VladimirPutiin:


Why is she deleting her chats with the guy ??

Why is she always ending the call anytime she sees her fiancé coming close ??

Why is she always feeling uncomfortable about her husband knowing more (going by his writeup here). These are the things an average Nigerian girl does when she is cheating. I know them too well. If she got nothing to hide, she won’t be doing all that. The red flags are there to see.

Ofadaman:
I hate to break it to you, but he's fvking her in that car. I used to drop off a lady at work as well, it didn't take time for those late night and early morning commute, conversations and stop by to get food/drinks to turn into something else, even though I know she has a bf who calls every morning and evening. One Friday night while I was driving , she move her hands over to my dick and was stroking it, I had to drive to a dark corner park the car and give her what she wanted. Soon it became a normal thing till I left the job. If she's clearing off chats , making hiding calls etc, she's hiding something and obviously fvking the guy.
Good luck trying to keep a naija girl without money.

SandraIkuboR:
Hmmm..... Anything bestie

Funkyswagzz:


Once again its all suspicion. When u suspect domeone the next thing u do is set her up and catch her red handed that is what i did with my ex. He was too quick to jump into confronting her. Dont u get it?

solasoulmusic:
Pele o

kingyakos:
Bankers Bleep themselves alot irrespective of being married or not.
My neighbor who's a regional manager with Airtel caught his wife of three kids and who's also a branch manager of Zenith Bank with his fellow staff but I will forever respect the Man the way he handled the whole situation.

Netmuch:
Hi fellow nairalanders,

I and my fiance were both bankers, I brought her in town and God used me for her to secure a job.

Where I used to stay was a bit further to our work place, so their is another banker guy who has a CR-V Honda car that usually drops her in the morning at her office whom she later became close friends with, although dey do call themselves whenever the guy is about leaving his house to pick up my fiancee, which I was aware of.

However, suddenly I realized that my fiancee WhatsApp chat is always cleared not to let me see their chats which I suspected a foul play, but the worst came last week when I was trying to get my car engine oil and I was approaching her, she was calling the guy, as I near her to eavesdrop on what she was talking with the guy, she quickly ends the call. I got angry that why will she not let me hear their conversations if truly she has nothing to do with the guy. I challenged her but she insisted nothing was going on between them that she had to end the call on my arrival which she has always call in my presence.

I don't want to be a fool as am about to end the relationship, but I guess I need your honest and positive response on this matter why she had to do what she did. I am a very simple guy and I believe every one should have their freedom. And I don't cheat.

I will love to hear your mature opinion on this.

Thanks.

seyz91:
Bro, you messed up on all levels

That your friend don dey chop your girl, the truth is it might even be your girl that seduced or started it all, girls are like that, they don't care about men feelings their own is just to open yansh for other men anyhow

She don dey Bleep that guy undoubtedly, girls wey be say dem no dey use eyes see men with cars, your own guy kon dey carry am everyday to drop for office. OMO NA YOU GIVE YOUR DOG FOOD TO CAT FOR FREE OO


Even though you have your own car still doesn't stop girls from.fucking other guys with car, its how they are, so foolish and stupid a gender

kingyakos:
Bankers Bleep themselves alot irrespective of being married or not.
My neighbor who's a regional manager with Airtel caught his wife of three kids and who's also a branch manager of Zenith Bank with his fellow staff but I will forever respect the Man the way he handled the whole situation.

BabaIbo:


I don't think what I need regarding that is intervention because someone that make such faulty decision because of her one way thinking may make a worse decision later on.

I am cool with having females friends instead of relationship at the moment, I can't say if later.

Lest I forget, she is back to being a friend, since I don't create enmity with my exes.

Microwhy:

Downgrade the relationship to the lowest level in your heart, smash her like a side chic which i bet will last longer and more enjoyable.
Stop fiancé/fiancee stuff right from your heart and treat her like an object without attaching anything to the relationship.
I bet, if she truly loves you, the truth will come out.
Use a mind game on yourself by telling your mind that she's nothing but a cheap girl in your neighbourhood.
Don't quarrel,don't argue and don't bother yourself about it. Turn her to side chic and continue your normal doings with her.
Don't hurry for main chic but you already know that she's a side chic awaiting main chic.

Bigredmachine:
A man and a woman can't just be friends ...

How many times will they tell you that...

Like charges repel each other and unlike charges attract each other

PropertyNR:

Clone her whatsapp in your PC. so you can be reading their conversations in real-time. This will clear your doubt.

