after she has gotten belle for you that is the reason I don't want relationship for now until I'm balance scale I don't want anything to do with relationship @ all no no no I can't bear heart break no way

Paramount01:
Hello nairalanders,hope you guys days was good? please advice me on the matter on my mind.

I entered a relationship very early in my life as back as when I was still in secondary school with a girl in my area, we never had sex until wen she finsh her secondary school we started having sex,we don't stay far from each others house so is very easy for her to come over to my house when my parents are not around.

We had sex countless time and what did you expect from people that had sex every time without protection, the girl was pregnant. As at the time she was pregnant I was already in my 200level at the university and she was still looking for admission when I heard about it I told her to keep it but she told me she can't keep it that her parents will kill her so I gave her money to abort it which she did, we continue with our love affair but now very careful till I am about leaving for service, when going I told her I will surely keep myslef for her and she should also keep herself for me till I come that if I hear any rumor that she is dating somebody else I will just cut off the relationship so I left, after a year of service in the far east I got a job and she can't come to my side due to distance I later came home after 1and half year, as I saw her, I observed somebody else has touch her, her breast was full of milk I ask her what happen she said nothing, I later found out that she was pregnant for another guy when I was not around and she aborted it so the milk is still in her breast I was mad within me she beg and I forgive her.

Note all through my stay during service year I never touch any lady I kept my self for her as the promise I made with her,I stayed like 2 months at home before going back to my base,has I left she told me she was pregnant for me again I was shock but told her am not ready to father a child now that she should abort it, she aborted it and we continue our relationship but I only come home once in a year.

My mind was not pure with her again so I now start giving other girl attention due to what has happen before, I now met this new girl, we attend the same Catholic, we started has friend not until I begin to pick interest in this new girl,I asked her out and she agree which make me to forget this my old babe totally, the old babe complain and I told her I am sorry I can't continue with her again that my mind is not with her again, she begged but I told her parents I am not interested again.

My wedding with this my new babe will come up August but my conscience do judge me that i don't treat that old girl well by leaving her. pls help, what can I do?

Do as you like op, but just know that what you did to someone else's daughter will also be done to yours, fornicators and child (fetus) murderers will never go unpunished.
The both of you will pay whether you like or not.

never marry out of pity! my former boss told me this about 15 years ago, ponder on it well.. good luck.

Tobest94:
go school una no go go, wetin be you didn’t wanna marry her? Na drop out you be?

english professor,i hope you are as perfect and flawless as you just portrayed...if not,you just a hypocrite feeling urself

cr7lomo:



Mynd.44
Lalas.ticlala
She just broke a rule

Are you alright ? Or you need serious help ? Evaporate outta my mention please

luminouz:



This one is dizzy on top online fabu story...

Continue being dizzy...emotional person

You think I am jooking right?

cr7lomo:


@ paramount01 ,pls dont listen to this fool...he already has the demonic simp spirit in him... she only wants u cos u are the only one she sees as a fool that can accept her... if any of those guys that 4kd and impregnated her wanted her, she wud not think twice in dumping ur ass thru a phone call... she got pregnant by another guy and the only reason u found out was cos of the milk coming out of her boobs

funny you,my happiness is that you either have a sister or a daughter,if you feel him making that gal go through series of abortions is cool,then i wish you well too.From the write up,he was the first that made that gal think that abortion is a right/good thing to do.I still maintain my stand,if you don't want a baby,why sexing without condoms??

cr7lomo:


To show u how dumb u are.... how can mom and wombless be in the same sentence

To show how stupid you are can't he be adopted or through surrogacy?? Mumu yaro

Na man you be

GoodHardDick:
OP, na man u be abeg!
A quick advice to you bro, marry the new girl, the old girl is a hoe. I'm sure she must have destroyed her womb by now.

E sure me die say that old girl must have been collecting lots of dicks before the one that got her pregnant. And now she's begging you to accept her back after she has finished exploring other dicks. What a huge joke!

Abeg, for your complete peace of mind and sanity bro Marry the new girl.

and you are sure the new one is Mary the mother of Jesus right?

killmods:

Don't tell me ur shy cos I know u ain't.. anyways since u no want talk how can someone's mum be wombless? How did she birth him/ her?

