Nice move.you code bro.

On top 5 thousand naira? How old are you exactly?

She don't need the money. She noticed your crush behaviour and decided to turn you to money bag

You did right ! Absolutely right ....Na so dem dey do....Emotions Manipulator..Na sooo ur 5k go just Vanish ...Shi Shi U no go get back...

Uplift your fellow men. Good.

Babara1994:
There is this lady I liked. We met three months ago. Recently, she asked me to lend her 5k, adding that the money will be returned back in a week's time.

I had the money, but I knew from experience that lending females money, especially the ones you're crushing on is a waste of money. I declined and told her I wasn't interested in her any longer.

4 hours later, one of my male friends asked me to lend him 10k, stating that he would repay in two weeks' time. I sent him the money immediately.

Did I do wrong?

u did nothing wrong, it's your money, let her get the money from a simp somewhere else

Babara1994:
There is this lady I liked. We met three months ago. Recently, she asked me to lend her 5k, adding that the money will be returned back in a week's time.

I had the money, but I knew from experience that lending females money, especially the ones you're crushing on is a waste of money. I declined and told her I wasn't interested in her any longer.

4 hours later, one of my male friends asked me to lend him 10k, stating that he would repay in two weeks' time. I sent him the money immediately.

Did I do wrong?

If she's been in a long time relationship with you, then that's wrong. But according to your report, she's only short.

And how do you want a lady to maintain her look without having finances. If you want her to head to the gym to keep that shape it needs money, for the nice clothes and all. So you can be proud of her.

But it's based on your decision, we women do not find it hard in getting the next guy. It's so easy for us.

So, if you feel less a simp here, like some acclaimed simp do say here. Then it's good for you.

flokii:
@OP Yes you did very wrong.. she asked you to lend her, not dash her the 5k. Atleast give people the benefit of doubt first before knowing next step to take on their matter.

What is the assurance that your guy will pay back the 10k (×2 of what she asked) in stipulated time? that's if he ever pays and not come up with stories that touch the kidneys.

Forget, women don't like spending their money either on themselves or to repay debt.


Saying she will pay back was just tactics because she knew the guy wouldn't want to demand for it.


Women are idiooots.

Well for me u would have borrowed her 3k and if she happens to return it the day she promised,u will tell her to keep it

In as much as girls are bad,they are till a few that can be trusted

Kingpin1000:

Mine was 50k, I was in school then, she paid 30k and asking her for the balance started bringing issues because I was lashing her. One day I went to her room and asked if she had credit so I can make a call. Na so I carry the babe phone go my house. After hours she came to my house and I told her that I will sell her phone in a week's time if she fails to pay up the 20k balance. The next day she paid up and was very angry with me telling me she borrowed the money. I just gave her phone and collected my money after 2-3 weeks I went to her house by 11pm to say sorry for my actions (but the main aim was to lash her) the apology reach 1am so I had to pass the night in her room, you can guess what happened that night. Today we are still friends.
She even called sometime ago to lend her 300k I told her that am already on a 700k debt.

Lol, sense no go kill you my guy

Na waooo

Babara1994:
There is this lady I liked. We met three months ago. Recently, she asked me to lend her 5k, adding that the money will be returned back in a week's time.

I had the money, but I knew from experience that lending females money, especially the ones you're crushing on is a waste of money. I declined and told her I wasn't interested in her any longer.

4 hours later, one of my male friends asked me to lend him 10k, stating that he would repay in two weeks' time. I sent him the money immediately.

Did I do wrong?

send your account let me wire you 20k

Babara1994:
There is this lady I liked. We met three months ago. Recently, she asked me to lend her 5k, adding that the money will be returned back in a week's time.

I had the money, but I knew from experience that lending females money, especially the ones you're crushing on is a waste of money. I declined and told her I wasn't interested in her any longer.

4 hours later, one of my male friends asked me to lend him 10k, stating that he would repay in two weeks' time. I sent him the money immediately.

Did I do wrong?

Everywhere guy on nairaland should be like this OP.

A very smart redpiller. Honestly, I must say I'm highly impressed with this. Keep it up bro

You're a confirm REDPILLER and that's how it should be

If a woman ask me to lend her money I go just dash am 10 % of wetin e ask ,man or woman sef

ThickSharon123:


If she's been in a long time relationship with you, then that's wrong. But according to your report, she's only short.

