ThickSharon123:


If she's been in a long time relationship with you, then that's wrong. But according to your report, she's only short.

And how do you want a lady to maintain her look without having finances. If you want her to head to the gym to keep that shape it needs money, for the nice clothes and all. So you can be proud of her.

But it's based on your decision, we women do not find it hard in getting the next guy. It's so easy for us.

So, if you feel less a simp here, like some acclaimed simp do say here. Then it's good for you.

Babara1994:
There is this lady I liked. We met three months ago. Recently, she asked me to lend her 5k, adding that the money will be returned back in a week's time.

I had the money, but I knew from experience that lending females money, especially the ones you're crushing on is a waste of money. I declined and told her I wasn't interested in her any longer.

4 hours later, one of my male friends asked me to lend him 10k, stating that he would repay in two weeks' time. I sent him the money immediately.

Did I do wrong?

chronique:
On top 5 thousand naira? How old are you exactly?

flokii:
@OP Yes you did very wrong.. she asked you to lend her, not dash her the 5k. Atleast give people the benefit of doubt first before knowing next step to take on their matter.

What is the assurance that your guy will pay back the 10k (×2 of what she asked) in stipulated time? that's if he ever pays and not come up with stories that touch the kidneys.

GoodHardDick:


Abeg no annoy me this night Why couldn't she work and make money for herself to buy the nice clothes and all that and then be proud of herself? Is the OP her father?

Your types do not find it difficult getting the next guy because the next guy is obviously a SIMP that can easily fall for your manipulations.

I'm glad the OP refused. That's how it should be! I'm impressed most guys are fast becoming redpillers this new year!!

elsiusgr8t:




What's your point?? If I may ask

anonym0us:
send your account let me wire you 20k

Simran94:

Forming Redpiller on top 5k, God forgive me ooo

chronique:
On top 5 thousand naira? How old are you exactly?

ThickSharon123:


If she's been in a long time relationship with you, then that's wrong. But according to your report, she's only short.

And how do you want a lady to maintain her look without having finances. If you want her to head to the gym to keep that shape it needs money, for the nice clothes and all. So you can be proud of her.

But it's based on your decision, we women do not find it hard in getting the next guy. It's so easy for us.

So, if you feel less a simp here, like some acclaimed simp do say here. Then it's good for you.

walozanga:
0p.. see weytin poverty do u. Common 5k.
Guy double ur hustle

GoodHardDick:


Even if it is 1kobo. The OP did what was right

He deserves some accolades. He's a real Red piller

Babara1994:
There is this lady I liked. We met three months ago. Recently, she asked me to lend her 5k, adding that the money will be returned back in a week's time.

I had the money, but I knew from experience that lending females money, especially the ones you're crushing on is a waste of money. I declined and told her I wasn't interested in her any longer. God bless u abundantly for the decision u took. Nigerian ladies don't worth it.

4 hours later, one of my male friends asked me to lend him 10k, stating that he would repay in two weeks' time. I sent him the money immediately.

Did I do wrong?

flokii:
@OP Yes you did very wrong.. she asked you to lend her, not dash her the 5k. Atleast give people the benefit of doubt first before knowing next step to take on their matter.

What is the assurance that your guy will pay back the 10k (×2 of what she asked) in stipulated time? that's if he ever pays and not come up with stories that touch the kidneys.

uthlaw:
so getting a girl is hard or what are you trying to say,make she go find work na or make I father help her finances!

Kingpin1000:

Mine was 50k, I was in school then, she paid 30k and asking her for the balance started bringing issues because I was lashing her. One day I went to her room and asked if she had credit so I can make a call. Na so I carry the babe phone go my house. After hours she came to my house and I told her that I will sell her phone in a week's time if she fails to pay up the 20k balance. The next day she paid up and was very angry with me telling me she borrowed the money. I just gave her phone and collected my money after 2-3 weeks I went to her house by 11pm to say sorry for my actions (but the main aim was to lash her) the apology reach 1am so I had to pass the night in her room, you can guess what happened that night. Today we are still friends.
She even called sometime ago to lend her 300k I told her that am already on a 700k debt.

alphaNomega:
Guyman borrowed 10k from you, he will give the babe 5k and pocket 5k as a sharp man.

ThickSharon123:


See, I don't have time to argue with you Nairaland men, I don't date any self. It's only on Nairaland I see such concepts. Real men never say such. They know they've got to practice family duties, by being a man and taking care of their woman in the first place.

I work for my money, and if my man is here he can testify I've never asked him for sishy, but if he brings I collect. Unukwa?

I also give. I believe in mutual support. But a man needs to be a man by showing his woman these things, love, affection and support. That's what makes a man responsible and family conscious.

How would a woman ever date or marry a guy if he's always claiming Hard man? It's disgusting for me. I'm happy my man is a good simp if that's so, he knows how to make me happy and I do the same. It's mutual and God-given..

chronique:


My point is that it's extremely very low for him to open this thread to rant about this simply because he was asked for 5k. 5k isn't enough to warrant this thread. It's quite embarrassing and I actually struggle to make out sense from the whole write up.

ayomikuolatunji:
You did well. That is how it should be. She will get help elsewhere but it will be had for the guy to get help elsewhere. Men for men is good because women easily get help without doing anything.

Babara1994:
There is this lady I liked. We met three months ago. Recently, she asked me to lend her 5k, adding that the money will be returned back in a week's time.

I had the money, but I knew from experience that lending females money, especially the ones you're crushing on is a waste of money. I declined and told her I wasn't interested in her any longer. U

4 hours later, one of my male friends asked me to lend him 10k, stating that he would repay in two weeks' time. I sent him the money immediately.

Did I do wrong?