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Re: My Girlfriend Has A Very Reckless Past. by ImoleNaija:
Me: Who was that guy you just greeted?
Gf's brother: He was my sister's ex.
Me: He's a student in this school?
Gf's brother: Yes
Me: But she told me she never dated anyone in this school, aside me.
Gf's brother: Na lie! The guy was the SUG social director when they were dating & I used to go meet my sister in his office.
Me: Oh, she once told me that she used to go to SUG building when her friend was dating one of the SUG excos.
Gf's brother: Na lie! She was the one who had bf there & it was this guy I greeted.
Me: Why would she lie? I no understand. She was even claiming her friend used to force her to go there with her; that she could never have anything to do with any male student who is into school politics.
Gf's brother: I've known two guys with her before you. In fact, the last one she dated was also a student & a herbalist's son.
Me:......(in my mind).....

Re: My Girlfriend Has A Very Reckless Past. by Davidganna10: 9:50pm On Mar 28, 2022
MadamVanessa:
shocked



[b]Is there anyone both male and female that doesn't have a reckless past? [/b]personally, if I love , I love, I don't believe in the philosophy of digging one's past before settling down with the person; because to be very candid, there's nobody past that's is palatable.

Na sex she had no be say she kill person, or no be say she give you disease. Na knack she knack, u been de knack too before u even meet am. The abortion she committed, even house wives of today , commit abortion too. It's an old story.

Meeting you , means starting afresh with a new chapter. people with trust issue have the time of going back to dig at one's past and if look closely their past too may even be worse.




Look for more justifiable reason to jappa after knacking the poor girl, don't come up with this childish excuse.
I don't have a reckless past please.
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Very Reckless Past. by Kylekent59: 9:50pm On Mar 28, 2022
Make sure she gets tested before starting anything with her.


Never forget my advice!
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Very Reckless Past. by BlingsEnchante(f): 9:50pm On Mar 28, 2022
A sinner judging a sinner cos they sinned differently

Let go of the past or let go of her

Choose your hard!!!
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Very Reckless Past. by legallyminded: 9:51pm On Mar 28, 2022
Iyaebe:
Haven't you also been sleeping around? what makes yours better than hers? if you don't love her then let her go,a fornicator cannot be condemning another fornicator,lailai.
Will you keep quiet? This is how you justify whoredom undecided
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Very Reckless Past. by Olam09(m): 9:52pm On Mar 28, 2022
Officiallyme:
Hello guys, met this girl some time around January this year and asked her out and we started dating ever since

So recently, I got to know about her past. Her past was so reckless that it is giving me a second thought about everything, started having s*x at the age of 15 while in secondary school and travelling to see a lot of men whom she claimed was asking after her hand in marriage. This girl has slept with so many guys that it's freaking me out, funny thing is, she's been lying and hiding some things but as a smart guy, I've always had my way around her to tell me the truth.

She told me she did a "mistake" abortion for one of her boyfriends then and just last year December, she had s*x with a married man and she knew very well he was married. These are just few of the stuffs I recently found out about, I know it's all in the past and she claims she's changed and want a real relationship with me but I don't believe at all, she claims to love me so much and cannot do without me and honestly, I love her too but I'm scared this may just change a lot about everything.

I don't know what to do, I'm hurt and disappointed and I don't know what to do now. I just need someone to talk to me, please don't insult me, I just need some pieces of advise.

Thanks
Brother.. run!!!!
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Very Reckless Past. by Nobody: 9:52pm On Mar 28, 2022
legallyminded:
Will you keep quiet? This is how you justify whoredom undecided
And the whoredomer?
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Very Reckless Past. by Jimthebond(m): 9:52pm On Mar 28, 2022
She’ll definitely cheat on you.... so bang her and move on
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Very Reckless Past. by Toluwanise247(m): 9:52pm On Mar 28, 2022
Iyaebe:
Haven't you also been sleeping around? what makes yours better than hers? if you don't love her then let her go,a fornicator cannot be condemning another fornicator,lailai.
Iya wa..... Well done. You done go far in this world oo
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Very Reckless Past. by Kingcalls: 9:52pm On Mar 28, 2022
Cardealer2021:
Everybody has a skeletons in their cupboard embarassed
Why not forget about your girlfriend past and move on.
You were never a part of the past so don't let it bother you. undecided
If you don't like the girl why not smash and go undecided
@OP.... I pity u if u take this advice.... look at what will smith is suffering for marrying a one time hoe
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Very Reckless Past. by mrksquare: 9:53pm On Mar 28, 2022
Officiallyme:
Hello guys, met this girl some time around January this year and asked her out and we started dating ever since

