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Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by Palazee(m): 11:04am On Dec 28, 2021

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Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by MyVILLAGEpeople(m): 11:05am On Dec 28, 2021
dontrulee:
What happens when you close your eyes and drive?

You'll have accidents. Be careful

Honestly the best reply I have on this particular thread. Very short and direct.

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Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by cletz991(m): 11:15am On Dec 28, 2021
Amadioha strike you there

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Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by deolumike(m): 11:18am On Dec 28, 2021
Opeyemiextra:
Wait for the bashings cos they are coming for you.
So a gentleman who has lived a circumspect life, built himself a good reputation and has his bright future right in front of him is supposed to ignore the wayward manner and promiscuous lifestyle if a girl despite admonition and warnings.

You people really expect to eat your cake and have it.

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Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by storm001(m): 11:20am On Dec 28, 2021
I just checked your profile and it says you are a female.

If you like, go and bang all the guys in your neighbourhood hoping for a guy to marry you like that, you will get old in your father's house.

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Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by phemmyfour: 11:21am On Dec 28, 2021
cutecommend:
Looking for a decent girl today is not as so easy. We have decent and God-fearing ladies, and we have many ladies who have sex. Before you meet your wife, she might have had several sexual partners, probably met bad guys, probably done lots of bad stuff.... You will just have to close your eyes, ignore the past and move to marry her like that...
They don't settle for less, why should a guy lower his standard too

If you ve been damaged beyond repair, you don't force yourself on a good and innocent man

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Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by Olavenza(m): 11:22am On Dec 28, 2021
Theama:
I'm trying to understand, but I'm not understanding.


Because he is not making sense na.

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Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by storm001(m): 11:22am On Dec 28, 2021
deolumike:
So a gentleman who has lived a circumspect life, built himself a good reputation and has his bright future right in front of him is supposed to ignore the wayward manner and promiscuous lifestyle if a girl despite admonition and warnings.

You people really expect to eat your cake and have it.

Don't mind that gender, they think the world is There's to do with whatever they please.

Soon, men will prefer baby mama's to wife.

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Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by JooEeL(m): 11:24am On Dec 28, 2021
JUST SAY WE SHOULD MARRY PROSTITUTES

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Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by michael1508: 11:27am On Dec 28, 2021
Clickguy44:
Good advice, in fact one of the best advice on this forum. To make it better, if she is a single mother, go for it, they love the best. It's gets better, look for those that have had sexual relationships with yahoo boys preferably those that have been used by them, those that their womb is damaged and the working dead among them. Just forget the past, since the past is in the past. After all she won't judge you by your future.
Yeah,good advice,I support your ideas too and to cap it all,ladies who have done several abortions are the real deal as they have learnt from their mistakes grin grin grin

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Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by Nyascobar1414: 11:31am On Dec 28, 2021
NOETHNICITY:
You are very correct. They want that notion that it's 'possible to get virgin' destroyed.
When they hear you have discovered a virgin the are like ' is it by being a virgin'.

Aswear en dey pain them ehh

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Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by michael1508: 11:31am On Dec 28, 2021
Zeinymira:
There are lots of decent women but y'all chose to ignore them.
Please forget this fallacy of there are lots of..
It's sickening when people use that as a defense mechanism,can't you see the kind of people our society breeds today?
Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by foleskay(m): 11:33am On Dec 28, 2021
Rubbish post. Knowing some stuff about the past relationship of ur girl is very important. U just have to ask questions.
Met a girl recently on Facebook. So she came visiting,so at night I made move and we fvked. Noticed her punna was wide..so after d whole stuff..I asked about her past relationship..so she said she'd only done 4 guys but dated d last guy for 3 yrs. Whattt!! 3 wat?? That where I got to know why her pot was wide. At that moment I made up not to marry her. Cos it seems the guy had enjoy almost all her sweet middle. Can't wife any girl who had a relationship above 1year. Cos the way guys dey fvckk these girls nowadays no be here. undecided

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Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by Theama(m): 11:33am On Dec 28, 2021
Olavenza:


Because he is not making sense na.

E be things
Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by Nobody: 11:34am On Dec 28, 2021
This is a very bad advice, a very misleading one, Never in your life settle for less, either as a man or a woman. Some men and women have done really bad things in their life, you sure wouldn't want to suffer the repercussion of what you know nothing about.

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Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by pland(m): 11:36am On Dec 28, 2021
THE KIND OF LIFE YOU'RE LIVING TODAY MATTERS...BECAUSE IT'S A LINK TO YOUR TOMORROW...Both Here And After!

Folks, We All Know That There Are A Lot Of Aberrations And Demonic Deceptions In This World That We're Living In.

