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Re: What My Girl Friend Mum Asked Me. by MyVILLAGEpeople(m): 8:17pm On Mar 14, 2022
Candidlady:
Don't even think bout settling down... Till you are financially stable or on the average.!!

Don't allow that poor girl suffer cuz her mum is laying pressure on you.. If you ain't ready don't make the move!


And yeah since you are not financially stable do not have sex with her or anyone please

Thank you

So because he isn’t financially stable, he shouldn’t fuccck again?? angry
Re: What My Girl Friend Mum Asked Me. by Nobody: 8:28pm On Mar 14, 2022
I’ll advice you to marry if you love this girl enough sir.
You might feel it’s not right but there’s no amount of money you’ll have and feel you’ve gotten enough to marry
Think about this
Nairaland isn’t somewhere to bring your personal life issues for people to advice you on

Na kids full nairaland wey dey form redpiller
That’s the truth
Don’t let any 18 year old girl or boy behind the screen of his/her phone decide your life for you

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Re: What My Girl Friend Mum Asked Me. by fattprince(m): 8:30pm On Mar 14, 2022
Candidlady:
Don't even think bout settling down... Till you are financially stable or on the average.!!

Don't allow that poor girl suffer cuz her mum is laying pressure on you.. If you ain't ready don't make the move!


And yeah since you are not financially stable do not have sex with her or anyone please

Thank you
So how should he release?
Because you can relief yourselves without getting pregnant, doesn't mean people like us that are heterosexual should not have sex.
Re: What My Girl Friend Mum Asked Me. by dannex4adx(m): 8:55pm On Mar 14, 2022
ndukwechinasa:
I met my girl friend around 2015 but I was not so serious about loving her. Just wanted to make love to her normally or even become a casual friend. But my intentions did not work out as planned we both stop communicating.

Not until December 2020 when I had accident and she eventually came visiting me and bought somethings for me. I was so impressed for the kind gestures. Her care and kindness made me started loving her.

However, this love extended to her family. I always call the sisters and the mum at will. I also visit their village during festivities and their base too. She is kind to me that I can not imagine. I have grown to love her immensely that I don't have affection for another woman.

But yesterday, my babe called that the mum wants to speak with me. I aborted the call and hurriedly call back. I greeted the mum and she responded very well. She asked me not to get upset that she wants to know my intention towards her daughter that time waits for no one and again there are suitors coming but the daughter said she loves me. Finally she will not be happy with me if I dump the daughter in due course.

I just told her that I love her daughter so much and I also have the intention to marry her but she should also pray for me that things work out right for me.

Honestly, I really love the girl so much but I am not financially stable now cos I lost my job two years ago and I have been trying to put things in order as to meet up financially.

What do I really do now?

MATURE MINDS���


Watch and pray
Re: What My Girl Friend Mum Asked Me. by BobbieZion(m): 10:08pm On Mar 14, 2022
thesicilian:
Normal scope. A typical businessman will tell you that there are many people waiting to pay for the product you're pricing and it's first come first serve. That shouldn't stop you from looking well before you leap.

Barman!!
One bottle for DON...

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Re: What My Girl Friend Mum Asked Me. by Popjoan1: 10:25pm On Mar 14, 2022
youngsahito:
Go and get a job before you think about marrying me and pray to God to help us.
Re: What My Girl Friend Mum Asked Me. by Popesuccess(m): 10:52pm On Mar 14, 2022
The problem in this part of the world is that we have turn marriage into an expensive venture. If not, two serious, focus and hard working adults can get married and plan and work out their future together. Just keep loving and Pray out for you so you can do the needful

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Re: What My Girl Friend Mum Asked Me. by MoneyGoDrop: 11:38pm On Mar 14, 2022
Nwanne,hapu okwu,je chuba ego.
Re: What My Girl Friend Mum Asked Me. by Candidlady: 11:54pm On Mar 14, 2022
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FahBuLous:
Typical Nigerian wh0re ...
All they think of is leeching the males...
What about the girl being financially stable too??
How about that??

You wh0res will be preaching feminism and equality but still depend on men to survive...

Mehn Nigerian girls are wh0res...
Tueh angry angry
[/s]

Yawnsssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss

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Re: What My Girl Friend Mum Asked Me. by luminouz(m): 12:29am On Mar 15, 2022
Candidlady:
Don't even think bout settling down... Till you are financially stable or on the average.!!

Don't allow that poor girl suffer cuz her mum is laying pressure on you.. If you ain't ready don't make the move!


And yeah since you are not financially stable do not have sex with her or anyone please

Thank you

See your mouth grin grin
Re: What My Girl Friend Mum Asked Me. by Nobody: 6:53am On Mar 15, 2022
Popesuccess:
The problem in this part of the world is that we have turn marriage into an expensive venture. If not, two serious, focus and hard working adults can get married and plan and work out their future together. Just keep loving and Pray out for you so you can do the needful
Yes that’s true.. i agree with you
Re: What My Girl Friend Mum Asked Me. by frozen70(f): 7:58am On Mar 15, 2022
ndukwechinasa:
I met my girl friend around 2015 but I was not so serious about loving her. Just wanted to make love to her normally or even become a casual friend. But my intentions did not work out as planned we both stop communicating.

