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That's not a comfortable chat.
You should confront her immediately.
... Is there a plot to hurt you?



PS: if it's a red flag, it's a red flag unless you choose to be colorblind

Kaleidoscopeman:
We are getting married in 4 months. I don't check her phone except for hotspot or she is showing me something. Just one message popped and I was supposed to click something else but the message.
What's your candid opinion on the screenshot?

Do this if you want to get an investigative follow up on what she's up to....

Quote me if you want me to continue...

Iseoluwani:
Her chats are shorts SIMPLY because you are with her. That's definitely her Achilles leg. Doesn't look like she is in relationship with that person but she likes that person
That's why are replies are non challant. Confront her check her attitude and stop whatever wedding if she doesn't want it.

We can't be solving marriage issues on nairaland daily abeg

You are a new definition of dûmb. I don't usually abuse people here but your selective blindness dey vex me.

Which nonsense clue do you want again? He said he loves her,gave her money and warned her never to disappoint him....

Shey na her brother she dey talk to ni?

Confront her and hear what she has to say

Go ahead with your plan. Don't delay yourself because of a post, except you have something else in mind. God has planned to change your status. Devil is not happy with your progress. Disappoint him by going ahead with your plan.

That's your Achilles heel my nigger

FERNANDEZISBACK:
You are boring..

He is not boring, you are boring..

This woman loves you and she's trying not to be rude to that guy. She's not making any promises or commitments, but she doesn't want to block that guy from sending her money.

Bros, don't allow your woman to be in so much need so as to tell another man she's hungry. It's an indictment on you.

Any lady that I want to marry that can't let me have access to her social media is not qualified to be my wife.

There's no issue here. The girl doesn't like that guy.

But if the guy eventually send the money to her, she may start catching feelings o and might want to reciprocate the nice gesture.

⭕️It's not easy for her to just switch off
from all the friends she made in life
before she met you.

⭕️Sometimes, even married women
run into financial difficulties which her
husband may be currently unable to
solve & she reaches out to old acquaintances.

⭕️My advice is to confront her with the
evidence and listen to her explanation
before taking any drastic decision
because even when you marry, different
challenges will come up every now and
then and there have to be matured and
diplomatic ways to handle them.

luminouz:
You are a new definition of dûmb. I don't usually abuse people here but your selective blindness dey vex me.

Which nonsense clue do you want again? She said she loves him,gave him money and warned him never to disappoint her....

Shey na her brother she dey talk to ni?

She or he? Why are your pronouns so messed up?

FahBuLous:
He is not boring, you are boring..

Fahbu why are you stealing my words tho?

Jay5mie:
There's nothing here, nothing at all.

She’s texting the guy coded format, you cheat. I’m sure you already know that but feigning ignorance.

jaxxy:
Sm1 familiar is interested in her and she avoiding his advances diplomatically. I’m yet to see a real crime.

She’s not married or engaged to anybody so she’s being diplomatic.

Diplomatically u say, yet she opted to see him, she's collecting money from him thereby being committed, she agreed to the fact that he loves her because there's no place in that chat where she rebuked the guy for saying he loved her and neither did I see her tell him she has a fiance whom she loves and wants to marry.

Guy na ya type dem easily decieve

You can tell this to a fool.
It's not untill you catch deek inside toto red handed before you can assume on cheating.

All he need do is tell the girl to call the guy n ask what the chat was about for her lover to hear if she can't do that satisfactorily the affair is off. No other prove is needed.

Romanoff:
It is suspicious but without proof, any smart woman can lie her way out of this.

Look for concrete proof before you confront her.

But why una dey always say "future wife, the woman I'm about to marry, we are about to do introduction, I'm about to propose" when una dey create posts like this?

jaxxy:
Sm1 familiar is interested in her and she avoiding his advances diplomatically. I’m yet to see a real crime.

She’s not married or engaged to anybody so she’s being diplomatic.

Dem Iyabo Ojo and Mercy Ahigbe yarns...

They are aquantances. I would have said internet early friendship but for the fact she might know 2 of his friends who came visiting.
So far there is nothing serious with her although the guy is trying hard. The lady meanwhile so far seems mildly interested, I think she will collect money without any commitment. She is not dating him and possibly never will, rather small stuff like lunch, chop chop the mugu will pay.
Truth of the matter is that there is hardly any lady even married you check the phone you wount see something.
So far I think you are safe, but this kind of conversation has to stop, it is small small cat de take catch rat.
Why lead him on and be choping his money. When yawa come has nko?

Op don enter one chance.....

In a nutshell she still loves her ex but he is not ready to settle down that's why she accepted ur proposal...

All she wants now is for the guy not to come in between you and her...

Every girl have two boyfriend:

#The one she is deceiving...

#The one deceiving her....

Na your problem make you face am

jaxxy:
Sm1 familiar is interested in her and she avoiding his advances diplomatically. I’m yet to see a real crime.

She’s not married or engaged to anybody so she’s being diplomatic.

I'd your girl is doing this 4 months to marriage them go help you furk her tire.

I can tell you she is sleeping with the guy,but Don't really love him just in for the money...which makes her a hoe...marry and regret later...

Kaleidoscopeman:
Well, why is she offering to see him? Where? When?
Why is she asking God to see her through in order not to fall the guy's hand? What will she do not fall the guy hand?

Several other questions...

Where did she say she wants to see him. There's nothing in the message na your mind at OP they go where it no suppose dey go. When the guy say I love you wetin she reply with ? Hmmmm what else God will see her through wetin dey that one.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Fahbu why are you stealing my words tho?

You stole mine not me, boring soul

CrazyGranddad:
She or he? Why are your pronouns so messed up?

Because I'm an hermaphrodite

How is it possible to hack your partner's account and monitor it.

deewhydoski:
Don't confront her yet, there is no concrete evidence to back up or claim. Just hack her whatsapp account and be monitoring her

If my wife to b go through my WhatsApp, Facebook and any other social media chat of years ago, months ago or days ago oreven hours ago and she takes it serious, she no go marry me again bc it's more explicit than ds normal msg. OP u r d insecure type

Stargurl20:
Nawa o... There's nothing fishy here. In fact, u should be thankful for the kind of woman God has blessed u with. There's nothing to worry about here, broda.

Thousands are fishy MA, this type of a lady is potential "one night stand" wife.

House wife that would see opportunity and fuckky man 1 to 5 times and end the relationship "sharp sharp" without traces, husband would find it difficult to get his cheating wife.

Romanoff:
It is suspicious but without proof, any smart woman can lie her way out of this.

Look for concrete proof before you confront her.

But why una dey always say "future wife, the woman I'm about to marry, we are about to do introduction, I'm about to propose" when una dey create posts like this?

From the conversation, I know that bitch must be an afonja bitch, always broke. Looking for one prick or the other to suck.
If u marry an afonja broke girl, u are on your own

Tboymessiah:
NasoLifeBe!!!
One thing I noticed about woman recently is this no loyalty can be found in poor girl...they are all for the money.

Them no de loyal give poor man normally,rich man wife de always loyal..

Plus Na greedy lazy girls no de loyal,not poor girls

Them dey help u fry ur fish.

FahBuLous:
You stole mine not me, boring soul

You are still lying agains?
What kind of insecurity is this?are you that obsessed with my words?
I said something and you are here stealing it from me..