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Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by friendl: 7:43am On Jan 23, 2022
Either he have family abroad ,. something ain't right

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Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by EternalBeing: 7:47am On Jan 23, 2022
chukzyfcbb:
So the objective of this thread is for us to give you reasons why you must nack in his bedroom abi

Lol, una no well for this nairaland aswear
No mind the idiot. Instead of asking how the Relationship should avoid fornication to Quickly end up in Marriage to avoiding sinning against their MAKER. Just the Parents, siblings and a Pastor to Join them is enough for Holy Solemnization, but they want to lavish and show Society Wedding to the World instead of Pleasing their CREATOR. Many now wallow in Sin as normal life, e go shock them all soon when Rapture shall happen. Crying and gnashing of teeth shall be their lot but it would have been too late for them. HalleluYAH!!!!!!!
Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by Kaniff: 7:47am On Jan 23, 2022
You should explain how you feel. His perception of you most likely differs from yours about him. How did you guys get into a relationship in the first place. Did it kick of at the Hotel ? He probably doesn't see you as a prostitute. He probably likes the porn like freaky style of intimacy...lol

The bottom line is that you do pour out your feelings. Communication is a key in the bunch
You said "he thinks " what do you know about his heart.

On the whole matter sex before marriage is a big NO but in today's world its seen as a norm this situations are reasons why premarital s were kicked against. Now you are suffered

I don't condemn you at all. Just state your feelings ,see the outcome.
Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by skedy1(m): 7:50am On Jan 23, 2022
Rachel98:
Merry Christmas Everyone. I promise to be brief. Pls Pardon any typo errors. I'm so confused right now. Pls I need mature advice

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now. He's gentle (he talks only when needed, and he listens more), good looking, hard working and smart. He stays in a well furnished apartment. He don't smoke but drinks alcohol only occasionally. Everyone in his area respect him alot elderly, young even little children of age 4 and 5 calls his name and waves at him. I would be like how do this kids know you. He will laugh saying "me self tire". I'm faithful to him and he loves me. Despite my parents are strict, I always find ways to be with him.

Yes, We do have intimacy in our relationship. Now here is the problem. He prefer to have sex with me in an Hotel, which I hate so much. If we're together in his house, he will just say let's go out, the next thing we're in a hotel. He wastes his money on hotels. I don't like it. Maybe we can go there to eat in the restaurants, swim or drink but not to sleep over. Me personally I don't like it. But I have talked to him about it yet he won't listen. I angrily asked him if he's an occult, ritualist, or something.....Or will he die if he have sex in his house. He said God forbid!!

What he displayed yesterday got me really angry like I'm fed up.
I'm an auditor in my uncle's firm. My uncle celebrated his birthday/end of the year party in our firm yesterday. There was food and drinks. We the female staffs were the ones that prepared the food. I reserved like 4 take-away packs of rice nd chicken, cake and 3 5alive drinks for my boyfriend. So I called him that I would bring food for him. When I got to his house I gave him the food, he was happy as usual. So He said I should follow him to his car, he tried to touch and have sex with in his car like I'm a prostitute. I told him to stop. I was so angry, I took my hand bag and I went home. He has been calling me since yesterday (16 missed calls now) I haven't pick.

I don't know if I should end this relationship. He behaves like I'm a prostitute or something....I need a good advice I'm confused.

Thanks to the few people that gave me mature advice. Seriously, with some comments here most nairalanders are really frustrated and bitter.

Please nairaland mods should try and control these frustrated people. Ladies are suffering in this great forum. How would a foreigner feel when going through all these comments??

Where and how did you guys meet

It speaks volume
Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by Lilfemzie(m): 7:53am On Jan 23, 2022
Rachel98
Merry Christmas Everyone. I promise to be brief. Pls Pardon any typo errors. I'm so confused right now. Pls I need mature advice


Your post just hit fp
Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by Blexino(f): 7:55am On Jan 23, 2022
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Rachel98:
Merry Christmas Everyone. I promise to be brief. Pls Pardon any typo errors. I'm so confused right now. Pls I need mature advice

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now. He's gentle (he talks only when needed, and he listens more), good looking, hard working and smart. He stays in a well furnished apartment. He don't smoke but drinks alcohol only occasionally. Everyone in his area respect him alot elderly, young even little children of age 4 and 5 calls his name and waves at him. I would be like how do this kids know you. He will laugh saying "me self tire". I'm faithful to him and he loves me. Despite my parents are strict, I always find ways to be with him.

