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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by doggedfighter(f): 4:19pm On Jun 30, 2021
abimic:

You're right, but the bolded, I think some events should determine what we wear, and again, the man seems okay with skimpy dresses but not to church. Wait o, how did you conclude the woman is a good woman undecided?

The man said so. Read the last line. grin

And I think so too considering that skimpy dress is the problem of all the problems in this life grin

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by amrichy(m): 4:23pm On Jun 30, 2021
Romanoff:


Nope. Not all of us are willing to ignore insults.
We math insults for insults and gracefulness for gratefulness.

I won't shy from schooling any bully or swine who comes for me.

When you match insults for insults, you reduce yourself to the same level as the person who started the insult. Besides, what would you really gain from doing such? Or is there some sort of trophy for the "best insulter"?
I believe you will school people more effectively (if that's your objective) through rationality and gracefulness than by exchanging insulting words with them.

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by Romanoff(f): 4:26pm On Jun 30, 2021
amrichy:


When you match insults for insults, you reduce yourself to the same level as the person who started the insult. Besides, what would you really gain from doing such? Or is there some sort of trophy for the "best insulter"?
I believe you will school people more effectively (if that's your objective) through rationality and gracefulness than by exchanging insulting words with them.

Rationality and gracefulness doesn't work for everyone o. Been on this forum long enough to know that. Some will even open a new account to troll you.

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by amrichy(m): 4:31pm On Jun 30, 2021
Romanoff:


Rationality and gracefulness doesn't work for everyone o. Been on this forum long enough to know that. Some will even open a new account to troll you.

If rationality and gracefulness don't work, nothing else will.
You cannot insult people into seeing your point or changing their belief. You simply can't!

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by Kewtt: 4:34pm On Jun 30, 2021
Romanoff:


Rationality and gracefulness doesn't work for everyone o. Been on this forum long enough to know that. Some will even open a new account to troll you.
Please I'm trying to link up with doveda. Can you help?
Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by Romanoff(f): 4:40pm On Jun 30, 2021
amrichy:


If rationality and gracefulness don't work, nothing else will.
You cannot insult people into seeing your point or changing their belief. You simply can't!

No. I'm not insulting them into seeing my point or changing any belief o.

Just cause I also can o. Nothing more. True.

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by Nobody: 4:43pm On Jun 30, 2021
Nacoss25:
Good day my people. Ignore my wrong sentences please.
It all started like this.
On Sunday my wife wore a dress am uncomfortable with and which is unexpected of a married woman(I mean the gown was too short), when we came back from church I told her never to where such dress again to church she then picked offence that I always complain about her dress being too short, (My wife love skimpy dresses alot which I don't like) I was still talking she walked out on me went and stayed outside like someone who was chased out of the house, she stayed outside for about an hour and later came in and started dressing up to go for an evening program in church, I then told her not to go to anywhere in need us to talk, why I told her not to go is so we can settle the issues. She insisted that she must go that I can't stop her, I repeated my statement telling her not to go that I want us to talk she insisted on going. While she was about to leave I forcefully siezed the house keys from her and let her go, this happened around 5.30pm.
I love seeing my woman in short dresses but not wearing them to church.
On reaching the time she is expected to come back home around 7.30pm I left the house without dropping the house keys anywhere to a hotel and lodged there, she waited outside still around 10pm and sent me a text that do I want to sleep outside I did not reply her, she now called Me i picked and told her to go and sleep where she went to since she has the guts to disrespect mess her husband that am in a hotel at the moment to pass the night there and ended the call she called till 11pm and also sent text messages begging for forgiveness, she then called my younger brother who then called me too begging me to go back home I never picked her call and I switched off my phone.
I came back home around 5am only to discover that she slept on a bench in the veranda.
My people I want ask a question.
Don't I as a husband have the right to tell my wife not to dress certain way or don't I have the right to tell her not to go out, mind you am not the authoritative kind of husband but on this one I need to stamp my authority as the head of my family.
My wife is a good woman and I love so so much, I just needed to discipline her.
Our marriage is two months old.
you are a fool and I'm sure she's managing that hole you call a house

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by abimic(m): 5:06pm On Jun 30, 2021
doggedfighter:


The man said so. Read the last line. grin

And I think so too considering that skimpy dress is the problem of all the problems in this life grin
Chai.. U ehn grin grin grin
Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by doggedfighter(f): 5:17pm On Jun 30, 2021
abimic:

Chai.. U ehn grin grin grin


Hahahahahahaha.