HitSong:

She's CHEATING on you with that guy 99.9999% but it'll be difficult to catch her now because you already showed that you're suspecting her.
That's an average Nigerian girl for you.
Someone you're seriously dating for two years could have at least 5 bodycount within those two years and they'll still be saying that they're not prostitutes, yet they get "favour" from the people they're having affairs with.

I just tire for that gender...


The best thing you can do now is to find a way of hacking her phone. There's lots of premium apps that can do that....

When you catch her, make sure you don't forgive her. The mistake we always make is forgiving them. They believe that in the end they'll be forgiven and everyone would move on. That's why they continue to do it even when they know that what they're doing is wrong. The irony is that, 90% of girls that cheat can not tolerate cheating. They will frustrate you, manipulate and guilt-trip you until you give up...

When you catch them, don't forgive them.
If I were in your shoes, I'll waste her time more, turn her into my sex slave, impregnate her and make her keep the pregnancy for like 4 months before you dump her after by showing her your proof of her cheating spree...

Invitationn:

I disagree.
It takes just 2 principled and disciplined persons to change your CAN'T to CAN.

wiseone28:
Relationship matter don tire me with everyday complain especially with women not faithful the most..

The earlier guys should realize girls can never be faithful the good for us.

Have money or no money girls will never be faithful.

Microwhy:

Downgrade the relationship to the lowest level in your heart, smash her like a side chic which i bet will last longer and more enjoyable.
Stop fiancé/fiancee stuff right from your heart and treat her like an object without attaching anything to the relationship.
I bet, if she truly loves you, the truth will come out.
Use a mind game on yourself by telling your mind that she's nothing but a cheap girl in your neighbourhood.
Don't quarrel,don't argue and don't bother yourself about it. Turn her to side chic and continue your normal doings with her.
Don't hurry for main chic but you already know that she's a side chic awaiting main chic.

Netmuch:
Hi fellow nairalanders,

I and my fiance were both bankers, I brought her in town and God used me for her to secure a job.

Where I used to stay was a bit further to our work place, so their is another banker guy who has a CR-V Honda car that usually drops her in the morning at her office whom she later became close friends with, although dey do call themselves whenever the guy is about leaving his house to pick up my fiancee, which I was aware of.

However, suddenly I realized that my fiancee WhatsApp chat is always cleared not to let me see their chats which I suspected a foul play, but the worst came last week when I was trying to get my car engine oil and I was approaching her, she was calling the guy, as I near her to eavesdrop on what she was talking with the guy, she quickly ends the call. I got angry that why will she not let me hear their conversations if truly she has nothing to do with the guy. I challenged her but she insisted nothing was going on between them that she had to end the call on my arrival which she has always call in my presence.

I don't want to be a fool as am about to end the relationship, but I guess I need your honest and positive response on this matter why she had to do what she did. I am a very simple guy and I believe every one should have their freedom. And I don't cheat.

I will love to hear your mature opinion on this.

Thanks.

Netmuch:
Hi fellow nairalanders,

I and my fiance were both bankers, I brought her in town and God used me for her to secure a job.

Where I used to stay was a bit further to our work place, so their is another banker guy who has a CR-V Honda car that usually drops her in the morning at her office whom she later became close friends with, although dey do call themselves whenever the guy is about leaving his house to pick up my fiancee, which I was aware of.

However, suddenly I realized that my fiancee WhatsApp chat is always cleared not to let me see their chats which I suspected a foul play, but the worst came last week when I was trying to get my car engine oil and I was approaching her, she was calling the guy, as I near her to eavesdrop on what she was talking with the guy, she quickly ends the call. I got angry that why will she not let me hear their conversations if truly she has nothing to do with the guy. I challenged her but she insisted nothing was going on between them that she had to end the call on my arrival which she has always call in my presence.

I don't want to be a fool as am about to end the relationship, but I guess I need your honest and positive response on this matter why she had to do what she did. I am a very simple guy and I believe every one should have their freedom. And I don't cheat.

I will love to hear your mature opinion on this.

Thanks.

Funkyswagzz:


Wait so u actually think staying married is as easy as abc. Well i believe ur parents never hard argument at home ever. Lets say there union was better than romeo and juliet

Uncle96:


That is so unfortunate because it just put u in a weak and vulnerable position. You literally used ur hand to put ur woman' in another mans hand