Yes, We do have intimacy in our relationship. Now here is the problem. He prefer to have sex with me in an Hotel, which I hate so much. If we're together in his house, he will just say let's go out, the next thing we're in a hotel. He wastes his money on hotels. I don't like it. Maybe we can go there to eat in the restaurants, swim or drink but not to sleep over. Me personally I don't like it. But I have talked to him about it yet he won't listen. I angrily asked him if he's an occult, ritualist, or something.....Or will he die if he have sex in his house. He said God forbid!!

What he displayed yesterday got me really angry like I'm fed up.
I'm an auditor in my uncle's firm. My uncle celebrated his birthday/end of the year party in our firm yesterday. There was food and drinks. We the female staffs were the ones that prepared the food. I reserved like 4 take-away packs of rice nd chicken, cake and 3 5alive drinks for my boyfriend. So I called him that I would bring food for him. When I got to his house I gave him the food, he was happy as usual. So He said I should follow him to his car, he tried to touch and have sex with in his car like I'm a prostitute. I told him to stop. I was so angry, I took my hand bag and I went home. He has been calling me since yesterday (16 missed calls now) I haven't pick.

I don't know if I should end this relationship. He behaves like I'm a prostitute or something....I need a good advice I'm confused.

Thanks to the few people that gave me mature advice. Seriously, with some comments here most nairalanders are really frustrated and bitter.

Please nairaland mods should try and control these frustrated people. Ladies are suffering in this great forum. How would a foreigner feel when going through all these comments??

Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by henry457: 8:00am On Jan 23, 2022
I will be honest with u,your boyfriend is not seing u as someone he wants to settle down with. To him u are someone he wants to have fun and when he has find someone to settle down,he will discard u. I will advise u to end the relationship n focus on building urself and finding a partner that will appreciate ur worth n sees u as a wife. Don't waste more time with him unless you also want to continue the fun. There is a say that says "fool me once,shame on u.Fool me twice,shame on me"
Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by teepain: 8:05am On Jan 23, 2022
deltateam:


Don't be silly. You are behaving childish.

The girl is depressed and you're catching cruise on top her depression.

As in, I don't understand how people can go so low catching cruise with some other person's pain.

There are so many psychopaths in the country called Nigeria. No wonder the country is the way it is.
Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by ALFADOS(m): 8:05am On Jan 23, 2022
serious, if you notice any fault play, cut off the relationship as quick as possible, your life is at risk now, if you don't know, don't trust any one
Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by Famzed: 8:17am On Jan 23, 2022
Rachel98:
Pls don't bring my parents into this. I never said I had sex with him in the car.

Babe don't listen to these f00ls commenting trash here.

Don't break your relationship because THERE IS NOTHING WRONG HAVING SEX IN HOTELS OR CARS.

Don't people do their honey moon in hotels?

Does that make their wives h0es?

Most Nigerians are hypocrites.

Most of these IDI0TS commenting trash here do it too.

So don't listen to these frustrated br0ke a s s religious b a s t a r d s mudafvckers.

Most Nairalanders are kids.

So what do you expect from kids advice?
Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by Famzed: 8:20am On Jan 23, 2022
henry457:
I will be honest with u,your boyfriend is not seing u as someone he wants to settle down with. To him u are someone he wants to have fun and when he has find someone to settle down,he will discard u. I will advise u to end the relationship n focus on building urself and finding a partner that will appreciate ur worth n sees u as a wife. Don't waste more time with him unless you also want to continue the fun. There is a say that says "fool me once,shame on u.Fool me twice,shame on me"

How you take know? You dey the guy mind?

Were dey for write am say having sex inside cars or hotels will make a guy not to be serious with a girl?
Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by uceejr: 8:20am On Jan 23, 2022
end the relationship....
Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by Gbajumon: 8:22am On Jan 23, 2022
Hi, I do not know the actions you have taken so far, but please I will seriously advise you not to be too rigid with him. And you may find that you'll be needing to do that(be flexible) all your years together even if you decide to go all the way.
God created every human with different sexual desires. What you narrated may be his own way of achieving his sexual desires. You are just going to be patient with him while also making sure you are not a prostitute in the most definite way.
Be assured that you have already checked him with your actions so far and he has understood you. Don't go back to it again just call him and love him again. And if he wants to try it again, then go back to the madness.
Moving on to another man now makes you a prostitute.
Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by Nitah1: 8:30am On Jan 23, 2022
grin grin grin but you are frustrated already grin grin. many if not majority of your gender are in to prostitution ahbi hook-up that's y is difficult to differentiate one from another.
Calm down,you had sex with him in the hotel yet you do not think he regards you as a prostitute,who else patronize brothels?
Kaii grin grin grin
Rachel98:
Merry Christmas Everyone. I promise to be brief. Pls Pardon any typo errors. I'm so confused right now. Pls I need mature advice

