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I know we all have the fairy tale dream of meeting the love of our life, falling madly in love, getting married and having kids. Some have even visualised the number of kids - two boys and two girls.

However, we must all face the hash reality that not everyone will get married or even have kids.
As such everyone of us must have a backup plan.

My plan has always been to adopt a child even if I get married , because obviously I'll be marrying in my 40's. So whether I have a child later or not I planned to adopt an older child like 8-10 years old.

So what about you, any plan B?

Opt for adoption or find one bitch and make her stand as a surrogate mother . Either way I win o

Lol. Not for me tho

Holly Gram


Na to FIND 1 ASHAWOO give am BELLE..


LITE UP my WEED in peace

WTF MAN

NobleSeed:
why will nobody marry me?
The question should be; what will be your plan B if you don't want to marry later in life.
But If the reverse is the case na to marry yourself then.

The question is if.

The fact is, not everyone will get married or even have biological kids.
If that happens, what do we do?

everythinggirly:
Lol. Not for me tho

I take it you're married or pregnant.

Minjim:
I know we all have the fairy tale dream of meeting the love of our life, falling madly in love, getting married and having kids. Some have even visualised the number of kids - two boys and two girls.

However, we must all face the hash reality that not everyone will get married or even have kids.
As such everyone of us must have a backup plan.

My plan has always been to adopt a child even if I get married , because obviously I'll be marrying in my 40's. So whether I have a child later or not I planned to adopt an older child like 8-10 years old.

So what about you, any plan B?

I don't have plan B. I know the God I am serving. My plan A must work for me. He promised me through His words (Bible) that he will grant all my heart desires. I desire to have a decent home and raise wonderful kids to His glory.

Once you think of plan B, you have limited your God.

Bobloco:
What if Gods plan is that you won't get married, what if God wants you to become a Reverend Sister. You know there is a sayings that man proposes, God disposes. So what if your plan A is not God's plan...........What if

How many people in the Bible did God make a Rev Sister?

My God is not like Nigerian men who have double mouth. My God will never say a thing and then do the opposite. My God has already told me that I will leave my father's house and join with my soulmate and the two shall become one.

So tell me who God will plan for me not to get married when He has said that I will leave my father's house to my husband's house.

I continue with my single life...


Marriage no b achievement....


We can see how alot of Couple comes to Nairaland everyday crying abt been deprived of sex....


Even single people dey av enough sex pass all diz couples....


How much b Hookup girls wey I go dey stress myself...

If nobody marry me, I will marry someone.

I guess this question is for ladies because guys always end up getting a lady who desperately needs to be married

That is why most yahoo boys prey on ladies who are eager to get married

It is difficult to scam a man with marriage

What a question, this forum should keep some topic away from public view, how do u start having plan b when u can still fulfil your dream and destiny whether married or not ,some marry late into fifties and still have kids of their own, just live your life ,serve God and humanity whatever happens is not your responsibility

everythinggirly:
Lol. Not for me tho

My sister, you better start praying as early as possible....

If nobody marry me, I will marry someone daughter.

How do you mean plan B?

Na wa o...

If they work or their character and remove all these materialistic and fiary tale ideas from their heads. . Husband will show.

Nigerian girls are too fake.

Hmmm
This question is for the female gender and probably guys with 'issues' that can deter anyone from accepting them.

So I'll pass.
Lemme just add, that marriage is overrated. You don't NEED it as the society claims.

You wanna get pregnant as a lady? Use artificial insemination.
As a guy? Baby mama or surrogacy.

Marriage should be viewed as a retirement plan. Not a major plan. It's a dream killer and stops you from reaching your full potential.

Enjoy life. Travel, explore and live the world knowing it wasn't a boring experience.

Look for sperm donor, give birth to one or two kids, and hustle hard to give them a better life.

That is, if I am a lady.

Live happily

......to enjoy life and remain grateful for the experience

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... + society now see's no problem with 'baby mamas'.

Been getting money! That’s it! I don’t need to get married to have kids! Life is that easy now

Wow

Funny and un serious comments up there

If nobody marries me, then I'll marry somebody, and make a plan C.

Focus my energy on making more money while i explore the options of adopting a male child

Wahala

Most people will NEVER find a partner, but they will say "God forbid." There just isn't enough Willing men to go round.

These days guys are getting too comfortable being single n alone n I don't fault them.

Me sef, I no too reason d marriage thing so the PLAN B itself is a PLAN