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Truvelisback:
What the man told u abt the woman, might not be true. The man might have said so perhaps, he felt u would be a barrier to him from not having sex with her.

This is how simps reason

Op Sorry.
Next time fear women well well.
Them fit use any thing against you.
They have weaponised this their claim of being weak and vulnerable.
Many laws are now in their favour.
It might sound funny but, slowly women are taking over the world.
Men should wake up.
I stand with the Redpillers.

Kingcalls:
This is how simps reason

I dey tell you.
When him confront the woman she no deny am.

Truvelisback:
What the man told u abt the woman, might not be true. The man might have said so perhaps, he felt u would be a barrier to him from not having sex with her.

Actually this is another perspective, I think O.P is a person that loves to be in the good book of everyone which itself is a problem, there is a way you carry yourself as a man, some unnecessary ridicule won't come your way, everything is moderation, I am not saying you should be frowning like Abacha when you are a meek person but you have to build an aura that commands respect.

O.P from your write up, seems your financial standing is far better than your neighbours like financially, you are not on same wavelength with them, why not get accommodation in a place with people of similar financial might, this might reduce unnecessary intrusion of privacy, jealousy, backbiting etc

Sorry this happened to you.

chatinent:
The hate tho.

Unu zukwanuike

This guy has to be the biggest simp there is on Nairaland.

Smh!

God save us men

Chai uv got vibe man! Wud like us roll.

Kingcalls:
This is how simps reason

This isn't abt being a Simp. From the story, the guy might be acting hostile to him because he doesn't want hope to bench him. The guy is a Sissy type.

realestate99:
Actually this is another perspective, I think O.P is a person that loves to be in the good book of everyone which itself is a problem, there is a way you carry yourself as a man, some unnecessary ridicule won't come your way, everything is moderation, I am not saying you should be frowning like Abacha when you are a meek person but you have to build an aura that commands respect.

O.P from your write up, seems your financial standing is far better than your neighbours like financially, you are not on same wavelength with them, why not get accommodation in a place with people of similar financial might, this might reduce unnecessary intrusion of privacy, jealousy, backbiting etc

Frowning like Abacha got me laughing. That guy has Sissy attitude. And i hate guys are that way, who doesn't mind their business.

Truvelisback:
This isn't abt being a Simp. From the story, the guy might be acting hostile to him because he doesn't want hope to bench him. The guy is a Sissy type.

So u dint read the part whr she admitted to it ?? Simps smh , enablers of disaster

mcdreeezy:
I agree with everything you have said. Men need to stand up for men.

Asin ehn that is why I get angry when I see bro code because my experiences tell me otherwise

Imagine a man was raped and all you could do is to laugh at him
Women supporting women and bro code is the biggest scam

chatinent:
The hate tho.

Unu zukwanuike

So you feel you're wise? SMH

Go live in a more sane environment


It seems you have the means

Telegram234:
Thegidredpiller food is ready
well truth be told.
Even in marriage issues settling, people tends to hear from the wife more than the husband.
They push the whole blame to the husband, even if the wife is caught cheating, the husband will be at blame. They push the whole blame to the husband, even if the wife is caught cheating, the husband will be at blame.

no be for Nigeria. If married woman sleeps with another man here, at least in my state nobody will support her. She will be treated as a plague and forced to perform ritual

To have sex is not even costly.

Although I am not into sex stuff.

Maybe the reason I don't like sex much is that it is cheap and easy to get it. We don't like what is common and cheap.[/quote]I laugh in biology as a virgin I am

Kingcalls:
So u dint read the part whr she admitted to it ?? Simps smh , enablers of disaster

What did she admit SIMPle guy?

Men sleeping with her, cannot render financial assistance....... All they can offer her, is their dick !!!!!!


Why do you want to assist..........

You too get ulterior motive . . ....

Eeyah...sorry o, I feel your pain. Next time, create a space in your own space to avoid stories that touches the marrow.

In this life we attract circumstances and people that are on the same vibration as our thinking.
AS within so without. We are the architects of our lives and whatevr happens to us reflects our thinking and mindset

Fazeman25:
Well said bro, but at the end of the day did u still give her the money?

No Sir.

I won't give her my money.

I see her as an enemy who is out to spoil my name.

In my neighborhood, I am known as a good person who loves helping my neighbors around.

She deliberately cooked the lies to make people start disliking me, so that people would think my help has sinister motives.

NA LIE U DEY LIE,NOTHING LIKE DAT HAPPENED 2U.JUST SHUT UR DIRTY MOUTH.

lecturer50:
I forgot to mention that I told the people around that there are women who are willing to come to my house because of the food, the chicken and all.

When I bought the biggest vitaform for N95,000, there was a girl who came just because of that foam, the first day I bought it.

