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Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by lecturer50(m): 11:42pm On Feb 15, 2022
I have observed that males in their late thirties and early forties can easily say NO to sex.

As in, they may interact with females and do not think of sleeping with her.

Even if the lady is very beautiful and wants sex with the man, he can easily refuse or delay it. And the surprising thing is that they have more opportunities to sleep with women,


unlike the males in their twenties and early thirties who are always looking for sex which they won't even find. Such an irony!



People in late thirties and early forties tends to be more focused and self fulfilled, and tend to discover that Sex is not that important.


I don't mean those who are chronic sex addict. I am talking about a normal somebody.

(As in, those males who are chronic sex addict, even if they are 100 years, they can still rape their great grand daughters to satisfy themselves. So I am not talking about those kind of males.)


My observation though.

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Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by culf: 11:44pm On Feb 15, 2022
Maturity, better self control, being responsible etc.

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Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by lecturer50(m): 11:47pm On Feb 15, 2022
culf:
Maturity, better self control, being responsible etc.

Ok.

Thanks.

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Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by Mrkumareze(m): 11:47pm On Feb 15, 2022
Like the guy above me said, at 35 to 40, any sensible man ll reason things that re more important. Sex drive reduces when you have more responsibilities

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Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by lecturer50(m): 11:48pm On Feb 15, 2022
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Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by lecturer50(m): 11:50pm On Feb 15, 2022
Mrkumareze:
Like the guy above me said, at 35 to 40, any sensible man ll reason things that re more important. Sex drive reduces when you have more responsibilities

Ok.

Thanks.
Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by yusluvad(m): 11:53pm On Feb 15, 2022
As more responsibilities begin to creep in, drive for sexual urges, will began to shrink/reduce drastically...

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Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by ImoleNaija: 11:59pm On Feb 15, 2022
yusluvad:
As more responsibilities begin to creep in, drive for sexual urges, will began to shrink/reduce drastically...

Even without much responsibilities, baba no dey rise early in the morning, not even in this Buhari era.

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Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by drightguy(m): 12:09am On Feb 16, 2022
They have seen it all. It's now beyond sex.

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Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by lecturer50(m): 12:18am On Feb 16, 2022
yusluvad:
As more responsibilities begin to creep in, drive for sexual urges, will began to shrink/reduce drastically...

Alright.
Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by lecturer50(m): 12:19am On Feb 16, 2022
drightguy:
They have seen it all. It's now beyond sex.

Exactly.

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Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by Freestainworld(m): 12:30am On Feb 16, 2022
At such an age, a man is always thinking about legacy, I have loads of young girls even below 20s that comes around, but I just look at them like, wetin this one get wey I never see before.

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Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by yusluvad(m): 2:01am On Feb 16, 2022
cheesy grin grin cheesy
ImoleNaija:


Even without much responsibilities, baba no dey rise early in the morning, not even in this Buhari era.

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Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by pansophist(m): 3:58am On Feb 16, 2022
Lol, funny. I doubt if women will agree with you on this. Generally it is men that are matured, and have better self control say no to sex, though its easier as they get older due to the absence of raging hormones common with teens, had abundance of sex, and think of the aftermath of such sex. When a man have a lot to offer, sex won't be something he prizes so high.

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Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by Double0h7(f): 4:02am On Feb 16, 2022
Testosterone decreases with age...

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Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by eazzzy1(m): 4:05am On Feb 16, 2022
How did you observe this? You go around asking men for sex?

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Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by Southernigbo: 5:26am On Feb 16, 2022
well girls too ain't that attracted to them, except if they see or think of their riches

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Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by Dtruthspeaker: 5:27am On Feb 16, 2022
Op is surely a female Witch seeking how to destroy.

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Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by Aworldofsurpris: 5:27am On Feb 16, 2022
declining tee levels

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Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by kingjiss: 5:37am On Feb 16, 2022
culf:
Maturity, better self control, being responsible etc.


Good answer

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Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by candidladyTemp(f): 5:40am On Feb 16, 2022
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lecturer50:
I have observed that males in their late thirties and early forties can easily say NO to sex.

As in, they may interact with females and do not think of sleeping with her.

Even if the lady is very beautiful and wants sex with the man, he can easily refuse or delay it. And the surprising thing is that they have more opportunities to sleep with women,


unlike the males in their twenties and early thirties who are always looking for sex which they won't even find. Such an irony!



People in late thirties and early forties tends to be more focused and self fulfilled, and tend to discover that Sex is not that important.


I don't mean those who are chronic sex addict. I am talking about a normal somebody.