And how do you want a lady to maintain her look without having finances. If you want her to head to the gym to keep that shape it needs money, for the nice clothes and all. So you can be proud of her.

But it's based on your decision, we women do not find it hard in getting the next guy. It's so easy for us.

So, if you feel less a simp here, like some acclaimed simp do say here. Then it's good for you.

You all are just prostitutees but with different tactics.

But we aren't ready for this discussion yet.

Inukwa maintain her looks.

As in car?

There is no matter of right or wrong in this, it is your money afterall and you have every right to do whatever you want with it. So your not giving her the money isn't any big deal. People go to banks to collect loans and are not given doesn't mean it is the end of the world. Doesn't make the bank God either.

Animegirl:
Yes, you did wrong. Give people benefit of doubt.

Are you kidding me?


Benefit of doubt?


With who's money?


Had the op tried that... Him for just turn maga

Way to go OP.
I'm highly impressed with this.
No more Simpson this new year!! ,

Na man u be abeg! Confirm 100% Redpiller.
Every guy in this forum should learn from the OP

Na my sister I even do this one to,mama called me that she needed money urgently for something. Meanwhile she don call house people say she wan carry her boyfriend comot.gbam the next thing she saw was WhatsApp update where I was burning the 10k with my guyz.

LagosInter:


You all are just prostitutees but with different tactics.

But we aren't ready for this discussion yet.

Inukwa maintain her looks.

As in car?

See, I don't have time to argue with you Nairaland men, I don't date any self. It's only on Nairaland I see such concepts. Real men never say such. They know they've got to practice family duties, by being a man and taking care of their woman in the first place.

I work for my money, and if my man is here he can testify I've never asked him for sishy, but if he brings I collect. Unukwa?

I also give. I believe in mutual support. But a man needs to be a man by showing his woman these things, love, affection and support. That's what makes a man responsible and family conscious.

How would a woman ever date or marry a guy if he's always claiming Hard man? It's disgusting for me. I'm happy my man is a good simp if that's so, he knows how to make me happy and I do the same. It's mutual and God-given..

Babara1994:
There is this lady I liked. We met three months ago. Recently, she asked me to lend her 5k, adding that the money will be returned back in a week's time.

I had the money, but I knew from experience that lending females money, especially the ones you're crushing on is a waste of money. I declined and told her I wasn't interested in her any longer.

4 hours later, one of my male friends asked me to lend him 10k, stating that he would repay in two weeks' time. I sent him the money immediately.

Did I do wrong?

LOL, see this one.
What makes you think borrowing money from someone and not returning it is a gender thing? There are guys that have borrowed money from their fellow men and haven't paid them back for months.
You can give whomever you wish your money but that doesn't guarantee that your male friend will return your money back when you need it.

All these so-called "redpillers" on NL be forming macho online but offline we know them

That was how a lady I was asking out turned around to ask me for 10k that she will repay meanwhile, she's turned me down. I simply said I don't have.

Can't come and go and kill myself and die

You did great bro.

chronique:
On top 5 thousand naira? How old are you exactly?

Babara1994:
There is this lady I liked. We met three months ago. Recently, she asked me to lend her 5k, adding that the money will be returned back in a week's time.

I had the money, but I knew from experience that lending females money, especially the ones you're crushing on is a waste of money. I declined and told her I wasn't interested in her any longer.

4 hours later, one of my male friends asked me to lend him 10k, stating that he would repay in two weeks' time. I sent him the money immediately.

Did I do wrong?

When you are looking for something, you use what you have to get what you want. In this case your money is what you have. But nevertheless her request has to be of something reasonable and make sure she's not using you to service her debt to other guys.

Foreverme5221:
I think you were only being smart..

Love your smartness.

Where do you base? You need one Hennesy with peper soup.

redstaarx:


I like how you calculated ... most SIMPle men will do anything a woman asks them even if it means going against the squad

Abeg. Let's know the difference btw been a simp and been selfish. A lady he claimed to love and had knew for 3month. Even if u can't trust her, u use that to judge her. He could have easily borrow her 2k and said thats what he had, dats a amount I blive he can easily let go even if she no pay back. When the time to pay back reach, and she no pay. Atleast then he knows who he is dealing with.

Animegirl:
Yes, you did wrong. Give people benefit of doubt.

Hi I sent you a mail

chronique:
On top 5 thousand naira? How old are you exactly?

What's your point?? If I may ask