There Has Been Ongoing War Between Light (God) And Darkness (Devil), Or, Simply Put, Fight Between Good And Evil. And In This Perennial Contest Or War Between Light And Darkness, On Who's Side You Chose To Be Is Very Defining In Either Promoting Or Demoting That Which Is Good Or Evil; It's In The Light Of This That We All Need To Be Vigilant, Bold-faced, Audacious And Very Mindful Of What We Speak Out And The Kind Of Action We Take Each Passing Moment Of Our Lives, So We Don't End Up Promoting What Is Not Supposed To Be Promoted.

Certain Phrases Or Statements That People Make, Which Are Directly And Indirectly Promoting And Perpetuating Evil In The World Today Are Phrases Such As..."nothing is new"..."forget what people will say or think"..."it doesn't matter"..."holier-than-thou"..."na you holy pass"..."it's nothing"..."just a little, nothing more"..."there is always a first time"..."you won't be the first"..."you are not the first"..."use what you have to get what you want"..."body nobi wood"..."what can't kill you can't break you" etc.

The Truth Be Told, It Pays To Be A Virgin As A Woman Or Man. Yes It May Be Challenging And Hard But Not Impossible To Keep Your Virginity Until You're Married. After All, Anything That's Good, Usually Don't Always Come Easy.

Let's Start To Promote Good Over Evil By Saying...

...the world may have been corrupted, yet, we still have and there are incorruptible people around.
...the world may be saying virgin girls are scarce, yet, there are still virgins, undefiled by any means.
...the world may have embraced it and called it "the normal norm", yet, we still see it as not normal because it's not just normal.

Just Look At The Kind Of People Companies And Corporate Entities Recruits As Their Brand Ambassadors To Help Them Promote Their Products And Services; They Engage People Of Questionable Characters In Moral And Godly Principles.

Let's Us Always Call Evil By Its Name Without Trying To Justify Why It Could Or Should Be Assimilated. And In So Doing, We Would Be Demoting Evil, But Promoting What's Good.

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Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by ImoleNaija: 11:36am On Dec 28, 2021
ruggedtimi:
some months ago, I went out with my senior friend( 10years older than me). Omo we went to a small gathering seat out at a bar, they were 4women(early 40s) and three of dem are married. They were already smoking before we arrived. Omo if you see how these women dey count scores of men Dem knack while in university. Infact they had to change university from uniport to unical because of f*ck. Describing how Dem hang leg for wall. grin grin. It was crazy though but at that moment I was so scared of marriage.

Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by Nyascobar1414: 11:38am On Dec 28, 2021
funshint:
The reality of everything is that most of the guys commenting here will still end up marrying non-virgins. Because on the long run being a virgin won't even be part of the criteria again once feelings jam you. Only the matured will understand what I'm saying.

What sort of feelings man... That why its not good for a man to think emotionally... At least be logical for christ sake...
I think youve eateb the forbidden fruit when it was not yet time...
Pussy rules over simps like you

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Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by vikings1: 11:41am On Dec 28, 2021
Go for the younger ones that you encouter in church, thats if you go to church in the first place.
You have reduced the probability of meeting hoelosh by factor of 50%, the other 50% na luck and prayers or cross mind ignore her past
Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by Nyascobar1414: 11:41am On Dec 28, 2021
ayberry:
Few years back a girl was crushing bad on me she couldn’t hold it she told all my friends, my friends cudnt even approach me. She came closer, I saw her green light Buh man took her as a friend literally. She got pained more, didn’t allow my friend to rest, he later told me that dz babe has been disturbing him. I ignored again. We attended a wedding ceremony of a friend and dunno what stirred emotions she walked up to me where I was an sat on my lap and told me everything, I could feel her voice shaking. Mind you I crush on this babe too, exactly my spec and she’s pretty. Man kept calm, and cuddled her she felt warm and expressed all her pains , how she gave me alot of green lights and I wasn’t catching them. She was full of ecstasy Buh me I was calm despite the fact that I like dz babe I never showed my feelings cos I knew I wasn’t gonna date her. She soon asked me out and I declined, she couldn’t handle it. She came at me with full force left right centre. Family friends, friends, brothers I declined all even with the sex proposal friends with benefits she cried her eyes. Do you know why I did that? I couldn’t handle her past and that’s it and I won’t date someone’s daughter out of pity, it won’t last.
Till today my Respect from her is FULL BAR, even her friends respect me die. My own friends call me STRONG MAN LOL..
It’s not me it’s the grace of God and proper upbringing

Such a carbon copy..
Man...
If you gad feelings for any bitch
dont shoot that shot..
Let the feelings die down..
Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by Kog45(m): 11:44am On Dec 28, 2021
Virgin or no virgin...life is so mystery when it comes to marriage.....some married them as a virgin but are regretting and some married them as non virgin but they are having sweet homes.

Nobody will determine your future wife except you....virgin or non virgin.

