better for your sister to marry the man, than to be hearing that your sister dey follow sugar daddy

BabbanBura:


Most likely na the guy first give am adult food and the thing dey sweet am!

That would be heart breaking if any of my parents were to find out.

yuping:
people telling a 17 year old girl to marry, nawaooo ask yourself at 17 what were you doing? Chase that man away, if he means well for your sister he will let her be haba.

I threatened to do this to the man, and everyone, I mean everyone, wanted my head. Including my mom.

I've never seen this kind of thing before, or Could my sister be pregnant and wanting to rush marriage?

Tokskob2008:
17 to 44, the difference is way too much but then if they are both ok with each other I see no issue there since no one is forcing her to marry the man.

It's her life, let her make her choice and live with whatever the outcome is no be you go marry her abi so let her be!!

I've made her understand this. If she is agreeing with our mother on this, they should be ready to bear any consequence.

ednut1:
Na poverty and hardship cause am

We may not be rich , but we're not that poor. For instance, money for everyone's school was laid out by dad. And mom started a drinks wholesale business with part of dad's gratuity.

I also provide from my earnings

newbornmacho:


I've made her understand this. If she is agreeing with our mother on this, they should be ready to bear any consequence.

She's too young. She's not even an adult. She should marry at least when she's 20.
I guess she wants to marry to escape poverty or oppression. Cos I don't know why anyone would want to marry that early.
Bro, it is well. Mothers are something else.

endy69:

In Igbo land women don't decide marriage. The OPs father is late so, if he's the first son, he has replaced their father and if he says the marriage won't work then, the umunna won't approve the marriage. And biblically, marriage is between the two families. OP calm down if you be Igbo now, you for get case. And it seems you allow your mother to undermine your decisions. I know she's your mother but you're the man of the house now

I'm igbo, I'm the first son, but uncles are telling me it's not unusual for a girl to be married off at that age in our villa.

I said I won't take part and that's what angered my mom last night meeting

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram



Abeg allow her to ENJOY her LIFE..




AGE is nothing but a NUMBER..



If she is HAPPY den let her be..



Wat ever goes wrong and which we DNT pray 4, is for her to LEARN..



LIFE is a TEACHER..



EITHER u LEARN d HARD way or D easy WAY..




LITE UP my WEED in peace



WTF MAN

my man had said it all.
Give me one mula make I get my self.

newbornmacho:


I'm igbo, I'm the first son, but uncles are telling me it's not unusual for a girl to be married off at that age in our villa.

I said I won't take part and that's what angered my mom last night meeting

Stand your ground but bear it in mind that you'll definitely have a face off with your mum. But without you the marriage won't hold except your uncles try to do something funny. Talk to them in you know what you're saying. You just replaced your late father, just imagine your dad telling your uncles that the marriage won't hold. You'll respect you if they find out that you know the right thing

Some men can do anything!

When you lock your sister for room
Flog her yansh well well then she go know say she suppose face her studies instead of following old men
What a stupid sister

endy69:

Stand your ground but bear it in mind that you'll definitely have a face off with your mum. But without you the marriage won't hold except your uncles try to do something funny. Talk to them in you know what you're saying. You just replaced your late father, just imagine your dad telling your uncles that the marriage won't hold. You'll respect you if they find out that you know the right thing

That was my initial strategy , but the backlash especially last night was shocking...
Things got so heated up, my mom uttered words...I couldn't believe
I don't know if I should just stay away...my mom is surprising me honestly.

MufasaLion:
Some men can do anything!

The old idiot doesn't even care that our family is thrown into crisis...he keeps coming here

newbornmacho:
Please how can a 44 year old be coming to marry a 17 year old girl?

And my sister is excited, and my mom is saying if shes happy she has no problem?

What is money?

And I'm looking like I'm a mad man for telling my sister I'm not in support.

I wish I could nail this guy on something...like if he's ever been married ( which he denies) or some sort of scandal....
How will my only sister get married to someone 27 years her senior?

For God sake

Please help me, what should I do

If I talk now they will say I hate women

We've had a very angry family meeting this night and this girl is bent on going...
Abi na jazz?

How old is Buhari and Aisha?