Not until December 2020 when I had accident and she eventually came visiting me and bought somethings for me. I was so impressed for the kind gestures. Her care and kindness made me started loving her.

However, this love extended to her family. I always call the sisters and the mum at will. I also visit their village during festivities and their base too. She is kind to me that I can not imagine. I have grown to love her immensely that I don't have affection for another woman.

But yesterday, my babe called that the mum wants to speak with me. I aborted the call and hurriedly call back. I greeted the mum and she responded very well. She asked me not to get upset that she wants to know my intention towards her daughter that time waits for no one and again there are suitors coming but the daughter said she loves me. Finally she will not be happy with me if I dump the daughter in due course.

I just told her that I love her daughter so much and I also have the intention to marry her but she should also pray for me that things work out right for me.

Honestly, I really love the girl so much but I am not financially stable now cos I lost my job two years ago and I have been trying to put things in order as to meet up financially.

What do I really do now?

MATURE MINDS���


You did well by informing her mum about your intentions on her

The next step is to discuss with your girlfriend and find out if she will marry you as you are not yet stable

If she accepts that, then ask her about their marriage rights and how best you guys will carry it out without much fan fare

It's now left for her family to cooperate with you

Some women sponsored their marriage because then the man couldn't afford enough and they lived happily while the man still finds his bearing

The only problem with such marriage plan is, when the man starts measuring his muscles with the wife by being authoritative at home and there by proving stubborn

That will definitely not go well with them.

You can't be poor and troublesome in a relationship

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Re: What My Girl Friend Mum Asked Me. by prohet: 8:05am On Mar 15, 2022
valentineuwakwe:
Work towards it n be sincere....make her the only woman in your life n focus to attain greatness

I Love this. Thanks, this advice also inspired me too.

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Re: What My Girl Friend Mum Asked Me. by MrDebonair: 9:56am On Mar 15, 2022
Candidlady:
Don't even think bout settling down... Till you are financially stable or on the average.!!

Don't allow that poor girl suffer cuz her mum is laying pressure on you.. If you ain't ready don't make the move!


And yeah since you are not financially stable do not have sex with her or anyone please

Thank you

Lol...Your last statement.
Re: What My Girl Friend Mum Asked Me. by fergie001: 9:56am On Mar 15, 2022
Should we tell him?
Re: What My Girl Friend Mum Asked Me. by ednut1(m): 9:56am On Mar 15, 2022
Candidlady:
Don't even think bout settling down... Till you are financially stable or on the average.!!

Don't allow that poor girl suffer cuz her mum is laying pressure on you.. If you ain't ready don't make the move!


And yeah since you are not financially stable do not have sex with her or anyone please

Thank you
so only financially stable people should have sex What manner of nonsense if this
Re: What My Girl Friend Mum Asked Me. by CharlotteFlair: 9:57am On Mar 15, 2022
You'll be forming love when broke. Wait till you land a juicy job and then come back and ask us again. Mtcheww.

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Re: What My Girl Friend Mum Asked Me. by ariesbull: 9:58am On Mar 15, 2022
ndukwechinasa:
I met my girl friend around 2015 but I was not so serious about loving her. Just wanted to make love to her normally or even become a casual friend. But my intentions did not work out as planned we both stop communicating.

Not until December 2020 when I had accident and she eventually came visiting me and bought somethings for me. I was so impressed for the kind gestures. Her care and kindness made me started loving her.

However, this love extended to her family. I always call the sisters and the mum at will. I also visit their village during festivities and their base too. She is kind to me that I can not imagine. I have grown to love her immensely that I don't have affection for another woman.

But yesterday, my babe called that the mum wants to speak with me. I aborted the call and hurriedly call back. I greeted the mum and she responded very well. She asked me not to get upset that she wants to know my intention towards her daughter that time waits for no one and again there are suitors coming but the daughter said she loves me. Finally she will not be happy with me if I dump the daughter in due course.

I just told her that I love her daughter so much and I also have the intention to marry her but she should also pray for me that things work out right for me.

Honestly, I really love the girl so much but I am not financially stable now cos I lost my job two years ago and I have been trying to put things in order as to meet up financially.

What do I really do now?

MATURE MINDS���

dude marry that babe... For that babe to stick ariud you now that you don't have a job... She is a gem

Please go and make your intention known with a hot drink and an elder... If you can do court registry please do it


Things will always improve and you will be fine..

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Re: What My Girl Friend Mum Asked Me. by CharlotteFlair: 9:58am On Mar 15, 2022
ednut1:
so only financially stable people should have sex What manner of nonsense if this
A broke guy should not have an erection sef The things you manhood people do when you have small change is appalling.