The opposite of EMPTY was adopted

Aleora:
someone that is telling me ,me o that my face looks familiar, honestly ,it’s possible she hasn’t damaged her womb..some people can be very lucky …extremely lucky …seeing this guy talking about his ex,how nice she was,how she helped him build himself, caring and all but made a mistake cos she was drunk and it happened and he couldn’t forgive after the babe confessed to him herself oo…and how he was lucky to have the new babe who helped him heal from the heartbreak ,I was just laughing all through…and for real e no concern me ,I don’t know the extent the new fiancée fit go,before dem pour me better acid..I just kept my mouth shut …

For your own saferty it is best you keep quiet.

MisfitHPG:
and you are sure the new one is Mary the mother of Jesus right?

Yes,because she is still a virgin

Candidlady:



The opposite of EMPTY was adopted

Chai

michael1508:


Same thoughts too about where he messed up was when he got her pregnant again,then aborting it,but I don't agree with the repercussion of this playing out on his sister(s) or daughter (s) as we all have different destinies,I don't believe in me paying for someone else's sin,it doesn't even sound logical to me.
Why should I be suffering for what someone else did in my absent?

True but you never can tell

[quote author=Paramount01 post=109660074]Hello nairalanders,hope you guys days was good? please advice me on the matter on my mind.

I entered a relationship very early in my life as back as when I was still in secondary school with a girl in my area, we never had sex until wen she finsh her secondary school we started having sex,we don't stay far from each others house so is very easy for her to come over to my house when my parents are not around.

We had sex countless time and what did you expect from people that had sex every time without protection, the girl was pregnant. As at the time she was pregnant I was already in my 200level at the university and she was still looking for admission when I heard about it I told her to keep it but she told me she can't keep it that her parents will kill her so I gave her money to abort it which she did, we continue with our love affair.You Better Beg God To Forgive ur Immoralities&Premarital Sex. Maybe You Disvirgin The Girl.Only Fools Are Having Premarital Sex

Paramount01:
Hello nairalanders,hope you guys days was good? please advice me on the matter on my mind.

I entered a relationship very early in my life as back as when I was still in secondary school with a girl in my area, we never had sex until wen she finsh her secondary school we started having sex,we don't stay far from each others house so is very easy for her to come over to my house when my parents are not around.

We had sex countless time and what did you expect from people that had sex every time without protection, the girl was pregnant. As at the time she was pregnant I was already in my 200level at the university and she was still looking for admission when I heard about it I told her to keep it but she told me she can't keep it that her parents will kill her so I gave her money to abort it which she did, we continue with our love affair but now very careful till I am about leaving for service, when going I told her I will surely keep myslef for her and she should also keep herself for me till I come that if I hear any rumor that she is dating somebody else I will just cut off the relationship so I left, after a year of service in the far east I got a job and she can't come to my side due to distance I later came home after 1and half year, as I saw her, I observed somebody else has touch her, her breast was full of milk I ask her what happen she said nothing, I later found out that she was pregnant for another guy when I was not around and she aborted it so the milk is still in her breast I was mad within me she beg and I forgive her.

Note all through my stay during service year I never touch any lady I kept my self for her as the promise I made with her,I stayed like 2 months at home before going back to my base,has I left she told me she was pregnant for me again I was shock but told her am not ready to father a child now that she should abort it, she aborted it and we continue our relationship but I only come home once in a year.

My mind was not pure with her again so I now start giving other girl attention due to what has happen before, I now met this new girl, we attend the same Catholic, we started has friend not until I begin to pick interest in this new girl,I asked her out and she agree which make me to forget this my old babe totally, the old babe complain and I told her I am sorry I can't continue with her again that my mind is not with her again, she begged but I told her parents I am not interested again.

My wedding with this my new babe will come up August but my conscience do judge me that i don't treat that old girl well by leaving her. pls help, what can I do?

You got the old girl pregnant and you weren't ready to father a baby, months later you are now ready. Hmm?

Her parents failed her, where were they when she took in the first time? Without noticing when she did abortion the first and second time.