Where I am staying, there are so many girls in hotels around, tall, fair/dark and beautiful girls whom people pay as low as N2,000 to have sex with.

If I were that pressed, would I give a divorced woman N20,000 just to have sex with her?

I would have rather paid at most N5,000 to sleep with a more beautiful and young girl than pay N20,000 for a divorced woman with kids.

My neighbor use to bring a girl and spent the night with her, after which he would pay her as low as N5,000 according to what he told me.

To have sex is not even costly.

Although I am not into sex stuff.

Maybe the reason I don't like sex much is that it is cheap and easy to get it. We don't like what is common and cheap.

Godada:



This is an interesting write up but based on the setting, it's instructive to note the calibre of people involved: low lives. Face me I face you kind of setting.


The mental intelligence of the people involved is low and limited. Why? Accusations cannot be made based on assumptions.

What is wrong here is a case of slander. An appropriate course of legal action should be pursued by the guy in question.

It's asinine to assume a man who wants to help you wants to screw you. While the lady is busy working in Chevron, she wants to get paid in Total. That's tells the calibre of people at play here.

Anyway case it's obvious society favors the women and also kids. You have a marital tussle, custody of kids is given to the woman.

There is war in the land, women and kids are given consideration. A woman slaps a man, if he hits back, he is called unprintable names.

Lots of women knows this and exploits it to their best advantage.

So it's left for men is to rise up to the challenge that awaits them.

The society favors women.

You summed it up perfectly . This is a case of slum dwellers just being slum dwellers.

To the OP .. visit this site and thank me later MGTOW. Use Google to find the link.

Men have for long awoken up our harsh reality . This is why taking the red pill is the best thing you can ever do for yourself as a man.

So many red flags in this story.
A struggling man promised a neighbor that is not his girlfriend 20K he doesn't have.
This is despite the fact that he knows the woman's boyfriend.

Does he not have parents, siblings and friends that really need the 20K?

A normal man would have said no unless there is something we don't know.

CHoccolaTE:
Another thread for males to whine and nag as usual.

I can also create a thread about how I have been scammed by males or disrespected by males for no reason other than because I am female and conclude that men are scammers and rude/mannerless people.
I can decide that all men are thieves and armed robbers and kidnappers and just because 90% of these crimes are committed by males.

Na men dey cause problem for this world pass women but they are the ones endlessly complaining of women.

Be wise young Feminist!!!

God bless you for that quote.

But know that if you are ashamed to defend a follow man against a woman who wants to destroy him, when your time comes, no one would defend you.

lecturer50:
A 27 year old divorced woman with 3 kids came to me to borrow N20,000 to add and pay house rent.

I told her I would give her money in a few weeks time when I get the money.

Last week, she came back from her nursery school teaching job and right from the door of my room, she started shouting " I cannot sell my body for money"

I asked her what happened and she claimed men wanted to sleep with her to give her the N20,000.

I consoled her and told her that some men like giving women such condition before they can help the women.

She answered that if I am among such men who sleep with women before helping them, I should tell her so she could forget about coming to me.

I said that I am not among such men and that I would give her the money when I get it.

She thanked me and left.

I have a male neighbor whom the woman has been having sex with. It was the male neighbor who advised her to come to me because he is not working.

That my male neighbor started giving me attitude. He answered my greetings grudgingly.

I wanted to stop greeting him.

But then I observed that my next yard female neighbors also did the same. They stopped answering my greetings. That divorced woman is living with/near those female neighbors. Other males around were still friendly with me, except my next door male neighbor whom the woman has been having sex with.

So i asked my male neighbor what the problem was because he and the females around were giving me attitude.

He said nothing at first.

Later, he said in a friendly manner that I should have respected myself and not asked the woman for sex, because when he started having sex with the woman, it was she who initiated the move, and not him.

He opened up to me that the woman has been telling people that I wanted to sleep with her for the money.

I was so shocked and ran to go and meet the woman, but he held me and said that the woman strongly warned him not to confront me if he wanted her to continue visiting him.

I told him the true situation of things and he said I should forget everything because she is "just a woman".

I wasn't having any of this, so I confronted her in the front of her female friends in her room.

She answered that she believed we misunderstood ourselves. She said am I not a man? Why must what I heard bother me.

Some males around said I should forget it because the society has given women weapon against men which is rape/sexual assault allegations, because even if women are lying against men, people would still believe the women.

They said that the best a man should do is to hope he is not falsely accused by a woman because there is nothing he can say that anyone would believe him.

Because the society believes a man always wants to have sex with every woman, therefore every accusation from women would be immediately believed.

I answered them that even if a person is a chronic thief who is well known as a thief, he would not keep quiet and just accept it when he is accused of stealing what he did not steal. He would shout and defend himself.

At least let them accused him of what he stole and not what he didn't steal.

