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Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by Nobody: 11:12pm On Jan 13, 2022
RedCentaur:
In other words, women are their own worst enemies?

Op, kindly ignore that lady and face your job squarely! . She should pull down the roof with her tales of debauchery since she is that shameless.
He should just ignore her since someone cannot shame the shameless ,so she wants to open her mouth & start confessing forgotten that she is an outsider,let her open up & see who will bear the shame most.
Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by daddio(m): 11:47pm On Jan 13, 2022
MrBrownJay1:
this is a woman he's been fukcing for about a year...so i would believe he care somehow for her, and therefore a little compassion is needed here as this is not a total stranger....but a very good (sex) friend.

also, remember, this woman can take him down with her, as nobody knows about their affairs.

Bros, OP na Mumu, na TOWTOW wey he dey fuc.k no wan mak im wise.

Me I no go tell her anything.



EDIT...i guess you didnt read the 2nd post of OP about the girl wanting to expose him etc

@OP this is clear BLACKMAIL, dont fall for it and better go and tell your oga about the little slip you had!
Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by Kriss216: 11:52pm On Jan 13, 2022
Skullano:
Can you please tell me why you told her that she will be sacked?.

Some guys ehhhe.
You dey mind the guy undecided

Toto water don cover his sense, obviously
Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by Volksguys1985: 12:08am On Jan 14, 2022
Op your company na family company? , those small small family business? Huh, because if it's an big firm nobody cares if you people bleep or not.
Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by swarley75(m): 6:42am On Jan 14, 2022
You shouldn't have informed her about her impending sack, since you you have done so and she is threatening you just put some little fear in her that if she drags you along with her, that will be the end of her and make sure she is not recording you. Promise her when she is sacked that you will help her get a new job in no time.
Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by TOPCRUISE(m): 7:04am On Jan 14, 2022
This is the reason most companies use ladies as HR officer. Here is a Randy one on the loose and is here looking for help embarassed
Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by YourFavorite21(m): 7:36am On Jan 14, 2022
Try and talk to her, tell her that u will help her and find another job.
Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by candygist: 7:47am On Jan 14, 2022
ChizzyBuna:
I had a fling with one of my work friends.
She lives 15 mins apart from my area
We have been having sex for over a year
She is a good friend.

Long story short, i was given promotion at work. My job is one of the hardest.
I'm in charge of recurring new workers and im the one that submit the names of those who will be sacked.
The M.D is my uncle and he trust me so much

Today i opened a file and saw this girls name on list of people to be sacked.
I have to submit it and prepare their letters.
I have defended her when my uncle wanted to sack her last year.
If i defend her again, my uncle will suspect im having fling with her. He almost caught us kissing so he is suspicious
If my uncle find out, he might sack me.
He sees me as an angel and i want to keep that reputation. So i can become M.D

modified
For those asking why they want to sack her
Last year, during staff meeting. She kind of challenged a senior collegue's idea infront of everybody, the man was not having it. It caused a riff between them. Since then the man has been trying to sack her. Based on he is my uncles alley.
I defended her privately to my uncle. They didnt sack her..
Last year my uncle annouced that he will be going to uk for hip surgery.
His wife has taken over as of January.
Maybe the wife has a hand in this. 
And i cant ask her why..

Both my uncle and wife are not on nairaland. So its safe to bring this topic here
You see some women not smart. Instead of her to keep a low profile, she wants to be robbing shoulders with the top men in her office all because she’s fucking you. Her mind go Dele momoudu
Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by Totiemide: 7:50am On Jan 14, 2022
Your first mistake was having sexual relationship at your place of work... Shit could happen at any fucking time, devil no dey idle to let una enjoy the relationship like that.

Second mistake, was telling her you saw her name among the list of people to be sacked. Some babe no get patience o. I'm very sure it's because you like her that's y you told her but in dz case she dey para for you.

My guy summon courage go tell your uncle before dz babe open her mouth, if she does omo you don comot for work be that o.