So recently, I got to know about her past. Her past was so reckless that it is giving me a second thought about everything, started having s*x at the age of 15 while in secondary school and travelling to see a lot of men whom she claimed was asking after her hand in marriage. This girl has slept with so many guys that it's freaking me out, funny thing is, she's been lying and hiding some things but as a smart guy, I've always had my way around her to tell me the truth.

She told me she did a "mistake" abortion for one of her boyfriends then and just last year December, she had s*x with a married man and she knew very well he was married. These are just few of the stuffs I recently found out about, I know it's all in the past and she claims she's changed and want a real relationship with me but I don't believe at all, she claims to love me so much and cannot do without me and honestly, I love her too but I'm scared this may just change a lot about everything.

I don't know what to do, I'm hurt and disappointed and I don't know what to do now. I just need someone to talk to me, please don't insult me, I just need some pieces of advise.

Thanks
If she divulged all these to you, it means she is very transparent. There is no saint in this world. She has seen it all. Is her type that end up being a good wife. The choice is yours.
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Very Reckless Past. by safarigirl(f): 9:53pm On Mar 28, 2022
MadamVanessa:
shocked



Is there anyone both male and female that doesn't have a reckless past? personally, if I love , I love, I don't believe in the philosophy of digging one's past before settling down with the person; because to be very candid, there's nobody past that's is palatable.

Na sex she had no be say she kill person, or no be say she give you disease. Na knack she knack, u been de knack too before u even meet am. The abortion she committed, even house wives of today , commit abortion too. It's an old story.

Meeting you , means starting afresh with a new chapter. people with trust issue have the time of going back to dig at one's past and if look closely their past too may even be worse.




Look for more justifiable reason to jappa after knacking the poor girl, don't come up with this childish excuse.
Please, me I don't have a reckless past

The worst thing I have done in this life, is drink two bottles of Smirnoff, so, there are people that do not have reckless pasts.
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Very Reckless Past. by godofuck231: 9:53pm On Mar 28, 2022
Officiallyme:
Hello guys, met this girl some time around January this year and asked her out and we started dating ever since

So recently, I got to know about her past. Her past was so reckless that it is giving me a second thought about everything, started having s*x at the age of 15 while in secondary school and travelling to see a lot of men whom she claimed was asking after her hand in marriage. This girl has slept with so many guys that it's freaking me out, funny thing is, she's been lying and hiding some things but as a smart guy, I've always had my way around her to tell me the truth.

She told me she did a "mistake" abortion for one of her boyfriends then and just last year December, she had s*x with a married man and she knew very well he was married. These are just few of the stuffs I recently found out about, I know it's all in the past and she claims she's changed and want a real relationship with me but I don't believe at all, she claims to love me so much and cannot do without me and honestly, I love her too but I'm scared this may just change a lot about everything.

I don't know what to do, I'm hurt and disappointed and I don't know what to do now. I just need someone to talk to me, please don't insult me, I just need some pieces of advise.

Thanks
guy run , you just met a vulture , she picks on men for a living and had multiple partners , and so the taste of a man's flesh will never depart from her , you will not be the last
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Very Reckless Past. by Kingcalls: 9:54pm On Mar 28, 2022
Iyaebe:
Haven't you also been sleeping around? what makes yours better than hers? if you don't love her then let her go,a fornicator cannot be condemning another fornicator,lailai.
Men are validated by success not number of women they have 4kd... women are validated by the number of men they have 4kd and not their success... dont decieve urself
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Very Reckless Past. by holluwizzy: 9:54pm On Mar 28, 2022
Guy free that thing.

Re u a virgin ni ?

What u don't understand is that such girls ends up with guys that will eventually make it in life.

If u don't forget about the past, how can u face the future ?



Officiallyme:
Hello guys, met this girl some time around January this year and asked her out and we started dating ever since

So recently, I got to know about her past. Her past was so reckless that it is giving me a second thought about everything, started having s*x at the age of 15 while in secondary school and travelling to see a lot of men whom she claimed was asking after her hand in marriage. This girl has slept with so many guys that it's freaking me out, funny thing is, she's been lying and hiding some things but as a smart guy, I've always had my way around her to tell me the truth.

