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Nyascobar1414:
With all women weaknesses they still gad pride.. Y'all menstruate,the blood smells, naturally pussy smells..
So I really wonder why some niggas hold you at high esteem..
Only that you've come across weaklings disguising as real men..
Pity SIMPletons.

If men can leave women alone, then the percent of stories on this forum of women being useless would reduce. "Women are this, women are that" online. "I am a redpiller, women are inferior to me", it's even stupid to be dragging superiority with a "weak gender". Be an alpha male and leave weak females. Mate with your fellow superior gender and have peace of mind. Build an home with a man like you who earns as you do, will contribute like you will and won't be removing dirty blood monthly, who hasn't been damaged by a large number of dicks.
That is the real redpiller, not the broken hearted boys looking for women's loyalty and affection (something you all lack yourself), who come online to wail about how useless women are and how they should be treated like shit. Don't be a simp, start fucking men like you, I mean y'all are the strong gender.

NigeriaIsGreat:
I'm no longer a lady but an undergraduate? This is crazy Man!

My dad did not, i repeat did not share his responsibility with his wife and he's very much alife. Not just my dad. Uncles, cousins who are married and family friends. They never imagined outsourcing or share their responsibility as a man with their wife

You aren't even worth a man. You couldn't argue intelligently but being emotional. You couldn't bring up fact but resorts to putting your emotions into play with false accusations because you couldn't argue intelligently

You have all these imaginary money and you are going about looking for who to share your responsibility with as a man ba?

Or the imaginary money you claimed to have is solely meant in buying people who flawed you in a simple discuss and not using it in taking care of your wife and soon to born kids?

A week man is a man who derived joy fighting or arguing with the female folks but became dumb and ran out of idea when a man like him sprang up from no where. A weak man is a man who chicken out easily when he's having a discuss with his fellow men but love masturbating having a discuss with the opposite gender

A weak man is a man who put emotions into play instead of his senses

You know nothing about marriage because if you do, you and your partner won't go about looking for who to share your responsibility with as a man. You know nothing about marriage because if you do, the imaginary money you intend in buying someone would be judiciously utilized in your family upkeep and save you the stress of looking around for who to share your responsibility with as a man

There you go again.
An undergraduate can also be a lady, first and foremost, a male is not as noisy as you, before you claim to be a man, learn to make comments like one, don't claim to be a man and make comments like a woman, your mode of writing, choice of words and everything about your write Is giving you away as a lady, be proud of your gender OK.
It's obvious you were brought up in a wrong home, your mother didn't instill the basic senses in you.
If you want to confirm how imaginary my money is, why don't you send a DM?
We can go to any extent to prove our doubts that's what men do

lavamaestro:
If men can leave women alone, then the percent of stories on this forum of women being useless would reduce. "Women are this, women are that" online. "I am a redpiller, women are inferior to me", it's even stupid to be dragging superiority with a "weak gender". Be an alpha male and leave weak females. Mate with your fellow superior gender and have peace of mind. Build an home with a man like you who earns as you do, will contribute like you will and won't be removing dirty blood monthly, with a gender who hasn't been damaged by a large number of
dicks.
That is the real redpiller, not the broken hearted boys looking for women's loyalty and affection (something you all lack yourself), who come online to wail about how useless women are and how they should be treated like shit. Don't be a simp, start fucking men like you, I mean y'all are the strong gender.

May God bless you abundantly for this write up. They claim women have weaknesses like natural smelling vagina, smelling menstruation and so on, yet, they won't let them be and start dating their fellow men. They keep coming to this forum wailing about how women are cheating on them, demanding money from them, being rude to their siblings and parents, how useless their girlfriends and wives are, but, they are still going after them as if women are the air they breathe.
if women are useless and wicked like some men on this forum are claiming, then, leave women alone and start going after your fellow men. It's as simple as A, B, C

Tosin9119:
May God bless you abundantly for this write up. They claim women have weaknesses like natural smelling vagina, smelling menstruation and so on, yet, they won't let them be and start dating their fellow men. They keep coming to this forum wailing about how women are cheating on them, demanding money from them, being rude to their siblings and parents, how useless their girlfriends and wives are, but, they are still going after them as if women are the air they breathe.
if women are useless and wicked like some men on this forum are claiming, then, leave women alone and start going after your fellow men. It's as simple as A, B, C

