Pataricatering:
I appreciate your attempt at balance but let me list a few things naija men are involved in because of.their greed for material things -
Yahoo
Yahooplus
419
Armed robbery
Kidnapping
Banditry
Etc
These are things many.of.you turn a blind eye to because you are more bothered with controlling women.
I will take ur word.for it about being unbiased in your chastisements .
The only correction I would suggest is you correct.the "average Nigerian lady is greedy" to the average Nigerian is greedy -
From experience and from data on offences committed the average Nigerian man is by faaaaaaaaaar greedier than the average Nigerian woman.

Well, you're right... I should have restricted my statement to within the context (Relationship) of this discourse. Truly the average Nigerian is very greedy.

jrusky:


I read all your comment I feel ashamed of you. Though the guy messed up going too low creating fracas he really goofed big time.

Haven't said your post is very disgusting and you are likely a very toxic lady absolutely men should stay away from you you because obviously if even you date Dangote or even marry him you can never be faithful or honest you will still f u c k around for sure.

Moreso you are telling babes *Go and make money oo*and you be someone pikin, someone girlfriend someone sister baa? You are one of the reason ***Yahoo boys treated you babes like animals, kpekus you mercilessly then used you for ritual and still be spending your money on you****Read that sentence again, a again and again you will get my message

chief , just say you are a psychopathic vulture looking for dead womens corpses to eat.
Just say you are happy when women are killed - don't be shy - claim it with your full.chest.,.dear

Emmanuel909090:


Forget about money, if this is truly you reasoning this, you will never stay successful in any relationship or marriage. (Not a wish, just an observation)

Where is respect, loyalty and submissiveness, because you feel you have money, sorry and understanding will be lost, he has every right, when in a relationship loyalty is the watch word, she should be answerable to him no matter how wealthy, I have always told people girls from wealthy homes who are also rich are very loyal than, broke girls or girls who managed to meet money, you are an example of a rich broke girl, very saucy and arrogant

So because his family treated her badly and he didn't fight the relationship is over? Lol

High level of low self-esteem, she should have reasoned with him and try as much as possible to avoid the family problem but because she ain't loyal, who is he?

Anyways there is no love there, it was just a partnership that failed not a relationship.

I'm still trying to find what will make be break with the one I love, but business partners can always cut path if one feels bad.

I'm sorry but you have to work on your perception about love, life and relationships.

It's not always about money.

One love.

So lack of loyalty is a justified reason to behave so distastefully?

So once a lady has a bf, she shouldn't be seen with any other man, abi?

Or any man such a lady is seen around is sleeping with the lady, abi?

Romanoff:


Come pursue me o

Fighter !

youngvito:
It's really sad that a man would accost a woman on the streets over infidelity even when they aren't married. The tag " GIRLFRIEND" has no religious or legal implications to justify such public display of irritation.

Men need to understand something, if u want to feel entitled then marry this woman, at that point u can make a case for unfaithfulness otherwise you should be wearing a wig and a big red nose cuz u are just a clown.

The man just displayed he childishness by requested for an iPhone and chain, really? He doesn't even deserve a decent t woman with an attitude like that

A person who cheats during a relationship will likely cheat more during marriage!

GoodHardDick:
this is exactly why I always advice my fellow guys to STOP being a SIMP. Stop pleasing a woman, stop being nice and calm to a woman all in the name of appearing as a "nice guy".

The only thing you owe a woman is a very good dick, bleep the hell out of her bro and dumb her immediately. Your peace of mind should be your utmost priority.

Hahaha but keep her if she's a good gurl. Unfortunately, some men don't know how to satisfy a woman. They cannot even last long in bed, talk more of making a woman cum a couple of times.

MartinsD12:

Am not the way you perceive me , I am well reserved , I don't f around , am only giving advice to my fellow niggarrrz who are heart broken not to trust you people but to have a mindset una fit fall their hand any time

and deservedly so - majority of naija males don't deserve loyalty - people like.you know this but we won't hear you insult ur fellow men with disgusting.language like you used to insult women in your comment !
You don't have to.rate women o - that one na your business but they also don't have to.rate you.
You get the energy you give out !

Glycolite:

Fighter !

larryking540:

you know y guys date some ladies for 3 years without marriage , because there was lies all tru the relationship,most guys have a clean file of their girl cheating but they keep it cool ,when u start seeing the guy advocating for condom use in the relationship ,just kw say he knows already and to shock you ,una go fuvk free fuvk for 3 years but his heart is no longer there.

lol , u people wey dey pay.for.the fvxk nko? Looool
.you go use muscle fvck still dey do things for the girl and you think say na the girl give you free fvck ? Lmaaàooooo
Ur calculator no dey work

Badlimo:
sense is far from you then

.you can't recognise.sense even.if it falls.on.your head, dear
.

