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isaiah4life:
You exhibit the traits of one.

If you can't stand your ground and bluntly refuse to stay with him in an hotel, then you will continue to be his hoe.

Next time, say no. If he's not fine with it, bounce.

Tell him wife to be acclimatise themselves with their spouse house while hoes stay in the hotel.

If he's not fine with it moooooooove. Is not the only guy on planet earth.

Basicend:
Reject what?

From the write up, you can infer that the lady likes the guy more. . She would easily give in. .

When ladies like guys much, they don't engage their brain and reasoning, but use emotions to approach everything.

When d balloon burst, they start crying and fighting without any major ground.

Rachel98:
Merry Christmas Everyone. I promise to be brief. Pls Pardon any typo errors. I'm so confused right now. Pls I need mature advice

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now. He's gentle (he talks only when needed, and he listens more), good looking, hard working and smart. He stays in a well furnished apartment. He don't smoke but drinks alcohol only occasionally. Everyone in his area respect him alot elderly, young even little children of age 4 and 5 calls his name and waves at him. I would be like how do this kids know you. He will laugh saying "me self tire". I'm faithful to him and he loves me. Despite my parents are strict, I always find ways to be with him.

Yes, We do have intimacy in our relationship. Now here is the problem. He prefer to have sex with me in an Hotel, which I hate so much. If we're together in his house, he will just say let's go out, the next thing we're in a hotel. He wastes his money on hotels. I don't like it. Maybe we can go there to eat in the restaurants, swim or drink but not to sleep over. Me personally I don't like it. But I have talked to him about it yet he won't listen. I angrily asked him if he's an occult, ritualist, or something.....Or will he die if he have sex in his house. He said God forbid!!

What he displayed yesterday got me really angry like I'm fed up.
I'm an auditor in my uncle's firm. My uncle celebrated his birthday/end of the year party in our firm yesterday. There was food and drinks. We the female staffs were the ones that prepared the food. I reserved like 4 take-away packs of rice nd chicken, cake and 3 5alive drinks for my boyfriend. So I called him that I would bring food for him. When I got to his house I gave him the food, he was happy as usual. So He said I should follow him to his car, he tried to touch and have sex with in his car like I'm a prostitute. I told him to stop. I was so angry, I took my hand bag and I went home. He has been calling me since yesterday (16 missed calls now) I haven't pick.

I don't know if I should end this relationship. He behaves like I'm a prostitute or something....I need a good advice I'm confused.

Thanks to the few people that gave me mature advice. Seriously, with some comments here most nairalanders are really frustrated and bitter.

Please nairaland mods should try and control these frustrated people. Ladies are suffering in this great forum. How would a foreigner feel when going through all these comments??

vixbaseacademy:
All this one's are the zisters in church that will be forming Virgin non sense, the guy knows a hoe and Happy to knack you well we'll

Rachel98:
Merry Christmas Everyone. I promise to be brief. Pls Pardon any typo errors. I'm so confused right now. Pls I need mature advice

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now. He's gentle (he talks only when needed, and he listens more), good looking, hard working and smart. He stays in a well furnished apartment. He don't smoke but drinks alcohol only occasionally. Everyone in his area respect him alot elderly, young even little children of age 4 and 5 calls his name and waves at him. I would be like how do this kids know you. He will laugh saying "me self tire". I'm faithful to him and he loves me. Despite my parents are strict, I always find ways to be with him.

Yes, We do have intimacy in our relationship. Now here is the problem. He prefer to have sex with me in an Hotel, which I hate so much. If we're together in his house, he will just say let's go out, the next thing we're in a hotel. He wastes his money on hotels. I don't like it. Maybe we can go there to eat in the restaurants, swim or drink but not to sleep over. Me personally I don't like it. But I have talked to him about it yet he won't listen. I angrily asked him if he's an occult, ritualist, or something.....Or will he die if he have sex in his house. He said God forbid!!

What he displayed yesterday got me really angry like I'm fed up.
I'm an auditor in my uncle's firm. My uncle celebrated his birthday/end of the year party in our firm yesterday. There was food and drinks. We the female staffs were the ones that prepared the food. I reserved like 4 take-away packs of rice nd chicken, cake and 3 5alive drinks for my boyfriend. So I called him that I would bring food for him. When I got to his house I gave him the food, he was happy as usual. So He said I should follow him to his car, he tried to touch and have sex with in his car like I'm a prostitute. I told him to stop. I was so angry, I took my hand bag and I went home. He has been calling me since yesterday (16 missed calls now) I haven't pick.