How's your day going? grin grin
Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by HRMK: 5:23pm On Jun 30, 2021
Ginomel:


And what if he is not yoruba??

A direct answer or ignore could have been better.
any youth that lacks good home trainning gets trained by masses or govt.chindima is a typical example!

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by HRMK: 5:29pm On Jun 30, 2021
Bobbyjay001:


Mentally derailed hyper-psycho homo-sapien who needs urgent medical assistance. I bliv you missed your drugs. You need to be tied by your collar.
hmmm.....ur not doing badly for a fresher......go on......people are enjoying ur free show....increase and improve the songs/dancing steps.....
Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by estheI(f): 5:30pm On Jun 30, 2021
Ishilove:

He will run, the same way Romanoff's hubby will leave her with kids, abi? I see that you are a product of a broken home, which is why you are desperately wishing evil on people's marriages.

Today is the 30th of June. Once it is 12 midnight, put your hand on your hollow head and bellow with thunder in your voice-

"My father my father!!

I have been senseless and unfortunate in the first half of the year!!

I refuse to be unfortunate in this remaining half!!!"




Omo ale.
Seun
Mynd44
Dominique
OAM4J

Rule 2

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by Nobody: 5:49pm On Jun 30, 2021
Romanoff:


Shut up again jor. You people call every woman with an opinion a feminist cause you don't agree with her. Your first mention at me was insulting and the fact that you don't see it makes me wonder why I am even replying you.

Leave my "simp" husband alone. He is more mature, smarter, more intelligent, more loving than you can ever be. And he won't come here to post nonsense like this. He was raised in a proper home with love and respect, not a Master and slave household.

Where he stands, you no reach and I will not tolerate any disrespect of my husband.

Na me and you dey talk, no drag my husband come, if not I ready for you.




í se ile nii o gbe won dè taa ....

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by Nobody: 5:59pm On Jun 30, 2021
webosky:



People don't think these days b4 they act. And I have noticed this acts are being perpetrated by broke men trying to survive, I bet this guy cannot take his wife on a proper vacation o but knows how to punish(see his mouth) tgier women. Treat your woman right, spoil her and watch her obey you like a god. .


E.g

some of you think male & female r/ship is like maths 1+1 must = two sey. best of lucks
Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by amrichy(m): 6:07pm On Jun 30, 2021
Romanoff:


No. I'm not insulting them into seeing my point or changing any belief o.

Just cause I also can o. Nothing more. True.

So it's just for the fun of it. Lols
That reminds me of how some guys used to catch fun at OAU male hostels by verbally insulting themselves with funny abuses. We call this "Aro". Most students find it very entertaining. A particular hostel, Awolowo Hall, was (and probably still is) notorious for this.
Personally, I see you as a sensible and decent lady, please don't allow the negative comments of some unreasonable people here to change you for the worse.
Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by abimic(m): 6:12pm On Jun 30, 2021
doggedfighter:



Hahahahahahaha.

How's your day going? grin grin
My dear,
Going fine....
Just the rain...
Hope you went to work today..

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by Nobody: 6:14pm On Jun 30, 2021
Biglittlelois:
I have to be really blunt angry

Your wife slept on a bench outside all through the night, and you have the audacity to come here to bleet like a goat Your wife not a stranger undecided and some dolts are cheering you on making you feel on top of dustbin, and you feel you're wise? A two month old marriage? You have sown a seed in her that will germinate and yield branches which will bring negativities in your marriage you this immature human, how old are you? Nairaland small boys preaching about swallowing truckload of [b]strawberry pills [/b]has brainwashed your mendula depriving you of amicably settling your differences like adults, will they be there for you offline when shiit eventually decides to hit the fan? Or you think nairaland community is real life

I feel so sad for her cry




aunty you made a mistake, it is called redpill, real men love it short n simple.

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by Romanoff(f): 6:22pm On Jun 30, 2021
amrichy:


So it's just for the fun of it. Lols
That reminds me of how some guys used to catch fun at OAU male hostels by verbally insulting themselves with funny abuses. We call this "Aro". Most students find it very entertaining. A particular hostel, Awolowo Hall, was (and probably still is) notorious for this.
Personally, I see you as a sensible and decent lady, please don't allow the negative comments of some unreasonable people here to change you for the worse.

