Oleka1:

You better go and sleep so that you can wake up on time to meet you filling station pump attendant work

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This is all you could say? I appreciate the advice though.

placeofallure:
Back in my university days, I was a Jambite and lived with my 400 level-accounting big sister and her two friends. One of her friends borrowed a book from a medico student (a guy) in the neighborhood. He came that afternoon to collect his book and I was the only one at home. After welcoming him, I offered to search around for the book. I didn't see it and I told him so. He left afterwards. We later became friends. It was then he confessed that he used to think I'm a snub, that he always wondered how a girl could be so beautiful and still be courteous and respectful. His friends too couldn't believe it.

I never lack the company of the opposite sex, even younger men up till tomorrow. Now, I don't see beauty as anything. I believe in a woman being smart, resourceful, homely and humane. That's what's more important. If you have physical beauty as a woman, it's just an icing on the cake. That's why my beauty doesn't ever get into my head. It's relative.

. Chai, babe, you nor try o. Your pix on your profile account would have saved me a lot of ache but you didn‘t append it there. Pls are you on facebook? I want to check something fast.

Loreettaa:
Everyone expects you to be bad mannered.
If you're good mannered and very beautiful, it's too good to be true. You're pretending.

Everyone expects you to be getting constant male attention. Meanwhile, most men are very wary of extremely good looking women and would rather approach average ones to boost their ego.

People can't just accept it that you're single. Like singularly single. Somehow, they think you're lying because they expect men to be flooding your DM.

Others expect you to use your beauty to secure privilege. "How can a beautiful lady like you be jobless? Or broke?" they say.

Men think you're getting constant sex. Especially if you have a pretty face with a "hot" body. It's almost unbelievable if she's fair skinned and claims to be a virgin.

You can add your own.

I met one in a train to ibadan yesterday, i wanted to tell her, I will marry her, but my past experiences with beautiful women, made me overlook her that this too will behave like them. Some of the shit attitudes I got was

1. Laughing about u with their friends.
2. Refusing to pick your calls as their phone is always busy.
3. Busy with their work, career women.
4. Expensive packaging as an impression.
5. Outings must be luxurious, with a taste of sumptuousness.
6. Her family members will hate both you and her if u as the man don't have much.
7. Very lazy with house chores and most are not kitchen mates.
8. Once they have a child, the child becomes the husband.

siofra:


That's not my experience sha!

It happened to a friend of mine.

. Still eargaly waiting for my honest harmless question...

placeofallure:

Seeing is believing. Look again

Make we see small na, person fit just ask for your account no. now laidis. even if not for the money just send 1 pic pls

The truth is that you shouldn't allow anyone to make you feel bad because you are beautiful.
People might assume wrong things about you but just be true to yourself.
Remember everyone is entitled to their own opinion, you choose the one to put into consideration.
And when it's time for you to get what you want, God will definitely bring it to pass.

Toks2008:


Sis a man is forever single o... Forget the marital status

Can you please explain how a man is 'forever single' despite being married?

Toks you better repent

Ishilove:

Can you please explain how a man is 'forever single' despite being married?

Toks you better repent

Nwanyioma Ishi, oya share your experience

Estherqueen50:
The truth is that you shouldn't allow anyone to make you feel bad because you are beautiful.
People might assume wrong things about you but just be true to yourself.
Remember everyone is entitled to their own opinion, you choose the one to put into consideration.
And when it's time for you to get what you want, God will definitely bring it to pass.

Succinctly said
Do you reside in Delta state?

Being beautiful is different from being pretty

litaninja:
No one avoids a woman for being too beautiful.
They avoid them for not having any substance.

Yah that's the real thing am tryna say, most beautiful women don't reason like that, once beautiful like that they haggle and before you know they don't add any fuckin thing to their career or your life. Nevertheless I give kudos to ones that never allow the beauty shit dominate them in their small minds and put in their efforts and diversify their thoughts in making it out there to be a better woman.

Deborah98:
@op you forgot to add,how can a beautiful girl like you be single,shuuu,be broke haba,be crying nawaooo,be this be that,calm down alaye na humans dem be no be angel. They also have challenges and face difficult time just like every other person beauty shouldn't be a measure as to why someone shouldn't be passing through hard times or be in need and most of these ladies now feel scared and intimidated voicing out their pain for fear of being ridiculed.

Na so...You no dey miss this kind topic.

With this reply, it's obvious you ain't beautiful.
You're just a pretty face!

Loreettaa:

Not like I'm always in the mirror, hun. But I'm confident to this extent.
"You're beautiful"
"Thanks. I know"

sageb:


Nwanyioma Ishi, oya share your experience

Experience as a beautiful woman?

Men come, you select the one you want and politely discharge the rest. If you want to remain single, you turn everybody down and close your ears to side talk.

Shikena. Life is not that hard

Chochovini:
. Chai, babe, you nor try o. Your pix on your profile account would have saved me a lot of ache but you didn‘t append it there. Pls are you on facebook? I want to check something fast.

She took off the pic

Loreettaa:
Everyone expects you to be bad mannered.
If you're good mannered and very beautiful, it's too good to be true. You're pretending.

Everyone expects you to be getting constant male attention. Meanwhile, most men are very wary of extremely good looking women and would rather approach average ones to boost their ego.

People can't just accept it that you're single. Like singularly single. Somehow, they think you're lying because they expect men to be flooding your DM.

