TheManOfTheYear:
It's only hard to find love there for women. Lol

truthsayer009:


Okay, let's make a bet. Connect them and allow things to flow. Don't do more than that, just connect and leave them alone. If the relationship work in a year, i go wire you 100 pounds. If not, no wahala.

People leave Lagos to Abuja, Lagos to PH to visit babe, it is now ontario to Toronto that is a problem. Lmao.

TuFab:

You mean SIMPlest man?
They don't know that some ladies throw subtle tantrums to see if a man has some balls or not.
No woman likes a jittery man who can't boldly defend a decision/action he has taken.
Spits...

pquaver:


You see the above na big lie.. They ladies where already married before getting the opportunities. Guys also take their already married wives abroad.. You stylishly sidesteped my statement.. A single Nigerian girl who travels abroad does not hold the already existing relationship serious, she believes there is an opportunity to go higher and that is what we are talking about.. So when the woman get destiny helper abroad why shouldnt guy too? Some of guy marry still women they left behind but women never do that.. And that is a fact.. I am saying what is good for goose is good for ganda..

Simran94:


This is wrong, totally wrong.
Why would anyone not pray for a better life their partners knowing fully well they would also share in this same better life?
Relationship is a duo thing, you are supposed to plan with your partners rather than doing things on your own.

Bobmarie:
This is true. Some of us don’t do it on purpose but the way a man handles it is crucial to him getting the respect he deserves from his woman. Women don’t respect who they can talk down to at will.

Deleting the apps after her tantrum sends a message that he is a weakling and will always cave to her demands. He should’ve explained what he was doing with them and left her to think whatever. I suspect this isn’t the 20th time she is doing this and getting her way. The poster’s girl seems to wear the pants here.

Senomi:


Stop brewing hatred for women, there's more to life than that, y'all now see them as a threat, as if you'd rather have an encounter with sars or bokoharam than have anything to do with them. This mentality is sick bro, you guys should free yourselves abeg

SocialJustice:
Not partners like wives, I mean girl friends. It is very upsetting to them.

doyin01:


It is now obvious that you are still a teenager....I am wondering why you assume I am a male..lol....grow up...

Senomi:


Lol, you're an imposter, a guy claiming to be a woman, so you can hv the chance and odascity to talk anyhow u feel like without being called out for it, either way I don't even care what ur gender is, you and ur gang of adult men are actually the teenagers here, cos gender war is what y'all live and will die for, better go and get a real life, travel, interact with people,read,go hunting, hiking or anything just to experience real life that should be ur ambition, not frolicking with the crowd of zombies who call themselves adult men, lol

doyin01:


Says a little boy who have not seen life....when you grow up we can have a meaningful conversation....a guy did something which is wrong...he put a woman above his own career... they are correcting him that what he did is wrong...you are claiming gender war.....if I am your parents right now I will curse you...you can even carry your school fees and give a woman because according to you she is your girlfriend.....arindin omo

Senomi:

It's now obvious you're a very unexposed, uncouth and archaic old woman and I hope you ain't married? If you're then send my condolences to your poor husband

My first comment was directed to the guys attacking the owner of this post, you had no business quoting me, people have the right to direct or steer their relationship however they feel like, his only mistake was bringing it here for both humans and animals to give their f*cking opinion, wether the girl's action was right or wrong it's one thing, but it's a totally different thing to insult the guy for falling in love in the first place like is he mad why would he fall in love when his mates are making money That's bullshit talk right there and majority of people who say that are filled with garbage........ Allow people to live their f*uking lives as they please

doyin01:


You are obviously a fool....show me where anyone condemned that he should not love??or are you trying to tell me that when you love someone then you must love them more than your own life??is that your own definition of love??like you should abandon your own career/life because of a woman is your own definition of love??really??...this boy shock me oooo

Senomi:

You don't get it and you never will, don't quote me again I'm done with you

Romanoff:


If you've found a decent woman in her, hold her tight and after you've relocated, marry her and work on her relocating with you.

Word on the street, especially canada is that it is hard to find love there, especially amongst Nigerians.

All everyone wants to do there is have fun and move on to the next one.

My friends in Canada for over two years now, none done see relationship, a guy and a lady.

Na so so dating woes I dey hear.

If she not worth it, tell her now and let her go o.

doyin01:


Mannerless thing.....Your parents suppose use you do menstrual period... na people like you go carry the school fees wey dem give you go give woman...animal.......

Simran94:

Lol, emotional manipulations? You mean online?
Because the exact opposite is what is happening offline?

freshalien:


You must have heard of Nigerian men abroad who come back to pick wives only for them to be regretting years later because the woman would take advantage of the system’s loop sided favoritism towards women and begin to misbehave even kicking the man out of his house. Some have ended with the men killing their wives and going to jail for life. Na only woman wey struggle for abroad like me, I go marry because she would know what it means to hustle abroad and make you way rather than have things handed to you on a platter of gold.

Simran94:

I am talking about gfs too.

Bobmarie:
Lol. They’re even in the same place. Toronto is the capital of Ontario.

Senomi:


Foolish, uncouth, archaic, tongue lashing, very rude, serpentine speech, typical attitude that stems from ur generational upbringing
You're older than my mom so pls don't make me do this

doyin01:


I'm doing it already...foolish woman of a useless b*tch....obviously my mother did not train me well...or she is just as stupid as me..

Raalsalghul:


Men use their emotions a lot in relationships while women use their brain.

PerfectlyPerfect:

What happens online is a reflection of what happens offline though there'll always be outliers

Decryptor:


Oga, you turned it upside down.

Men use their brains while women use their emotions.

Foreigna2:


In the alternative, you can carry his head and give it to your mother to cook soup. Heard it's a delicacy in your place.

Raalsalghul:


Not when it comes to relationships.

CriticMaestro:
So my girlfriend wanted to use my phone to call her mom last week during the brief black out, While going through the phone she saw apps that were to prepare someone to migrate as a skilled worker into some european countries.

She immediately got pissed and was just shouting that i was planning on leaving her without informing her. The truth is i downloaded those apps to see if i could get a better opportunity abroad but have never opened any of them.

It took some explaining before i was able to convince her that i wasnt planning to leave or atleast anytime soon. I deleted those apps and will just browse stuff about it on my PC when i'm free, if i get the chance to go i will maybe help her to work her way when i am comfortable.

CriticMaestro:
So my girlfriend wanted to use my phone to call her mom last week during the brief black out, While going through the phone she saw apps that were to prepare someone to migrate as a skilled worker into some european countries.

She immediately got pissed and was just shouting that i was planning on leaving her without informing her. The truth is i downloaded those apps to see if i could get a better opportunity abroad but have never opened any of them.

It took some explaining before i was able to convince her that i wasnt planning to leave or atleast anytime soon. I deleted those apps and will just browse stuff about it on my PC when i'm free, if i get the chance to go i will maybe help her to work her way when i am comfortable.

Simran94:


What are you saying. Lol, now I see you are one of those who derive pleasure in dragging women, you want to know my own cousin’s story more than I do or my own friend’s story more than I do? The wedding parties that I personally attended before my friends and cousin travelled abroad? And their husbands followed suite two months after? LOL

Lol, better go to the Travel thread on NL and see ladies there.
LOL

pquaver:


U know what I am saying is true but women don't like to hear that truth. Women need to put more respect for me cos we do what they will never do for us for them and yet the are jot still satisfied.. Lol