(As in, those males who are chronic sex addict, even if they are 100 years, they can still rape their great grand daughters to satisfy themselves. So I am not talking about those kind of males.)


My observation though.
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Early morning trash

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Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by dingbang(m): 5:42am On Feb 16, 2022
A man is always ready grin

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Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by candidladyTemp(f): 5:42am On Feb 16, 2022
ImoleNaija:


Even without much responsibilities, baba no dey rise early in the morning, not even in this Buhari era.

Erectile dysfunction

Stop blaming the economy Mr

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Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by Fiscus105(m): 6:12am On Feb 16, 2022
Though some animals in human' skin would not say no even in their 60s

But for normal human beings the reasons are many.
1. So many burdens that need to be cleared that are more important than random sex.

2. Such sex is readily available for them in their respective homes, becos larger percentage of that age grade might have married .

3. Ego and self respect of been a responsible man would reduce their animalistic behaviors towards women.


4. Decrease in testetorone as one ages..

5 Such man would have seen it all in different size and shape of pusssies at that age.

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Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by Nobody: 6:34am On Feb 16, 2022
lecturer50:
I have observed that males in their late thirties and early forties can easily say NO to sex.

As in, they may interact with females and do not think of sleeping with her.

Even if the lady is very beautiful and wants sex with the man, he can easily refuse or delay it. And the surprising thing is that they have more opportunities to sleep with women,


unlike the males in their twenties and early thirties who are always looking for sex which they won't even find. Such an irony!



People in late thirties and early forties tends to be more focused and self fulfilled, and tend to discover that Sex is not that important.


I don't mean those who are chronic sex addict. I am talking about a normal somebody.

(As in, those males who are chronic sex addict, even if they are 100 years, they can still rape their great grand daughters to satisfy themselves. So I am not talking about those kind of males.)
My observation though.
You are correct.
That's the singular reason every struggling young man must look beyond NYASH & Breasts before marrying a Girl.
It pays a lot marrying a hardworking, intelligent & financially stable lady.
As a man, 4 years into your marriage, your wife's nakednesss will mean nothing to you again.
In Fact, her Breasts will be converted into a drawer, while some will be seen as dashboards.
D only thing dat will sustain ur Love 4 her is her Relevance in your Life as a married man.
Even some that were CHRONIC SEX ADDICTS in their youthfulness, still decline in sexual fantasies as they age gracefully.

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Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by Aworldofsurpris: 6:39am On Feb 16, 2022
but hardworking girls are hard to find nah... At least where I live.
don't know about your place
MALIGNANTGuest:

You are correct.
That's the singular reason every struggling young man must look beyond NYASH & Breasts before marrying a Girl.
It pays a lot marrying a hardworking, intelligent & financially stable lady.
As a man, 4 years into your marriage, your wife's nakednesss will mean nothing to you again.
In Fact, her Breasts will be converted into a Dashboard.
The only thing that will sustain your Love for her is her Relevance in your Life as a married man.

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Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by Nobody: 6:44am On Feb 16, 2022
Aworldofsurpris:
but hardworking girls are hard to find nah... At least where I live.
don't know about your place

Breast & Nyash shall surely pass away.
Sexual desire declines with increasing age
Avoid purposeless Ladies.
Always choose your friends.
Invest in sensible women!
Leave LEECHES, for they leech till eternity!

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Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by DARLINGTON869(m): 6:44am On Feb 16, 2022
At 35 to 40, a full grown ass man has seen every thing under the sun about a woman.
His mind is now preoccupied with other issues of life like bills, his children, his parents etc. Not that sex won't appeal to him again, but the craziness about it would have drastically dropped.

T O DARLING

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Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by beautyhd: 6:45am On Feb 16, 2022
Low testosterone levels, causing decreased libido.

That’s why most of them in that age resort to sexual enhancers.

Penile erection takes long to achieve, to avoid embarrassing themselves, they say no to sex especially when they weren’t pre informed.

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Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by Nobody: 6:52am On Feb 16, 2022
Who told you that? Abi na them craze pass for sex.

Get your facts right abeg.

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Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by techWriter3: 7:10am On Feb 16, 2022
maturation, better yourself overpower, getting responsible etc

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Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by Kenmatt(m): 7:25am On Feb 16, 2022
Someone will just open a thread out of assumption, all of you will dive in to comment without proper verification and as a result, you are supporting the claim ignorantly.

Who told you that men in that age don't crave for sex?

I and so many friends of mine within that age, are almost going "gaga" for sex truthfully

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