₦airaland Forum

Ladycewhy:
Yes you heard me right, men don't like you, they like your biological makeup ,they may like the fact that you have a vagina , womb and breasts but as a fellow human being , they don't like you.

Let's look back at history, in the days of old, Virgin girls were a thing for sacrifices and blood gift to the gods, then came the snatching of babies frome their mothers all in the name of twins was an abomination, then there was the selling of their daughter all in the name of bride price and the only time she was allowed to return to her father's house was in a body bag.

Still in doubt if men like you as a human first?

Ok then came the widow maltreatment, then there was a concensus to mutilate the vagina of women just to keep them under control, then came the refusal to allow them go to school. Still in doubt?

Do you still doubt the anti women campaign going on in this forum and even on the streets? Have you checked the ratio of ritual killing and see that women are the most victims?Have you heard the phrase " daughters of eve, fish brain, after devil fear women?" Well I am sure you atleast get the picture .

Biglittlelois:
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[s]A truckload of trash.....as expected....combined with lies and whatabouism with a little dose of Kruger effect...


The earlier you dings realise feminism is not out to shortchange your way of life, the better for you all to be at peace....on a second thought, enlighten yourselves through Google with a beginners guide on the definition of feminism, then go from there

The next time you want to gaslight, truth or a semblance of truth should be your watchword. Eve never blamed Adam for the apple, instead Adam blamed Eve for giving him the apple as if she forced the apple down his throat, which coincidentally is what is prevalent today, you men will never take the blame for your wrong doing, you all prefer to push it to the so called "weak" gender just to feel good with yourselves

Op made good points here that everyone has noticed, from multiple threads of insults and degradation of women, to pure hateful lies and assumptions. She took us back to the past of how it all began, from female mutilation to education denial, bride price, rights to vote and so many ills, all you could come up with is "cherry picking" as if it never existed

Look around you today, you keep using the rants of women being opportunistic as if it is the time of old where women are married off to men who can provide while she makes the home, and even at that, our mamas are still hard working market women and farmers. You claim we are opportunistic, how many of you will marry a woman who isnt working or can't stand on her own today? Women everywhere, from the market place to shops and offices are doing exploits yet you come here to rant on and on, whereas you all are cheating working mothers in the process cos at the end of the day, they are made to have multiple responsibilities of taking care of the children, the home and run 9-5 jobs, while you men only run 9-5 jobs

You men destroy the world from the time of old till now, from world war 1&2, the holocaust, Hiroshima, Pearl Harbour, to the corruption nuisances of Nigeria, armed robbery, cultism, kidnapping, terrorism etc. Look at what China, Russia and USA are doing today, showing and threatening each other because of ego and comparison of who has more military might than the other, you men keep destroying the world over and over again and you expect women to fight your wars for you because? If women were to rule the world today, there will be no wars, instead every nation will be keeping malice which is a good thing cos there will peace, life long peace, so get this fact into your thinking faculty today. And yet in all the nonsense you men keep doing in the world today, you don't see any female ranting and crying and wailing about it making it a gender war, instead you little men will scratch your faces in pain cos women did this and that, opening threads filled with gnashing of teeth on women, look at the redpill thread, more than one thousand pages filled with dissecting women(I can never understand the level of joblessness and excruciating pains going on there, it is an abnormal behavior cum mental disorder)like we are the cause of world problem, you men caused segregation, gender war, and tribal racism on this forum, go to politics section and see how emotionally daft you all are intellectually with your tribal wars,

You guys are not logical beings, you have shown that over and over again with your consistent cries every single day, and Op is simply right in all she said, she made good points except you want to twist instances and real life issues just to suit your baseless narrative, accept these facts and move on, we are not your problem, you are your own problem, so do well to deal with your insecurities and hatred of women without dragging us into it[/s].

IMEI:
All these didn't happen everywhere

In certain locations, women were even rulers and legendary warriors e.g Amina warrior queen of Zaria

As for ritual killings, women are easy targets, it's easier to bait them

It's not that men hate women nowadays, it's that women now are becoming more like men and men feel less obligated towards them

The chivalry is dying

Ladycewhy:
The next phase is for women to put their emotions under control and match the energy and vibe they are served.

Codepain:
That's besides the point.
You're saying men hate women when in actual fact men have made sacrifice for women.
Father pay your school fees.
Boss hire you for quotas.
Brothers support your dreams and aspirations.
Husband love you and tolerate your excesses.
What else do you want?
Which gender are rescued first in emergency?
Which gender have a whole ministry dedicated to their well being?
You listed some challenges faced by women.
We faced worse we just don't bitch about it

Codepain:
That's not the crux of the matter. I, unlike you know the important and complimentary role played by both gender in society.
I never played down role of mothers.
The point I'm making is males make life easier for females and sensible people don't denied that.
We hired the[b] first female programmer[/b]in our company and the only person that's unhappy about her is the female secretary

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Good most men are nothing but misogynist..we don't even have to go too far it's here on nairaland..they bash women all day all night..

And you know what makes me glad?the fact that you are confident enough to make a post about it..I really appreciate this cos it's nothing but the truth..

SarutobiEky:
she merit am?

Boniwhite:
Some thing tells me you are a guy with a long hard dick disguising as a wannbe female on nairaland. Hehe!

Boniwhite:
Some thing tells me you are a guy with a long hard dick disguising as a wannbe female on nairaland. Hehe!