They say I am a man and it is nothing to a man if a woman accused him of wanting to sleep with her. One girl there was telling me that there was nothing wrong in a man wanting to sleep with any woman. That there is nothing to be ashamed of as a man, if you have a desire to sleep with any woman.

Can you imagine that?

I believe the society should form a group to cater for men also.

So many black men were falsely accused by white women and were killed because no one cares for the male gender. You cannot just accept false accusations because you believe it is nothing since you are a man. What if you end up losing your life, freedom or happiness because of it?

Men are so ashamed to rise up and defend the male gender. But women always group together to defend a woman who is abused by a man.

Men would rather defend the female gender.

But know that if you are ashamed to defend a follow man against a woman who wants to destroy him, when your time comes, no one would defend you.

What goes around comes around.

Don't think that you are safe when other men are not safe.

Don't think that if a woman accused a man falsely and the man is being imprisoned or killed, that you cannot be a victim tommorow.

If you like abuse me.

Truvelisback:
What did she admit SIMPle guy?

Go bk and read the story Mr simp

lecturer50:
A 27 year old divorced woman with 3 kids came to me to borrow N20,000 to add and pay house rent.

I told her I would give her money in a few weeks time when I get the money.

Last week, she came back from her nursery school teaching job and right from the door of my room, she started shouting " I cannot sell my body for money"

I asked her what happened and she claimed men wanted to sleep with her to give her the N20,000.

I consoled her and told her that some men like giving women such condition before they can help the women.

She answered that if I am among such men who sleep with women before helping them, I should tell her so she could forget about coming to me.

I said that I am not among such men and that I would give her the money when I get it.

She thanked me and left.

I have a male neighbor whom the woman has been having sex with. It was the male neighbor who advised her to come to me because he is not working.

That my male neighbor started giving me attitude. He answered my greetings grudgingly.

I wanted to stop greeting him.

But then I observed that my next yard female neighbors also did the same. They stopped answering my greetings. That divorced woman is living with/near those female neighbors. Other males around were still friendly with me, except my next door male neighbor whom the woman has been having sex with.

So i asked my male neighbor what the problem was because he and the females around were giving me attitude.

He said nothing at first.

Later, he said in a friendly manner that I should have respected myself and not asked the woman for sex, because when he started having sex with the woman, it was she who initiated the move, and not him.

He opened up to me that the woman has been telling people that I wanted to sleep with her for the money.

I was so shocked and ran to go and meet the woman, but he held me and said that the woman strongly warned him not to confront me if he wanted her to continue visiting him.

I told him the true situation of things and he said I should forget everything because she is "just a woman".

I wasn't having any of this, so I confronted her in the front of her female friends in her room.

She answered that she believed we misunderstood ourselves. She said am I not a man? Why must what I heard bother me.

Some males around said I should forget it because the society has given women weapon against men which is rape/sexual assault allegations, because even if women are lying against men, people would still believe the women.

They said that the best a man should do is to hope he is not falsely accused by a woman because there is nothing he can say that anyone would believe him.

Because the society believes a man always wants to have sex with every woman, therefore every accusation from women would be immediately believed.

I answered them that even if a person is a chronic thief who is well known as a thief, he would not keep quiet and just accept it when he is accused of stealing what he did not steal. He would shout and defend himself.

At least let them accused him of what he stole and not what he didn't steal.

They say I am a man and it is nothing to a man if a woman accused him of wanting to sleep with her. One girl there was telling me that there was nothing wrong in a man wanting to sleep with any woman. That there is nothing to be ashamed of as a man, if you have a desire to sleep with any woman.

Can you imagine that?

I believe the society should form a group to cater for men also.

So many black men were falsely accused by white women and were killed because no one cares for the male gender. You cannot just accept false accusations because you believe it is nothing since you are a man. What if you end up losing your life, freedom or happiness because of it?

Men are so ashamed to rise up and defend the male gender. But women always group together to defend a woman who is abused by a man.

Men would rather defend the female gender.

But know that if you are ashamed to defend a follow man against a woman who wants to destroy him, when your time comes, no one would defend you.

What goes around comes around.

Don't think that you are safe when other men are not safe.

Don't think that if a woman accused a man falsely and the man is being imprisoned or killed, that you cannot be a victim tommorow.

If you like abuse me.

You see one good rule I have kept in life is I don't borrow women money I rather dash them the minimum I dash any woman which is 2k and it will never exceed 5k. See I have learnt a terrible lesson borrowing women money and trying to get them to pay back the money it's in there DNA to outsmart you with every moves either to pay that money with there body, or favour they have done to you in the past or slander you so that you can forget about collecting the money.

So sorry.

Please consider leaving that house.

how do you know it is lie?

vicfajeze:
NA LIE U DEY LIE,NOTHING LIKE DAT HAPPENED 2U.JUST SHUT UR DIRTY MOUTH.