I don't know if I should end this relationship. He behaves like I'm a prostitute or something....I need a good advice I'm confused.

Thanks to the few people that gave me mature advice. Seriously, with some comments here most nairalanders are really frustrated and bitter.

Please nairaland mods should try and control these frustrated people. Ladies are suffering in this great forum. How would a foreigner feel when going through all these comments??

Rachel98:
Merry Christmas Everyone. I promise to be brief. Pls Pardon any typo errors. I'm so confused right now. Pls I need mature advice

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now. He's gentle (he talks only when needed, and he listens more), good looking, hard working and smart. He stays in a well furnished apartment. He don't smoke but drinks alcohol only occasionally. Everyone in his area respect him alot elderly, young even little children of age 4 and 5 calls his name and waves at him. I would be like how do this kids know you. He will laugh saying "me self tire". I'm faithful to him and he loves me. Despite my parents are strict, I always find ways to be with him.

Yes, We do have intimacy in our relationship. Now here is the problem. He prefer to have sex with me in an Hotel, which I hate so much. If we're together in his house, he will just say let's go out, the next thing we're in a hotel. He wastes his money on hotels. I don't like it. Maybe we can go there to eat in the restaurants, swim or drink but not to sleep over. Me personally I don't like it. But I have talked to him about it yet he won't listen. I angrily asked him if he's an occult, ritualist, or something.....Or will he die if he have sex in his house. He said God forbid!!

What he displayed yesterday got me really angry like I'm fed up.
I'm an auditor in my uncle's firm. My uncle celebrated his birthday/end of the year party in our firm yesterday. There was food and drinks. We the female staffs were the ones that prepared the food. I reserved like 4 take-away packs of rice nd chicken, cake and 3 5alive drinks for my boyfriend. So I called him that I would bring food for him. When I got to his house I gave him the food, he was happy as usual. So He said I should follow him to his car, he tried to touch and have sex with in his car like I'm a prostitute. I told him to stop. I was so angry, I took my hand bag and I went home. He has been calling me since yesterday (16 missed calls now) I haven't pick.

I don't know if I should end this relationship. He behaves like I'm a prostitute or something....I need a good advice I'm confused.

Thanks to the few people that gave me mature advice. Seriously, with some comments here most nairalanders are really frustrated and bitter.

Please nairaland mods should try and control these frustrated people. Ladies are suffering in this great forum. How would a foreigner feel when going through all these comments??

Rickk:
My dear, chances are that your boyfriend is into diabolical stuffs, and probably one of the instructions given to him is to never have sex with a woman that he is not married to in his house. If I were you though, I'd be extremely careful with such a boyfriend.

My advice; give him an ultimatum, it's either you guys have sex in his house, or you end the relationship. If he chooses the option of ending the relationship, then you have your answer staring at you.

Oshodipikin:
Trained you well? How? You be original olosho.

Train you well , yet you de do olosho 4 hotel..... Any fvck outside marriage na olosho tinz.

Pikin wey dem train well go wait till marriage. You are just one of the children born in the evening of life.


Guard your boob well b4 it becomes slippers for Mr. Right wey never know say Mrs right don enter market since 1900.

phemmyfour:
Woman! It's high time you started placing VALUE on yourself. He's trying to treat you like OTHERS, let him know that you're DIFFERENT by quitting the relationship. You're not a dog and he should stop treating you like one

fikayormi:
Cos of money and some other luxury , ladies are really enduring so much., but don’t pity them � they deserved it

Olayetan:
He doesn't respect you or have respect for your body, you deserves better....

Obaide12345:
Ladies should stop sleeping wait a guy that have not married to you,must you sleep with him,that is why he take you as a prostitute.

daddytime:
Those 5-6-year-old kids in the neighbourhood definitely know something you don't know about brother-hotel. Dem go just dey look you like "aunty wey mumu" with corner eye.

By the way, what does this boyfriend do for a living? Im just asking oh.

I'd advise you to buy some lollipops plus some "knockouts" for them this season and sit them down for a gist. Believe me, they'll fill your ears up with original gists about your guy in their innocence.

Follow my suggestion and come back here to update this thread.

