infogenius:


U're 30 and surprisingly with lack of sense. Accept his proposal at ur own risk. It's obvious u're the most likely reason y his marriage to ur sister failed.
Better look for ur own husband and leave ur sister's husband alone.

Jesu conclusion of the matter 30years no sense. Go and ask your parents what they would say. Kai bro you finish work

By the doctrine of the Catholic church, I don't know of the other denominations, it is not acceptable for you to Marry your sister's husband or your brother's wife even if the spouse is dead.
That's is to ensure that brother or sister-in-laws do not constitute in any way the break-up of marriages or death of either of the spouse in order for them to be married.

That must have happened already- reason she is confused.

emmeyen:
Why will he not be adamant to reconcile with his wife when you have been opening the door of your house for him? Accept it and lose your sanity and sister's love. Women should stop being other women's enemy. That man must indeed be shameless trying to come in between two sisters. Are you not supposed to be on your sister's side in times like this? You see him as a brother and your sister is what? An enemy? Why do women find it comfortable to date their friend's or relatives' boyfriend and husband? What if the divorce doesn't come through or they get back together and by then mr "brother" has already gotten to your pants. How do you then face your family and your sister? You will now become sworn enemies right? Sister, men never finish for market. Send the buffalo home abeg.

The way some human thinks ehn...tueh

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Only an advice she seeked..

Let her pick from what I posted.

Darevofpeace:

Let her pick from what I posted.

And what was that?

looks like people dont understand laws govern this world... there is the law of karma... young girl dont play your self into the law..be wise
let the gye go...

Oh Lord!!! This must be a movie.

In life its good to do what pleases you most for the sake of your happiness but also be happy with the consequences when they surface without disturbing other peoples happiness!

Young Lady make sure you consult widely before taking a decision on this.

It may be deeper than you think.

infogenius:


U're 30 and surprisingly with lack of sense. Accept his proposal at ur own risk. It's obvious u're the most likely reason y his marriage to ur sister failed.
Better look for ur own husband and leave ur sister's husband alone.

Must you people Insult before giving advice to someone.... I tire for una this NL...

Well i will advised you shouldn't do it and moreover have you informed your parents? What was their answer? And have you tried to know what went wrong in your sisters marriage.please don't let his good ways deceive you,take things slow to know his real intentions

If you were to be in her shoes can you take it?

beautyhd:
Don't let desperation because you think age is not on your side push you to doing this when the separation wasn't caused by death.

It shouldn't even cross your mind. Ask yourself if it were to be the other way round how you will feel.

Anyhow you look at it, its very wrong. For something like this to cross your mind when he hasn't even proposed damn!! I don't wanna say what's in my mind.

Modified: he has proposed sef, don't go there lady.
The man has no shame.
I hope you are not the cause of their separation

no shame.

No man will just propose marriage, it means she has been dating and fvcking this man

NovesaTillie:
Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?

For your info, this was how he was kind and supportive to ur elder sister and ur sister thought he was the right man for her. Don't be deceived by all his gestures, he is a lier and a failure to marriage. The same way he treated ur sister is same way he's gonna treat and dump u besides, I don't think a man that leaves his wife that is still alive and even requesting for settlement just jump at his wife's younger sister is not and will never be a responsible husband.
Pls run for ur life my sister.

1st of all, ask yourself this question, if the reverse was the case (your sister thinking of getting married to your husband while just being seperated and not yet divorced), would she accept his proposal?

2. Do you think it is right morally for you to consider marrying your brother in law?

3. How do you think this would make your sister feel even jus seeing this thread alone

4. Or your family, how would they feel seeing this

FERNANDEZISBACK:

I am against the insult simple..

It's not every issues you advise someone politely. You use insult to advise some issues, like this particular issue. Na insult fit her 4 dis matter

You don't need a mirror to view the bracelet you are wearing on you hand. Be careful.. Don't accept his proposal.

[https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLDfUdb4UMoKxW-M6UgxcEoC10N0Tj5kww
author=NovesaTillie post=109582111]Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal? [/quote]

Fe ke!!Kontunu!!! Pasan ti afi na iyale (your sister) nbe laja iyawo

I think u are mentally unstable. Just look at all your post. Re u mad or something

NovesaTillie:
Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?

NovesaTillie:
Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?

Bitch you already accepted in your heart. This is gonna be the greatest betrayal in your family.

and he carry the title proudly

princeeze1:

The most foolish of guys

How I wish I could like your comments a million times

infogenius:


Let me give u little girl an insight.
The elder sister is separated from a 5yr marriage for two months. The families are trying to reconcile and a 30 old younger sister is confused about accepting the proposal of her elder sister's husband who has been visiting her.

The proposal came because she led him on. I believe if she was sensible she should have been able to use the elder sister's husband's visits to reunite them but the reverse is the case as she is confused about accepting his proposal.

Anyway, u are and the op is just girls age is just a number.

Nice meeting you though

NovesaTillie:
Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.
I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?

DON'T YOU HAVE SENSE AT UR AGE
WHAT HAPPENED TO YOUR SISTER IS ALSO WAITING FOR YOU.. NA ONLY D MAN DEY THIS WORLD GIRLS EHEN,SOMENOF UNA NOR GET BRAIN,UNA DEY THINK WITH UNA EMOTION.
ACCEPT D PROPOSAL,NA NAIRALAND HERE U GO STILL COME DEY CRY... NONSENSE!!!!

He started visiting your place after you reached out to him

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused.

Seun must chop.

A man doesn’t propose marriage just like that. You two were either fucking or have gone physical multiple times. If them use the guy swear for una family then carry on. Otherwise I’ll advice you tell him off and find your own tear rubber husband.

NovesaTillie post=ji109582111:
Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?

I don't know your tribe, but if you accept his proposal, who will his people visit for the marriage ceremony?
Which compound and which priest will wed you if you are a Christian?

You are a bad person, and you hate your sister so much.
You didn't need advice, you are devilish and demonic

Tụfịakwa

Do not accept it,let your sister try and make her marriage work.He who fights and runs away,lives to fight another day!

FERNANDEZISBACK:

If I humiliate your head now you will start crying on the mods..did you not read where she said matured minds..?

Looks like you ain't ok huh? respect yourself and stop concluding in a brainless manner..

you think wisdom is by age? See the nonsense you supporting .how on Earth should she accept such a useless proposal ..big betrayal to the family

Gosh jeez , why would u seek for an advice for such an ungodly act. Better decline the proposal n never u allow him penetrate ur puna,thats if he hasnt shaa . But its still not yet late to stop the madness if u really want peace in this life and die peacefully when God calls u to glory.

He will use and dump you same way he did to your sister. Better wise up. Chaii