Gamesmart:


You can't find any sensible defence to state against your foolish statement of achievement except to call me what your lineage is?

So, now, you don realise you were a cretin to argue marriage was an "achievement"?

In the same Nigeria where your mates' achievements are to create apps that solves problems and raising over $30m of investor money? Your own foolish lineage are saying marriage is your achievement?

Una no be the thing you are insulting me with?

tayepop:
I have realised so many of my friends and colleagues at over 30 years are still single, this doesn't use to be the case.

AfroKnight:
For those naija men outside naija, it’s because they think too much and are afraid to love a woman who would use the system to defraud them legally.

For those in naija, it’s for a number of reasons. Naija babes are not loyal. They always lookout for themselves first. Once your usefulness in their lives end, they end the relationship/marriage. Men are trying to avoid that, so they remain single and opt for babymama arrangement if they need kids.

It may also be because the men intend to relocate abroad and they would rather not take their nemesis along. So they resign to a single life.

Thirdly, it could be that some men want to solve certain economic/financial issues before adding the responsibilities of a wife to the load they carry.

Everything here points to the prevalent fact that young Nigerian women do not carry their own weight. Once you ask them out, it’s like they open a ledger for you as a debtor. They use you for your resources then demand to be treated like an equal. Lol. Men are tired of slaving for women.

You see single and even married women online openly asking for trips, perks, gifts and money. It’s almost like every man owes them. You never know who is going to use his money to trigger your wife’s release clause. Even the faithful ones think they must be rewarded with marriage for standing by you while you were struggling. Why would any sane man want to marry such a woman who thinks she’s entitled to his possessions just because she was present while he was struggling without even contributing tangibly to his progress?

So unbalanced.

If marriage was such a sweet deal, more men would embrace it. Many of those who are married were pressured by their parents to get married or were young and blinded by initial infatuation which later faded away and revealed the true nature of their wives.

Women have turned this marriage thing into a punishment for men. It shouldn’t be so.

Men are the ones truly settling down. They settle and put up with broke, unworthy women who offer nothing but drama and the possibility of paternity fraud and strife in a family that was fine until the man brought in a wife.

Marriage should be sweet but naija women fail to realise that both partners MUST contribute to a happy marriage, not just the man.

AfroKnight:
For those naija men outside naija, it’s because they think too much and are afraid to love a woman who would use the system to defraud them legally.

For those in naija, it’s for a number of reasons. Naija babes are not loyal. They always lookout for themselves first. Once your usefulness in their lives end, they end the relationship/marriage. Men are trying to avoid that, so they remain single and opt for babymama arrangement if they need kids.

It may also be because the men intend to relocate abroad and they would rather not take their nemesis along. So they resign to a single life.

Thirdly, it could be that some men want to solve certain economic/financial issues before adding the responsibilities of a wife to the load they carry.

Everything here points to the prevalent fact that young Nigerian women do not carry their own weight. Once you ask them out, it’s like they open a ledger for you as a debtor. They use you for your resources then demand to be treated like an equal. Lol. Men are tired of slaving for women.

You see single and even married women online openly asking for trips, perks, gifts and money. It’s almost like every man owes them. You never know who is going to use his money to trigger your wife’s release clause. Even the faithful ones think they must be rewarded with marriage for standing by you while you were struggling. Why would any sane man want to marry such a woman who thinks she’s entitled to his possessions just because she was present while he was struggling without even contributing tangibly to his progress?

So unbalanced.

If marriage was such a sweet deal, more men would embrace it. Many of those who are married were pressured by their parents to get married or were young and blinded by initial infatuation which later faded away and revealed the true nature of their wives.

Women have turned this marriage thing into a punishment for men. It shouldn’t be so.

Men are the ones truly settling down. They settle and put up with broke, unworthy women who offer nothing but drama and the possibility of paternity fraud and strife in a family that was fine until the man brought in a wife.

