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Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by cococandy(f): 8:45pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
perambulator:Bingo!!! Thanks for letting us agree and get to the same consensus quicker than later. Yes many of you don’t think much of women You tell us that EVERYDAY. In every way possible. Your first response to me lends to that. 2 Likes |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by seyz91(m): 8:54pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Nonsense post and Points Which i never opened this shit Ladycewhy:
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Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by LostMyZeal(m): 8:54pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Ladycewhy: Providers, not protectors. At least given the context, men provide for y'all to nurture. 1 Like |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by seyz91(m): 8:55pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
You said it all CumOnHer: |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by emmnprince(m): 8:56pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Ladycewhy: He never said Nigerian women are not smart. He meant they are smart, but not very smart! 1 Like |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by Nobody: 9:12pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
cococandy:Firstly i cant remember my 1st response to you. i honestly did not even know when i started a conversation with you. I answered as objectively and mature as possible without bias. I stated from the beginning that bringing something to the table for a woman has nothing to do with money or at least it shouldnt. Many Men have a bad attitude .....so also a lot of women. Nobody deserves automatic respect this applies to both men and women. If you behave badly, have and attitude problem or a chip on your shoulder , you will be treated badly whether you are male of female. You seem to be on a war path. There are many men who dont think much of women just as there are many women who dont think much of men...what is your point? Like I said you seem very confrontational...I'm out!!! i have since checked this 1st post where you quoted me. Value in a relationship in a subjective thing. the fact that one person (male or female) feels that they add value does not mean the other party sees them as adding value to them. You made a fundamental error in your post by assuming you are the one to determine if you are adding value!!!! Your value in a relationship is not what you think you bring but what the other party thinks you bring!!! it is not for you to determine what value you add to someone's life, that's narcissistic If what i think I bring is not valued by you then i have little value to you. it is not for you to determine your value to your partner. that is a fundamental mistake you made in your post. And yes whatever causes a man to say to a woman or vice versa what do you bring to the table means they dont see you as adding value to them !!!! 1 Like |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by InfinityFabric: 9:13pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
IMEI:Give us an example. An example of what is farfetched . Remember: it's a praxeology NOT an ideology. Redpillers don't/hardly respect females due to the knowledgeRespect is earned, it's not a given. |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by cococandy(f): 9:21pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Your first response to me is that many women do not have much to offer. That they over estimate their value to men. That wasn’t very respectful. And I used it as an example to buttress your point. I didn’t add anything to what you said. See how it looks from a different perspective? For you, saying that is no big deal. Just another post but for the women you’re referring to, it’s disrespectful. You know it’s funny how saying disrespectful stuff about women comes naturally but when a woman points it out, she’s confrontational. Just say you didn’t mean it to sound the way it did instead of trying to make me out to be the bad guy perambulator: 3 Likes |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by Nobody: 9:25pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
cococandy: is that a lie? is every woman an asset? Are you an asset simply by virtue of being a woman? what nonsense are you talking here? Are all women asets? i if not then am i not correct? I suspect you read again or brush up on your English better still read my 1st 2 posts in this thread. There is no perspective here, you seem to have a chip on your shoulder!!!!!! Not everybody adds value both men and women, and even those who may add value to one person may not add value to another. Therefore "many dont!" or "overestimate their value" is a factual statement!!! that doesnt mean there arent men who are just Arseholes but arseholes are not limited to one sex only!!!!! 2 Likes |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by cococandy(f): 9:28pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Okay perambulator: |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by Bignuell(m): 9:41pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
This is quite an interesting topic, saw this thread when it's at page 2 but now, it's in the front page. Alot of people will shy away from this thread becaue all they know is to berate either gender. First off, a woman is made for a man not the other way round (consult the holy book). Now, men asking what you bring to the table might not necessarily mean finances, i'd like to call it, resourcefulness trait and trust me any woman who doesn't possess this cannot keep a home. I'm sure at this point you go don dey ask, shey na only woman go do all these wahala, what of the man, keep reading . A man brings alot to the table, his stakes are high. Y'all can't get married to a man without a home or a job, he gotta have that. Plays super hero for you, his princes and princesses, also his kingdom. Let's say he is wealthy, pretend to love him and divorce in 2 years. Just because you bear his surname, you have a right to his property and other investment (the same thing that was a criteria when accepting his proposal) smooth move right?? you get to keep custody of the children and also pay child support. Are we talking about western world?? the same black women in western world that are baby mama's to different category of men all because of child support, we know how these things go. Now this birth the question, what do you bring to the table. You'd see a woman list the kind of man she want, ask her, after getting him, what would you give him in return, she'd say, good sex, seriously . Thing is, a woman should be the wife, while a man should be the husband. You can tussle for power in your place of work, fine but not where you call home. Said enough. If you think i'm wrong, you're right. If you think i'm right, you're right 1 Like |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by SweetDipBenny(m): 9:49pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Ladycewhy:Are u for real |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by ume1000: 9:59pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Ladycewhy: men: I offer fd**k women :I offer p***y Men:i offer protection women:have given all Men :money for upkeep of the home Women : got nothing left Men: I offer you a name(my name) Women:got no name to give 2 Likes |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by CHoccolaTE: 10:02pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
ume1000: But you didn't add the part where the man carried his kids in his womb and raised his kids by himself while the woman stood by saying she has nothing left to give. Oya complete the conversation. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by cococandy(f): 10:04pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
CHoccolaTE: No he offered her a name. like she was nameless before he met her. Don’t forget the ‘protection’ too 5 Likes |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by CHoccolaTE: 10:08pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
