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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Kutunban: 7:39pm On Dec 08, 2021

BigSarah:
Smoking ( a dumb activity)

Alcohol

Unequal input & output

Your hero smokes, (Sarah Bartmann.)

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Mikefrik(m): 7:39pm On Dec 08, 2021

[quote author=Afriqan post=108327916]

Yea well, since I am a man and not gay, I had to specify. Shalom. [/quote
And who told you gays are women

Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Mikefrik(m): 7:41pm On Dec 08, 2021

Timekeeper:

U r a great lady. U didn't reply me back with insults.

I like you lady

Buy her a bottle of Coke. She's a wife material.

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Ebubechuwku(m): 7:42pm On Dec 08, 2021

Mikefrik:

Okay now you explained better. But you can actually do a work in her to change her if you still want her. Or, didn't you notice she was cold before you asked her to be your fiancee?

be my fiancee Kwa! .....MBA

As for me , I love to explore , I want to know much about more people, so most of my relationship are on short term tenure..

The least I dated is 5month, and the most is 2years... i love freedom and always crave for it...

I love adventure also and I do crazy things also thats why you don't dare me cause I will give you the shocker of your life..and have never seen someone with equal vibes...

Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Mikefrik(m): 7:43pm On Dec 08, 2021

Asiri1991:
Over shaving. I like the beautiful scents from hairy vagina.

You be mumu

Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by lkillbrokehoes: 7:43pm On Dec 08, 2021

MufasaLion:

A single man is a happy and healthy man.

Honestly, I'm not single but I have rest of mind, unlike back then when I was still managing Nigerian girls, foreign girls is bae.

Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Nicepoker(m): 7:46pm On Dec 08, 2021

Mercychen:

Hahahahaaaa.. na him ooo..

Leave wetin? Ta!

hmmmmm but why didn't you stay back and make it work.

Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by MufasaLion: 7:47pm On Dec 08, 2021

lkillbrokehoes:
Honestly, I'm not single but I have rest of mind, unlike back then when I was still managing Nigerian girls, foreign girls is bae.

Enjoy!!!

Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Xantel(f): 7:54pm On Dec 08, 2021

Physical abuse

Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Nobody: 7:54pm On Dec 08, 2021

Nicepoker:
hmmmmm but why didn't you stay back and make it work.

My dear, I no fit. Disease dey town and me I like my life.

If I had ended up with him, I won't have rest of mind. So, I just told him, I want to serve God.

Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Nicepoker(m): 7:55pm On Dec 08, 2021

Mercychen:

My dear, I no fit. Disease dey town and me I like my life.

If I had ended up with him, I won't have rest of mind. So, I just told him, I want to serve God.

You for become a nun straight up then.

Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Nobody: 7:56pm On Dec 08, 2021

Nicepoker:
You for become a nun straight up then.

No let me change am for you o.
Wetin na?

Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Oiza131(f): 7:57pm On Dec 08, 2021

ghostboy:
So guys what are the things or signs that can make you quit a relationship without looking back?

There are some signs we see in our partners that are easily ignored or overlooked, maybe because these signs don't affect your relationship with your partner or maybe you think with time your partner will change.
But then there are the signs that can't be ignored or overlooked, so I'd like for you guys to share so people who exhibit some certain habit that's considered a redflag can readjust and learn to change some undesirable things about themselves.

Verbal abuse
Temperament
Amongst others...

Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Matthew4sure(m): 7:59pm On Dec 08, 2021

The only red I can tolerate is my woman compare me with another man that has more than me .

Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Nicepoker(m): 7:59pm On Dec 08, 2021

Mercychen:

No let me change am for you o.
Wetin na?

pls do. I go just break your head this night grin

Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Toks2008(m): 8:07pm On Dec 08, 2021

ghostboy:
So guys what are the things or signs that can make you quit a relationship without looking back?

There are some signs we see in our partners that are easily ignored or overlooked, maybe because these signs don't affect your relationship with your partner or maybe you think with time your partner will change.
But then there are the signs that can't be ignored or overlooked, so I'd like for you guys to share so people who exhibit some certain habit that's considered a redflag can readjust and learn to change some undesirable things about themselves.

A cheat and a lady with entitlement mentality

Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by MartinsD12(m): 8:07pm On Dec 08, 2021

Mikefrik:

I feel you my nigga. Those ladies are devil incarnates. Infact, they are worse than a stagnant gutter.