Warning : you should learn to keep yourself from anything office relationship because na dem dey too collect daily bread 4 person hand.
Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by Premiumwriter: 8:03am On Jan 14, 2022
ChizzyBuna:
Now here is the real issue
As of today i told her that i saw her name on sack list. It didn't go well with her
She has accused me of using her to climb to get new position at work.
She is now threatning to expose all our flings and affairs to my uncle who is the M.D.
She swore that i cant be promoted and she be sacked. That if they will sack her then they must sack me too.

She said i should defend her like i did last year or else she will expose our office sex and flings to M.D
And if i defend her, that my uncle will definitely suspect and he might demote me or sack me. He is a tough disciplinary man. I have seen him sack his closest allies.
I do r know what to do. I havent eaten since afternoon. My mind is not at rest
well get her sacked.

That way your uncle will know you are willing to sacrifice pleasure for gains when she eventually open the pit
Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by blahc007: 8:13am On Jan 14, 2022
Hmmm....SEX?
jus that people no de ever learn....
This thing call sex bah....if e never drag your feet out u will never agree how powerful it is....
Strong men don bow,like a piece of bread, jus because of this thing called sex.....

My brother just brace up for the worse..
You Don't tamper with a lady's emotion and think you can go free just like that....the hole in between her thighs is a powerful leathal weapon of destruction...

My advice:
Pray fervently about this...plead for God's mercy...repent of your wrongs...
Ask for Grace to handle the shit....cos it's ain't gonna be easy and funny..
Don't beg the lady, don't threaten her either.....
Do what you got to do....and believe the grace of God to see you through.
You will surely come out strong and victorious.....come drop your testimony soon.
Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by descartes400: 8:34am On Jan 14, 2022
MrBrownJay1:
this is a woman he's been fukcing for about a year...so i would believe he care somehow for her, and therefore a little compassion is needed here as this is not a total stranger....but a very good (sex) friend.

also, remember, this woman can take him down with her, as nobody knows about their affairs.

EDIT...i guess you didnt read the 2nd post of OP about the girl wanting to expose him etc

@OP this is clear BLACKMAIL, dont fall for it and better go and tell your oga about the little slip you had!
They OP will sell trade secrets for puss.y
He shouldn't have informed the Lady of her impending sack. If the lady later asked why he didnt intervene on her behalf..that's when he will tell her he did exactly that last year when she was slated to be axed.

Given his position in the company and family relationship with the owner of the company, he should have made it known to her before shifting her pant..from the get go that..he doesn't do transfer oh, no urgent 2k or 5k oh! i don't interfere with management decisions oh!

If and when his uncle's wife and eventually his Uncle gets to hear the whole story, they will feel the OP cannot be trusted...and should rightly face the sack too.
Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by lereinter(m): 8:59am On Jan 14, 2022
Is it you that want to sack her?
Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by decub: 9:36am On Jan 14, 2022
ChizzyBuna:
Now here is the real issue
As of today i told her that i saw her name on sack list. It didn't go well with her
She has accused me of using her to climb to get new position at work.
She is now threatning to expose all our flings and affairs to my uncle who is the M.D.
She swore that i cant be promoted and she be sacked. That if they will sack her then they must sack me too.

She said i should defend her like i did last year or else she will expose our office sex and flings to M.D
And if i defend her, that my uncle will definitely suspect and he might demote me or sack me. He is a tough disciplinary man. I have seen him sack his closest allies.
I do r know what to do. I havent eaten since afternoon. My mind is not at rest
What if you get sacked trying to defend her again? Does she have a proof of the fling?

To the best of my knowledge, people don't get sacked based on accusation of having office romance when they have never been caught in the act.

She simply wants to drag you down and if you don't man up, she could outsmart you and turn the table. And I bet u, she isn't gonna protect your interest like you did previously.
Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by Edozie4bc: 10:36am On Jan 14, 2022
Kriss216:
It is her fate to be sacked... There's nothing you can do again.


Try and give her a hot goodbye sex at the office toilet, make she use that one hold body.
comrade spotted grin grin grin
Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by Karleb(m): 10:43am On Jan 14, 2022
Report yourself to your uncle!