Exactly. All na cruise.
Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by eyinjuege: 6:32pm On Jun 30, 2021
Wonders shall never end.
Anyway, you've overplayed your hand
She will sooner or later show you her cards cry
Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by phemmyfour: 8:39pm On Jun 30, 2021
Nacoss25:
Good day my people. Ignore my wrong sentences please.
It all started like this.
On Sunday my wife wore a dress am uncomfortable with and which is unexpected of a married woman(I mean the gown was too short), when we came back from church I told her never to where such dress again to church she then picked offence that I always complain about her dress being too short, (My wife love skimpy dresses alot which I don't like) I was still talking she walked out on me went and stayed outside like someone who was chased out of the house, she stayed outside for about an hour and later came in and started dressing up to go for an evening program in church, I then told her not to go to anywhere in need us to talk, why I told her not to go is so we can settle the issues. She insisted that she must go that I can't stop her, I repeated my statement telling her not to go that I want us to talk she insisted on going. While she was about to leave I forcefully siezed the house keys from her and let her go, this happened around 5.30pm.
I love seeing my woman in short dresses but not wearing them to church.
On reaching the time she is expected to come back home around 7.30pm I left the house without dropping the house keys anywhere to a hotel and lodged there, she waited outside still around 10pm and sent me a text that do I want to sleep outside I did not reply her, she now called Me i picked and told her to go and sleep where she went to since she has the guts to disrespect mess her husband that am in a hotel at the moment to pass the night there and ended the call she called till 11pm and also sent text messages begging for forgiveness, she then called my younger brother who then called me too begging me to go back home I never picked her call and I switched off my phone.
I came back home around 5am only to discover that she slept on a bench in the veranda.
My people I want ask a question.
Don't I as a husband have the right to tell my wife not to dress certain way or don't I have the right to tell her not to go out, mind you am not the authoritative kind of husband but on this one I need to stamp my authority as the head of my family.
My wife is a good woman and I love so so much, I just needed to discipline her.
Our marriage is two months old.
You are not emotionally mature to be in a marriage.

Respect is earned not demanded, It's a shame to find herself in this longtime miserable union

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by Mrscarter(f): 12:03pm On Jul 01, 2021
Kondomatic:
When you're ready to face reality, you will turn off your television and stop watching Telenovas


Hahahaha. Well i dont watch tv. Mainly utube for me or i stream stuff online. Ion watch tv at all. N no wat i said is true. U treat ur girl right n u can steer her right the way u want to. Girls like romance n stuff. Well i do. Who doesnt?

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by Romanoff(f): 1:15pm On Jul 01, 2021
amrichy:


So it's just for the fun of it. Lols
That reminds me of how some guys used to catch fun at OAU male hostels by verbally insulting themselves with funny abuses. We call this "Aro". Most students find it very entertaining. A particular hostel, Awolowo Hall, was (and probably still is) notorious for this.
Personally, I see you as a sensible and decent lady, please don't allow the negative comments of some unreasonable people here to change you for the worse.

I'll try not to.
Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by Wasky101: 6:11pm On Mar 14, 2022
Romanoff:


Leave him alone. He's waiting for Nairaland children to hail him and award him a redpill certificate.

After he has ruined his marriage, he will still come back here and we go dey wait.
I just say make I update you, he ruined the marriage already

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by Romanoff(f): 6:51pm On Mar 14, 2022
Wasky101:

I just say make I update you, he ruined the marriage already

E no surprise me.
Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by pocohantas(f): 12:11pm On Mar 15, 2022
Romanoff:


E no surprise me.

Funny how simps have happy homes and redpillers are cursing their mothers on frontpage. grin grin