Yeah niggarrr , I say it the way it is

Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by caracas: 8:10pm On Dec 08, 2021

Some ppl don't even know what a red flag is
Negative vices n bad characters are not red flags , red flags helps you avoid ppl with negative vices ....
Red flags are symptoms n not substance

Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by ghostboy: 8:11pm On Dec 08, 2021

All of you saying you can't overlook cheating, then who are the people who cheat?
Cheaters claiming disdain for cheating is hypocritical

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by container331(f): 8:13pm On Dec 08, 2021

MufasaLion:

A single man is a happy and healthy man.

did you think so

Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Nobody: 8:15pm On Dec 08, 2021

Afriqan:
Gluttony. I detest gluttons with a passion.

Those ones would sleep with your neighbour for fried rice and chicken if you go broke...

Others are unforgiving heart and cheating... Not to be tolerated at all.

You are very right with this one GLUTTONY. That's why I run away from fat girls. Not all of them are a glutton though but must of them are. I associate fatness with being gluttonous, lazy and dirty

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 8:15pm On Dec 08, 2021

As for me, myself and I, I will wait till I see someone carrying a red flag then I will know if the flag is too larges for me to bear or just small enough for me. I can't come and agree to carry what's too much for me o.

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Bobxin: 8:15pm On Dec 08, 2021

Ebubechuwku:

Me I no get that time... na her problem be that..

I did everything just to suit her and still she still feel insecure.

She later told me, that I will find someone better than her...
Shey na talk be that?..

I didn't cheat on you, I didn't lie, I do everything to please and still you are telling me that, that's still not the real me and that she doesn't deserve me and I should find someone better... and as for me , I no get time, I don man up quickly, I get bills to pay than thinking on one failed relationship....

Na wa, this story touched me. I've been there before. It's just like she had a spiritual problem. Na the kind breakup dey pain pass, when no one cheated or abuse anything. The reason for the breakup sef is sometimes unexplainable.

Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Nobody: 8:16pm On Dec 08, 2021

container331:
did you think so

We don't think so we know so. No human on earth can make one happy. Happiness comes from within

Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by MufasaLion: 8:16pm On Dec 08, 2021

container331:
did you think so

I know so.

Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by OFAIKGROUPS(m): 8:17pm On Dec 08, 2021

Omniman:

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Wyd
wya
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ttyl
and you
Have you eaten
What did you eat
Who cooked it.
When are you eating...

Kikikikiki grin

Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Ebubechuwku(m): 8:19pm On Dec 08, 2021

Bobxin:

Na wa, this story touched me. I've been there before. It's just like she had a spiritual problem. Na the kind breakup dey pain pass, when no one cheated or abuse anything. The reason for the breakup sef is sometimes unexplainable.

It was not painful, because i already saw it coming and the relationship didn't last up to 6month...

And I have learnt to widen my horizon, make more progress , and successes in life and life will bless me with more better girls to choose from...

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by sammuell(m): 8:20pm On Dec 08, 2021

Bodmum:
switching her phone to silent mode or rejecting some calls while you are together, red flag.

My babe dey put her phone on airplane mode or reject call wen we dey together and the tin dey make hard for me to trust her

Planning of breaking up with her

Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by joyousever(f): 8:24pm On Dec 08, 2021

So you're still on this forum? I really miss your hilarious comments most of the time.

LesbianBoy:
A rude and mannerless lady (and there are plenty of them) is a no no for me!

A lady that wants equality. All my experiences has shown me that ladies especially the Nigerian ones don't really want equality in reality, na only mouth and when they feel it favours them.

So these days when I hear a lady talk about equality, what comes to my mind first is.....

"And yet another MUMU girl who think say she dey wise"

Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by joyousever(f): 8:30pm On Dec 08, 2021

Low IQ,poor personal hygiene ( mouth and body), poor dress sense and ingratitude/ selfishness!!

Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by LesbianBoy(m): 8:33pm On Dec 08, 2021

joyousever:
So you're still on this forum? I really miss your hilarious comments most of the time.

Huh? I never see your moniker before o. shocked

Maybe you are one of dem silent readers or you once had a popular moniker and decided to open this new one. Which one is it? angry

Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Onyiiobi7735(m): 8:33pm On Dec 08, 2021

Mko123:
Ability to drop pu**y for you at the slightest request.

Just wanna play prank on her but I ended up cumin

Lol! It is the type that will collect all the dicks in your neighborhood and even your village. The type that is called Community Ikpu.

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