Thank you oh. The number of men that approach an average Nigerian lady that is supposed to be "useless" is baffling. Married men, broke men, men with money, all of them. Then, when she rejects them, they would feel bad. Tell them you have someone else, they would be saying it doesn't matter. Accept and cheat on them with another man that says the same thing, they would want to die. With the way men can't take cheating, I'm sure that's why they don't menstruate and give birth. They won't be able to handle it.
Funny that these same men that claim a Nigerian girl is materialistic and a gold digger just because a richer man approaches them and they accept are still the ones that go about sowing their seeds like dogs. They cheat for no reason and even lose money in the process but shame women for cheating on them for money. Like if the said money is offered to them, they would reject.

lavamaestro:
Thank you oh. The number of men that approach an average Nigerian lady that is supposed to be "useless" is baffling. Married men, broke men, men with money, all of them. Then, when she rejects them, they would feel bad. Tell them you have someone else, they would be saying it doesn't matter. Accept and cheat on them with another man that says the same thing, they would want to die. With the way men can't take cheating, I'm sure that's why they don't menstruate and give birth. They won't be able to handle it.
Funny that these same men that claim a Nigerian girl is materialistic and a gold digger just because a richer man approaches them and they accept are still the ones that go about sowing their seeds like dogs. They cheat for no reason and even lose money in the process but shame women for cheating on them for money. Like if the said money is offered to them, they would reject.

Only young girls are approached and that's just because of nature that's all....

Same way girls like guys with money... its all nature.

Nothing personal

Nyascobar1414:
I couldnt read all your epistles though..
All I can say is that the man should go find a woman with a better cash.. Why would he deny himself comfort just for a mere female...

Since a female is 'mere' according to you, then, men should be going after their fellow men to date and marry. You men should stop bothering the females for relationships and marriage talks.
If women are so useless and of no good to you guys on this forum, then stop approaching them for relationships. Start dating and marrying your fellow men or redpillers(whatever you pple termed it) who will be useful and contribute financially to you relationships and marriage.
See his mouth like mere female. He has forgotten that he has female family members too, whom men like you will see and regard as 'mere' and gender with weaknesses.

lavamaestro:
Thank you oh. The number of men that approach an average Nigerian lady that is supposed to be "useless" is baffling. Married men, broke men, men with money, all of them. Then, when she rejects them, they would feel bad. Tell them you have someone else, they would be saying it doesn't matter. Accept and cheat on them with another man that says the same thing, they would want to die. With the way men can't take cheating, I'm sure that's why they don't menstruate and give birth. They won't be able to handle it.
Funny that these same men that claim a Nigerian girl is materialistic and a gold digger just because a richer man approaches them and they accept are still the ones that go about sowing their seeds like dogs. They cheat for no reason and even lose money in the process but shame women for cheating on them for money. Like if the said money is offered to them, they would reject.

There's nothing like "cheating"....

Wazobia2216:
Shebi you sabi share responsibilities

Share everything equally now!

A woman after going through pain that "biologically" changes her body, will wake up early, cook, wash plates and clothes, clean the house, prepare the children e. t. c and you think she's not doing enough

Why is it that some of you talk like kids

God forbids I overload my wife!

Not just because she's my wife! She is first a human being!

How do you know for a fact that the man does not share in these responsibilities or are you just speaking for yourself?
First you brought up pregnancy sharing, how that one take enter equation? next you brought up something else that has nothing to do with the plan? So the man is NOT a human being??
Where on here did I say the woman is not doing enough? You just dey conjure baseless statements out of nothing!
No offence but please talk something else?

BigBashiru:
Only young girls are approached and that's just because of nature that's all....

Same way girls like guys with money... its all nature.

Nothing personal

And it's nature that makes men shame, disrespect and abuse women online. And not only young girls are approached. I won't even argue with you on that.

What a hot topic
Though fictitious but very entertaining.
How am I to read almost 40 pages?

But the ones I managed to read so far so good.
Either u suport or don't with reasons.
That's how forums supposed be.
Kudos to everybody.

