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Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by free2ryhme: 7:32pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Mummiesgirls4: Hian |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by prettysassygirl(f): 7:36pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Many people have skeletons in their cupboard these days. They have hidden secrets they refuse to share. I wish African society would not put so much pressure on their kids to get married. |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by PitexyBaba(m): 7:39pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Davash222: ���� Guy I too laugh |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by Newboss(m): 7:41pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
I bet the nigga kneel to propose to this toto |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by babadee1(m): 7:41pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Mummiesgirls4: It's totally unfair to him to even contemplate getting married without telling him you have three other children. This is marriage under false pretenses and it's a form of fraud legally. When he finds out he will get an annulment of the marriage not even a divorce. An annulment means the marriage never even happened because you lied. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by Oweku: 7:42pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Mummiesgirls4: you re the devil,..trust me he will leave u just like the others did.. |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by FlipModeSquade(m): 7:46pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Iyaebe:Lol.. Stupid is as stupid does.. You are too dimwitted.. To realize that there's no way he can't ever find out.. |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by AfroKnight: 7:46pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
See what I was saying the other day? People said single mothers should hide their children until later on in the relationship. Now this one has done that. Look at the mess she’s in? She let the man commit himself only for him to find out she’s a single mother. This is nothing but WICKEDNESS. If I were the guy, I’d talk to my lawyer about what I can sue you for then I’ll make sure I get custody for my child. |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by Oweku: 7:46pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Mummiesgirls4: this is far worse than crime... emotional crime |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by sandra50(f): 7:50pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Madam..anything that is built on lies never last,be it relationship, friendship or marriage..you had all the time to tell him before it got to this stage but you never did..any how you look at it from now on..it shows that this is a disaster waiting to happen..if you tell him now he may leave..he finds out during or after the ceremony he may still leave..you should have given him enough time to process the whole thing when the relationship just started to be sure this is what he wanted for himself..he would have stayed if he wanted or leave when the time was still right..atleast before you got pregnant..what ever happens now just know it's all your fault..this is fruad my dear. Mummiesgirls4: |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by Xxx123xxx(m): 7:53pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Iyaebe:.. If the husband to be was your brother would you say this. Some of you women are pure evil. |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by Kingzeez10: 7:56pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Iyaebe:Ogun ma pa e ni |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by faithfull18(f): 7:56pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Lol, ok |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by Chimaokigwe: 7:57pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Mummiesgirls4: You will see. You think he doesn't know, remember this post. |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by Pataricatering(f): 7:59pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Guardiola84:you people are do funny ' you demonise women for everything men do and expect them to be honest and forthright - a man can afford to be honest about issues like this because society accepts it and expects women to accept it too- like the op said so dont blame women for lying when we all know the hypocrisy and double standards involved in judging women. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by Mummiesgirls4(f): 7:59pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Chimaokigwe: Big lies |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by slim147(m): 8:00pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
How men marry a woman that has been bleeped and bleeped by one or two or three or more guy is beyond my imagination.,Tufiakwa.!! Well everyone to his own choice . For me, it’s virgin or nothing . |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by Solofresh2: 8:01pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Iyaebe:You are a useless woman Only a condom would have prevented your existence Damn! |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by Nobody: 8:02pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
I'm not sure I want to get married again. I don dey fear women pass devil sef .. |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by anu3: 8:03pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Mummiesgirls4: Sister, you sound serious about your story, if that's surely the case, I would say the more you delay the more you get things worse and worse. Sometimes, we get ourselves into a terrible box, a Serious mess: it's not wise to keep feeding the mess to make it bigger. Accept that there are sure consequences and pains for what you've done. So, just come clean, tell him now, as soon as possible. Face it now... It will only get worse and worse if not. It's very difficult, but Let him know who you are now... Job.5.8 - "My advice to you is this: Go to God and present your case to him. |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by Almunjid(m): 8:03pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Davash222:Lol. Relationships ladies engage in with irresponsible guys dey ruin their lives and people wey spoil them no dey want marry them. They're the ones saying that marriage is over hyped. They prefer impregnating and dumping women with babies. Women lost their last drop of respect in this generation. I can't even marry a single mother of one, and one unfortunate fella is about to marry a single mother of 5. How did she package herself that the guy didn't suspect that she has children? She must have PhD in "packaging". From paternity fraud to "packaging" fraud |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by Solofresh2: 8:03pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Mummiesgirls4:You don't deserve a man in your life Even if it is a mad man You are a disgrace to womanhood |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by Vision4God: 8:04pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
@Mummiesgirls4 Have you ever thought to yourself, when the past comes haunting you, how do u think you would escape? Issues could come up that would put you on the spot with no other option than for the truth to come out. This world is a small world, even if ur children are in Antarctica, Bible says ur sins will find you out Num 32:23 A couple had about same issue but not multiple kids but 1, the secret came out after attacks upon attacks (failing business, health, continuous trouble... & they were seeking solutions to their problems, that was when d cat had to be let out. Think about the nightmares.... |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by Nobody: 8:05pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
I hope you know you could very well go to jail and lose those Children to social services, if contracted that marriage and fail to disclose those responsibilities to him? Tell him now, if you want him to carry their burden after the marriage. |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by Solofresh2: 8:08pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Mummiesgirls4:In your next life (that is if you have any) Tell your maker to make you a dog so that you can give birth to enough kids,as much you want them |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by Mummiesgirls4(f): 8:09pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Ecne: You just comment on the wrong post there's no social service in naija 1 Like |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by TWoods(m): 8:12pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Mummiesgirls4: Not the happiness of your kids? |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by APCNig: 8:12pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Mummiesgirls4: If he is sleeping with a woman that has three children already and he doesn't know, then he does not deserve to know. I hate dumb people. |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by UndauntedYOCA(f): 8:15pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
This is pure deceit, the marriage is over before it has even begun. |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by Mummiesgirls4(f): 8:16pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
TWoods: It's not like I choose him over my kids they are fine with their father/ relative and they are not in the street or working as house help |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by Wannabenz: 8:21pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Tell him on time then suggest to him that he can use them for sacrifice/rituals. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by Seun360(m): 8:25pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Don't tell him till after having your second child with him. |
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