I'm in my 4th year in the university. There is this girl I loved. We had sex a couple times, exchanged "I love you" and all that romantic stuff, but when I asked her out she claimed she didn't want a relationship, that she isn't in the right place emotionally. I asked about the sex and she said she doesn't want sex with me anymore because emotions get involved and she just wants to be single for now and only have sex when she is ready to have a boyfriend. I respected her choice and told her I'm okay. I moved on and my feelings for her started to drop. I began seeing someone else that I'm now serious with.

Two days ago the former girl called me in the middle of the night and I ignored. The next day she did the same thing. Calling in the middle of the night. This time I had the new girl sleeping over. I couldn't pick her call. Next day she called me and I didn't pick cos I was busy. Today I decided to call her and she immediately started complaining about me ignoring her and why I didn't call back. I apologized and said I was busy. Next thing she says she is moving to my lodge that she's tired of her own lodge. She had even spoken to the landlord and make plans to pay rent.

I find this very annoying. Her staying in my lodge makes things very weird. I don't love her anymore but I still feel something for her and we have a sexual history together. I can't be able to have a girlfriend comfortably with her around. I'm thinking of talking to my landlord to decline her request. There are lots of good lodges around school why my lodge? It's not like anything is wrong with her lodge. Girls sef.

Flesh and blood won't reveal what I'm about to say to you...


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If she parked in, it means you have two cookie jar at your disposal. You may end up losing your gf if you're not careful.

That will make it two pussy fr u to Bleep in one lodge

Men are cheap

U don't have any business with her. So, why are you complaining??
Wahala for who dey carry unnecessary wahala for head.

Vollon234:
I'm in my 4th year in the university. There is this girl I loved. We had sex a couple times, exchanged "I love you" and all that romantic stuff, but when I asked her out she claimed she didn't want a relationship, that she isn't in the right place emotionally. I asked about the sex and she said she doesn't want sex with me anymore because emotions get involved and she just wants to be single for now and only have sex when she is ready to have a boyfriend. I respected her choice and told her I'm okay. I moved on and my feelings for her started to drop. I began seeing someone else that I'm now serious with.

Two days ago the former girl called me in the middle of the night and I ignored. The next day she did the same thing. Calling in the middle of the night. This time I had the new girl sleeping over. I couldn't pick her call. Next day she called me and I didn't pick cos I was busy. Today I decided to call her and she immediately started complaining about me ignoring her and why I didn't call back. I apologized and said I was busy. Next thing she says she is moving to my lodge that she's tired of her own lodge. She had even spoken to the landlord and make plans to pay rent.

I find this very annoying. Her staying in my lodge makes things very weird. I don't love her anymore but I still feel something for her and we have a sexual history together. I can't be able to have a girlfriend comfortably with her around. I'm thinking of talking to my landlord to decline her request. There are lots of good lodges around school why my lodge? It's not like anything is wrong with her lodge. Girls sef.

why did you apologized when she say you ignored her,sabi na she wan space...what advice you want us to give you....been a SIMP is a big disease!

You are not a real niqa bro , Are you the one paying her rent? She can choose to live anywhere.

Alaye mi Mafor, put her for bestie zone , if chance still dey lash her but let her sabi her boundary

lol, you are not making any sense! why would you care whether this girl moves in your lodge or not, if you have a new girl that you care for?!?! she said she didnt want you, so why are you looking at her as if you have unfinished biz?

Oga, what is your business with her moving to your lodge, face your front, tell her too to face her front and not disturb you if that is what you want...

Keep fvcking her till you are tired

Dispose when done

Young man, better concentrate on your studies and leave woman alone.
Back to d topic, your ex no say your flesh dey weak to resist toto and if u continue with weak flesh, women go do u shege

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The way you acting, you still have feelings for her, let her relocate to your Lodge nothing come out,una go start banging again if 2 say you bangam well those days,okafor law activated,,,but you suppose to de read your books no woman matter, I'll advice you to start banging and move on,no feelings

How is this your problem?
She has the right to move into any apartment she rents.
If you are uncomfortable, just park out.

Look, landlord go ignore you. Just park out that lodge now cause na vawulence she dey carry come. I’m talking from experience sha but it’s your choice

Simply tell that you have a girlfriend and can't have another random person let alone a female be in your house. It's that simple.

What sort of young men do we've in Nigeria sef?

70 years old man.

Nawa

If you've truly moved on tell her so she can look for another lodge. Else she'll ruin your new relationship and still end up dumping you like she does before and this time it will be Glorious Emotional Damage!!!

That’s improvement

To be frank with u, I think ur behaving like a SIMP. I would have moved on if I were u.

Secondly if she comes around with some romantic bullshit, I go fucccck the hell out of her totorials and still move on with ma new chick. No time to check time...

Real life story: I chased a girl in school for 4yrs and she said no to me because I was too slim, broke and ugly then. Fast forward to 3yrs later, I followed up after I got a bank job and she quickly agreed after she saw how sweet and choby I was looking. I show am cash and she mellow. I took her to a hotel in Surulere and fuucçked her from morning till evening. I stepped out to get one or two and left from there. I told the receptionist downstairs that if she ever sees me again in that hotel, make I know wetin cause am. I took a cab and left her there naked. Some days later, she called me and I told her we are done. And that it was in response to how she treated me back in school. So I repeat, no time!!!

I come in peace!!!

You should learn to set boundaries when dealing with people and stick religiously to them.


Las las you both will soon start cohabiting because of close proximity.

I live alone and nobody my female friends inclusive, can summon up the courage to tell me that they want to cohabit because they all know that I won't even give you an answer, one dead cold stare is the best you can hope for.





Set boundaries!

2dice01:
Men are cheap

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Ryda:
Flesh and blood won't reveal what I'm about to say to you...

yOU Have nOTHING tO sAy

@op, what do you want us to do now?

I ne mumu

Op, I don't want to digest rubbish otherwise I would have read your entire post.

Apologized

Such a SIMPle man....