This generation of Nigerians ain't smiling I tell you

Tosin9119:
May God bless you abundantly for this write up. They claim women have weaknesses like natural smelling vagina, smelling menstruation and so on, yet, they won't let them be and start dating their fellow men. They keep coming to this forum wailing about how women are cheating on them, demanding money from them, being rude to their siblings and parents, how useless their girlfriends and wives are, but, they are still going after them as if women are the air they breathe.
if women are useless and wicked like some men on this forum are claiming, then, leave women alone and start going after your fellow men. It's as simple as A, B, C

It is because women in this forum keep quiet on how penis and it's content dey smell...

Also, how it is irritating looking at it....Na just say we should not condemn what God created since none of us can create anything.

Lawly:
My sister. Please love yourself first and ur family subsequently. Make good plans for your future and your old age. Don't please your family to your detriment and then end up at old at their mercies. I love my maternal grand dad so much. He was the best dad anyone can wish for. His wife did early and he had to quit his job with the federal government just to ensure he played the role of a father and a mother simultaneously on his children. He gave them the best he could offer. But on his old age, his male children that were doing financially well abandoned him bcs their wives won't allow them to take care of him. But they will always take good care of their in-laws and abandon their own father. They won't even visit him. Should they even visit him, it's one problem or the other at the instigation of their wives. His son that accepted to take care of him later changed and was making life miserable for him to the extent of flogging his own father. It was that one's wife that was taking care of him like her own father. Later he died bcs of lack of adequate care. It pained me much cus I was doing my nysc then. Had it been now that I'm working, I would have brought him up to my house in Abuja and employ someone that will look after him for me.
So my dear, the kind of energy we spend on family and children are not worth it sometimes. Think about yourself first and family comes later. Family sometimes is a scam.

It's my wife's account ....
Am done with family matter ooo... it's fake love ..... their benefit first

If her money doesn’t finish, you won’t rest. Does she trek to work? Did your consider her tfare? Abi, you’ll drop her off every morning with family car? From your post sef, it’s like you’ll even ask her to put fuel in the car if sue wants you to drop her off at work. Would she eat lunch at work? Or she has to soak garri to survive the 20days she’s be working. Your type of guy is simply looking for a girl he can control not someone who has a mine to think through and bring her own ideas and suggestions

bigpicture001:
Thanks man.. heard from her friend that sh said am too stingy,.

Honestly I didn't make her spend up to 50k from her wage.. 300k is not big and can be exhausted soon..

The weight will be too much if I form the normal Nigerian guy who likes to carry load on their head

UyaiIncomparabl:
Further checks into this marriage thingy ehn, I think it doesn't favour we women. After all, we end up living our lives for the family because we want to uphold family and societal values.

We have been used and been a pushover for too long and trust me, I'll endorse that the marriage institution is scrapped until both genders can find their bearing in the home, more especially the irresponsible men the society keeps churning out on a daily. It's even better to go the Ini Edo way. Marriage does not favour us in any way. Long overdue.

Look no body can scrap marriage get that in your mind , we are a cultured society , its just that our economy have made thing so bad and harsh, why would a young woman who has two hands and legs contribute to the building of a family?

selfishness amongst ladies is another problem I feel marriage is now a burden for young men which is not balanced

Vireani79:
a real feminist wont run away
its the entitled nigerian ladies that want to be boss with u but wont contribute

these are the ones that run away not feminist

This has nothing to do with feminism, it’s has everything to do with common sense . He’s asking to share the family finance equally but is he also planing on sharing the chores, nurture their kid(s) and all the home runs 50-50 ? If and when they decide to have kids , there’s every possibility the woman will have to pause her life for a certain period of time in other to nurture their children so what happens then ? God help us she didn’t develop baby blues during or after her Postpartum, she’ll most likely have to stop working (less earning from her part ) Y’all have to put in a lot of logical situation in other to understand things .
What the poster wrote will only work if both of them have a higher earnings .

ParpahSeventy:
Nothing everything in life is backed up empirically, certain things are choices, I just hate food you cook in extra quantity with the sole aim of microwaving it, I don't like it, it's solely a personal thing, maybe superstitious, am not saying those kind of food are bad, I don't just like it.

You are an adult and hate microwaved food in the guise of I don't just like it.

This sounds like crass nonsense.

I wonder if you did that while single and if your parents raised you like that too.

Again, I wonder if you did same in the university.



Well, if you have money you can decide to be eating meals not more than 2 hours after they are made.

