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oldienavie:
So I am 36 years and looking to settle down.
I have a lady friend who I have know for a while and is a really decent lady.
She is the type of person I would like to marry (I like conservative ladies and she is the conservative type no makeup which is what I want).
She is 32 years old.

A part of me feels it is better to wait for a while and try and get a younger "god fearing" lady.

To the men, what would you advise ?

I am kinda traditional and feel like a man should avoid marrying a lady in her 30s and also have a gap of atleast 7 years with the wife but I think I love her, I have been thinking about her lately.

Edited: A lot of people asking why I am not married at 36 years old, I was studying abroad, I just got back to naija to try and marry.

ab1x:
Age shouldn't be a barrier. The gap between my wife and I is just 2 years. Love should be the main thing.

pocohantas:
Look for a younger girl. Shebi that is your heart desire? No stress the 32yrs old lady mbok.

Ibrahimmantu79:
Who and when was the fact established.
Pls share your research link

oldienavie:
I get y our point, like I said, she has most things I desire in a woman except she is older than I would want my wife to be.
I am trying to figure out if I should take the risk, let her go and expect to find another lady that has the same qualities but is younger.

okwadatigbogal:
Hope you know that the standard age gap between a husband and wife should not be more than 5 years. The higher the age gap, the higher the likelihood of divorce and the more unbalanced a relationship would be. This is not illiterate's argument, go and see the study its everywhere.

Enibanks:
bro if it is what will makes you happy please dont hesitates to go for what you wants, your happiness matters alots on earth than following a wrong steps in the name of you loking for young lady, go for what you wants and forget about the traditions is the tradition that will be helping you to control your family? pls do what your minds says, because to gets a woman that loves and understands you this days is very very scares
pls dont hesitates to thank me later @ENIBANKS

15ssDRIVE:
Most time 32 will be real better than younger. She knows her markets is closing down. Back up with the little said.

oldienavie:
So I am 36 years and looking to settle down.
I have a lady friend who I have know for a while and is a really decent lady.
She is the type of person I would like to marry (I like conservative ladies and she is the conservative type no makeup which is what I want).
She is 32 years old.

A part of me feels it is better to wait for a while and try and get a younger "god fearing" lady.

To the men, what would you advise ?

I am kinda traditional and feel like a man should avoid marrying a lady in her 30s and also have a gap of atleast 7 years with the wife but I think I love her, I have been thinking about her lately.

Edited: A lot of people asking why I am not married at 36 years old, I was studying abroad, I just got back to naija to try and marry.

Uyi168:
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was your wife 32 when you marry her?

Bahamas95:
Go for a younger girl jor!

After testing all shapes, colour and sizes of d!cks and doing shakara when they were younger they will start forming wife material after turning "old cargo"

Jman06:
Chances are high that the 32yo woman is just pretending and forming good girl just to trap a niggar, knowing that age is not on her side.

Op, go for a younger girl! It is better to marry a younger girl and stand higher chances of birthing healthy children than marrying an older woman only to start doing TTC. Even if the younger girl turns out bad, provided you're able to sire your offsprings through her. Church dismissed!

BigBashiru:
Get this thru ur thick skull: a 36 yr old man that's rich can marry a 23 yr old girl but a 32 yr old girl sleeping around and pridefully dismissing guys in her prime can't get married (bitter truth). And those 32 year old gals that get married will be cheated on with younger girls..

Wat we are experiencing today is a skew of nature in men's favor since gals no longer want to get married on time....

oldienavie:
So I am 36 years and looking to settle down.
I have a lady friend who I have know for a while and is a really decent lady.
She is the type of person I would like to marry (I like conservative ladies and she is the conservative type no makeup which is what I want).
She is 32 years old.

A part of me feels it is better to wait for a while and try and get a younger "god fearing" lady.

To the men, what would you advise ?

I am kinda traditional and feel like a man should avoid marrying a lady in her 30s and also have a gap of atleast 7 years with the wife but I think I love her, I have been thinking about her lately.

Edited: A lot of people asking why I am not married at 36 years old, I was studying abroad, I just got back to naija to try and marry.

okwadatigbogal:
Hope you know that the standard age gap between a husband and wife should not be more than 5 years. The higher the age gap, the higher the likelihood of divorce and the more unbalanced a relationship would be. This is not illiterate's argument, go and see the study its everywhere.

oldienavie:
So I am 36 years and looking to settle down...

Double0h7:
I swear age is just a number. Look at the kinda question a 36 year old man is asking

oldienavie:
So I am 36 years and looking to settle down.
I have a lady friend who I have know for a while and is a really decent lady.
She is the type of person I would like to marry (I like conservative ladies and she is the conservative type no makeup which is what I want).
She is 32 years old.

A part of me feels it is better to wait for a while and try and get a younger "god fearing" lady.

To the men, what would you advise ?

I am kinda traditional and feel like a man should avoid marrying a lady in her 30s and also have a gap of atleast 7 years with the wife but I think I love her, I have been thinking about her lately.

Edited: A lot of people asking why I am not married at 36 years old, I was studying abroad, I just got back to naija to try and marry.

oldienavie:
So I am 36 years and looking to settle down.
I have a lady friend who I have know for a while and is a really decent lady.
She is the type of person I would like to marry (I like conservative ladies and she is the conservative type no makeup which is what I want).
She is 32 years old.

A part of me feels it is better to wait for a while and try and get a younger "god fearing" lady.

To the men, what would you advise ?

I am kinda traditional and feel like a man should avoid marrying a lady in her 30s and also have a gap of atleast 7 years with the wife but I think I love her, I have been thinking about her lately.

Edited: A lot of people asking why I am not married at 36 years old, I was studying abroad, I just got back to naija to try and marry.

oldienavie:
What is wrong with my question ?

pocohantas:
Even your mothers that married at 17 got cheated on. So save your energy abeg.

oldienavie:
So I am 36 years and looking to settle down.
I have a lady friend who I have know for a while and is a really decent lady.
She is the type of person I would like to marry (I like conservative ladies and she is the conservative type no makeup which is what I want).
She is 32 years old.

A part of me feels it is better to wait for a while and try and get a younger "god fearing" lady.

To the men, what would you advise ?

I am kinda traditional and feel like a man should avoid marrying a lady in her 30s and also have a gap of atleast 7 years with the wife but I think I love her, I have been thinking about her lately.

Edited: A lot of people asking why I am not married at 36 years old, I was studying abroad, I just got back to naija to try and marry.

oldienavie:
So I am 36 years and looking to settle down.
I have a lady friend who I have know for a while and is a really decent lady.
She is the type of person I would like to marry (I like conservative ladies and she is the conservative type no makeup which is what I want).
She is 32 years old.

A part of me feels it is better to wait for a while and try and get a younger "god fearing" lady.

To the men, what would you advise ?

I am kinda traditional and feel like a man should avoid marrying a lady in her 30s and also have a gap of atleast 7 years with the wife but I think I love her, I have been thinking about her lately.

Edited: A lot of people asking why I am not married at 36 years old, I was studying abroad, I just got back to naija to try and marry.