JoyReportsOnlin:
A video has went viral on social media as a man was seen accosting his girlfriend in Abuja for allegedly cheating on him with another man.

In accordance to what was seen in the video, a girl was caught with another man while she is currently in a relationship with another man in a Mall.

As she was about entering the man’s car after shopping, unfortunately for her, she got caught by her boyfriend who quickly rush towards her and the guy inside the car.

[b][/b]The angry guy quickly asked for an instant return of all items he had previously bought for her especially the expensive chain he bought for the girl which she was presently putting on.

People close to the scene could clearly heard the guy saying’’ ‘’Where is the iPhone and the chain I bought?’’.

They created scene at the moment to the extent that passers-by stopped to watch the drama and recorded the incident. The other guy whom the lady went out with was seen pleading with the guy to take it easy so as to avoid public disgrace , but all to no avail.

Watch the video below:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VsIX8Ai9y-U

Some social media users reacted to this and some of their comments are shown below:

Prince M: You are supposed to have it in your mind that you are not yet married to her, why must you disgrace yourself? I’m very sure that the guy also is not dating only one girl.

Olaitan: Make d guy collect everything, even if na you buy d pant she wear collect am. Collect everything and move on with ur life, d funniest thing here is that the guy wey she dey cheat with fit b married man. Awon werey na Dem dey make man dey insult all ladies together.

Christopher: Hmmm I can sense the pain and emotional trauma the guy is displaying, but the lady in particular should be careful make the guy no hurt her, because what I just watched now, his emotions is controlling him which could be dangerous.

Imelda: Them buy expensive chain give you, you wear am follow another man comot, my gender be doing wonders.

What is the fuzz here? He is not legally married to her.

larryking540:

if she tells me she is an ashawo that likes me ,it's far better than cy who tells me the father is sick and she is going to see him at the hospital only to meet her at the night club ,

chief, she doesn't owe you any truth .. it's.funny how manshewo naija dudes will be crying up and down becos of small cheating. Wetin.you want.make we women.do ?

Romanoff:


So lack of loyalty is a justified reason to behave so distastefully?

So once a lady has a bf, she shouldn't be seen with any other man, abi?

Or any man such a lady is seen around is sleeping with the lady, abi?

We are all emotional beings, even the strongest of us.
You might even do worst.
We react differently, he might not be right, but understanding that he couldn't control his emotions seeing his girlfriend with another man is justifiable.

No, don't get me wrong, even a married woman can be seen with another man but not is a compromising position.
That's where being open in a relationship comes in, she might have told him she is going somewhere else, only for him to see her with another man.

The lie and current position, will always raise an eyebrow.

We are not all fools.

What stops her from babe I will be seeing my boss or whoever today at .....

It's not too big to do and it will build trust, in their relationship.

Romanoff:

Sha you like fight and quarrel past food ?

No enter 2022 with this attitude.

I will remember you in my prayers .

In this tread what I've been able to deduce is that @pataricatering is a LovePeddler...
Die hard one...

Kriss216:
Only a foolish man will be dating a Nigerian girl and expect total loyalty from her.

An average Nigerian girl has over 10 guys in her life. Your girl is only yours when she's with you.


Know this and know peace.

when did you start reasoning like this?

Glycolite:


Sha you like fight and quarrel past food ?

No enter 2022 with this attitude.

I will remember you in my prayers .

No need to put me in your prayers, channel am towards your country.

May I never meet a guy like this in my whole life IJN
Amen

Emmanuel909090:


We are all emotional beings, even the strongest of us.
You might even do worst.
We react differently, he might not be right, but understanding that he couldn't control his emotions seeing his girlfriend with another man is justifiable.

No, don't get me wrong, even a married woman can be seen with another man but not is a compromising position.
That's where being open in a relationship comes in, she might have told him she is going somewhere else, only for him to see her with another man.

The lie and current position, will always raise an eyebrow.

We are not all fools.

What stops her from babe I will be seeing my boss or whoever today at .....

It's not too big to do and it will build trust, in their relationship.

Which yeye relationship?

Shey the one that has led to marriage or the one that the guy probably has a side piece?

Or is it the one that you two won't even end up marrying each other?

What relationship asides marriage will warrant a man being so entitled to a woman he has not wifed so much that you'll disgrace her cause you saw her with another man?

No be say she dey kiss the man, no be say you catch her on top the man, no be say you see chats or text messages with evidence of cheating.

