly instincts will still be with them. He can't "extinct" their existence. I would just advise you to throw your burden unto God. Tell your fiance the truth. Give him time to process it. At worst, he will call off the wedding. Don't let the heartless criticism from people destroy you. Many of them have aborted ountless children or done worse things( Read Matthew 7:1-4). Look up to jehovah who forgives in a large way (Read Isaiah 1:18; 55:6-7, Luke 7:36-50, Collosians 4:6, 2 Tim 2:24-25). Our father in heaven cares for you (Read 1 Peter 5: In addition, why not taste and see that Jehovah is good? (Read Psalm 34:. Please feel free to visit www.jw.org and request a free online Bible study. It's one of the best decisions you'll ever make in this godless world. I assure you, you won't regret it! 1 Like |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by Kloenboi: 6:41pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
akeeng: She had her 4kids without the thought of abortion and you call her daughter of jezebel? I would rather marry such girl than the ones that abort babies like the way I eject my CD plate 1 Like |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by Bamzyriches451: 6:42pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Omo why women wicked like this? I just Dey pity the innocent young Man |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by Double0h7(f): 6:43pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Mummiesgirls4: K |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by Gunayo(m): 6:43pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Mummiesgirls4:Your happiness first at the expense of the innocent man happiness. You are extremely wicked. You are not fit to be called wife. How will you feel if your man did this to you. You better confess to him and let both of you have peace of mind than keeping it as secret and end up in hell fire. Remember a lie might tarry for so many years, but truth will surely expose it so its better for you to confess your sin now and be forgiven or expect anything that happens to you when the man finds out himself. |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by Nicepoker(m): 6:45pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Iyaebe:No wonder you are yet to marry@60 |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by AROMA1975: 6:46pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
WONDERFUL!!! |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by TheRareGem1(f): 6:48pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Davash222: Busted!! 1 Like |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by eburuu: 6:49pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
madan your genartion wicked fa |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by Babasonny(m): 6:53pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Good for ppl like u. That's what u get when u Keep secrets in relationship. |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by eziemich: 6:53pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Op If u don't tell him, he will still find out after and divorce you. Even the church that wedded you will cancel the wedding because that thing is not marriage but DECEIT. If after all these advice people are giving you here, you still went ahead to deceive the innocent man, you will be cursed all the days of your useless life. I'm warning you TELL HIM NOW |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by nehemiah111: 6:54pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
My friend you had better spill it out before it is too late. |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by Ytea(f): 6:54pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
I just weak. Three kids and you don't have courage.
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Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by flokii: 6:55pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
The problems this gender keep causing for men ehnn... So any guy that says 'hey fine girl' to this OP automatically gets a pass to sample her puna raw. The poster is under a strong spell and needs serious deliverance. How will you hide 4 kids from someone you want to get married to and still have the courage to stand before God at the altar to say 'I do' with lies and deceit as foundation. smh. Olorun ku suru. |
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