NovesaTillie:
Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?

You must be stupid. You are the cause of your sister's marital failure.

Accept his proposal now, your future niece will also be asking to accept the next proposal when he's done with you. What a question!

Out of all the men in the world. Out of every single man in the world, na your sister husband enter your eye.

You are even contemplating it.

E be like say you no like your life.

Jesubaby:
Of course....If she discuss this issue with responsible parents, their first reaction will be "are u ok" "are u out of ur mind" and so on. They will never advise her politely, i bet u. I quote, "responsible parents".

I understand you..are you ok is different from a fool at 30..

ShyBabe:

Yes, he said the right thing, a sensible lady, wouldn't even think of having anything to do with her brother-in-law whether divorced or not, a sensible person should differentiate between right and wrong, so infogenius is right, OP is a dunderhead, the stup!d Geh is already catching feelings for her sister's husband, she doesn't even need anyone's advice on this, why do I feel, she's the reason for the separation;
And as for you, I hope same thing happens to you, then you'll applaud your sis for doing the right thing.
Women supporting women my flat A$$!
Op you're very maaaaaaaaadddddddddd! At this age, you still never get sense, laslas na baby mama go be ur end, olosho ten Kobo, ashigbe aburo.
Op is even same age with me, werey no go find ur own husby, olojukokoro omo ale jati jati!

Too rude of you tho..

erumena:


And you think your own advice is matured? A matured mind will never entertain her Sister’s husband’s amorous friendship not to talk of marriage proposal.

The heart of a man is desperately wicked, who can know it?

And did I?

NEVER EVER DO THAT! DONT PLEASE!

NovesaTillie:
Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?

Capital NO...Don't even entertain it. You already made the mistake of allowing him get into your head with his "doing stuff" for you but now don't let him get into your heart because you may get hurt before you are able to get off this slippery slope.

The disadvantages of accepting this proposal far outweigh any advantage or pressure you may feel because of your age. Pray that God would bring your own. Marrying him is spiteful to your sister, even if she may not tell you directly but she would be very disappointed that you would even have such thought for a man she once loved while she is still alive.

Your sister may even begin to entertain thoughts that both of you had affection for each other while they were still married. She may even think you are the reason they are separated and why he is adamant on getting back..

Please get off this bus fast before it crashes!

Haaaaaa!

NovesaTillie:
Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?

Don’t us u have started knacking your sister’s husband while they are yet to divorce, to think that he was the one adamant to accept the reconciliation move by the elders is….. you must be evil to even more …

Munzy14:

If you love him, you are very sure you love him and you both understand each other and you are very compatible, please go ahead...


Every man willing to marry has his own wife on earth...You might be his own woman...I bet he is good..If not you won't look his way twice...And you are surely a better version of your sister for him to even nurse a feeling to make you his better half...Go on.

It is about you two...With time everyone around you will adjust...Life is short to make excuses for a matured person.

..Can you give such advise to your sisters that are in such situation?

A man that has not even divorced her sister legally for that matter?

Clap for yourself. Onye woke.

Warisi wawa warisi

No.

It's unethical.

Period.

What is wrong with you? So, out of the guys that are available in this world, it is your sister husband you now want to accept his proposal for marriage. Op, you must be joking. Are you sure that woman you called your sister is your real sister?I mean blood sister. If it is , please don't try it.

Fishing in troubled waters and you expect to live in peace.

Why would you think of replacing your sister of all people in this wide world?

NovesaTillie:
Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?

Are u a Nigerian or South African??

I’m asking because of the question ure asking. I’m shook

What happened to ur bf? And if that isn’t working no man again for abuja or Nigeria??

U better drive that shameless man out of ur house he just wants to lay 2 sisters and stroke his ego. U will be a nice story to tell his boys.

U wanna betray ur family and sister because a kind snake?

I feel sorry for u ma

Your story stinks to hell. You want to marry your sister's husband and your parents are enjoying the show.......

NetValueFX:

Don't ever in your life try that. In fact, if anything happen to your sister you will be the first suspect.

You are right. I have been having deep thoughts

Yes she's my blood sister.

Noblex2011:
What is wrong with you? So, out of the guys that are available in this world, it is your sister husband you now want to accept his proposal for marriage. Op, you must be joking. Are you sure that woman you called your sister is your real sister?I mean blood sister. If it is , please don't try it.

JONNYSPUTE:
..Can you give such advise to your sisters that are in such situation?

A man that has not even divorced her sister legally for that matter?

Clap for yourself. Onye woke.

You always feel you are more male than most males here...Anyway if it makes you sleep.

Two can work together if they agree...If she finds a Life time partner in him, she should go on...If you don't gerrit, fogerrit...

Una don knack finish, yet you come out to say he propose. Who you wan deceive?

Munzy14:

You always feel you are more male than most males here...Anyway if it makes you sleep.

Two can work together if they agree...If she finds a Life time partner in him, she should go on...If you don't gerrit, fogerrit...

.... Lol. Thank God you know I'm more male than you atleast I don't comment just to please a particular lady or ladies here.

I bring it out raw without fear or favour and thats what a man is all about.

By the way,I can see you could not answer my question.

Even ladies here were against but no you want to show how woke you are but ended up embarrassing yourself to the extent a sensible lady had to quote you and put you in your place.

JONNYSPUTE:
.... Lol. Thank God you know I'm more male than you atleast I don't comment just to please a particular lady or ladies here.

I bring it out raw without fear or favour and thats what a man is all about.

By the way,I can see you could not answer my question.

Even ladies here were against but no you want to show how woke you are but ended up embarrassing yourself to the extent a sensible lady had to quote you and put you in your place.

I recalled there was a thread you were bitter with my comment sometime ago...Maybe you feel you want to get even... Typical of a sisi man..

I don't have your time...Joke apart you no reach...

50 of your type cannot..No be jazz o..we will do this when you come closer.

Au revoir!

NovesaTillie:
Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?

YOU ARE A VERY CONFUSED & FOOLISH AND SELFISH PERSON DESPERATE FOR Nothing but Shame

Munzy14:

I recalled there was a thread you were bitter with my comment sometime ago...Maybe you feel you want to get even... Typical of a sisi man..

I don't have your time...Joke apart you no reach...

50 of your type cannot..No be jazz o..we will do this when you come closer.

Au revoir!

.. No problems Mr Obi cubana.Nwa nza rijuo afor,ochere nna ya aka mgba.

NovesaTillie:

You are right. I have been having deep thoughts

Update...

PoliteActivist:


Thanks bro

No i later read it again where she stated the man and the sister separated just 2 months ago.

A man making advances to her wife's sister just 2 months after informal separation is not a responsible man at all and the wife sister even considering his proposal at this short period is a big NO.

#looonnnnng hissssss#

NovesaTillie:
Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?

Its a crime and I will never forgive you if am in your sister's shoe.

Someone who has already had carnal knowledge of your sis is what you re contemplating of saying yes to? Don't do the abominable

ediko5:


No i later read it again where she stated the man and the sister separated just 2 months ago.

A man making advances to her wife's sister just 2 months after informal separation is not a responsible man at all and the wife sister even considering his proposal at this short period is a big NO.

You are looking at it the wrong way.
How easy really is it to let someone go, for whom you have feelings? Hence the saying "All's fair in love and war". Hearing the man's faults from her sister will be a big incentive to let him go

temiprinciple:
Someone who has already had carnal knowledge of your sis is what you re contemplating of saying yes to? Don't do the abominable

How about Rachel and Leah, wives of Jacob. Are you saying Israel was begotten on abomination??