Nyascobar1414:
I know you not up to 28,29 or 30...
Reach that age, make we know wassup with your face.

35 this year.

That's a red flag from you.
Her small cash, you won dey collect am...she prolly have family members she's even assisting

Everyone has their perspective to things, and wont see it as being wrong.
The lady in question have already planned what she will do with her money. And from the way you sound in the post. ( No disrespect) You sound Imposing or kinda dictating for her....
... Before the financial plan, did you ask her to draw hers?

Secondly, considering the things you listed...they appear to be so high ( vacations, Car , etc). For just first year? While we plan for better things ahead. We should start small.
Your financial plan is it for 5 years or 2 years or 15 years or forever? I believe the cumbersomeness of your plan and you not open to her suggestions or ideas made her to run away.

Your financial plan is one sided.... ( Spending spending spending) ..... You didnt include plans to step up her 80k or your 300k.. this supposed to be the first 5 in your plan. Its a consumer mindset not a growth mindset..
Are you seeing the reasons she left.

Why didnt she initate a conversation to strike a deal or reach a compromise? It also says alot about how unconnected both of you are... " who would want to stay with someone they cant argue with or reason together? Did you make her ideas look irrelevant that she felt that nothing she says would matter since Oga has spoken?

NB: I am not disputing the fact that some are too entitled or that they dont wanna spend their money.
But in an environment love is paramount.... giving flows naturally. You dont need to impose..

Did you plan for precautionary events or unforseen circumstance?
So OP.... if you had created alongside a financial plan of how she will earn at least 200k and you earn 500k....Do you think she will leave you? She will be motivated to stay and follow your lead.since you are the planner.

... Women analyze things more than Men... its funny how people are mentioning only pads, Tp and all that. There are other intricacies she figured out that you did not see.
Next time in your planning try to be Inclusive... make it realistic

Some comments here are kinda rough and degrading... it wouldnt change anyone perspectives who had been through their own rough patches in this dating scene.

Nobody has the monopoly of wisdom. While we go through life....as we fail /succeed. Its better to find what works for one and stick to it.
Peace

lavamaestro:
And it's nature that makes men shame, disrespect and abuse women online. And not only young girls are approached. I won't even argue with you on that.

It's only young girls that are approached and that guys are willing to spend on and do crazy things for.... the older girls are only approached by guys who don't believe for one reason or another that they can get the young girls.....

UyaiIncomparabl:
35 this year.

Ur finished! Lol.... but to be fair guys are finished too at 45.....

ParpahSeventy:
There you go again.
An undergraduate can also be a lady, first and foremost, a male is not as noisy as you, before you claim to be a man, learn to make comments like one, don't claim to be a man and make comments like a woman, your mode of writing, choice of words and everything about your write Is giving you away as a lady, be proud of your gender OK.
It's obvious you were brought up in a wrong home, your mother didn't instill the basic senses in you.
If you want to confirm how imaginary my money is, why don't you send a DM?
We can go to any extent to prove our doubts that's what men do

Lol
I thought you are done having a discuss with me sir? Bros this one wey u get money to buy me like this shey u no go prove am here before i DM you like this bros?

kkins25:
Women have forced society to soften men. Women are no longer the servants that they used to be, but now that we ask for some support you so called "feminism" now remember african culture..
The funny thing is, local women halk under hot sun to support family but the so called woke ones want to "take care" of the family.
His responsibilities have far outweighed hers, so whays the bleh bleh bleh about?

Aren't they cultures where women pay groom price? Did they die?

Bro see eh i no wan talk too much

bigpicture001

You are a very wise man.

Save your life and continue to apply these your policy to any nigerian women.

Bravo to you.

Ishilove:
#600

Na make e for no be like say we dey exaggerate.

honeyball:
bigpicture001

You are a very wise man.

Save your life and continue to apply these your policy to any nigerian women.

Bravo to you.

You all should just save yourselves the stress and marry yourselves jare!
Or better yet, stay by yourselves.
After all, Nigerian women ain't worth it right? So, why bother?

UyaiIncomparabl:
What sort of bickering is this? Look, I don't care what you say but I support that girl's movement that's if she hasn't moved already. This is why marriage will forever become unpalatable.