Op what's her level of education

newbornmacho:


The old idiot doesn't even care that our family is thrown into crisis...he keeps coming here

Perverts have no shame.

Nicepoker:
Op what's her level of education

ssce oo...to write jamb

VocalViolet:
I think its better to let her marry now than for her to finish getting all the degrees on earth and men will be running away when she is 32 years.

By that time, when she is older, she will be looking for a partner and swear, it won't be easy to compete with the teens that men will be picking up by then. This is the time she can easily marry. Have kids and heal fast, still get flat tummy on top. She will get her shape back fast due to her youth. Be a young and pretty mom. By the time her kids are big, she will still be young and flexing.

She won't get this kinda man if she's older o, craving for her and begging her.

Would you say the same if the 44yrs old man was broke?

Wtf is going on with this generation

She's 17 and not mentally, emotionally prepared for marriage. Op is not against the marriage, he just wants her to get matured enough.

My question is how did your little sister meet the ancient man. This is another reason why I tell guys to hustle. No woman or girl from my family will ever Bleep a guy it marry because if his money. The type of money I give them even dangote son can't give them like that

newbornmacho:


I'm igbo, I'm the first son, but uncles are telling me it's not unusual for a girl to be married off at that age in our villa.

I said I won't take part and that's what angered my mom last night meeting

Follow your heart nwannem.

MufasaLion:


Perverts have no shame.

I'm not a street guy, otherwise I for run am street. I'm very very angry. I see him going into our uncles houses, with my sister.
Are they trying to say, I must join everyone else in this? Because naturally I should represent my father as her father

BabbanBura:


Most likely na the guy first give am adult food and the thing dey sweet am!

Wise one...Na wetin sup be this...
The guy useless well well...

I pity the girl...

PALAPALA02:
What matters is if they both truely love and understanding each other very well.

After Kanu Nwakwo married his wife when she was 18yrs and he was well over 30s when e married her. So its no big deal

you must be a pedophile like obamamessi. How can a 17year old understand all that

richPHAROAH:
My question is how did your little sister meet the ancient man

Picked her up one day when she went out, dropped her at home, insisted on greeting my mom, and 3 months later all this talk of marriage which nobody told me was even in the making. I didn't know all this until, one day she brought him to meet me, and though he seems wealthy, real estate, I told her he's too old for her, and she needs to go to school first, and since then, the man hasn't come to me

newbornmacho:


ssce oo...to write jamb

Tell her how she will be struggling with pregnancy while running to attend lectures. Except she has no intentions going to school no more. But the man in question is something else.

[quote author=Modernizer post=109993482][/quote] who u say u go deh alive by that time?

newbornmacho:


Picked her up one day when she went out, dropped her at home, insisted on greeting my mom, and 3 months later all this talk of marriage which nobody told me was even in the making. I didn't know all this until, one day she brought him to meet me, and though he seems wealthy, real estate, I told her he's too old for her, and she needs to go to school first, and since then, the man hasn't come to me

this means your sister have Been knackiing him. Rope the bastard for pedophilia

Nicepoker:
Tell her how she will be struggling with pregnancy while running to attend lectures. Except she has no intentions going to school no more. But the man in question is something else.

I really don't know what this man tells her, when you are talking to her clearly she's not listening...

I have even asked her friend to talk to her, she threatened that one.

She wants to marry this man at all cost

My neighbor is 43 and her husband is 68, though he lost his first wife. And they've been married for almost 15 year now.
So, you may allow your sister, and warn the man seriously, not to maltreat your sister.
But I wish she was a bit older than 17, cuz she should still be studying.

wiseone28:
How old is Buhari and Aisha?

.
you people should stop asking stupid questions

Uyi168:
.
you people should stop asking stupid questions

Aisha is 50 while Buhari is 79 according to Wikipedia


79-50=29 years gap

adedayoa2:
My neighbor is 43 and her husband is 68, though he lost his first wife. And they've been married for almost 15 year now.
So, you may allow your sister, and warn the man seriously, not to maltreat your sister.
But I wish she was a bit older than 17, cuz she should still be studying.

What can I say , I'm already an enemy for looking out for my kid sister.

It is well