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Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by MrQuadri: 11:49am On Dec 28, 2021
cutecommend:
Looking for a decent girl today is not as so easy. We have decent and God-fearing ladies, and we have many ladies who have sex. Before you meet your wife, she might have had several sexual partners, probably met bad guys, probably done lots of bad stuff.... You will just have to close your eyes, ignore the past and move to marry her like that...
Well it depends on the kind of partner you are dealing with but I must know all about my partner past and decide if I am comfortable with it or not.
Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by ashawopikin(m): 11:52am On Dec 28, 2021
cutecommend:
Looking for a decent girl today is not as so easy. We have decent and God-fearing ladies, and we have many ladies who have sex. Before you meet your wife, she might have had several sexual partners, probably met bad guys, probably done lots of bad stuff.... You will just have to close your eyes, ignore the past and move to marry her like that...
bitter but true
Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by ashawopikin(m): 11:52am On Dec 28, 2021
Opeyemiextra:
Wait for the bashings cos they are coming for you.
but na true na
Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by vickydevoka(m): 11:56am On Dec 28, 2021
Favfables1:
I'd rather stay unmarried, than marry a female who is not a virgin....
Nahhhhhhh...
That's not a possibility I'm willing to consider...
As long as she wasn't raped and she's not a virgin, then she's off the chats already...

And for those of you saying, "it's not about her past, it's about character", is sleeping around a trait of good character? Can't a person be a virgin and still have a good character?
I agree with u small bcus as I fùck joy, her pûssy no give me joy. Imagine pussy be like well. I no no whether men de marry that kind gal.

Too many body count for women is bad. Jumping from on dick to another, using cucumber n big vibrators de scatter pûssy

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Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by JooEeL(m): 11:56am On Dec 28, 2021
Zeinymira:
There are lots of decent women but y'all chose to ignore them.

How can they be identified?

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Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by JooEeL(m): 11:58am On Dec 28, 2021
zainabicy:
Funny thing is girls don’t really have a problem with a guys body count.

We are just different sha, all this gender equality is bullsh****



The real question is -

Would you like to know all the ‘bad’ things she has done in the past ? All the styles and the guys that have hanged her legs ? Or would you rather not know ?

Ignorance is bliss o…

If you want to know, like

If you don’t want to know, share

Brother we gats know na. What's the need playing ostrich head in the sand?

We no be babies na. Spill the bean jor! cheesy

But its painful to know that your wife has been banged thoroughly by other guys in the past o. Especially if you come pay hefty dowry put. shocked
Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by KarinaLove(f): 11:59am On Dec 28, 2021
cutecommend:
Looking for a decent girl today is not as so easy. We have decent and God-fearing ladies, and we have many ladies who have sex. Before you meet your wife, she might have had several sexual partners, probably met bad guys, probably done lots of bad stuff.... You will just have to close your eyes, ignore the past and move to marry her like that...


There Are Also Men Who Have Horrible Pasts. Have had several sexual partners. Lived a bad life. Done lots of bad stuffs. Slept with different women ever since their baby man could receive signal.

Are you now saying we should ignore their past and marry them like that...NEVER!!!!

NEVER!!!! NEVER!!!!! NEVER!!!!

Men like this always end up not having a stable home. They Can Never Have!!!

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Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by Nobody: 12:02pm On Dec 28, 2021
juman:
Op stated the reality of today.
Almost all ladies are prostitutes of different level.

It's really okay you said "almost all" ,that's agreeable , "almost all but NOT ALL"

Today , purity and chastity seems out of fashion, oh damn embarassed ,Girls sees s*x as their ultimate fulfilment of their relationship with guys.
Sexually active guys are considered "winners" and sexually active girls are considered "experienced"
On the other hand , someone who chooses to keep his or her virginity till marriage is being considered sexually incapable ,all sorts of name! ,even being laughed at.
Why?!!!

Y'all need to hear this truth! Premarital s*x is a virus! , Youths ,learn to keep your virginity till marriage! . Let your friends laugh at you , you can easily be like them ,but they can never be like YOU (as a virgin you're)
I don't wanna dive so deep into this , I'd stop here.

Decent girls still exist!
Virgins exist!
I'm proud to say this.

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Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by Opeyemiextra(f): 12:06pm On Dec 28, 2021
ashawopikin:
but na true na
I know and honestly, I don't entirely agree with the OP but I hate how some of these people play saints all over posts like this.
I got these guys where I want them. Are these ladies in question not being messed up by the same guys. I have brothers and I would want them to marry well. But, be bold enough to eat what you serve.

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Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by JooEeL(m): 12:08pm On Dec 28, 2021
dontrulee:


Every lady claim to be a virtuous woman.
Only few ones will tell you they're bad but even at that, they'll still claim to be good.
Girls hardly have direction, it's the guy that leads and direct them.

The spiritual ones are the worst, I see through them easily like water. I just need to meet you once to know your weakness

I wish I had this perception that some of you guys have. You don't know how lucky you are. But dont you think a lady can still fool you?

Make una teach me this thing na.
Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by mirexxx(f): 12:08pm On Dec 28, 2021
dontrulee:


Na the man dey pay the brideprice. He no get past.... grin
how much the bride price come be??

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