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Iyaebe:
My friend came to visit last Sunday and met my cousin brother who came visiting, she asked who he was and I told her then I noticed she steal glances at him at intervals and not fully interested in our discussion. Ever since then she has sort of made our house her second home and I don't need to be told that she's very interested in him.Whenever she comes around and we are discussing, she will just be nodding and contributing with few words while her main work is to be stealing glances at him and this has made me so angry that each time she calls that she's coming I'll tell her I'm not home but she will still come.Yesterday when she called to inform me that she was coming which I told her I was not home and I will branch her place when I'm returning. I knew she will come, so I went to hide in my room, and behold when I came out,I met her and my cousin having some conversation and I'm sure she initiated it,I didn't even give her face as I was so annoyed as to why a lady will present herself so cheap for a man she barely knows.Now I want to fully stop her from coming to our house but I don't know where to pick on her because she's a nice person aside this cheap silly attitude she's displaying. How do I go about it?

Don't mind them u ain't alone , I hate such type of gals too.. tey as much as u can to block her off my dear

chiipink:
Don't mind them u ain't alone , I hate such type of gals too.. tey as much as u can to block her off my dear

Hmm thank you ooooooo I've been the odd one out

Iyaebe:
Hmm thank you ooooooo I've been the odd one out

If u check most the them against u are guys , so they will support the chance of their fellow man sleeping with the girl, but to me the character of the gal stinks I hate people like her too

tell your cousin to dig mercilessly she will stop coming

isama14,

I saw your message and have responded. How may I help you?

chiipink:
If u check most the them against u are guys , so they will support the chance of their fellow man sleeping with the girl, but to me the character of the gal stinks I hate people like her too

You are right,they tried to make me feel bad.She now disgust me

Iyaebe:
She's a nice person but I'm surprised at this her show of shame

But you know your cousin can make decision by himself right? And if you are not comfortable with it, let your cousin know why?
But the step you are taking now is unfair to both your cousin and your friend.

Iyaebe:
My friend came to visit last Sunday and met my cousin brother who came visiting, she asked who he was and I told her then I noticed she steal glances at him at intervals and not fully interested in our discussion. Ever since then she has sort of made our house her second home and I don't need to be told that she's very interested in him.Whenever she comes around and we are discussing, she will just be nodding and contributing with few words while her main work is to be stealing glances at him and this has made me so angry that each time she calls that she's coming I'll tell her I'm not home but she will still come.Yesterday when she called to inform me that she was coming which I told her I was not home and I will branch her place when I'm returning. I knew she will come, so I went to hide in my room, and behold when I came out,I met her and my cousin having some conversation and I'm sure she initiated it,I didn't even give her face as I was so annoyed as to why a lady will present herself so cheap for a man she barely knows.Now I want to fully stop her from coming to our house but I don't know where to pick on her because she's a nice person aside this cheap silly attitude she's displaying. How do I go about it?

I don't even understand what you are bothering yourself for

She loves your cousin and she is a real goal getter

Don't create enemies with the three of you

Your cousin never told you that he hates her presence, so what's your own

Just leave them, she likes him and the are full adults

If your brother uses her and dump her, then shame will be allover her and if your brother goes on to have a beautiful relationship with her, the credit will go to you

Just leave them abeg, unless you want to date him then declare on time

Nr be only cousin brother
You are jealous she's going to steal him from you

frozen70:
I don't even understand what you are bothering yourself for

She loves your cousin and she is a real goal getter

Don't create enemies with the three of you

Your cousin never told you that she hates her presence, so what's your own

Just leave them, she likes him and the are ful adults

If your brother uses her and dump her, then shame will be allover her and if your brother goes on to have a beautiful relationship with her, the credit will go to you

Just leave them abeg, unless you want to date him then declare on time

OP, your English get k leg small.
I believe my cousin brother as my cousin too.
Unless you are actually attracted to your step brother's cousin, you should see yourself as the angel they will thank for their meeting at their wedding or the devil you are right now.
You definitely don't have a boyfriend and it is people like you who will stay single for a long time unless a man chases you.

The biggest lesson in life most people are teaching you now is, if you want something in life, you have to work for it..

A man usually propose/initiate to have relationship with a woman but the but the woman agrees to it.

If you understand the basis of success in life you will know the end result is what matters not the mean. You put your self in a position to succeed . It is not just for you to put on make up and wear mini skirt, that only show your feminine body.
The true character is how you can relate, friendly personality and there is the chemistry they are testing now.

