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Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by Phoneworld: 7:04pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Ladycewhy:Marriage is partnership not slavery, as a man, if u get home early u can cook for ur wife, likewise the opposite, we are making life harder for our genders, we dont need to wait till we travel out to Know we have to treat women right... But some girls don't deserve it 1 Like |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by Nobody: 7:05pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Ladycewhy: No real man survives or wants financial income from a woman. For me, when a man says what do you bring to the table, he means what female qualities do you have. Are you a supportive woman, are you a home maker? are you a woman that will give a man peace, are you capable of having children and raising them properly, are you the kind of woman that will help a man acheive his potential or the type that will drag aman down with drama? are you the kind of woman that a man is proud to call his wife etc etc Yes there may be times when things are tough and a wife may need to support her husband financially but it is a "loan" so to speak. No man enters a relationship looking for financial support from a woman...at least no real man expects to live of a woman!!! 2 Likes |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by Biglittlelois(f): 7:05pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
GRIMMJOE: Toh, men are empty except for the amount they have in their pocket, noted. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by Ladycewhy(f): 7:06pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
flokii:many women today share bills with their husbands but the gesture is not reciprocated. Of you want to copy the western culture copy it to the last letter. Ask a Nigerian man to go and buy food stuff and come and cook, if he doesn't summon your ancestors for a family meeting ,his people wills say you have turned him to woman wrapper. But they western culture we copied ,men go grocery shopping ,cook and clean. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by JayPeeOham: 7:06pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
CumOnHer: This sounds very much interesting! You can copy when when posting so I don't miss the discussion Gracias 1 Like |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by JayPeeOham: 7:06pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
CumOnHer: This sounds very much interesting! You can copy when when posting so I don't miss the discussion |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by JayPeeOham: 7:06pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
CumOnHer: This sounds very much interesting! You can copy me when posting so I don't miss the discussion Gracias |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by Biglittlelois(f): 7:06pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
CumOnHer: Lmao becos you are who The guts of some dingos here sha On a faceless forum 6 Likes |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by osazsky(m): 7:07pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Bigbright7:only a devil will not assist his wife with house chores cuz he is bringing 50k a month for feeding and bills 1 Like |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by Ladycewhy(f): 7:07pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
flokii:many women today share bills with their husbands but the gesture is not reciprocated. Of you want to copy the western culture copy it to the last letter. Ask a Nigerian man to go and buy food stuff and come and cook, if he doesn't summon your ancestors for a family meeting ,his people wills say you have turned him to woman wrapper. But they western culture we copied ,men go grocery shopping ,cook and clean. Since we don't want the traditional setting anymore ale we dey readjust to fit into the new century. The working woman go out and faces the same work hazard and stress just like men, so why does she have to share bills and men only come and sit whit the tv or go and chillax without any input nor support.? 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by Ladycewhy(f): 7:08pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
osazsky:But many men do it. And that's the reality . When women talk they are quickly tagged feminists. 2 Likes |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by sanpipita(m): 7:08pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
I don't get into these discussions because men will ask what do you bring to the table to women then end up avoiding women who actually bring something to the table. 7 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by IMEI: 7:08pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Ladycewhy: You do know that for every injustice against women anywhere in the world, there are tons more against men right? The difference is that women blame men for everything they experienced, as well as all negative decisions they take. That's why there's a popular belief even in the West that 'a woman's kryptonite is accountability' As for African women being the backbone, Africa has never been homogenous, we never had a monoculture. The above examples you mentioned weren't widespread, in the overall context, they were minority cases The West's biggest power is soft power i.e the ingraining in the minds of people the illusion of its supremacy and clearly, they've done a number on you 4 Likes |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by Nobody: 7:09pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Omo people dey this world o!! Year to year all they do is argue about the other gender being useless. If men or women stress you much, why not just ignore them all through your existence on earth. Don't you guys think about your lives or how you wanna progress or something? Nawa!! 2 Likes |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by Ladycewhy(f): 7:09pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Biglittlelois:lol leave that one. Some people are better left to their delusion grandeur. 4 Likes |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by GRIMMJOE(m): 7:09pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Biglittlelois:Yet you open your legs for those empty headed men, what does that makes you |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by Biglittlelois(f): 7:09pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
perambulator: 99.999999999% of nairaland men will not agree with you, in fact they will call you a SIMP 3 Likes |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by Alusiizizi(m): 7:10pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Ladycewhy: For we RedPillers, it means female virtue, loyalty, submissiveness and the potential to be an obedient wife and mother. |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by Ladycewhy(f): 7:10pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
theForth:the family is the fabric of society ,like it or not the home dynamics is very important regardless of how rich or accomplished you are. 2 Likes |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by flokii: 7:12pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Ladycewhy: It's wrong to send the man of the house on errands and wifey duties.. nothing stops the wife from going to the market to get food items to prepare food for her family if not laziness and pride. We know how most go to do cleaning as single girls, do chores, wash clothes and even warm bed of guys they are dating only to change after marriage. Don't start what you can't finish biko, if you won't cook and clean later on in marriage, then why do it as spinster? |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by Ladycewhy(f): 7:13pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
perambulator:With this your comment,they are coming for you. My hand nor dey o 3 Likes |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by Pimine: 7:14pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Ladycewhy:Aswearugaaad Exactly! I wonder why you wrote this epistle when you obviously don't need a man for anything!? 1 Like |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by Nobody: 7:14pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Biglittlelois: no self respecting man wants to live off a woman. it goes against the DNA of a man...except men raised by single mothers or absentee fathers who do not understand the role of a man in life!!!. |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by Alusiizizi(m): 7:14pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Ladycewhy: Of course if you ask a SIMP, thug, idiot such a question you'll get answers like financial support, good job, basically anything that will reduce his responsibilities. Do not misundersand RedPill. Infact real women(and not confused feminist bitches and h0res) should be welcoming to the RedPill. |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by Biglittlelois(f): 7:16pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
GRIMMJOE: Naa I've never opened my legs for those kind of men and I never will, my kind of men are full of substance, persona worthy of emulation and a healthy lifestyle, You think the words of you boys here saying "money is the ultimate" is to be taken serious You guys are comic relief and clowns now cos your limited thought process and rants ends here. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by Ladycewhy(f): 7:16pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
flokii:lol they dynamics of the Western culture we copied doesn't have a problem with that infact when Nigerian men marry white women ,they have no problem adjusting but for some reasons doing same here will invoke the wrath of his ancestors . If you as man sits a woman down and asks her what she will bring which translates to bills ,she too has to negotiating power to share chores for you. 3 Likes |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by Nobody: 7:17pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Ladycewhy: Na una sabi, peace out. |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by frowland(m): 7:17pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Ladycewhy: Interesting point. |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by Nobody: 7:17pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Ladycewhy: That a man should not allow himself to be emasculated by women does not mean he himself should not understand his role as a Man!! In fact it is precisely because you do not want to be emasulated by a woman that you as a man MUST perform your fundamental role as a man...which is to provide...for your wife and family!!!!! 2 Likes |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by myrates: 7:18pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Ladycewhy:You can say it's relative not necessarily proportional. Wife of a wealthy man may be financially secured but not emotionally stable and happy like the contented wife of a low income okada rider who at least can provide basic needs of the family. |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by Nobody: 7:20pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Dear Men, Don't focus on what a woman would bring to the table, they are just parasites but not all women. If you are blessed and lucky if you have a supportive woman in your life, then the reverse is the case. |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by Biglittlelois(f): 7:20pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Alusiizizi: It's no more money? I'm surprised Resident nl redpillers needs to be called here, luminouz and caveadullum. 3 Likes 1 Share |
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