As a man, you are a provider. [s] And curse shall be on any man who decides not to take care of his family efficiently. [/s] Who even splits bill with a woman? A sensible woman knows what and what to do. You never enforce it on her. That's the hallmark of stinginess and irresponsibility on the part of the man. A man should be able to provide for his family 100% and if he cannot, then he's not ready for marriage.

Only provider men are fit to be called men.

Another young widow in the making. What a mentality? Mother don tear father's life with curses, lol

Lawly:
My sister. Please love yourself first and ur family subsequently. Make good plans for your future and your old age. Don't please your family to your detriment and then end up at old at their mercies. I love my maternal grand dad so much. He was the best dad anyone can wish for. His wife did early and he had to quit his job with the federal government just to ensure he played the role of a father and a mother simultaneously on his children. He gave them the best he could offer. But on his old age, his male children that were doing financially well abandoned him bcs their wives won't allow them to take care of him. But they will always take good care of their in-laws and abandon their own father. They won't even visit him. Should they even visit him, it's one problem or the other at the instigation of their wives. His son that accepted to take care of him later changed and was making life miserable for him to the extent of flogging his own father. It was that one's wife that was taking care of him like her own father. Later he died bcs of lack of adequate care. It pained me much cus I was doing my nysc then. Had it been now that I'm working, I would have brought him up to my house in Abuja and employ someone that will look after him for me.
So my dear, the kind of energy we spend on family and children are not worth it sometimes. Think about yourself first and family comes later. Family sometimes is a scam.

This is more common and rampant than you could imagine. But if their mother could rise from the grave, they would go to any length to take care of her. No matter what the father did for the children, no matter the sacrifice, there is still high probability that he will be neglected in his old age by his own successful children.

bigpicture001:
Thanks man.. heard from her friend that sh said am too stingy,.

Honestly I didn't make her spend up to 50k from her wage.. 300k is not big and can be exhausted soon..

The weight will be too much if I form the normal Nigerian guy who likes to carry load on their head

I learn from your thread now about planning for the future especially your unborn children school fees, kudos to you on that.

PLS start looking for another girl, who have the same vision and is ready to support you. You can try to find girls from wealthy home�

[quote author=UyaiIncomparabl post=109092821]35 this year. [/quote
Lies... Then why not married.. You a kid

Tosin9119:
Since a female is 'mere' according to you, then, men should be going after their fellow men to date and marry. You men should stop bothering the females for relationships and marriage talks.
If women are so useless and of no good to you guys on this forum, then stop approaching them for relationships. Start dating and marrying your fellow men or redpillers(whatever you pple termed it) who will be useful and contribute financially to you relationships and marriage.
See his mouth like mere female. He has forgotten that he has female family members too, whom men like you will see and regard as 'mere' and gender with weaknesses.

Thats why I said they are mere(only for procreation and support)..
We dont border women for relationship...
Men need sex,they dont need companionship..
Its that simple!

lavamaestro:
If men can leave women alone, then the percent of stories on this forum of women being useless would reduce. "Women are this, women are that" online. "I am a redpiller, women are inferior to me", it's even stupid to be dragging superiority with a "weak gender". Be an alpha male and leave weak females. Mate with your fellow superior gender and have peace of mind. Build an home with a man like you who earns as you do, will contribute like you will and won't be removing dirty blood monthly, who hasn't been damaged by a large number of dicks.
That is the real redpiller, not the broken hearted boys looking for women's loyalty and affection (something you all lack yourself), who come online to wail about how useless women are and how they should be treated like shit. Don't be a simp, start fucking men like you, I mean y'all are the strong gender.

But most of Y'all women are living under the pay check of men..
If men leave women alone, women will starve and die.. Just go to a university and see how married men sponsor this young girls..

I just take girls like normal beings, but I'm really surprised as some men hold them at high esteem..
When I was a lil kid I thought ladies were different set of beings,as in they dint defecate,urinate and so on.. But when I grew up and with the knowledge of biology I knew that women also excrete, even menstruate..and all those filthy stuffs.. I was kinda piss off...
Just that I look beyond lust that why I take women as normal beings.. And Ion fornicate, so why the Bleep should I value women...
I dont..
Women make men submit to them cos of sex.. But I've overcomed sex and lust, so no shii with me and women..
Only when I need kids I can house a female and endure all those filthy stuffs that come with them..
And note, I ain't gay, women turn me on, not men. But I still suppressed libido, grace though.