Just sit back and learn.

Iyaebe:
I'll rather scatter them for daring to make a first move,the way she was stealing glances was so annoying and she started responding foolishly to our conversation because her mind was on a man she barely knows

I understand how u feel it’s like a betrayal of trust bt many guys won’t see it that way unless if it was their sister and their guy friend came to see him and started toasting his sister behind his back. U will see how many other will cry fowl and some will even fight their friend instead of saying they are adults. Lol

She ur friend and shouldn’t have approached ur cousin for Smtn beyond platonic behind ur back at best she should have discussed the idea with u and then do what she likes even if u don’t agree to it. That’s shows she values ur friendship to am extent.

Iyaebe:
You guys on this nairaland forum don't live your reality the way you say it here.Most of you will frown if she were your sister but here they are making me feel as if I'm the wicked person in all of these.Mtcheww

U got them here bt they dare not reply u on this point cos they are hypocrites or blindsided. Some are even calling u enemy of progress for a friend that disrespected u and ur friendship. Lol

To go extreme how do we know she can’t date any other male she meets in ur house like ur bf behind u?

Is your cousin brother not your cousin

Iyaebe finally join the queue of crying slay queens

Free them

You are just being jealous and hateful.

Iyaebe:
My friend came to visit last Sunday and met my cousin brother who came visiting, she asked who he was and I told her then I noticed she steal glances at him at intervals and not fully interested in our discussion.

Ever since then she has sort of made our house her second home and I don't need to be told that she's very interested in him.

Whenever she comes around and we are discussing, she will just be nodding and contributing with few words while her main work is to be stealing glances at him and this has made me so angry that each time she calls that she's coming I'll tell her I'm not home but she will still come.

Yesterday when she called to inform me that she was coming which I told her I was not home and I will branch her place when I'm returning. I knew she will come, so I went to hide in my room, and behold when I came out, I met her and my cousin having some conversation and I'm sure she initiated it. I didn't even give her face as I was so annoyed as to why a lady will present herself so cheap for a man she barely knows.

Now I want to fully stop her from coming to our house but I don't know where to pick on her because she's a nice person aside this cheap silly attitude she's displaying. How do I go about it?

Hurray!!! Ur Thread has hit front Page.

Iyaebe:
She's a nice person but I'm surprised at this her show of shame

what is the show of shame?

Face him man to man if you don't want that relationship.

CLICK on my signature to get a copy.

You need it to build a career you were made for.

Just N1k

I dey like this kind parole na so I service one of my sis friend. Till today she's not aware.

Trust your instincts. I always knew this girl is too dumb. She even wan cóck block her own cousin.

Iyaebe:
I'll rather scatter them for daring to make a first move,the way she was stealing glances was so annoying and she started responding foolishly to our conversation because her mind was on a man she barely knows

this matter pain u pass Iwobi red card

Iyaebe:
My friend came to visit last Sunday and met my cousin brother who came visiting, she asked who he was and I told her then I noticed she steal glances at him at intervals and not fully interested in our discussion.

Ever since then she has sort of made our house her second home and I don't need to be told that she's very interested in him.

Whenever she comes around and we are discussing, she will just be nodding and contributing with few words while her main work is to be stealing glances at him and this has made me so angry that each time she calls that she's coming I'll tell her I'm not home but she will still come.

Yesterday when she called to inform me that she was coming which I told her I was not home and I will branch her place when I'm returning. I knew she will come, so I went to hide in my room, and behold when I came out, I met her and my cousin having some conversation and I'm sure she initiated it. I didn't even give her face as I was so annoyed as to why a lady will present herself so cheap for a man she barely knows.

Now I want to fully stop her from coming to our house but I don't know where to pick on her because she's a nice person aside this cheap silly attitude she's displaying. How do I go about it?

Iyaebe, you didn't tell us how old you cousin is neither did you tell us how old your friend is. If these two are adults, why not give them a chance to express their feelings toward each other?
I thought we are not just on nairaland to read and post but to learn from other people's topics and contributions. Iyaegbe, pls this is 21st century, don't turn yourself to modern witch.

Iyaebe:
She's a nice person but I'm surprised at this her show of shame

You are just being jealous and hateful.