cococandy: What do they even mean when they say they offer "protection"? Protection from what exactly? Deluded lot. 4 Likes |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by ume1000: 10:18pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
CHoccolaTE:pregnancy is as a product of sex ,you are not offering it in marriage ,the moment she offers her p***y she accepts the consequences A man offers her dignity by placing his seed in her overused , sometimes cursed womb(due to abortion) A man offers her respect by cohabiting with her sometimes shameless self(if she sleeps around ) believe it or not most women sleep around Ladychewy for no try this her nonsense if I open narialand this morning 1 Like |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by emmnprince(m): 10:18pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
CumOnHer: Your moniker ehn! You and OP actually made valid points based on the cultures and traditions of societies past and present which has shaped our thinking and behaviour today. OP was almost losing her temper and became confrontational when words that seem to downgrade or spite her gender was used. Two much learning on this subject has made OP mad (as used at Paul by Festus before King Agrippa). Nevertheless, you can't OP valid points away from her. She's plain about her arguments, but seeing things from her point of view actually robs erode the headship from the man and places it in a balance that doesn't work in all cases and cultures. Well, I'm so much interested more in what you have to say in your thread because OP I understand well, you I understand but more clarifications and facts I look forward to read in your thread. 4 Likes |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by CAPSLOCKED: 10:20pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Ladyewhy: NO SENSIBLE MAN FALLS FOR THESE THINGS. COME FORWARD WITH SUBSTANTIAL THINGS AND KEEP YOUR IMAGINARY LOYALTY AND SUPPORT FOR YOUR RELATIVES. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by cococandy(f): 10:21pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
CHoccolaTE: Obviously, they offer us protection from their fellow men. They are so close. So close to realizing that they are the problem . But they run face-first smack into the point and still somehow miss it entirely. I’ve never seen such a phenomenon in my life Like Why would we need protection if y’all behaved yourselves? And even though they say that, it’s not even true. How many of them call out abusive men? How many prioritize building a society where women don’t have to hide pepper spray in their purses? How many speak up against violence towards women instead of justifying it? I could go on and on. Many may not actively participate in creating unsafe spaces for women but they tolerate the ones who do. And attack the women who confront the dangerous ones. So they are protecting no one. Protection indeed. They deliberately created a world that’s unsafe for women and in return we have to submit to them so that they can protect us from the problems they cause. 9 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by Kobojunkie: 10:31pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
mickybeejay:Or you have conveniently convinced yourself that you are the only one actually vested in the relationship. This happens a lot, mind you. 6 Likes |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by ume1000: 10:34pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
cococandy:women actually created these problems by been the parasitic creatures that they are She only offers her pussy if it has never been used(which is rarely the case) They drain men financially , emotionally and spiritually What can women offer the society other than the I CARRY YOU FOR NINE MONTHS TALK (as if,if she f**k she no go get belle b4) 1 Like |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by kayperry: 10:35pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Ladycewhy: lets assume the commandment of God that a woman should submit to a man does not make sense to you, how about can two captains be on a ship?? overview |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by ume1000: 10:39pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
cococandy:a woman has no name (surname),she bears the name of whoever puts a roof o'er her head 1 Like |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by Aaaoo: 10:55pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Really |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by Nobody: 10:59pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Ladycewhy:These paragraphs are not necessary. Just engage yourself meaningfully. That's the TABLE. THINGS have changed & will unlikely get better. No reasonable man would want to end up with a DSTV Remote controller I.T. student as Wife. This is just like you wouldn't want to marry a Lazy man, jobless man, who has got nothing tangible to sustain a union |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by kayperry: 11:12pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Biglittlelois: Men bring tangible components to the table of which finance is just one of them, i want to believe that you are not oblivious to the reality that men also provides; housing, leadership an image that reflect respect to the woman,check how the society relate with a single lady & a married woman. Name to the woman & her offsprings, something linda ikeji wanted so darely even tonto begged kpopkogri to be one to her child Retirement plan, so many women today enjoying their dead husband sweat, check out landladies. Men also bring forklift to the table, some inlaws are on monthly allowance |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by emekachief: 11:18pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Woman are so selfish, no wonder the Bible said that man should love his wife while the woman should submit to her husband. Woman don't LOVE and that's the problem we have in our society today. From the beginning of the world till this 21st century men has been taken care of all the bill without any noise but the world we're now offer more opportunities to women than men and that's the major problem we have in our society today. 90% of women we prefer to die single than to live with a man who she is better than financially because they will always use the phrase HIS MONEY IS OUR MONEY, MY MONEY IS MY MONEY. 2 Likes |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by Connected1: 11:25pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Ladycewhy:If you are experiencing the current economic situation then you will understand that this post was very unnecessary unless you lack wisdom which is another imperative quality other than Financial capabilities that's required on the Table. You think it's easy feeding multiple persons in this economy, majority of those living lavish lifestyles in this Buhari's Evil Regime are into one form of corruption. So I suggest you act wisely and raise up important topics, there are times when love and wisdom cannot run a home peacefully and money does the job at those times. |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by kayperry: 11:29pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
pocohantas: if his world was so dark without void all he needs is an AKT low energy bulb, now he is saddled with buying carol white weekly to light one yeye skin a good man with bad eye will miss an empire to arrive empire @ ojuelegba |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by kayperry: 12:11am On Feb 24, 2022 |
cococandy: Do you just bring someone into your life without any form of evaluation, what makes you even think assumptions/conclusion are not subjectable to review or changes, one thing i know for sure is people with potentials will always see audition as an opportunity to sell themselves, now whu doesnt want an opportunity to sell him or herself except their is nothing to sell |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by sharone21(f): 2:02am On Feb 24, 2022 |
ume1000: Your mama really waka b4 she born u that is y u know of cursed wombs that u emerged from. You need prayers to deliver u from cursed predicaments Nonsense |
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