Candidlady:



To show how stupid you are can't he be adopted or through surrogacy?? Mumu yaro

U are even dumber than I thought

gfon:
funny you,my happiness is that you either have a sister or a daughter,if you feel him making that gal go through series of abortions is cool,then i wish you well too.From the write up,he was the first that made that gal think that abortion is a right/good thing to do.I still maintain my stand,if you don't want a baby,why sexing without condoms??

Close mouth simp... how did he make her want abortion...didn't u read when he said he dint want her to abort it but she insisted...

So are they no preventive pills ... y talk about condoms as if its the only way to prevent pregnancy...

you people are mad in this forum

DAvidVictoriA:
Oga how will you feel if this same thing is done to your Sister or your daughter? Do unto others what you want them to do to you is my word for you.

If you were in OP's shoes would you accept the girl...abeg let's be truthful to ourselves sometimes na

sukkot:
nigga you must be out of your fufu eating rabid mind. you think an armed robber has the moral authority to condemn the government ? nigga yo mind needs to be detoxed from Meth , you summabytch you

U are with no brains truly...go and check...u will see u are an air head

Aleora:
so on point ,this comment made me remember an incident ,I know this couple,but I don’t really know the guys ex girlfriend,we were discussing and he said he left his ex because she cheated and he couldn’t forgive her ,I say okay ,truth be told the one he wan marry now ,hehehehehe the babe Dey pretend like say she no sabi me,thy tell me say my face look familiar �,she forget when she Dey jist for birthday party how she take do 7 abortion for her ex ,she Dey discuss among her close friends (alcohol involved)��I was nodding my head like agama lizard,e no concern me ….happy married life to him ….

That's life
Man must not let his gbola lead him

greypencils:
Forgiveness? Who forgives such? Girls that I have met online, dated online (never met physically) and broken up with online haven't forgiven me, it is the one that commited two abortions that will?

lol I Shall Don't know what you want
Just face your wife to be abeg

These men effortlessly sleep with u, when they get u pregnant, they effortlessly ask you to kill as if it's nothing. Hmmmm

If she had kept the first child, would you be here asking this question? I guess there's something about some Bois( not yet men) u don't know what you want. U just want to sip coke, sip Pepsi, sip palmie and settle for kunu. Lass lass new babe is also a used commodity. The circle and recircle continues. All the best father of 2 dead kids.

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willieekesydney:

You got the old girl pregnant and you weren't ready to father a baby, months later you are now ready. Hmm?

Years later not month later
When she was pregnant the second time she was still in school she don't really want the baby that time because of her school

BestRicePlug28:
These men effortlessly sleep with u, when they get u pregnant, they effortlessly ask you to kill as if it's nothing. Hmmmm

If she had kept the first child, would you be here asking this question? I guess there's something about some Bois( not yet men) u don't know what you want. U just want to sip coke, sip Pepsi, sip palmie and settle for kunu. Lass lass new babe is also a used commodity. The circle and recircle continues. All the best father of 2 dead kids.

you no read the part were the girl cheated on him abi
Got pregnant and even aborted it.... Or where she was asked to keep the first pregnancy but she insisted on abortion

cyndylove64:
lol I Shall Don't know what you want
Just face your wife to be abeg

What's my own? Na me be OP?

U see this war u're having with ur conscience now, if u had ended the relationship when u found out that she was with another guy when u were away, na bless she for dey bless this marriage wey u wan do so. But u see, because u like the way she dey knack u accepted her back. If ur conscience defeats u today, I hope u will be able to deal with it in future.
By the way, abortion na SIN.

cyndylove64:
you no read the part were the girl cheated on him abi
Got pregnant and even aborted it.... Or where she was asked to keep the first pregnancy but she insisted on abortion

pls sir kindly get my point. Every man and woman issue, the're two sides of the story that's if this story isn't fabricated. I believe this isn't the first such came up on nairaland. The first of impression he gave her that all she needed was Money to go faultless before her parents gave way for her to do more.

Mind you, this girl in question is younger than him and as such he had every right to lead her right if truely he had good intentions from the unset. I mean, he said he knew her parents, why didn't he tell her he was going to tell their parents of the pregnancy. When he got back and heard she had gone solo why didn't he cover his ink pot and end the story, but he went further.. why? I don't blame him at all. But the girl who wouldn't learn or understand life isn't what it seems. Let everyone move on, circle recircle!