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Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by President2001(m): 8:05pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
You are not capable of control your family, to the extent you can't defend your family not to affect your work, your wife anger will destroyed her far she can't control her anger and for her to call your boss believe me how will you look like in the face of your boss pray not to loss your job 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Kakamorufu(m): 8:05pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
No doubt u dey work with oyel company. Better call family meeting on her. or you move out of the house for a while. give her some space. She's evil 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Belleful: 8:05pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
What is making u guys quarrel almost everyday? If ur wife is not submissive, stop trying to be too bossing. Sit her down and try to talk things over. Make her understand the danger of u losing ur job and how it with affect the both of u. But if she doesn't change, u gat do d needful. Run for ur life. Ur wife is the type that can do anything just to get back at u, which is seriously bad and dangerous. Wake up man |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by taneez(f): 8:06pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
[quote author=InTheCloudySky post=109188236]You probably married her like that. You can't say you didn't see any signs before marriage. You were either nonchalant about them, or mistakenly thought she would change after marriage. It doesn't work like that because marriage often exacerbates problems, which is why it's best to tackle issues you see before marriage, before marriage. Manage her as you've been managing her. [!/quote] God bless you for this. I was about to write this. Some married people are very useless except this is another made up story on nairaland. Shey you didn't know all this ni. He DEFINETLY saw the red flags. I can remember my uncle who has a terrible wife. My mum and my relatives were saying he shouldn't marry her after two kids with her because they had just done introduction. I told them that the women is his wife. Their first child died, he didn't leave, He impregnanted her again , he didnt leave .Then he got her pregnant twice and they have 2 children and they were complaining (now 3 children- a boy and 2 girls). That woman had been pretentious from day one but you impregnated her 4 times. I told them that is his wife and they would manage themselves. If you can't control her stupidity or continue to tolerate it don't come here to tell us rubbish. Nonesense For the person who mentioned me abi quoted( I am still not used to responding on nairaland)... You should see that I am in support of him dealing with his wife with iron hand. What kind of useless person would want her husband to loose his job. Shouting at the window? She is so stupid and I don't blame her. Na see finish. I am a female and I work in tech and also work from home. This guys job is one of the coolest job because of work-life balance and she is so irrational. Ingrate. She doesnt work that is why she so much of an ingrate. If na she dey sponsor herself for school wirh hard earned money, she would have appreciated it. 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by medriano: 8:06pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
oladiddy: Divorce her!!! Women like this never mean well for their spouses. Know this, if you lose this job, she’ll dump you without even remembering all the sacrifices you’ve made for her. Certain things should not be taken lightly!!! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by vickydevoka(m): 8:06pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
oladiddy:You must loose her bcus you can't go to sharia court or customary court. Server her divorce papers she come backe begin. Women are wise, de know it type is rare to see. Imagine her marrying me . 1. I won't spend on her masters..I will use the money to buy land. 2. I will give her opportunity to shout at me. I go use silence finish her. Even wen she's smiling I will be boning. I will never ask her for sex. I will eat her food occasionally. I go buy ear piece put for ear. If she hits me I will report her to her parents 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Saao(m): 8:07pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
Alot of wicked ladies nowadays. Best things to do is to avoid marriage. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Kobojunkie: 8:07pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
kansoboy:Reality,I am afraid, does not work that way. Assuming you wield control over a woman is what is crazy of what you suggest here. That was the mistake your father's before you made and are still paying for to this day. The OP chose this woman as his wife over all your so-called good girls out there, and he knows why and there is no need to belittle him for that. Probably his wife still is the best in the bunch for him, crazy as she may be in this story he tells us here. 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by taneez(f): 8:08pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
seanwilliam: The signs are ALWAYS there. ALWAYS there. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by lereinter(m): 8:09pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
Nawa O What's wrong with her? Maybe you should report her to a 3rd party |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Obiorahpcfg: 8:09pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
Watch your death very soon! She is not your wife my dear. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by dingbang(m): 8:09pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
Iyaebe:this girl you will never get sense. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by NGArmyTerrorist: 8:10pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
Stop sponsoring her in anything until you found out what her problem or what is eating her up to avoid another story that touches. She is your wife, I know.. Women of nowadays and drama and their feminists lifestyles.. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by franchasng: 8:10pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
oladiddy:It is well |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by franchasng: 8:11pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
Iyaebe:LAFMAOOOO 3 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by coolclarke(m): 8:11pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
This one na witch as wife! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Caleycash(m): 8:11pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
oladiddy:Guy, divorce her before you get wrecked!... but your life is sha boring you don't drink and socialize, nawa oo... reason why she's troubling you I guess, cus your lifestyle is boring as he'll! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Mom007(f): 8:12pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
The sooner men realise that domestic violence is a two way thing, the better for their piece of mind. Oga, I will tell you the same thing I would have told you if you are a woman, what God has put together, let no nairalander put apart! Seriously though, that woman sounds frustrated and you did nothing to shed light on the root of her frustration. Tackle that prayerfully and you will get your home back. Its not only women that ought to work and pray for their marriage. The ease at which people give up on their marriages these days is scary! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by vickydevoka(m): 8:12pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
Oga this is the best time to divorce her, now she's having only 1 kid 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by duality(m): 8:13pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
Iyaebe: You'd be one hell of a counselor. |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Danniedpastor(m): 8:14pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
Kriss216: Please, shut up if you have nothing reasonable to say. |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by onojaford(m): 8:14pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
You have no idea that your daughter is just a daughter and you can always have daughters and even sons with some other women. Only if you know what it means to become jobless and broke, then you won't keep gambling with the useless individual you have as a wife! God knows I won't take bullcrap from any fucker! 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Kobojunkie: 8:15pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
seanwilliam:In that case you ask what it was that caused the woman to morph into the hulk after marriage and the best person to ask would be the OP. However, OP'S story does not hint at this being out-of-character. 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by 6ixT8: 8:15pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
daddytime: boss how mich do you sell laptop charger with big hole? |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Ebymyk(m): 8:15pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
Be the man... On no account should àny woman be doing pass herself, she may have weighed you in the balance over time...women are able to sense a man they can manuever over time...you may have shown weakness in areas she expected you to be strong... Some women like to drag,maybe she has bad friends influencing her negatively towards you..Stand up to her and tell her you are the man of the house... If she Wan do strong head... Cover her better slap... Na beating the hungry her... Until she receive mending, her head go cool.. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by InaNla3060: 8:15pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
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Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Achor1111(m): 8:16pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
oladiddy:OP let's do this, pretend as if you have been sacked from your job because of her nasty attitude(be very serious and mean about this) watch her reaction. I will tell you the next move to take. NB, break the news on weekend, l prefer Friday. You will win this war! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Romanoff(f): 8:17pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
Jondelng: I second this. Don't let anyone know where you are. Change your number sef. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Kobojunkie: 8:17pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
vickydevoka:How many have you divorced abeg? |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by ariesbull: 8:18pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
oladiddy: I am sorry to say this... That woman will ruin you... She wants you to be on low level and make a jest of you.... Use your Brain 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by schoolboymatt(m): 8:18pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
one side of the story. can't say anything till I hear your wife's side of the story. 2 Likes |
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