Paramount01:
Hello nairalanders,hope you guys days was good? please advice me on the matter on my mind.

I entered a relationship very early in my life as back as when I was still in secondary school with a girl in my area, we never had sex until wen she finsh her secondary school we started having sex,we don't stay far from each others house so is very easy for her to come over to my house when my parents are not around.

We had sex countless time and what did you expect from people that had sex every time without protection, the girl was pregnant. As at the time she was pregnant I was already in my 200level at the university and she was still looking for admission when I heard about it I told her to keep it but she told me she can't keep it that her parents will kill her so I gave her money to abort it which she did, we continue with our love affair but now very careful till I am about leaving for service, when going I told her I will surely keep myslef for her and she should also keep herself for me till I come that if I hear any rumor that she is dating somebody else I will just cut off the relationship so I left, after a year of service in the far east I got a job and she can't come to my side due to distance I later came home after 1and half year, as I saw her, I observed somebody else has touch her, her breast was full of milk I ask her what happen she said nothing, I later found out that she was pregnant for another guy when I was not around and she aborted it so the milk is still in her breast I was mad within me she beg and I forgive her.

Note all through my stay during service year I never touch any lady I kept my self for her as the promise I made with her,I stayed like 2 months at home before going back to my base,has I left she told me she was pregnant for me again I was shock but told her am not ready to father a child now that she should abort it, she aborted it and we continue our relationship but I only come home once in a year.

My mind was not pure with her again so I now start giving other girl attention due to what has happen before, I now met this new girl, we attend the same Catholic, we started has friend not until I begin to pick interest in this new girl,I asked her out and she agree which make me to forget this my old babe totally, the old babe complain and I told her I am sorry I can't continue with her again that my mind is not with her again, she begged but I told her parents I am not interested again.

My wedding with this my new babe will come up August but my conscience do judge me that i don't treat that old girl well by leaving her. pls help, what can I do?

Aleora:
abi nah…from frying pan to fire ..

Paramount01:

Honestly that was the greatest mistake I made
I was still having feelings for her because I never get somebody else,I never think I can love somebody like her in my life not until I met this new babe.honestly, I know I was very wrong

Paramount01:


The did has been done,will I now kill myself?

oilmonie:
wida

Okhuadams:
You should have left her when you discover that there was another guy. But don't you have sisters if you no get no think say you don escape l, things like this always find their wsy of coming around to hurt pple her abortion for another guy is hurting her now, your dumbing her will also hunt you cos she also aborted twice for you.

Koladez2heywhy:
Very funny how people respond to delicate matters like this. Bro I want to ask you a question, the new girl is she a virgin?...2) if your answer is No, what makes you think she is not on the same level with your girl. Finally talking from experience if Care is not taking your conscience would not let you rest... Believe me anything that happened in your marriage you will always want to flash back to the past.

Sunnybabe:


Hummm... This is very critical

If your new girl is a virgin, then u can consider marrying her. But if she is not, That means she too has be injected with several dicks . Then what makes her different from your former girl?

Be wise bro

BobbieZion:


Abeg leave the guy alone..why insult him.
People will be living reckless, having unprotected sex,when there are STI's or STD's.

Men should learn to keep their dick in their pants, then use their brain to think,not vice versa.
Know what u doing and do it sensibly.

Aaron12:
And the worst part, the guy will be banging her every night and be releasing in her with the hope that he will get a child soon. Not knowing he is pouring his akamu in a sieve known as a womb. If by chance he tells her if she has done abortions before. She will deny it with all her being even swearing with a deity to prove a point.

GoodHardDick:
OP, na man u be abeg!
A quick advice to you bro, marry the new girl, the old girl is a hoe. I'm sure she must have destroyed her womb by now.

E sure me die say that old girl must have been collecting lots of dicks before the one that got her pregnant. And now she's begging you to accept her back after she has finished exploring other dicks. What a huge joke!

Abeg, for your complete peace of mind and sanity bro Marry the new girl.

Paramount01:


But she did abortion for another guy also.

cyndylove64:
I don't understand the advise u need again,u are getting married... But still feel guilty, call your ex and ask for forgiveness then you will feel better

Premiumwriter:
When I read stories like this I get depressed.

Not about the people in the story but about my own girl. She's sweet and innocent.

But What if after everything we've done together and I fell out of love with her? What if after all the promises, things don't work out?

I know the sacrifices that girl has made including her religion.

Can't imagine how the op's girl must be feeling right now. 3 abortions, countless sex to please and still lost the man.

This is why I find it hard to hate on women even as a redpiller. The game of life is hard on everyone

Yinkakolawole:
why are you insulting yorubas, which one be yoruba english.

killmods:

He has every right to run

tollyboy5:

Comrade rest!

Paramount01:


Honestly, I feel for her,I wish I can turn the hands of time but is not possible

investorcj:
Ya a foooooooool.after all the abortions done for your sake u want to run.remember karma is a bitch

fynex:


He can not really run... abortion involves two people and he had an agreement with her the two times he did it with her...if he wasn't aware it's a different thing.

It's only by the mercies of God that he can run...but God is not partial.

cr7lomo:


How did it start with him?? It started with her... boys don't do abortions...girls do?? Alot of people were not programmed to be smart or intelligent

GoodHardDick:


Marrying a Nigerian girl is very risky my brother. Even that new girl sef is collecting dick behind the OP's back.