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Re: What My Girl Friend Mum Asked Me. by NoFucksToGive: 9:58am On Mar 15, 2022
I stopped reading after the first line

It's a trash post
Re: What My Girl Friend Mum Asked Me. by victorazy(m): 9:58am On Mar 15, 2022
ndukwechinasa:
I met my girl friend around 2015 but I was not so serious about loving her. Just wanted to make love to her normally or even become a casual friend. But my intentions did not work out as planned we both stop communicating.

Not until December 2020 when I had accident and she eventually came visiting me and bought somethings for me. I was so impressed for the kind gestures. Her care and kindness made me started loving her.

However, this love extended to her family. I always call the sisters and the mum at will. I also visit their village during festivities and their base too. She is kind to me that I can not imagine. I have grown to love her immensely that I don't have affection for another woman.

But yesterday, my babe called that the mum wants to speak with me. I aborted the call and hurriedly call back. I greeted the mum and she responded very well. She asked me not to get upset that she wants to know my intention towards her daughter that time waits for no one and again there are suitors coming but the daughter said she loves me. Finally she will not be happy with me if I dump the daughter in due course.

I just told her that I love her daughter so much and I also have the intention to marry her but she should also pray for me that things work out right for me.

Honestly, I really love the girl so much but I am not financially stable now cos I lost my job two years ago and I have been trying to put things in order as to meet up financially.

What do I really do now?

MATURE MINDS���


Your doing well bro!!! grin grin grin
Re: What My Girl Friend Mum Asked Me. by wizkidblogger(f): 9:59am On Mar 15, 2022
you are not ready but you got so close to the family, forming lover boi

iranu, radarada

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Re: What My Girl Friend Mum Asked Me. by ednut1(m): 9:59am On Mar 15, 2022
CharlotteFlair:
A broke should not have an erection sef
but broke ladies aka urgent 2k can be having sex This kind of thinking had made guys with money have about 20 women they sleep with.smh

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Re: What My Girl Friend Mum Asked Me. by CharlotteFlair: 9:59am On Mar 15, 2022
victorazy:


Your doing well bro!!! grin grin grin
Nor mind am! Fvcking gold digger.
Re: What My Girl Friend Mum Asked Me. by ariesbull: 9:59am On Mar 15, 2022
CharlotteFlair:
A broke guy should not have an erection sef The things you manhood people do when you have small change is appalling.
you have a terrible mentality and your type is the one tavy live of men
Re: What My Girl Friend Mum Asked Me. by Nobody: 10:00am On Mar 15, 2022
I see no pressure here, the mum only wants to know if you have plans for her daughter which is very necessary.

Explain things to her, be sincere and let things fall in place.

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Re: What My Girl Friend Mum Asked Me. by franchasng: 10:00am On Mar 15, 2022
ndukwechinasa:
I met my girl friend around 2015 but I was not so serious about loving her. Just wanted to make love to her normally or even become a casual friend. But my intentions did not work out as planned we both stop communicating.

Not until December 2020 when I had accident and she eventually came visiting me and bought somethings for me. I was so impressed for the kind gestures. Her care and kindness made me started loving her.

However, this love extended to her family. I always call the sisters and the mum at will. I also visit their village during festivities and their base too. She is kind to me that I can not imagine. I have grown to love her immensely that I don't have affection for another woman.

But yesterday, my babe called that the mum wants to speak with me. I aborted the call and hurriedly call back. I greeted the mum and she responded very well. She asked me not to get upset that she wants to know my intention towards her daughter that time waits for no one and again there are suitors coming but the daughter said she loves me. Finally she will not be happy with me if I dump the daughter in due course.

I just told her that I love her daughter so much and I also have the intention to marry her but she should also pray for me that things work out right for me.

Honestly, I really love the girl so much but I am not financially stable now cos I lost my job two years ago and I have been trying to put things in order as to meet up financially.

What do I really do now?

MATURE MINDS���

Both you, your girlfriend and her mother are all on the right track, nothing to panic.



The mother did the right thing as a concerned mother of a fully grown lady in a committed relationship known to her family members.


Its unfortunate the Nigerian economy is about to put an asunder between you two, of course the same economy have separated so many Nigerian lovebirds and couples over the years and that's one reason Nigerians ought to stop voting leaders based on tribe and religion just like Nigerians especially Yorubas have vowed that they will never live to see an Igbo person become Nigeria's President and some of them have been living in abject poverty and penury since 1970 their kinsmen and Northern friends have been ruling Nigeria yet they refuse to have sense.




The sad truth is, you guys might end up not getting married due to this same bad economy caused by useless, failed successive Presidents of Nigeria like Buhari occupying the post now and still having foolish praise singers praising him

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Re: What My Girl Friend Mum Asked Me. by CaptainFM1: 10:00am On Mar 15, 2022
The mum is simply telling you ......she's yours to lose.

You will not have all the money in one day, and she won't be waiting for you forever.

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