Others expect you to use your beauty to secure privilege. "How can a beautiful lady like you be jobless? Or broke?" they say.

Men think you're getting constant sex. Especially if you have a pretty face with a "hot" body. It's almost unbelievable if she's fair skinned and claims to be a virgin.

You can add your own.

I believe most people that liked your write up are Female and that's fine but maybe you guys should look beyond the physical look and focus on the intellectual traits.

Or how do we explain a situation where a beautiful that can't hold an intellectual convo ?

This should be your focus ....
woman being smart, resourceful, homely and humane. That's what's more important. If you have physical beauty as a woman, it would be an added advantage.

DMerciful:
With this reply, it's obvious you ain't beautiful.
You're just a pretty face!

To you.

placeofallure:
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This is all you could say? I appreciate the advice though.

don't mind me Nwanyioma I was just messing with you . Hope your night was good sha?

Oleka1:

You better go and sleep so that you can wake up on time to meet you filling station pump attendant work

TomRiddle1:
Na so...You no dey miss this kind topic.

uncle do you know me

Loreettaa:
Everyone expects you to be bad mannered.
If you're good mannered and very beautiful, it's too good to be true. You're pretending.

Everyone expects you to be getting constant male attention. Meanwhile, most men are very wary of extremely good looking women and would rather approach average ones to boost their ego.

People can't just accept it that you're single. Like singularly single. Somehow, they think you're lying because they expect men to be flooding your DM.

Others expect you to use your beauty to secure privilege. "How can a beautiful lady like you be jobless? Or broke?" they say.

Men think you're getting constant sex. Especially if you have a pretty face with a "hot" body. It's almost unbelievable if she's fair skinned and claims to be a virgin.

You can add your own.

When u say "everyone", who is the everyone? Did u or have u come across everyone? Where did u meet everyone?

cliqtips:


I believe most people that like your write up are Female and that's fine but maybe you guys should go beyond the physical look and focus on the intellectual traits.

Or how do we explain a situation where a beautiful that can't hold an intellectual convo ?

This should be your focus ....
woman being smart, resourceful, homely and humane. That's what's more important. If you have physical beauty as a woman, it would be an added advantage.

You just proved my first paragraph right. Although not indicated, most people expect beautiful women to be dull AND bad mannered.

There is an adage in my area which says that one who marries a beautiful woman is always uncomfortable when she is out of his sight.

Young minds

FirstbornWds:


This is for a very small fraction of people. Most will see your physical beauty first abeg..

Coffee shop, somewhere online

Idaytesj29:


Can we have chat in a coffee shop somewhere?

Loreettaa:

You just proved my first paragraph right. Although not indicated, most people expect beautiful women to be dull AND bad mannered.

If only you understand my write up though.

Being dull isn't attributed to anyone whether beautiful or otherwise.
Please get that right.

placeofallure:
Back in my university days, I was a Jambite and lived with my 400 level-accounting big sister and her two friends. One of her friends borrowed a book from a medico student (a guy) in the neighborhood. He came that afternoon to collect his book and I was the only one at home. After welcoming him, I offered to search around for the book. I didn't see it and I told him so. He left afterwards. We later became friends. It was then he confessed that he used to think I'm a snub, that he always wondered how a girl could be so beautiful and still be courteous and respectful. His friends too couldn't believe it.

I never lack the company of the opposite sex, even younger men up till tomorrow. Now, I don't see beauty as anything. I believe in a woman being smart, resourceful, homely and humane. That's what's more important. If you have physical beauty as a woman, it's just an icing on the cake. That's why my beauty doesn't ever get into my head. It's relative.

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Loreettaa:
Everyone expects you to be bad mannered.
If you're good mannered and very beautiful, it's too good to be true. You're pretending.

Everyone expects you to be getting constant male attention. Meanwhile, most men are very wary of extremely good looking women and would rather approach average ones to boost their ego.

People can't just accept it that you're single. Like singularly single. Somehow, they think you're lying because they expect men to be flooding your DM.

Others expect you to use your beauty to secure privilege. "How can a beautiful lady like you be jobless? Or broke?" they say.

Men think you're getting constant sex. Especially if you have a pretty face with a "hot" body. It's almost unbelievable if she's fair skinned and claims to be a virgin.

You can add your own.

At the end of the day, they are not wrong. I mean the guys, cos that's what it is.

placeofallure:
Back in my university days, I was a Jambite and lived with my 400 level-accounting big sister and her two friends. One of her friends borrowed a book from a medico student (a guy) in the neighborhood. He came that afternoon to collect his book and I was the only one at home. After welcoming him, I offered to search around for the book. I didn't see it and I told him so. He left afterwards. We later became friends. It was then he confessed that he used to think I'm a snub, that he always wondered how a girl could be so beautiful and still be courteous and respectful. His friends too couldn't believe it.

I never lack the company of the opposite sex, even younger men up till tomorrow. Now, I don't see beauty as anything. I believe in a woman being smart, resourceful, homely and humane. That's what's more important. If you have physical beauty as a woman, it's just an icing on the cake. That's why my beauty doesn't ever get into my head. It's relative.

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Chochovini:
. Still eargaly waiting for my honest harmless question...

What question?

Oleka1:

don't mind me Nwanyioma I was just messing with you . Hope your night was good sha?

Thank you. It was great.