MNDY:


I've read every comment on this thread. As intelligent as you try to sound in yours, you are still missing the point. Men are polygamous in nature because your gender allows it. How? I've always said it: APART FROM RAPE, A WOMAN HOLDS 95% POWER TO MAKE SEX HAPPEN (OR NOT HAPPEN) MORE THAN THE MAN. The Woman is so powerful that she can control the society. But instead of you and your gender to harness such powers for good, you choose to let the devil use you. Discourage prostitution, side-chickism, laziness; encourage faithfulness, good conduct/manners among your gender but NO, you are copying and competing with men and even wish to outdo men.

So, she is not putting all her eggs in one basket to avoid the unforseen circumstance of breakup. What happens to working on one relationship with one guy towards marriage? What happens to being of good conduct/manner to make the guy like and wife her? Yes I said that because a man goes in search of a wife, not the other way round. And if this trend of multiple choices continue, do you not know it will make men become disinterested in the idea of marriage?

One fellow gender of yours is here urging women to make their own money to prevent see finish like this. But I bet you, 90% of Nigerian ladies/women spend a man's money and not theirs even if she (as a woman) is rich(er) - Laziness and stup.idity interwoven.

yes , nah -men are polygamous in nature so please don't be angry when.you find out women too are polygamous - that's the point you dudes are missing - women too like rice and rice and beans and boiled yam, fried yam too ! We also like asaro and chicken and chips.
We are training you just like you trained us - to accept polygamy . By the time we are done u will be fully familiarised with the idea .
At this point if u are a follower of trends u will already know that it will only get worse ..
Why don't.you discourage prostitution among your selves first.
Leave women alone , bro

Preshieben:
when did you start reasoning like this?

I've always been like this, darling.

How have you been? Compliments of the season

Romanoff:


No need to put me in your prayers, channel am towards your country.

Damn... You're still on this since morning? Give up already

IbileIfe:

The kind of angry guy I saw in the video can kill that girl.
Cheating is betrayal and people get killed for betrayal.

are you encouraging murder?
Should men also.be poisoned quietly every meal you cook for them for betrayal?.

Kriss216:

I've always been like this, darling.

How have you been? Compliments of the season

I've known you since last year..

You didn't used to say nefarious stuffs like what you're saying now

Thanks... I'm doing so good

lolu2019:
aunty,e nor concern u.I was only talking to mah fellow men.

I just dey make.you understand the stupidity of your pov, dear .

Nat404:
Hahaha but keep her if she's a good gurl. Unfortunately, some men don't know how to satisfy a woman. They cannot even last long in bed, talk more of making a woman cum a couple of times.

Bro/sis

For your own mind of peace Never make the mistake of keeping a Nigerian girl, She doesn't worth It.

No amount of dick inserted inside a woman will satisfy her, this is because she will always want to explore other guys dick and money too. So why trying to kill yourself in order to please a woman?

Only a simp does that. This is why red pillers are the real men out there. No stress, no anxiety, we only focus on our own happiness and of course we always put ourselves first

Preshieben:
I've known you since last year..

You didn't used to say nefarious stuffs like what you're saying now

Thanks... I'm doing so good

Maybe you didn't know me too well.


How's Uyo?

alphaRego01:





Oga i tell u say i be girl? If i sand craze comot from ur head

you no be woman ? You sure ? The way many of.you.dey like chuk mouth for woman matter - we no even dey know the difference between man.and woman nowadays .

yorubarere:

So this is how you jump pricks. No wonder the past guy jakpa

shioor - if I jump pryck , jump penis wetin be ur own? na.ur pvssy I borrow jump am ?

Pataricatering:
I just dey make.you understand the stupidity of your pov, dear .

I know I am poor. but I can never be poor like all ur family members.

Romanoff:
Na broke girls them dey see finish like this, if not, a lady should not hang around any other man cause you be "boyfriend".

MODIFIED

Mention me all you can, na una sabi.

Na only man wey propose or marry woman get right over her.

Imagine bf wey fit dey sleep with three other ladies come dey embarrass the babe cause he "see her with another man".

Shior.

Ladies, make money o. Make clowns like the ones wey dey mention me no even come close to you.

Stop this Olosho quotes once you allow a man to be buying you everything which your father supposed to buy for you automatically you’re committed to that man, stop double dating, if the guy is not good enough for you kindly quite collecting gifts

Pataricatering:
chief , just say you are a psychopathic vulture looking for dead womens corpses to eat.
Just say you are happy when women are killed - don't be shy - claim it with your full.chest.,.dear

Pls read what you posted? Where did your brain travelled to young lady

What I'm I saying and what are you saying?

Pls work on your personality so you don't ends up at 60 years f age like the demented Kemi Oluloyo. Work on yourself pls.

Good day.