You're an evil devil. May you be found out and shamed. You eediot

EOP. because the girl fine pass you come get money pass you na him make u dey envy am. I know frenemies like you. You keep such friends because of what you can gain financially from them and suspect your gains might be shattered if she started dating someone in your family. I know ur type wella

teedoxman89:
Depends on what type of girl she is. You don’t know yet maybe you are the key to her future happiness. Suit her down and ask her questions after all she is your friend and she can also be useful to you in future.

That's the thing. She doesn't want to be...

Bad belle things.

Iyaebe:
My friend came to visit last Sunday and met my cousin brother who came visiting, she asked who he was and I told her then I noticed she steal glances at him at intervals and not fully interested in our discussion.

Ever since then she has sort of made our house her second home and I don't need to be told that she's very interested in him.

Whenever she comes around and we are discussing, she will just be nodding and contributing with few words while her main work is to be stealing glances at him and this has made me so angry that each time she calls that she's coming I'll tell her I'm not home but she will still come.

Yesterday when she called to inform me that she was coming which I told her I was not home and I will branch her place when I'm returning. I knew she will come, so I went to hide in my room, and behold when I came out, I met her and my cousin having some conversation and I'm sure she initiated it. I didn't even give her face as I was so annoyed as to why a lady will present herself so cheap for a man she barely knows.

Now I want to fully stop her from coming to our house but I don't know where to pick on her because she's a nice person aside this cheap silly attitude she's displaying. How do I go about it?

Are you feeling jealous that you are going to lose her as a friend?

Or are you just trying to protect your cousin brother from her?

I hope you don't have lesbian spirit inside you because I can't understand why you don't want someone you term a friend to befriend your cousin.

Iyaebe:
My friend came to visit last Sunday and met my cousin brother who came visiting, she asked who he was and I told her then I noticed she steal glances at him at intervals and not fully interested in our discussion.

Ever since then she has sort of made our house her second home and I don't need to be told that she's very interested in him.

Whenever she comes around and we are discussing, she will just be nodding and contributing with few words while her main work is to be stealing glances at him and this has made me so angry that each time she calls that she's coming I'll tell her I'm not home but she will still come.

Yesterday when she called to inform me that she was coming which I told her I was not home and I will branch her place when I'm returning. I knew she will come, so I went to hide in my room, and behold when I came out, I met her and my cousin having some conversation and I'm sure she initiated it. I didn't even give her face as I was so annoyed as to why a lady will present herself so cheap for a man she barely knows.

Now I want to fully stop her from coming to our house but I don't know where to pick on her because she's a nice person aside this cheap silly attitude she's displaying. How do I go about it?

Let her be jor.

Iyaebe:
This is a different case,it does not apply here

Maybe you are a closeted lez who is jealous that she is liking ya cousin. What is wong with liking a man she barely knows? That is why she is coming, to get to know him. Admit your closeted lust or leave them to be

Iyaebe:
My friend came to visit last Sunday and met my cousin brother who came visiting, she asked who he was and I told her then I noticed she steal glances at him at intervals and not fully interested in our discussion.

Ever since then she has sort of made our house her second home and I don't need to be told that she's very interested in him.

Whenever she comes around and we are discussing, she will just be nodding and contributing with few words while her main work is to be stealing glances at him and this has made me so angry that each time she calls that she's coming I'll tell her I'm not home but she will still come.

Yesterday when she called to inform me that she was coming which I told her I was not home and I will branch her place when I'm returning. I knew she will come, so I went to hide in my room, and behold when I came out, I met her and my cousin having some conversation and I'm sure she initiated it. I didn't even give her face as I was so annoyed as to why a lady will present herself so cheap for a man she barely knows.

Now I want to fully stop her from coming to our house but I don't know where to pick on her because she's a nice person aside this cheap silly attitude she's displaying. How do I go about it?

Lol, my man forget na jealousy... We all passed through that stage...my own case I lost weight jealousing my guy and I no no how to stop them until I read how to act alpha. Simply, join the conversation and open up to your cousin about everything and how the girl has been crushing on him...laugh over it and tell her you have given up already but it doesn't stop both of you from been friends with benefits. Then try as much to get another girl to be visiting you trust me she will be the one to get jealous this time. However, of a truth ,all these things are waste of time. Just concentrate in making money. Women are approximately zero...complete nothing.

Modified, i thought you are male....at this point I don't really know what you are protecting or what her offence is. Every woman is cheap to a guy they like.