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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by revived2: 6:50pm On Dec 08, 2021
External Banging

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Omniman(m): 6:51pm On Dec 08, 2021
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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Mikefrik(m): 6:51pm On Dec 08, 2021
Olunmercy56:
Cheating, receiving calls outside, bad communication, slapping or beating, lies
Pls explain "bad communication"

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by ubaobi: 6:51pm On Dec 08, 2021
The only thing that can't be fixed is cheating

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Easylifelomo(m): 6:51pm On Dec 08, 2021
Lie and talkative

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by gadgetplanetng: 6:52pm On Dec 08, 2021
Lies, dishonesty

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Johel(m): 6:52pm On Dec 08, 2021
Ebubechuwku:
I hate liars apart from that, we are good.... shaa don't lie...tell me everything and tell me the truth..

And I detest people who are cold, who don't talk...


They can't tell you everything....in their truth,there will be small lies.....so I rather stay cold.

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Judolisco(m): 6:52pm On Dec 08, 2021
If u are not having sense... Some people no get sense..
If u are not patient
If u are harsh or not tolerant...

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by MartinsD12(m): 6:52pm On Dec 08, 2021
ghostboy:
So guys what are the things or signs that can make you quit a relationship without looking back?

There are some signs we see in our partners that are easily ignored or overlooked, maybe because these signs don't affect your relationship with your partner or maybe you think with time your partner will change.
But then there are the signs that can't be ignored or overlooked, so I'd like for you guys to share so people who exhibit some certain habit that's considered a redflag can readjust and learn to change some undesirable things about themselves.
I hate biiiiiitches , thinking men owe them marriage in return because of sexxxxx, I hate pained biitches carrying grudges, finally I hate biiiiiitches with bad mouth like damn insultive

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Caleycash(m): 6:53pm On Dec 08, 2021
Mercychen:
Womanizing
Smoking
Lying
Laziness
Verbal and physical abuse

Searching through my things when I'm not around. My ex did this a lot.

I remember the day I was coming from my elder sister's place (after Christmas) because he kept disturbing me to come back to area ( we stay in the same area) on the 31 so we can go for watchnight service together.

I went straight to his place with my travel bag. It was already night. So I went to shower to get ready for the watchnight service. I checked to see if I had locked the door before taking off my clothes, LO and behold the door was already locked from outside while the inside remained unlocked. I tot about it, shrugged and went ahead to boat it.

After bathing, I had to bang on the door before he opened it from outside. When I came out, he was smiling like a cat so I didn't think it to be anything because he plays a lot.

It was when I got to the sitting room and opened my bad that I discovered he was searching my bag while I was in the bathroom. That was why he locked me inside. Though he didn't touch my money but I later discovered he was searching for a condom. He wanted to know if I stopped by at a man's place before coming. Hmm...

Another one was after we broke up. He begged to come and see me. after much refusal, I told him to come.

when he came, I left my phone and went to get him a drink.
After he left, I discovered he tried turning on my phone but the casing of the phone had a protective plastic strip at the side. so all you need do is press on it and the light will come on but he didn't know so he now pulled on the strip and bent it badly so he could access my "on" button.
That was how he distroyed that phone case for me.

I don't know what he wanted to check in my phone after breaking up with him.

That's another red flag I can't overlook.

You will probably stay single all your life...No man marries a woman thats not tested and verified!

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Michelle55: 6:53pm On Dec 08, 2021
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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by newdawn2017(f): 6:53pm On Dec 08, 2021
Mercychen:
Womanizing
Smoking
Lying
Laziness
Verbal and physical abuse

Searching through my things when I'm not around. My ex did this a lot.

I remember the day I was coming from my elder sister's place (after Christmas) because he kept disturbing me to come back to area ( we stay in the same area) on the 31 so we can go for watchnight service together.

I went straight to his place with my travel bag. It was already night. So I went to shower to get ready for the watchnight service. I checked to see if I had locked the door before taking off my clothes, LO and behold the door was already locked from outside while the inside remained unlocked. I tot about it, shrugged and went ahead to boat it.

After bathing, I had to bang on the door before he opened it from outside. When I came out, he was smiling like a cat so I didn't think it to be anything because he plays a lot.

It was when I got to the sitting room and opened my bad that I discovered he was searching my bag while I was in the bathroom. That was why he locked me inside. Though he didn't touch my money but I later discovered he was searching for a condom. He wanted to know if I stopped by at a man's place before coming. Hmm...

Another one was after we broke up. He begged to come and see me. after much refusal, I told him to come.

when he came, I left my phone and went to get him a drink.
After he left, I discovered he tried turning on my phone but the casing of the phone had a protective plastic strip at the side. so all you need do is press on it and the light will come on but he didn't know so he now pulled on the strip and bent it badly so he could access my "on" button.
That was how he distroyed that phone case for me.

I don't know what he wanted to check in my phone after breaking up with him.

That's another red flag I can't overlook.

that was a demonic sneaking shit. U was dealing with a psychopath right there, but ur God is live that opened ur eyes to his schemes.

