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The "let's see" doesn't mean seeing physically. From what I understand, it's more like to see how events turn out. Your wife to be didn't say anything bad in the text. Yet having such Convo with a man that has a thing for her isn't cool anyway. My advise is let her know you saw the message and talk things over with her. She may give you a clearer understanding of the situation. My guy, don't let this change your mind, we all ain't perfect. Talk to your babe and I wish you a happy married life in advance.

Kaleidoscopeman:
Well, why is she offering to see him? Where? When?
Why is she asking God to see her through in order not to fall the guy's hand? What will she do not fall the guy hand?

Several other questions...

Elianawalker:
Waw... Did you say wife to be?

Can I tell you the perfect way to hurt her back?

Save this screenshot then go silent on her, disappear if possible and end all wedding plans and say no reason why...



Another way to solve this, confront her about it.

In the end you might still have to end it all...

And what is her offence?

These hoes ain't loyal!

Just like Romanoff said ,
There is no full concrete evidence to nailed her completely but the truth is that such lady is not a person to rey on.

A decent and loyal girl would never be so close to a any guy again in just 4month to her wedding.

I don't want to be too sure but the lady is not good enough for you bro.

Forget all those hyprocrite telling you there is nothing.
Ask them if they can take such from their intending partners to be.

Kaleidoscopeman:
We are getting married in 4 months. I don't check her phone except for hotspot or she is showing me something. Just one message popped and I was supposed to click something else but the message.
What's your candid opinion on the screenshot?

all this stupid simp

You saw this and you are still there!

When will you stupid simp get sense for once in your whole fcvking life

You stupid simp are the most irritating thing on planet earth

FERNANDEZISBACK:
You are boring..

walahi no one knows tomorrow. I no believe say I fit ever like ur comment ooo

Jay5mie:
There's nothing here, nothing at all.

Me sef tire oh. I'm trying to look for something.

E be like the marriage no hungry OP

GIdiata:
walahi no one knows tomorrow.
I no believe say I fit ever like ur comment ooo

Thanks a lot for this..

Kaleidoscopeman:
Well, why is she offering to see him? Where? When?
Why is she asking God to see her through in order not to fall the guy's hand? What will she do not fall the guy hand?

Several other questions...

These questions were not answered in the chat..
Thus, if you confront her, she may turn it all up-side-down on you with normal things..
And you would be the one seen as insecure.
...
And she would even cancel the wedding.
Unto say, she can't be with such a man for the rest of her life

FERNANDEZISBACK:
You are boring..

Asin ehn Almost spoiled my day trying to read that

Bro... either way... it doesn't look good. The guy says he loves her... that she knows... but I want to believe nothing happened between the two.... as yet. She is bleeding him money .... giving him hope that he will get some .... but not promising. Note her language .... not saying yes ... not saying no ... she is playing him.... making him an ATM. I don't think she will give it to him ... not now ... for risk of the marriage plans crashing. But what will happen after marriage? Is she playing the guy to maintain her up to the point of marriage ... after which you will be fully responsible?.. and then she will dump him? Or is it she will string him along and after marriage be giving it up to him to maintain the cash flow? What is more worrisome .... did you take note of the time of chat? When married and return from work... fast asleep... take note of what will be happening.... the planning and the scheming . You can sit her down and talk all you want ..... at the end of the day.... to decide if younshoukd go ahead with the marriage or not should be decided on one question...... can you trust her? I'm out.

Irishrena1:
Why is he asking her not to fall his hand?



Seems to me like he's asking her out and not getting what he wants in return.



She gets or hopes to get something from him when she's broke.



First look into her financial needs

Is she a whøre ?

headbasher96:
Oga confront her because if u are looking for help here when u finally marry her will u still was your dirty clothes here on nairaland.


There is nothing u will tell that will not make me confront her if i was you

The chat is not strong enough to be used to catch the lady

Faber:
When you toast her u no tell us
When you first bleep her u no tell us
When you proposed to her u no tell us
When you did introductions u no tell us

Now you come discover na cheerful, shareful giver you want marry, u come dey worry us...

Op let me remind you there's a military revolution underway in Francophone West Africa...the West wants to destabilise the peace of West Africa...
So save us the drama with your yeye street urchin

You know ball

CrazyGranddad:
This woman loves you and she's trying not to be rude to that guy. She's not making any promises or commitments, but she doesn't want to block that guy from sending her money.

Bros, don't allow your woman to be in so much need so as to tell another man she's hungry. It's an indictment on you.

wasted sperm on planet earth

How do you simp comes up with new stupidity Idea

Kaleidoscopeman:
We are getting married in 4 months. I don't check her phone except for hotspot or she is showing me something. Just one message popped and I was supposed to click something else but the message.
What's your candid opinion on the screenshot?

That’s the side piece. Lmao, well at least you ain’t the other guy, that one go cry tire in 4months time.

