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Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by Mayeldah(m): 9:33am On Jan 22, 2022
Op you dey Mad abi?

Forget mature mind, na idiots supposed advice you, while contemplating on that in the first place? What made your sister's marriage fail may also affect you too.

It is betrayal and I guess you are the reason the man is not ready to reconcile with his wife.

Call your family members For a meeting with your sister present and tell them the man proposed. Ask them what their opinions are. If they give their approval then you can proceed to accept him.

All in all Op if I slap you from here en?

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Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by Nobody: 9:34am On Jan 22, 2022
If it is not consequential, limited or hindered (to)by cultural/tribal norms then seek extended consultation with your sibling and other family members and contrast with your own decision. I may want to assume you are already favorably disposed to the proposal. Don't leave anyone out as their input will be crucial in making or marring the proposal.
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by Chikankem331: 9:35am On Jan 22, 2022
No man in his right senses and good intentions will ever think of going after his wife sister, and no lady with pure and sound mind will go close to her sister's husband.
Stop the stupid and senseless affair with your sisters husband, it's very evil of you and your so called lover. It will not end well.
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by Babastrong(m): 9:37am On Jan 22, 2022
Pashan ta fina iyale, nbe lori aja fun iyawo. talking in Adigun Alapomeji (9ice) Voice.
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by Born2Breed(f): 9:37am On Jan 22, 2022
NovesaTillie:
Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?


Judas everywhere.

The real enemies are amongst our family and friends.

The broom dem take beat old wife dem go use best new wife.
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by timefarm(m): 9:37am On Jan 22, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:

If I humiliate your head now you will start crying on the mods..did you not read where she said matured minds..?

Looks like you ain't ok huh? respect yourself and stop concluding in a brainless manner..
You are the one not ok.

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Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by franudi: 9:37am On Jan 22, 2022
No!
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by FERNANDEZISBACK: 9:37am On Jan 22, 2022
timefarm:

You are the one not ok.
wink
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by Dmacqh(m): 9:38am On Jan 22, 2022
You broke your sister marriage. Swear you’ve not bleeped while he’s married to your sister

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Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by lekzy1887(m): 9:39am On Jan 22, 2022
My brother it's not there fault o. When money is involved they tend to confuse stupidity with love.


Michelle70:
How did it even cross ur mind that u should even contemplate on accepting or not is to be studied.

Omo, where ona deh see these feelings weh ona deh develop for on a sisters husbands sef
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by Remman(m): 9:39am On Jan 22, 2022
NovesaTillie:

I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?
lol that's disgusting. i can already sense a regret in the future. The man is attracted to your pussy because he's missing your sister's. You're moved by emotion but it will be best you use your brain to think. It's normal for women to quickly fall for money or material things. However, it will be a very bad history for two sisters to divorce with one husband. Secondly, your sister will forever be your enemy if she doesn't approve it. If that's what you want, go for it. The man wants a divorce but your sister hasn't give it to him because she wants him to correct something. Put yourself in your sister's shoes. You'll get the answer.
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by marsup: 9:39am On Jan 22, 2022
emmeyen:
Why will he not be adamant to reconsile with his wife when you have been opening the door of your house for him? Accept it and lose your sanity and sister's love. Women should stop being women's enemy. That man must indeed be shameless trying to come in between two sisters. Are you not supposed to be on your sister's side in times like this? You see him as a brother and your sister is what? An enemy? Why do women find it comfortable to date their friend's boyfriend and husband? What if the divorce doesn't come through or they get back together and by then mr "brother" has already gotten to your pants. How do you then face your family and your sister? You will now become sworn enemies right? Sister, men never finish for market. Send the buffalo home abeg.
who says the man hasn't had his way with her? She's low, with serious inferiority complex.
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by Mom007(f): 9:39am On Jan 22, 2022
Na waa o! He is still married to your sister sef! Disgusting!
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by YellowMayor(m): 9:40am On Jan 22, 2022
NovesaTillie:
Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?


He's just after your panties... A responsible man will never have any feelings for his sister in-law.
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by KarinaLove(f): 9:40am On Jan 22, 2022
NovesaTillie:
Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?

1) My sister, Ask him his age.

I know why.

2) Tell Your Sister First as a sign of respect and your parents next.

3) Find out why he and your sister got divorced. This is the most important.

Some Divorced Men....let me not say.

For some weird reasons, I imagined something like this yesterday.
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by PoliteActivist: 9:40am On Jan 22, 2022
kurlz:


So what?

Is there no other man in the while planet earth other than her sister's husband?
In fact being close to him is enough insult.
Imagine its then other way round?

So if the sister and the parents enthusiastically support it, and the girl and the ex want it, what exactly will be your basis?
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by sammhi(m): 9:40am On Jan 22, 2022
Michelle70:
How did it even cross ur mind that u should even contemplate on accepting or not is to be studied.