Check my siggy...

BabaJoe001:
I will advise you go leave this Toxic relationship . He is not worth it. You the one that loves him. Not him loving you. No responsible Guy leave his house to have sex with his GF in the hotels or in the car. The guy just dey use you pass time. And he may be a ritualist self. don't be carried away with his personality ... That he even talk less is a danger. Because it would be hard to know him well. I don't know your face but from your post I strongly believe you are a very beautiful Lady and intelligent too. Open your doors to Responsible Men Girl. God bless .

Rachel98:
Pls stop it. I'm not a prostitute. My parents trained me well.

Jennyclay:
I'm 100% sure your sisters that your parents trained well are collecting different types and sizes of dicks as we speak now.

If women refused to have sex with you men dogs na problem, if chose to have sex na still problem.

Hypocrites!!!

koolaid87:
He just dey sample you ni oo

You said his handsome, talk less, listen more, and smart blah blah

If he truly loves you, then he should be smart enough to know that you're not happy with his behaviours, and consequently change out of his love for you.

You're just a free pussy to him. Fvck you everywhere. The next will be in the park.

As a Man myself, I'll only love to have these kinda adventures with a h0e

BTW, Mod cant regulate sh1t. We didn't ask you to bring your mata here.

We catch cruise with people for fun. Life is hard out there.

Next!

koolaid87:
He just dey sample you ni oo

You said his handsome, talk less, listen more, and smart blah blah

If he truly loves you, then he should be smart enough to know that you're not happy with his behaviours, and consequently change out of his love for you.

You're just a free pussy to him. Fvck you everywhere. The next will be in the park.

As a Man myself, I'll only love to have these kinda adventures with a h0e

BTW, Mod cant regulate sh1t. We didn't ask you to bring your mata here.

We catch cruise with people for fun. Life is hard out there.

Next!

Tushmanny123:
As I see "well furnished apartment and car" I already know where the problem is.

Rachel98:
I'm not cheating on him. I'm having been faithful. He knows me well.

I'm just fed up.

Mom007:
Pls don't answer the idiot! Social media giants... Jobless Rats and cockroaches in real life. They never miss a chance to bash women cus they know in real life, they don't got a life!

Rachel98:
Merry Christmas Everyone. I promise to be brief. Pls Pardon any typo errors. I'm so confused right now. Pls I need mature advice

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now. He's gentle (he talks only when needed, and he listens more), good looking, hard working and smart. He stays in a well furnished apartment. He don't smoke but drinks alcohol only occasionally. Everyone in his area respect him alot elderly, young even little children of age 4 and 5 calls his name and waves at him. I would be like how do this kids know you. He will laugh saying "me self tire". I'm faithful to him and he loves me. Despite my parents are strict, I always find ways to be with him.

Yes, We do have intimacy in our relationship. Now here is the problem. He prefer to have sex with me in an Hotel, which I hate so much. If we're together in his house, he will just say let's go out, the next thing we're in a hotel. He wastes his money on hotels. I don't like it. Maybe we can go there to eat in the restaurants, swim or drink but not to sleep over. Me personally I don't like it. But I have talked to him about it yet he won't listen. I angrily asked him if he's an occult, ritualist, or something.....Or will he die if he have sex in his house. He said God forbid!!

What he displayed yesterday got me really angry like I'm fed up.
I'm an auditor in my uncle's firm. My uncle celebrated his birthday/end of the year party in our firm yesterday. There was food and drinks. We the female staffs were the ones that prepared the food. I reserved like 4 take-away packs of rice nd chicken, cake and 3 5alive drinks for my boyfriend. So I called him that I would bring food for him. When I got to his house I gave him the food, he was happy as usual. So He said I should follow him to his car, he tried to touch and have sex with in his car like I'm a prostitute. I told him to stop. I was so angry, I took my hand bag and I went home. He has been calling me since yesterday (16 missed calls now) I haven't pick.

I don't know if I should end this relationship. He behaves like I'm a prostitute or something....I need a good advice I'm confused.

Thanks to the few people that gave me mature advice. Seriously, with some comments here most nairalanders are really frustrated and bitter.

Please nairaland mods should try and control these frustrated people. Ladies are suffering in this great forum. How would a foreigner feel when going through all these comments??

SmellySperm:
But you gave him reverse cowgirl in hotels?