She told me she did a "mistake" abortion for one of her boyfriends then and just last year December, she had s*x with a married man and she knew very well he was married. These are just few of the stuffs I recently found out about, I know it's all in the past and she claims she's changed and want a real relationship with me but I don't believe at all, she claims to love me so much and cannot do without me and honestly, I love her too but I'm scared this may just change a lot about everything.

I don't know what to do, I'm hurt and disappointed and I don't know what to do now. I just need someone to talk to me, please don't insult me, I just need some pieces of advise.

Thanks
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Very Reckless Past. by Westernequinox: 9:54pm On Mar 28, 2022
If she is not rooted in Christ and transformed in mind, it would be dangerous road for you both, and if your mind is not transformed from the mundane to circumspect the physical into the spiritual, you would struggle with trust issues all the time you are with her.
Officiallyme:
Hello guys, met this girl some time around January this year and asked her out and we started dating ever since

So recently, I got to know about her past. Her past was so reckless that it is giving me a second thought about everything, started having s*x at the age of 15 while in secondary school and travelling to see a lot of men whom she claimed was asking after her hand in marriage. This girl has slept with so many guys that it's freaking me out, funny thing is, she's been lying and hiding some things but as a smart guy, I've always had my way around her to tell me the truth.

She told me she did a "mistake" abortion for one of her boyfriends then and just last year December, she had s*x with a married man and she knew very well he was married. These are just few of the stuffs I recently found out about, I know it's all in the past and she claims she's changed and want a real relationship with me but I don't believe at all, she claims to love me so much and cannot do without me and honestly, I love her too but I'm scared this may just change a lot about everything.

I don't know what to do, I'm hurt and disappointed and I don't know what to do now. I just need someone to talk to me, please don't insult me, I just need some pieces of advise.

Thanks
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Very Reckless Past. by themes009(m): 9:55pm On Mar 28, 2022
advanceDNA:
Genuinely left her ways??..it’s a lie...sexual appetite doesn’t reset...
...a man/woman that has gotten used to jumping from on díck/pvssy to another should be a no go area for someone that wants a peaceful relationship and peace of mind

....that’s why we have broken marriages and paternity fraud everywhere...

Change koor....
APC niiiii

Oh meh bro the way you finish your right up off me grin
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Very Reckless Past. by Gynn:
Op, I hope you see this.

because I'm seeing a lot of advise that will make you the loser in all this

If you can't judge people's character from what they did it in their past,

What will you use to judge them, their future?

It is from the past we see patterns we use to predict what could happen in the future
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Very Reckless Past. by Nobody: 9:55pm On Mar 28, 2022
Kingcalls:
Men are validated by success not number of women they have 4kd... women are validated by the number of men they have 4kd and not their success... dont decieve urself
Go to redpill thread and ask about me before dropping your redpill nuggets
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Very Reckless Past. by CaptainFM1: 9:55pm On Mar 28, 2022
Much as I don't like to talk about the past. The truth is, unless God has redeemed one from the past, the past always has a way of rubbishing the future.

The best time was yesterday,
The next best time is today.
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Very Reckless Past. by Kingcalls: 9:55pm On Mar 28, 2022
Ask urself if she will be with u if u wasted ur resources on other women and u are broke now ?? Women don't pity men when the chips are down ooo...
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Very Reckless Past. by BarrElChapo(m): 9:56pm On Mar 28, 2022
MadamVanessa:
shocked



Is there anyone both male and female that doesn't have a reckless past? personally, if I love , I love, I don't believe in the philosophy of digging one's past before settling down with the person; because to be very candid, there's nobody past that's is palatable.

Na sex she had no be say she kill person, or no be say she give you disease. Na knack she knack, u been de knack too before u even meet am. The abortion she committed, even house wives of today , commit abortion too. It's an old story.

Meeting you , means starting afresh with a new chapter. people with trust issue have the time of going back to dig at one's past and if look closely their past too may even be worse.