Let the "remember the chicken" story motivate you, that girl is an asshole.
Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by luscioustrish(f): 11:22am On Jan 14, 2022
You shouldn’t have told her anything at all ..
.
I’ll suggest you inform your uncle yourself and apologize for your mistakes.
Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by Realday: 11:40am On Jan 14, 2022
Actually I don't like commenting here but your story really touch me and i can say you're not emotionally okay. My brother,accept you don Bleep up but nah solution remain.

I know you still have feelings for this lady,and if she knows or have idea of it,your problem is half solved! Can you just invite her for a lunch in your room,tell her words(sweet words),tell her how you're selective when it comes to lady matter,use body language and turn her on. With all these,she will think you want to copulate with her as usual,but suddenly, stand up and fake your emotion like you're fucking depressed, she will ask you questions then use that opportunity to enter her, tell her stories,let her know that it's because of your love for her dey make you worry... Then bring the sack letter ishh in and your plan.


Let see if it works sha. 'Cause some ladies no get chill.
Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by Nobody: 12:14pm On Jan 14, 2022
ChizzyBuna:
Now here is the real issue
As of today i told her that i saw her name on sack list. It didn't go well with her
She has accused me of using her to climb to get new position at work.
She is now threatning to expose all our flings and affairs to my uncle who is the M.D.
She swore that i cant be promoted and she be sacked. That if they will sack her then they must sack me too.

She said i should defend her like i did last year or else she will expose our office sex and flings to M.D
And if i defend her, that my uncle will definitely suspect and he might demote me or sack me. He is a tough disciplinary man. I have seen him sack his closest allies.
I do r know what to do. I havent eaten since afternoon. My mind is not at rest
I don't want to insult you. How will you value sex above your job and means of livelihood?

You just leaked official documents and that is enough to sack you.

You are a very unserious fellow. Imagine the girl threatening you and also challenging a senior colleague openly.

She is not even wife material.
Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by AliyuMahdi9: 12:42pm On Jan 14, 2022
These reasons are subjective. If it was a clear case of insurbodination, she would have been sack that same day.

For her to be in the company till now means, she is probably contributing to the company positively.

Is the layoff exercise based on performance review?

If it is you can make a case on that.

ChizzyBuna:
I had a fling with one of my work friends.
She lives 15 mins apart from my area
We have been having sex for over a year
She is a good friend.

Long story short, i was given promotion at work. My job is one of the hardest.
I'm in charge of recurring new workers and im the one that submit the names of those who will be sacked.
The M.D is my uncle and he trust me so much

Today i opened a file and saw this girls name on list of people to be sacked.
I have to submit it and prepare their letters.
I have defended her when my uncle wanted to sack her last year.
If i defend her again, my uncle will suspect im having fling with her. He almost caught us kissing so he is suspicious
If my uncle find out, he might sack me.
He sees me as an angel and i want to keep that reputation. So i can become M.D

modified
For those asking why they want to sack her
Last year, during staff meeting. She kind of challenged a senior collegue's idea infront of everybody, the man was not having it. It caused a riff between them. Since then the man has been trying to sack her. Based on he is my uncles alley.
I defended her privately to my uncle. They didnt sack her..
Last year my uncle annouced that he will be going to uk for hip surgery.
His wife has taken over as of January.
Maybe the wife has a hand in this. 
And i cant ask her why..

Both my uncle and wife are not on nairaland. So its safe to bring this topic here
Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by BigYash: 12:48pm On Jan 14, 2022
You went and told her that she is about to be sacked.. Busy body.. Your uncle need sack you,so that you go get sense.. Cux of pucci you go dey open ur mouth wah wah,like tap.. I hope she expose you ,like she promised you.. You're not a real nigga
Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by jumper524(m): 1:00pm On Jan 14, 2022
Your in a dilemma, either way you'll still lose.
I'll suggest you rake the risk or sacking her off.
If your oga is too strict to understand, try talking to oga wife.
Na normal thing for men to loose guard at times.
Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by jimmychang: 2:52pm On Jan 14, 2022
ChizzyBuna:
I had a fling with one of my work friends.
She lives 15 mins apart from my area
We have been having sex for over a year
She is a good friend.