Marriage should be sweet but naija women fail to realise that both partners MUST contribute to a happy marriage, not just the man.

falcon01:
Because men have realised that;
1. They have alot of time from 20 to 50 years they can still marry
2. Marriage is a waste of time money and effort
3. Getting married early is a waste of your youthful age
4. The man is Mostly on the giving end in Marriage
5. Marriage favours women more than it favours men
6. They want to break the loop

AmazonTopaz:


I would answer this thread by saying that some Nigerian men were badly raised and a lot of Nigerian women are not interested in raising them anymore.

Gamesmart:


@porthouse7

Come and learn, young boy!

faithfull18:

You know the answer. Societal pressure, family pressure, you can add other factors

Gamesmart:


You have obviously been heavily brainwashed by women for a long time, hence your view.

Olam09:


You're over 30 and you still behave like a fool.. anyways i won't blame a jobless Nigerian who believed he was failed by the system.. It's so hilarious to think about the YA on your street shouting egbon not knowing the egbon no gbon at all.. Old shameless fool.

A 32 year old NFA man exchanging words with someone young enough to be his junior brother. I won't reply your mention again. Broda Ode

Emychina:
There is nothing like reality here dear.marriage wouldnt determine whether u wil be lonely or not.i have seen married couples complaining of loneliness especially when kids starts comin. D wife wil be complaining of husband negligence,d husband complaining of wife negligence.i have also seen single men living and enjoying life that married ones get jealous of.so dear,u wil leave life as u which to,not because of marriage or whatever.i dont even like marriage sef,its overrated.make money,have baby if u wish through contract surrogacy,send d kid(s) abroad.write ur will and train ur children without a headache from a lady and live ur life to d fullest.who marriage epp.

Osilama1:
get lost animalistic fool and idiot

Gamesmart:


You try it.

5 days later, she will be saying the soul is not pink or in a cute enough size.

Everything you give her will still have something she has not gotten yet.

TheRedpillguy:

Women will have a rethink not Men. Men will just keep getting better and better

womenareapess:
are sure are you that you will even survive still old age?


No man can predict his time of death, so you do what you do to make yourself happy and wait for the appointed time

Palema007:
Exactly!

porthouse7:
so @ 40+ u are still struggling to get balance in life, I understand 40yrs is mid life crisis thou, but with a good wife u will enjoy it

Barbiturate:


Na lie. I am of that age. I am not married and I'm not lonely.

porthouse7:
I use to be like u until January this year

Gamesmart:


You are a moooron!

Hope you know your post was the dumbest on this thread; signified by the probably over 20 people that quoted and corrected you?

Gamesmart:


Yeah, also change the mindset of having savings for tough times in Nigeria because "you are not praying to lose your job".

The foolish things people say and they strongly think they are making sense.

Hassanmaye:

Blood of Zachariah! What can a man do to satisfy that gender? No wonder men are running away from marriage and other are joining mgtow

Gamesmart:


You must be mad!

You can never be like me. You have no sense!

porthouse7:
everyone quoting me are still young and probably in 20s and 30s, I will like to have this conversation with guys of 40+, and don't always use abusive language

OriginalCEO:


I dont cal it 'saving for tough times', I call it backup funds and it did have its use one time like dat that i had my phone stolen with most of my money carted away with. I stomped on my backup fund, got a new phone and moved on like nothing happened. But it did happen and i did get depressed sometimes.

Bottom line: whether it is called 'tough times savings' or 'back up fund' or 'emergency fund' or just Savings, It can never be underrated.

Finally, it is best to put your finances in God's hands o, times are hard, people are more desperate. May God continue to secure you and yours.

porthouse7:
in all u have not seen happily married couple? try find a good wife bro, u was just like u until January

Gamesmart:


You are a moooron!

Hope you know your post was the dumbest on this thread; signified by the probably over 20 people that quoted and corrected you?

Emychina:
Thats ur opinion,am matured enough to see ladies deceit. Nigerian girls are too wicked and self centered and i keep wondering why are they like that. Go closer to those married men u thought are happy and u will realised the truth,that they are dying inside.

Gamesmart:


Dey deceive yourself there that you don't shag outside your "blissful" and "enjoyable" marriage.