CrazyGranddad:
This woman loves you and she's trying not to be rude to that guy. She's not making any promises or commitments, but she doesn't want to block that guy from sending her money.

Bros, don't allow your woman to be in so much need so as to tell another man she's hungry. It's an indictment on you.

And u gat a brain like this?

Dear All,

I wish to mention this:
We once had a quarrel about a few years back and she seemed to be with this guy...(How did I know) ?
I wanted us to travel outside the country so I requested her bank statement which the travel agent told us to bring so this same guy's name appeared severally crediting her weekly.
I punctured this, she only said there was nothing that he was just asking her out bla bla bla...she told me she has ended since we have reconciled.

Same guy has popped up again!

No be your future wife.

The kind of breakfast I go sarve you eh you self go shock non....sens

NewSoul:
Look at this typical Nigerian girl above . One thing I noticed about women is that once their fellow woman cheat they want to just look for something the man did or is not doing and append blame that that is what caused their "sister" to cheat.

Now this one is indirectly saying that a woman wether married or unmarried has the privilege of cheating because the man is not providing enough financially. What a warped mentality!

So all poor men wives are cheating abi? Because the man's financial supply to them is not. Madam who go cheat go cheat wether the man is rich or poor. A bitch will always be a bitch

this just show how naija women are way useless.... All of them

I only pity those people who keep marrying those baboons called naija women

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Not everyone is gonna understand the language there na..why not interpret it to English so we can have a better understanding..

Nothing may likely be happening between them, BESIDES, who is a saint...?

I once had a girlfriend who sent me a text around 6 am, knowing I will leave the house before 9 am...

The content of the message was, "...are you free, I will like us to meet"

In a simple language, the message means, are you free, I will like us to commit immoral act!

Not because I am pure, but by the grace of God, I didn't alow her to come.

We all know what would have happened if I had let her to come...

Wife to be ke , that guy dey chop this babe on a steady lmao, it is so clear from the chat what proof do you need again.

It's either you just waka jejely out of the relationship or you continue with her and be suspicious of her every move and you know that won't be healthy for a newly married couple.

Normal normal that guy dey chop that babe steady..

Akpan107:
Nothing may likely be happening between them, BESIDES, who is a saint...?

I once had a girlfriend who sent me a text around 6 am, knowing I will leave the house before 9 am...

The content of the message was, "...are you free, I will like us to meet"

In a simple language, the message means, are you free, I will like us to commit immoral act!

Not because I am pure, but by the grace of God, I didn't alow her to come.

We all know what would have happened if I had let her to come...

You made quite a great point.

Kaleidoscopeman:
Dear All,

I wish to mention this:
We once had a quarrel about a few years back and she seemed to be with this guy...(How did I know) ?
I wanted us to travel outside the country so I requested her bank statement which the travel agent told us to bring so this same guy's name appeared severally crediting her weekly.
I punctured this, she only said there was nothing that he was just asking her out bla bla bla...she told me she has ended since we have reconciled.

Same guy has popped up again!

Bro, calm down and study this woman well. Don't let your emotions get the better of you now. Just chill with your evidence and track her slowly.

In my opinion, she don mess up. How will she be taking from a man four months to her wedding without letting you know? There is no real crime yet but this is surely a sign that she is not trustworthy.

mrcrabs:
Wife to be ke , that guy dey chop this babe on a steady lmao, it is so clear from the chat what proof do you need again.

It's either you just waka jejely out of the relationship or you continue with her and be suspicious of her every move and you know that won't be healthy for a newly married couple.

Normal normal that guy dey chop that babe steady..

As innnn. You just spoke my mind but abeg off mic. Norma norma, I don't even hate on babes doing this but common, four months to wedding? Why na Atleast have some dignity. And I am 100% certain the guy is just playing her around. I have a side chick that our convo is almost like this every time. Once in a while I say hi, then I send money, we see and nack and that's all for like another two months.

Kaleidoscopeman:
We are getting married in 4 months. I don't check her phone except for hotspot or she is showing me something. Just one message popped and I was supposed to click something else but the message.
What's your candid opinion on the screenshot?

Because you want to marry her now some other guy should not follow her talk �, oga you simply can't be enough for a woman. Know this and know peace

Romanoff:
It is suspicious but without proof, any smart woman can lie her way out of this.

Look for concrete proof before you confront her.

But why una dey always say "future wife, the woman I'm about to marry, we are about to do introduction, I'm about to propose" when una dey create posts like this?

lolz, don't mind them.

I blame OP sha, that is babe is a public property and he wants to personalize public property.

Thats embezzlement

You have stop any form of relationship with her, she won't be faithful in the future.

This stories dei make me dei fear ladies

Keep fûcking her. Double the condom tho.

Just know that you CAN NEVER trust her again no matter how hard you try.

If you like be a simp and don't advise yourself.

Kaleidoscopeman:
Yes

Pls be very Careful...Be Circumspect about Yr DECISIONS...Dont be hasty. Confront and Conclude Truthfully.