Long story short, i was given promotion at work. My job is one of the hardest.
I'm in charge of recurring new workers and im the one that submit the names of those who will be sacked.
The M.D is my uncle and he trust me so much

Today i opened a file and saw this girls name on list of people to be sacked.
I have to submit it and prepare their letters.
I have defended her when my uncle wanted to sack her last year.
If i defend her again, my uncle will suspect im having fling with her. He almost caught us kissing so he is suspicious
If my uncle find out, he might sack me.
He sees me as an angel and i want to keep that reputation. So i can become M.D

modified
For those asking why they want to sack her
Last year, during staff meeting. She kind of challenged a senior collegue's idea infront of everybody, the man was not having it. It caused a riff between them. Since then the man has been trying to sack her. Based on he is my uncles alley.
I defended her privately to my uncle. They didnt sack her..
Last year my uncle annouced that he will be going to uk for hip surgery.
His wife has taken over as of January.
Maybe the wife has a hand in this. 
And i cant ask her why..

Both my uncle and wife are not on nairaland. So its safe to bring this topic here
Bro are you not happy grin. eliminate her bro.You too dey catch feelings.Business and emotions keep them separate.

AND MAYBE NA BECAUSE OF YOU SHE START TO DEY GROW WINGS.She dey Bleep the her oga nephew na cheesy
Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:02pm On Jan 14, 2022
descartes400:
They OP will sell trade secrets for puss.y
He shouldn't have informed the Lady of her impending sack. If the lady later asked why he didnt intervene on her behalf..that's when he will tell her he did exactly that last year when she was slated to be axed.

Given his position in the company and family relationship with the owner of the company, he should have made it known to her before shifting her pant..from the get go that..he doesn't do transfer oh, no urgent 2k or 5k oh! i don't interfere with management decisions oh!

If and when his uncle's wife and eventually his Uncle gets to hear the whole story, they will feel the OP cannot be trusted...and should rightly face the sack too.
yeah that man is very weak when it comes to WOMEN or POWER... as i always say, NEVER SHIIT WHERE YOU EAT!
Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by Newboss(m): 5:28pm On Jan 14, 2022
See wetin simping dey cause.

You don go tell a woman all your business, now you dey complain.

Comot for here before I jam you
Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by blackgold2018(m): 6:14pm On Jan 14, 2022
wizdomnzube:
Bro, for the fact you told her about what you saw and she decided to go all rude and stupid by threatening you, sack the idiot NOW!

If you don't, itll be you and it won't matter if your uncle is the boss or not. Let her expose whatever it is you guys have done in the past, na she go still lose.

Sack the fool now. Instead of her to beg you to help her keep her job, she dey yan dust.
the OP is a week man
Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by khadaffi(m): 8:12pm On Jan 14, 2022
Sack her and start preparing for your defence. Assuming she spill the beans, is there a way you can deny it? This is what you should be considering now. Sleeping with her was not a sin. You didn't rape her.

Bro start preparing your defence and forget the idiot
Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by tnerro1(m): 10:39pm On Jan 14, 2022
Men, had one nasty experience with a co worker, am not fvcking co workers again
Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by Kinzman(m): 12:48am On Jan 15, 2022
Obviously, you are not an HR professional! You don't disclose a sensitive information like this, no matter how close she is to you.


ChizzyBuna:
Now here is the real issue
As of today i told her that i saw her name on sack list. It didn't go well with her
She has accused me of using her to climb to get new position at work.
She is now threatning to expose all our flings and affairs to my uncle who is the M.D.
She swore that i cant be promoted and she be sacked. That if they will sack her then they must sack me too.

She said i should defend her like i did last year or else she will expose our office sex and flings to M.D
And if i defend her, that my uncle will definitely suspect and he might demote me or sack me. He is a tough disciplinary man. I have seen him sack his closest allies.
I do r know what to do. I havent eaten since afternoon. My mind is not at rest
Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by Tomilola360: 10:09pm On Jan 15, 2022
if you waste my time to read this kind of nonsense again, God will punish you for me.




Go and write stories if you want.
Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by Mvena(f): 10:09pm On Jan 15, 2022
Hehehehe

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