Look for more justifiable reason to jappa after knacking the poor girl, don't come up with this childish excuse.
MadamVee abeg na you dey your DP shocked ? Asking for a friend smiley
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Very Reckless Past. by legallyminded: 9:56pm On Mar 28, 2022
Iyaebe:
And the whoredomer?
There's nothing like that. Stop making up words to justify whoredom.
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Very Reckless Past. by Kingcalls: 9:57pm On Mar 28, 2022
Iyaebe:
Go to redpill thread and ask about me before dropping your redpill nuggets
Whether red or black....I have stated the fact... if u are a hoe or were a hoe, u reduce in value....I guess u are one of them...sorry , u are now a waste
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Very Reckless Past. by safarigirl(f): 9:57pm On Mar 28, 2022
If you are okay with the past, you continue the relationship, if not, leave her


The fact that you brought this to Nairaland tells me you are not okay with that past. Discharge that girl once and for all, so, you don't come back here with more tales of your lady with a reckless past, because you will always identify something else she has done and link it to this reckless past.
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Very Reckless Past. by Wealthoptulent(m): 9:57pm On Mar 28, 2022
Officiallyme:
Hello guys, met this girl some time around January this year and asked her out and we started dating ever since

So recently, I got to know about her past. Her past was so reckless that it is giving me a second thought about everything, started having s*x at the age of 15 while in secondary school and travelling to see a lot of men whom she claimed was asking after her hand in marriage. This girl has slept with so many guys that it's freaking me out, funny thing is, she's been lying and hiding some things but as a smart guy, I've always had my way around her to tell me the truth.

She told me she did a "mistake" abortion for one of her boyfriends then and just last year December, she had s*x with a married man and she knew very well he was married. These are just few of the stuffs I recently found out about, I know it's all in the past and she claims she's changed and want a real relationship with me but I don't believe at all, she claims to love me so much and cannot do without me and honestly, I love her too but I'm scared this may just change a lot about everything.

I don't know what to do, I'm hurt and disappointed and I don't know what to do now. I just need someone to talk to me, please don't insult me, I just need some pieces of advise.

Thanks
Become one of the many gone to see!
If u can't beat them, join them grin
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Very Reckless Past. by valentineuwakwe(m): 9:57pm On Mar 28, 2022
Have you not live a bad life in the past before? Help her to change more n be a better person..Dont make the mistake of dumping her becos of past 'sins'.....the devil you knw,is better than the Angel u dnt know!
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Very Reckless Past. by Ishilove: 9:58pm On Mar 28, 2022
This is why you should keep your past mistakes between you and your God because God is merciful; Man is not.
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Very Reckless Past. by qtguru(m): 9:58pm On Mar 28, 2022
Candidlady:
@bolded

That line always get me pissed! Met Jan said yes Jan had sex same Jan

Abeg where una dey meet em this girls...



have you had sex with her?



you shouldn't be scared people actually CHANGE!!! But if you can't handle it iwill advice you to end the relationship
Most people want to be in a relationship, I don't blame them, a relationship makes sense than being single.
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Very Reckless Past. by Kingcalls: 9:59pm On Mar 28, 2022
Officiallyme:
Hello guys, met this girl some time around January this year and asked her out and we started dating ever since

So recently, I got to know about her past. Her past was so reckless that it is giving me a second thought about everything, started having s*x at the age of 15 while in secondary school and travelling to see a lot of men whom she claimed was asking after her hand in marriage. This girl has slept with so many guys that it's freaking me out, funny thing is, she's been lying and hiding some things but as a smart guy, I've always had my way around her to tell me the truth.

She told me she did a "mistake" abortion for one of her boyfriends then and just last year December, she had s*x with a married man and she knew very well he was married. These are just few of the stuffs I recently found out about, I know it's all in the past and she claims she's changed and want a real relationship with me but I don't believe at all, she claims to love me so much and cannot do without me and honestly, I love her too but I'm scared this may just change a lot about everything.

I don't know what to do, I'm hurt and disappointed and I don't know what to do now. I just need someone to talk to me, please don't insult me, I just need some pieces of advise.

Thanks
Never take a woman's advice on these situations...they dont think like men and they are emotional beings...one think I can guarantee is that if u end up with her, u will hate the marriage
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Very Reckless Past. by macrodata(m): 9:59pm On Mar 28, 2022
Before I got married,I was only interested in broken girls. Girls who have a past and didn't believe clays can be remoulded. It worked out well for me because everyone of my exes are not the same after we met. What impact can you bring to her life besides 69 styles?
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