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Mohamizy: 6:53pm On Dec 08, 2021
the list plenty oo, but I don't like people that change when they meet new people. basically just because they get a new job, meet someone handsome and rich etc they change. their personality or character is dependent on who is asking

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Ebubechuwku(m): 6:54pm On Dec 08, 2021
Johel:



They can't tell you everything....in their truth,there will be small lies.....so I rather stay cold.


As a man, you don't need to be cold always. Take the charge of your relationship....

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by MufasaLion: 6:54pm On Dec 08, 2021
dfrost:


MufasaLion be calming down. Na person born you na brother cheesy grin

It's not a must to have offsprings and it's not a must to marry before you have offsprings.

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by freshinko: 6:54pm On Dec 08, 2021
I detest abusive words and cheating.
Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by BigDawsNet: 6:54pm On Dec 08, 2021
Feminist

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Mikefrik(m): 6:54pm On Dec 08, 2021
Ebubechuwku:
I hate liars apart from that, we are good.... shaa don't lie...tell me everything and tell me the truth..

And I detest people who are cold, who don't talk...
You detest people who are cold doesn't make them bad. It's the way God created them. It's not a bad trait like lieing, adultery and the rest. Please, if you don't like such people leave them for those who do. To some others they are gems.

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Agricmoney(m): 6:54pm On Dec 08, 2021
pretence


Anyway, Agriculture is life
Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Nosa111(m): 6:54pm On Dec 08, 2021
I am a guy, but I don’t know if I should call this ignorance or illiteracy. Nor be too much Bleep Dey make Toto wide o, just the way your penis small, so theirs is natural
DaudaTheSexyGuy:
If her toto has gone slack,I leave without looking back.

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Dalil8: 6:54pm On Dec 08, 2021
SirbobbyDgreat:
Is her mother living with her father?

Daughters of single mothers are a serious red flag.

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by newdawn2017(f): 6:55pm On Dec 08, 2021
MufasaLion:
grin grin grin

A single man is a happy and healthy man.
but a very lonely one especially in rainy season of cold nights.
Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Johel(m): 6:55pm On Dec 08, 2021
Ebubechuwku:



As a man, you don't need to be cold always. Take the charge of your relationship....


I value friendship most

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Enny2013(f): 6:55pm On Dec 08, 2021
Stingyness...

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by uthlaw: 6:55pm On Dec 08, 2021
Olunmercy56:
Cheating, receiving calls outside, bad communication, slapping or beating, lies
pls can you explain this bad communication?

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Caleycash(m): 6:56pm On Dec 08, 2021
Mohamizy:
the list plenty oo, but I don't like people that change when they meet new people. basically just because they get a new job, meet someone handsome and rich etc they change. their personality or character is dependent on who is asking
100% me!!!...I love realistic people!

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by larryking540: 6:56pm On Dec 08, 2021
Mercychen:
Womanizing
Smoking
Lying
Laziness
Verbal and physical abuse

Searching through my things when I'm not around. My ex did this a lot.

I remember the day I was coming from my elder sister's place (after Christmas) because he kept disturbing me to come back to area ( we stay in the same area) on the 31 so we can go for watchnight service together.

I went straight to his place with my travel bag. It was already night. So I went to shower to get ready for the watchnight service. I checked to see if I had locked the door before taking off my clothes, LO and behold the door was already locked from outside while the inside remained unlocked. I tot about it, shrugged and went ahead to boat it.

After bathing, I had to bang on the door before he opened it from outside. When I came out, he was smiling like a cat so I didn't think it to be anything because he plays a lot.

It was when I got to the sitting room and opened my bad that I discovered he was searching my bag while I was in the bathroom. That was why he locked me inside. Though he didn't touch my money but I later discovered he was searching for a condom. He wanted to know if I stopped by at a man's place before coming. Hmm...

Another one was after we broke up. He begged to come and see me. after much refusal, I told him to come.

when he came, I left my phone and went to get him a drink.
After he left, I discovered he tried turning on my phone but the casing of the phone had a protective plastic strip at the side. so all you need do is press on it and the light will come on but he didn't know so he now pulled on the strip and bent it badly so he could access my "on" button.
That was how he distroyed that phone case for me.

I don't know what he wanted to check in my phone after breaking up with him.

That's another red flag I can't overlook.

see pretty lady men don't just start assuming ,u must have given him that imagination , trust me we imagine alot ,and we draw patterns alot ,
you don't pick calls
you don't return missed calls .
you bounce calls
don't call us insecure , because if we don't care we definitely have another girl Incase you Bleep up ,,,
or ur speech communication changes when u are not with us probably u are in public but u talk different like I am now your friend instead of boyfriend we go just conclude you day location ...

when we males say , ladies destroy their relationship by them selfs ,there is a reason we say so

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by PlayerMeji: 6:56pm On Dec 08, 2021
Oloshoism
Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Nobody: 6:56pm On Dec 08, 2021
I hate pretence
Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Timekeeper: 6:57pm On Dec 08, 2021
Mercychen:
Womanizing
Smoking
Lying
Laziness
Verbal and physical abuse

. [b]Though he didn't touch my money but I later discovered he was searching for a condom. [/b]He wanted to know if I stopped by at a man's place before coming. Hmm...



Maybe he suspect you are into hook up.... Na dem dey carry condom along make dem no go fvck raw

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