Ladycewhy:
Tell that to your ancestors who thought it was wise to tell a girl child to sit at home while the boy child goes to school.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Haha you are free to think whatever you want...your words are too petty to move me..
As far as ain't telling no one nothing about myself keep picking your choice..

Datboredberry:
Did the men merit it?

It's stupid when BLACK men ask ask questions such as this then feel bad when their inferior immigrant asses are denied jobs in the States and Europe for having African names...

You would think the slaves of the world would have a little humanity and common sense...

Boniwhite:
You still never sleep by 2am?

it is obvious you are up all night lamenting, crying to God (oh i forgot you dont believe in God) and counting the lines of your ceiling. Even sleep has deserted you

may God heal you to be a better person.

Boniwhite:
You still never sleep by 2am?

it is obvious you are up all night lamenting, crying to God (oh i forgot you dont believe in God) and counting the lines of your ceiling. Even sleep has deserted you

may God heal you to be a better person.

Datboredberry:
one of the lamest comment...

You're trying to make her feel bad, right?

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Prove her wrong and stop bleating around baby boy..
All you do is complain online..wail like a little kid..why not do something about your issue instead of displaying your petty attitude on here..
I repeat prove her wrong or keep mute..

CaveAdullam:
1. Women will always blame men for their lapses and failures. Social media and the advent of feminism, gender equality and inclusion has provided a leeway for women to express their independence, yet, nothing to write home about them.
Even if a woman becomes God, subtract all the men from the equation and they will run heaven to the drain. Even in the Bible fictional tale, Eve caused the fall of man and yet blamed Adam her husband.

2. Not that men don't like women or vice versa but that their sexual selection strategy is conflicting. Women are opportunistic, emotional, instinctual and always goes where the bag is bigger, ladder is higher, and walls stronger: Hypergamy. While men are the ideal lovers: sacrifices and care for the women and children.

The conflict here is that men want women to reciprocate their good deeds but women are unable to do so even when the man falls low. Women always stretches their tiny necks like giraffes to something always higher and forget the good deeds of the man that once treated them with care and love.

3. Men may prefer women for their wombs, vaginas and breasts while women value men for their money, power, status and attention.

However, this conflict as a result of their sexual selection strategy hasn't stopped men and women from coexisting as there has been a whole lot of compromises along the way in order to get better. Simply put, the sexes evolved to be complementary to one another, that is, the strength of one covers for the weakness of the other.

4. You are just cherry picking nonsensical claims: bride price, ritual killings, female genital mutilation blah blah blah to justify your assertions. Of course, you are very wrong.

Female genital mutilation is now a thing of the past even though the cultural reasons behind it was to curb female libido and promiscuity. However, male circumcision is still in vogue, infant baby boys still getting severe pains as a result of sexual hygiene purposes. No two ears hear about this.

Male and female offsprings has been used for ritual killings in the past, reason because the "land must be cleanse of demons causing famine, diseases, drought"...men, women, children all benefited. If you're referring to the present ritual killings in Nigeria, then blame it on female promiscuity, myopic tendency and greediness; same way you'll blame young boys that are killed daily as a result of cultism.

5. You make mention of bride price as if there's anything men gain solely through marriage but rather pains and agony. Men diminish themselves in marriage because they want wives and children to be happy. Despite that, all they get most times is henpecking and inveighing from spouses and sometimes their children. Offsprings are of benefits to mothers and fathers. Even children still prefer their mums to their dads.

6. Men: Short life expectancy. Highest number of homeless people. Highest number of prisoners. Highest number of school dropouts. Longer jail term. Highest number of work casualties. So, what are men enjoying actually?

7. Do you know how many men from yester years has losed their lives as a result of war? If women were truly hated, they would have gone alongside with men to wage war and bring prisoners. But the love men has for women and children, women aren't conscripted, after all, they are the weaker sex.

8. You lots, women and feminists should be grateful to men, had it been possible, you lots would have gone into oblivion long time ago assuming males can reproduce on their own.

"Abeg getat".

Boniwhite:
Because you people could 've set the world on fire if enlightened and empowered.

reason why i hold islamic countries in high regard for the way the treat and regulate their women.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Then keep mute and stop being daft..
Pointless boy...you don't know what to say then keep mute..

Grow up and stop mumbling around aiit..

czarr:
You need to drive k water you'll be fine las las

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Exactly just the way you should get out of my mention..

Misterdhee1:
You're being mischievous. No woman provides all these without having anything to benefit from the marriage. Even when a man stops providing, they still find one reason to stay put not necessarily because they truly love the man.

And wth do you mean by psychologist, emotional cushion and tolerant? Is that some joke?

czarr:
Go and sleep it's way past your bed time ...say your prayers...ask God to rid your heart of all that bitterness.

Ladycewhy:
You can as well start by treating the women in your family that way, it's not too late. Just make sure your keep it within your family.

Boniwhite:
Downgrading of women will never gonna stop. Nature has placed women to play 2nd fiddle to men, and you people go against nature, and it is fighting back! You cant cheat nature.


em.. I smacked one of your so called ferminist at the atm stand the other day for bypassing quee in the name of ladies first.

i havent seen her fellow so called ferminists sue or arrest me since!


naija women are not created to be loved but for leisure.

czarr:
[s]You needeed to drink water you'll be fine las la[/s]s