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by HardMirror(m): 12:16pm On Mar 15, 2022
Nacoss25:
Good day my people. Ignore my wrong sentences please.
It all started like this.
On Sunday my wife wore a dress am uncomfortable with and which is unexpected of a married woman(I mean the gown was too short), when we came back from church I told her never to where such dress again to church she then picked offence that I always complain about her dress being too short, (My wife love skimpy dresses alot which I don't like) I was still talking she walked out on me went and stayed outside like someone who was chased out of the house, she stayed outside for about an hour and later came in and started dressing up to go for an evening program in church, I then told her not to go to anywhere in need us to talk, why I told her not to go is so we can settle the issues. She insisted that she must go that I can't stop her, I repeated my statement telling her not to go that I want us to talk she insisted on going. While she was about to leave I forcefully siezed the house keys from her and let her go, this happened around 5.30pm.
I love seeing my woman in short dresses but not wearing them to church.
On reaching the time she is expected to come back home around 7.30pm I left the house without dropping the house keys anywhere to a hotel and lodged there, she waited outside still around 10pm and sent me a text that do I want to sleep outside I did not reply her, she now called Me i picked and told her to go and sleep where she went to since she has the guts to disrespect mess her husband that am in a hotel at the moment to pass the night there and ended the call she called till 11pm and also sent text messages begging for forgiveness, she then called my younger brother who then called me too begging me to go back home I never picked her call and I switched off my phone.
I came back home around 5am only to discover that she slept on a bench in the veranda.
My people I want ask a question.
Don't I as a husband have the right to tell my wife not to dress certain way or don't I have the right to tell her not to go out, mind you am not the authoritative kind of husband but on this one I need to stamp my authority as the head of my family.
My wife is a good woman and I love so so much, I just needed to discipline her.
Our marriage is two months old.
you think you get sense. This lady sef try, I am sure she is broke that is why she is enduring nonsense from you. I trust some girls, they wont take this nonsense from you. She even slept on the bench and waited for you, she should have just gone to her single friends and catch fun that night.
Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by olabright31: 12:20pm On Mar 15, 2022
Romanoff:


Leave him alone. He's waiting for Nairaland children to hail him and award him a redpill certificate.

After he has ruined his marriage, he will still come back here and we go dey wait.

You said it and it happened
Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by Nobody: 12:21pm On Mar 15, 2022
Nacoss25:
Good day my people. Ignore my wrong sentences please.
It all started like this.
On Sunday my wife wore a dress am uncomfortable with and which is unexpected of a married woman(I mean the gown was too short), when we came back from church I told her never to where such dress again to church she then picked offence that I always complain about her dress being too short, (My wife love skimpy dresses alot which I don't like) I was still talking she walked out on me went and stayed outside like someone who was chased out of the house, she stayed outside for about an hour and later came in and started dressing up to go for an evening program in church, I then told her not to go to anywhere in need us to talk, why I told her not to go is so we can settle the issues. She insisted that she must go that I can't stop her, I repeated my statement telling her not to go that I want us to talk she insisted on going. While she was about to leave I forcefully siezed the house keys from her and let her go, this happened around 5.30pm.
I love seeing my woman in short dresses but not wearing them to church.
On reaching the time she is expected to come back home around 7.30pm I left the house without dropping the house keys anywhere to a hotel and lodged there, she waited outside still around 10pm and sent me a text that do I want to sleep outside I did not reply her, she now called Me i picked and told her to go and sleep where she went to since she has the guts to disrespect mess her husband that am in a hotel at the moment to pass the night there and ended the call she called till 11pm and also sent text messages begging for forgiveness, she then called my younger brother who then called me too begging me to go back home I never picked her call and I switched off my phone.
I came back home around 5am only to discover that she slept on a bench in the veranda.
My people I want ask a question.
Don't I as a husband have the right to tell my wife not to dress certain way or don't I have the right to tell her not to go out, mind you am not the authoritative kind of husband but on this one I need to stamp my authority as the head of my family.
My wife is a good woman and I love so so much, I just needed to discipline her.
Our marriage is two months old.
You did a nice job bro
Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by Nobody: 12:22pm On Mar 15, 2022
FreeSpirited:


Lol...See a woman giving a man the yardstick for masculine failure....These are hogwash manipulation nonsense..only work on simpy pvvsiee....
Yes sending her back to her father's house is another way to discipline her...
I'm sure the guy wont hesitate to invoke that one if her offense gets to that level....A woman who can't sit down to settle issue who storms out brawling like a bitch on the street will end up being thrown out on the street where she's more comfortable than a matrimonial home


Well well well

His wife has finally left him to go to her parents house but your fellow “redpiller” has turned to a SIMP looking for her.

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by tillaman(m): 12:22pm On Mar 15, 2022
Hmm

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by Nobody: 12:23pm On Mar 15, 2022
Kellzzyy:

You did a nice job bro
Now she has left him but he is still looking for her?
Nice job? Lol
Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by tillaman(m): 12:23pm On Mar 15, 2022
Lmao I askNardwarr

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