techmo:
Call a family meeting with your sister and parents and explain to them what happened and what he proposed

infogenius:


Let me give u little girl an insight.
The elder sister is separated from a 5yr marriage for two months. The families are trying to reconcile and a 30 old younger sister of is confused about accepting the proposal of her elder sister's husband who has been visiting her.

The proposal came because she led him on . I believe if she was sensible she should have been able to use the elder sister's husband visits to reunite them but reverse is the case as she is confused about accepting his proposal.

Anyway, u are and the op are just girls age is just a number.

Nice meeting you though

NovesaTillie:
Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

Babe, leave your sister's husband and marry me. I'm single and searching, let conscience and consequences no come kill you. Singles like us are searching seriously and we never finish. Leave him and I will marry you biko

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?

Dshocker:


Oga there is nothing like maturity here,stop thinking like someone that was not breastfed,what sort of abnormal act is that?

advanceDNA:


Listen to yourself...:
U are accusing me of being emphatic, yet your are coming up with different scenario why a woman should marry her sister’s husband, including revenge.... is revenge appropriate?

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Do what's great for you..if you are comfortable and know him and the reason for the separation good for you..

Follow your instincts..

Lance7621:


Your advice is really disturbing and derogatory. Think through it very well, even if she accepts the proposal, how do you expect her sister and the family to view it? What will the husband's family say upon hearing the heart breaking news?

Shallow minds are truly the birth of poverty.

The man in question has no conscience. Either he is foolish or on a destructive mission.

infogenius:


Let me give u little girl an insight.
The elder sister is separated from a 5yr marriage for two months. The families are trying to reconcile and a 30 old younger sister of is confused about accepting the proposal of her elder sister's husband who has been visiting her.

The proposal came because she led him on . I believe if she was sensible she should have been able to use the elder sister's husband visits to reunite them but reverse is the case as she is confused about accepting his proposal.

Anyway, u are and the op are just girls age is just a number.

Nice meeting you though

dominique:
This story can't be real, no 30 year old can be this stupid

PoliteActivist:


Like I asked, what if the sister supports it - for whatever reason. It may seem unlikely she would, but you don't know for sure. Surprising stuff like that always happen

Awkabigboy:


Cc FERNANDEZISBACK

NovesaTillie:
Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Keep the story to yourself..next time learn to address an issue maturely not spewing nonsense..or did you not read what you said..

Why say she's responsible for her sister's marriage failure?you spoke in a very immature way and you are here talking about me being immature..
Pls she needs mature advice not your kind who are too quick to conclude negatively..

FERNANDEZISBACK:

How are you doing?

MrSly:

I think you are the problem here. She called for mature minds, by implication those who will tell her the unalloyed truth. Now the truth is here and raw you have made yourself a defence council. It is well with you.

Animegirl:


I just want to believe this is a rooster and bull story, but if is true, omoh!!! You're meant to be on your sister side.

Awkabigboy:

I'm fine, I'm cool. I just like to engage in a healthy discus . So don't see it as an attack

Dshocker:


Oga shut up,even a 5yrs old baby will give a better judgement on this issue.

afadi2410:



Does she have a matured mind herself ?She wants to marry her sisters husband while her sister is still alive.

timefarm:

I hope you learn that not all foolish post is worth posting .

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Dshocker:


You dey open mouth,e dey very wrong even if na her friend husband she want snatch,talk more of her blood sister...My brother na abomination wey go disintegrate the family for life.