Omo, where ona deh see these feelings weh ona deh develop for on a sisters husbands sef
.This lady , are you sure have not already sleeping with him ?
Why on earth would you even think t to Marry a man who is separated from your sister? Don't you have any feelings for your sister ?
The question is very irritating
And some are even encouraging her .wtf

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Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by advanceDNA: 9:40am On Jan 22, 2022
NovesaTillie:
Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?


What if you are 30??
U don’t have to be this desperate to get married and decide it’s the d!ck your sister hopped on you to want to hop on...

Kò proper nowwwww

Why are you people like this??

Is there no “inappropriate” in your dictionary?

Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by onunwa21(m): 9:40am On Jan 22, 2022
Halimaatz:
Nope, that would be wicked of you, he is playing with you and ur sis emotion.

And after he is done with you he would move to any of your available younger sis.
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by bola4dprec(m): 9:41am On Jan 22, 2022
NovesaTillie:
Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?
you can only accept that proposal in a case where your sister no more living according to doctrine otherwise is not acceptable
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by advanceDNA: 9:42am On Jan 22, 2022
PoliteActivist:


So if the sister and the parents enthusiastically support it, and the girl and the ex want it, what exactly will be your basis?

They can’t all be mad in one family....

Kó possible

Somebody will counter that arrangement
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by onunwa21(m): 9:42am On Jan 22, 2022
Receive sense now!!!
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by Bolsman(m): 9:42am On Jan 22, 2022
Common lady! What sort of nonsense is this? You want to accept the proposal of ur sister's husband "that the two families are trying hard to reconcile." It's uncalled for, unbecoming and betrayal of trust towards ur sister. Regardless of ur age, it shouldn't have been from you.
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by timefarm(m): 9:42am On Jan 22, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:

wink
I hope you learn that not all foolish post is worth posting .
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by PoliteActivist: 9:43am On Jan 22, 2022
Halimaatz:
That means there would be trouble if the senior sis found out that her younger sis in relationship with her divorced husband,and she to say that its her fault that the broke up shows she still loves her husband.


For whatever reason, if the sister and the parents enthusiastically support it and the girl and the ex want it, there is no basis for denying it.
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by terabyte002: 9:44am On Jan 22, 2022
Its funny how Nigerians has successfully attached been matured to every damn stupid things...Whenever i see matured mind on a post these days, i easily suspect the post or the poster doesn't have any moral value or sense whatever.

How on earth would a normal sister get too personal with their sibling husband, boyfriends, fiancé for heaven sake if there is no bad intention to ruin their affairs or take over.

before any man would risk his own marriage for your own Kpekus, that means you have actually gave him signal out of your own desperation to get married and you have got no worry about your sisters faith or trauma she is going through.

If your sister husband is the only responsible man on earth and you think he is the best for you, why not call family meeting and beg her to drop or share her husband for you in everyone presence, i am sure the husband must have been sleeping over in your own place and enjoying flirty pussy.

If its easy to get a husband , why not stick with any of the guy you have dated before or new ones that are coming your way, one thing is clear you are the type that will never wish to be suspected but its obvious you simply cant stick wiith one man and thats why its been difficult for guys to stay with you.

if u cant help ur sister to safe her marriage, don't add to her pain by fucking her husband , but if u want to break ur family bond and risk been enemy for life , just go ahead but i bet the guy will surely serve you right as well.

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Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by kurlz(f): 9:44am On Jan 22, 2022
PoliteActivist:


So if the sister and the parents enthusiastically support it, and the girl and the ex want it, what exactly will be your basis?


It is wrong
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by Pious101: 9:44am On Jan 22, 2022
NovesaTillie:
Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?
why on earth would u even consider getting married to him at all...nawa o

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Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by Nekky5(f): 9:44am On Jan 22, 2022
If you were the one in the shoes of your sister , how would you feel if she does that to you? Do not be an enemy to your prayers.
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by sandra50(f): 9:45am On Jan 22, 2022
You are evil..if I insult with the way it is in my heart you ask if you are the one that gave us buhari..you are beginning to enjoy your siater's husband's company?even if it's your sister that is the reason the marriage scattered you are not meant to look his side..that man is evil..he wants your sister to die and aslo to destroy your family and the bond you share as a family..once again you are so evil for even considering it in the first place.
NovesaTillie:
Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by afadi2410: 9:45am On Jan 22, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:

If I humiliate your head now you will start crying on the mods..did you not read where she said matured minds..?

Looks like you ain't ok huh? respect yourself and stop concluding in a brainless manner..


Does she have a matured mind herself ?She wants to marry her sisters husband while her sister is still alive.
Re: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by PoliteActivist: 9:47am On Jan 22, 2022
advanceDNA:



What if you are 30??
U don’t have to be this desperate to get married and decide it’s the d!ck your sister hopped on you to want to hop on...

Kò proper nowwwww

Why are you people like this??

Is there no “inappropriate” in your dictionary?

You can't be so emphatic because you don't know the full story. Suppose, for whatever reason, the sister is enthusiastically for it? Or suppose the sister was evil towards her and it is pay back time

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