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now. He's gentle (he talks only when needed, and he listens more), good looking, hard working and smart. He stays in a well furnished apartment. He don't smoke but drinks alcohol only occasionally. Everyone in his area respect him alot elderly, young even little children of age 4 and 5 calls his name and waves at him. I would be like how do this kids know you. He will laugh saying "me self tire". I'm faithful to him and he loves me. Despite my parents are strict, I always find ways to be with him.

Yes, We do have intimacy in our relationship. Now here is the problem. He prefer to have sex with me in an Hotel, which I hate so much. If we're together in his house, he will just say let's go out, the next thing we're in a hotel. He wastes his money on hotels. I don't like it. Maybe we can go there to eat in the restaurants, swim or drink but not to sleep over. Me personally I don't like it. But I have talked to him about it yet he won't listen. I angrily asked him if he's an occult, ritualist, or something.....Or will he die if he have sex in his house. He said God forbid!!

What he displayed yesterday got me really angry like I'm fed up.
I'm an auditor in my uncle's firm. My uncle celebrated his birthday/end of the year party in our firm yesterday. There was food and drinks. We the female staffs were the ones that prepared the food. I reserved like 4 take-away packs of rice nd chicken, cake and 3 5alive drinks for my boyfriend. So I called him that I would bring food for him. When I got to his house I gave him the food, he was happy as usual. So He said I should follow him to his car, he tried to touch and have sex with in his car like I'm a prostitute. I told him to stop. I was so angry, I took my hand bag and I went home. He has been calling me since yesterday (16 missed calls now) I haven't pick.

I don't know if I should end this relationship. He behaves like I'm a prostitute or something....I need a good advice I'm confused.

Thanks to the few people that gave me mature advice. Seriously, with some comments here most nairalanders are really frustrated and bitter.

Please nairaland mods should try and control these frustrated people. Ladies are suffering in this great forum. How would a foreigner feel when going through all these comments??
Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by Nitah1: 8:37am On Jan 23, 2022
Rachel98:
Pls stop it. I'm not a prostitute. My parents trained me well.
Yet you are committing fornication?
Is that well trained?

Are they aware of your fornication?
Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by YaQsGaYa(m): 8:37am On Jan 23, 2022
My dear your guy na better Jazz Man... I pray he never use you finish. See your pastor ASAP
Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by Khaysee: 8:40am On Jan 23, 2022
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Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by manmade(m): 8:42am On Jan 23, 2022
house10s:


let start dating, am searching for a gf to start something serious with
she said only matured guys should advice her, what are you doing here?
Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by Engrpatpeters(m): 8:50am On Jan 23, 2022
I suspect this guy

Please click on this
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FezAu7JfEoI pls watch and comment
Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by Oshodipikin: 8:52am On Jan 23, 2022
Jennyclay:
I'm 100% sure your sisters that your parents trained well are collecting different types and sizes of dicks as we speak now.

If women refused to have sex with you men dogs na problem, if also she chose to have sex na still problem.

Hypocrites!!!


grin grin retired olosho like you. I no get sister. I am the only boy & only child.

I go tell your papa say you don de collect dick for hotel. Yet you de church choir de sing. Stupid girl.


You are a legendary OLOSHO.

Better go open shop. I go do free banner for you and you pay tax to Lagos State government. grin

asshole morafucker....
Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by dhantey324(m): 8:52am On Jan 23, 2022
But sex in a car is fun.. No big deal in all u wrote to me... Maybe you are bothered about the perception or you want to save his money, which is fine.
Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by Oshodipikin: 8:54am On Jan 23, 2022
BigBashiru:
.

What of the boyfriend of the girl, why isn't he keeping his d*ck for his future wife??


Are you in the same profession? I come in peace.
Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by Osmomoh(m): 8:56am On Jan 23, 2022
Only poor Nigeria guys still see Nigeria babes as saints. 98% of Nigeria ladies that passed through higher education, has practice prostitution while in school, so don't deny what you have done before. If you check critically, you will be surprised that his friend has gone out with you before. He is also much aware that you are only interested in him because he is made already. Besides, be a very quiet guy can be delibrate, so not to mistakenly tell you what he is.

Just let him know that you were once one, but now repented and you need a new life. Otherwise, whatever you are trying to show or talk with him will be in vain. However, if he refused to accept you as a decent lady, please look for your mate.
Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by fotadmowmend(m): 9:02am On Jan 23, 2022
Are you sure he is not married He might want to do it on his matrimonial bed
Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by Jacksparrow7(m): 9:09am On Jan 23, 2022
Rachel98:
Merry Christmas Everyone. I promise to be brief. Pls Pardon any typo errors. I'm so confused right now. Pls I need mature advice

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now. He's gentle (he talks only when needed, and he listens more), good looking, hard working and smart. He stays in a well furnished apartment. He don't smoke but drinks alcohol only occasionally. Everyone in his area respect him alot elderly, young even little children of age 4 and 5 calls his name and waves at him. I would be like how do this kids know you. He will laugh saying "me self tire". I'm faithful to him and he loves me. Despite my parents are strict, I always find ways to be with him.

Yes, We do have intimacy in our relationship. Now here is the problem. He prefer to have sex with me in an Hotel, which I hate so much. If we're together in his house, he will just say let's go out, the next thing we're in a hotel. He wastes his money on hotels. I don't like it. Maybe we can go there to eat in the restaurants, swim or drink but not to sleep over. Me personally I don't like it. But I have talked to him about it yet he won't listen. I angrily asked him if he's an occult, ritualist, or something.....Or will he die if he have sex in his house. He said God forbid!!

What he displayed yesterday got me really angry like I'm fed up.
I'm an auditor in my uncle's firm. My uncle celebrated his birthday/end of the year party in our firm yesterday. There was food and drinks. We the female staffs were the ones that prepared the food. I reserved like 4 take-away packs of rice nd chicken, cake and 3 5alive drinks for my boyfriend. So I called him that I would bring food for him. When I got to his house I gave him the food, he was happy as usual. So He said I should follow him to his car, he tried to touch and have sex with in his car like I'm a prostitute. I told him to stop. I was so angry, I took my hand bag and I went home. He has been calling me since yesterday (16 missed calls now) I haven't pick.

I don't know if I should end this relationship. He behaves like I'm a prostitute or something....I need a good advice I'm confused.

Thanks to the few people that gave me mature advice. Seriously, with some comments here most nairalanders are really frustrated and bitter.

Please nairaland mods should try and control these frustrated people. Ladies are suffering in this great forum. How would a foreigner feel when going through all these comments??
it is the sex in the car that got my attention here. What are you waiting for, would you dumb him and move on angry
Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by Zeel007: 9:15am On Jan 23, 2022
Rachel98:
I'm not cheating on him. I'm having been faithful. He knows me well.

I'm just fed up.
Honestly, to be sincere the guy is diabolical, just try and flee for your life. And another be say stop sleeping with a guy you are not married to.
Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by Jennyclay(f): 9:16am On Jan 23, 2022
Oshodipikin:



grin grin retired olosho like you. I no get sister. I am the only boy & only child.

I go tell your papa say you don de collect dick for hotel. Yet you de church choir de sing. Stupid girl.


You are a legendary OLOSHO.

Better go open shop. I go do free banner for you and you pay tax to Lagos State government. grin

asshole morafucker....
Broke, low-life, zero emptiness dead brain like you.

I guess that was your mother profession (OLOSHOISM) before she retired, that was why she could not conceive another child after giving birth to a trash like you.

Her cursed womb was damaged and knocked down like engine because of too much dicks and abortion pills. I'm 100% sure your daughters will follow suit.

Animal and non-entity like you. Disgusting pig... Abeg shift let me puke!!
Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by MIMU(m): 9:21am On Jan 23, 2022
Date a Muslim guy
Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by Hamsammyboi(m): 9:55am On Jan 23, 2022
My advice is that gat the Bleep out there and look for another man unless you want him to continue playing you like ball till u turn ex by the way I'm single and searching......
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Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by Hamsammyboi(m): 10:03am On Jan 23, 2022
Good morning sweetheart and I'm will not pay you have you can do you on [font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font]What You have been doing
Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by riczy(m): 10:41am On Jan 23, 2022
Ur story doesn't add up, I see loopholes, how abt his close relatives/siblings! Well happy Sunday. Waiting to watch this movie in Cinema!

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